How to find a loving wife
If you are looking to find a loving wife, I will tell you the secret of finding your lady friend. This blog is my personal blog so it is not politically correct. Further, I am not writing something you might read on cookie-cutter relationship advice pages that float around the web for the benefit of some paid online dating site. My advice to find a wife will work. No guarantees with people, but generally, it will work.
Where to find a loving wife
Do not look in the USA or the UK unless your values are materialistic leaning. I personally am an unrepentant capitalist. I am a student of economics. I teach economics. However, the US and UK in my personal opinion stress too much materialism in our culture. Yes, we all need money, but this is not the yardstick on which we judge people. Money is like a snake and must be handled carefully. Money and love do not mix in any way. Money is to some extent the opposite of love. Dating profiles often boast 100k incomes. In contrast, I say find people who read the Bible instead.
Everyone is an individual so you can find alternative currents in every culture, but generally, Americans like to spend money on consumer goods. I do not see too many Americans growing their own food and baking their own bread. If they do that is who you want to go for. So this post is not about if Americans spend too much and put too much weight on money, but my recommendation is this, find an American or UK partner who does not, or look in another culture.
American women tend to be liberal and American men conservative. I think most guys want a conservative traditional wife. I am sorry but this is the truth. So in America, we have many mismatches in terms of relationships and people are not aware of why. Many marriages fail as the ideal of love is not shared in the same way.
Go for Bible reading, church-going, gardening, women who stress education and reading, but not money. See good in all people but for marriage find someone with shared values no matters what race or culture they grew up in.
Latin America and Eastern Europe are the best places, also India if you are looking for a more traditional wife, generally. China I do not have enough information on. If you are a conservative person do not marry a liberal person, this will be trouble as somewhere your relationship might start to become a political social arena. If you believe in God marry someone of faith. I recommend looking in Russian and Poland and Ukraine. The women there as women are generally more traditional. These are broad strokes of the brush on the canvas and are not to be taken literally. Rather there are cultural aspects in each county that are different. I respect all people and cultures. Some might simply have an affinity of values closer to your own personal views.
If you look for a loving wife in the USA make sure you find one who will not try to boss you and tell you how wrong you are. Some guys react to this by trying to counter that by trying to be macho. However, playing macho games will not work either as women, in the long run, will resent it. Too much energy. You want to just be yourself and have your wife adore you for it. Therefore, I recommend, finding a wife who will be good for you. Cook your dinner, and take care of the family and not be a critic of you, especially to her friends.
Qualities to look for in a loving wife
I have had many American women say something to the effect, ‘I do not cook but make up for it in other ways, ‘wink wink’. Translation they do not cook and have slept around a lot. This is not a girl you want to marry in most cases. There are many wonderful American women, just be careful who you choose. Leap with your head as well as your heart.
You want a normal girl. A girl who says I will cook for you, who is humble and says their sorry a lot. Why? I would do this for them. Being a husband or wife is about giving 100% to the other person with no limits. Really. Saying sorry and being humble and saying ‘I am nothing special is great quality. Humble people are sweet, arrogant people are weak and will make other people unhappy. So if you have a wife who is a career woman and does not say she is sorry and does not cook much. You’re in trouble. Why not go for a submissive humble wife who believes in no limits and believes love and relationships are forever no matter what. Then you will have magic in your life.
How you should be towards your wife
If you want a princess you need to be a prince. Do not even think of cheating. Take care of your wife and be there 100% of the time even if it means quitting your job or taking some lame low paying job instead of your career. Family is most important.
Where to find love
I found love by accident on a trip to Poland, my family was Polish. But if you can not have destiny smile so easily, try the internet. Free online dating for example. But I would recommend traveling first and do not try to impress women, just be yourself and have a sincere interest in the places you travel to. This is how to find a loving wife.