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  • This website is about finding the love of your life.  If you follow my advice you will find love.

I have started to write a book that is more methodical, however, this website is a good place to start.

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My name is Mark Biernat.  I am very happily married to the girl of my dreams. I am not an expert on dating or love. I do not put myself out there as that. However, if you consider my ideas,  I am confident you will find yourself happily  married with a family. In real life I am an Economics Professor. In fact, my students do not even know I have this website. So if you know someone in my college economics class, you do not have to tell them.

Why I created this site?

I created this site to show other people around the world that the world is full of possibilities. Be open to the idea that just because you live in one place in the world does not mean that your princess does not waits for you  on the other side of the world.

  • Finding your other half is the most important thing you do in your life. If you have love, nothing else matters.

Money and job and arrogance of intelligence  – I think we know now is a joke this life plays on us to distract us from our true purpose. – Mark Biernat

If you find the girl or guy of your dreams it will make your life a fairy-tale.

The fairy-tale princess from your childhood dreams and the unspoken prayers of your heart does exist. You just have to find her.  Job, money, lifestyle, does not matter. Trust me. Only love makes the world go around.

When you are gone you can not take anything with you, except love.

So please listen to my words. Find the love of your life.

True love does exist

I have a particular view on finding love you will not find elsewhere. In fact some of my ideas might see hard to take up. I never say it is easy. I only say, you have to have confidence and courage that if your quest is pure you will live a fairy-tale.

Diverse website

I love all people of the world. This community is a discussion on helping people meet from all over the world. Please be positive and do not talk down any group or individuals, just because although we are all different in culture and thoughts, I believe we are truly one world.

Honor our differences and try to see the light of God in everyone, even if they do not see it in themselves.

A note on terminology
Of course when I use the term “girl” that is to mean women over the age of 21. Girl is a sweet term applied to women (lets not be so language PC that we cheat ourselves out of the language of love) .   My 97 year old Uncle Pete’s had a Swedish girlfriend, like in her 80s. So do not get confused with terminology here. I love calling my wife “my girl” or “girlfriend” in the most innocent romantic sense.

  • If there is anything that is not G (or maybe PG rated) on this site make me aware and I can change it. I want to make this as appropriate as possible.

We all add up to 100%, our genetics and gender do not determine our worth in this world, as we are all children of God. We need to treat everyone with respect as you would a brother or sister. Our mission is to make the world a better place.

Therefore, when dating and searching for a soulmate keep this in mind. Find someone high minded and idealistic like yourself so together, whether it is in the context of starting a family, or helping those who have lost their way in life and need a hand, take the attitude of humility, compassion and non-judgment on all people.

Disclaimer. If anything I write here is contrary to law, obey the law in any country. This site can be interpreted as a work of fiction not factual advice.

If you want to connect with me, Mark Biernat you can here:

Mark Biernat email contact: mark@claritaslux.com

Or best is to leave a comment on the page about dating and relationships that you have a question about. I can help guide you to find your other half.

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You have to ask yourself what is more important to you, your money or your life?

If you take either a Russian or Ukrainian course (I prefer the latter) than this is a very good way to meet girls. But really all you have to do is walk around the street during the day. I think this approach is even better than meeting them in a club if you have courage.

To win a girl’s heart you do not need to be the biggest and the baddest guy in town. You need to have the courage of your convictions and do have the courage to storm your girl’s castle.
Take no prisoners.
Look I worked in investments in Boston. I intended to stay in Poland, I do not know maybe weeks. But then I meet my future wife. We walked and talked and had a wonderful conversation. But you know how women are, it too me 9 months before she even really would go on a real date. I had to move to Poland to win her heart. I basically had to leave my foofy Beacon Hill, Boston American life to try to get a date with my future wife.
Now we are married and I have my princess. But If was not her, play to win, turn her world upside down and fight off all the dragons, I would not have won her heart.
Everyone’s experiences in life will be different. And as the song goes ‘nobody knows the trouble I’ve seen’. Everyone thinks their hardships are harder than the next guys. But it does not matter, we all experience different things and are set up with out own problems and dragons. It does not matter your problems in life or mistakes or where you are. All that matters is what you will do with your life.
The more important thing is you have the courage to take up arms against your sea of troubles and do battle. This is courage and this will win your girls heart.
‘Our greatest fears are guarding our hearts deepest treasures, waiting for us to be bold and beautiful’.
In my opinion you have to play to win or not play at all.

Even the Bible says you leave your parents and cling to your spouse. You do not want to ever put your mother before your spouse. This goes for both genders.

Your problem is simple. You are dating American girls. Come to Eastern Europe and in 6 months most of my friends are on their way to being married to a beautiful loving girl. Or South America or Asia or anywhere feminism has not poisoned the well.

Girls by their nature want a loving good man, not a bad guy. A bad guy is short for ‘weak’. Anytime you hear girls like bad guys, it is not true. A girl would rather fall in love with a man who can turn their world upside down and make the moon appear in the sky and the stars shine at night by just being humble and charming. Trust me. Bad guys are looked on as losers in Eastern Europe and the rest of the world.
I can not tell you how many beautiful nice Polish, Russian and Ukrainian girls I know that would love to have a man and believe in fairy-tales. Why? It is normal and healthy to want someone good.

Hi Drew thanks for the comments. Yes it is easy to drive across Europe. I prefer train it is less stress, but driving most of my friends do.
For dating sites just ask me the country you are thinking. Russia/Ukraine vkontakte.ru or mail.ru in then go to the image of the heart. For Poland sympatia.pl or nightlife.pl for example. Many options. Ask any questions. Look I have to be honest, in the USA chances are you will not have your best luck finding a mate that will see you as your hero just as you see her as your princess.

Thanks for your kind comments. I highly recommend as stated you consider an Eastern European girl if you are not looking for a materialistic. Not all Western women are but why take the chance with the most important decision in your life.
I am partial towards Ukrainian only because my family spoke Ukrainian. Ukrainians are Western European, while Russians are Eastern. Ukrainians are catholic while Russians are Orthodox. It does not matter with way, it is according to what you like. Russian is a classical world language which is very useful. Ukrainian is like Polish it is more a regional language, however, if you speak it, it will go very far winning the girl of your dreams. Westerns Ukrainians do not speak Russian if they can help it. I live in Poland and partial twoards the West but I am also a Russophile and love the culture. So I guess it is up to you. I personally love Lviv to Ternopil area as I think the girls there are the best if you are looking for a fairy-tale princess.
If you have any questions let me know.