If you understand a few basic things you can have a happy marriage. There are three important points you need to understand if you want to know how to make your wife happy. And if you are married, you should want to make your wife happy.
Make your wife happy
- Choose the right wife for marriage – Romantic love brings people together that never should be brought together. If you do not get this one right nothing will save you. You need to find your other half. The characteristic will be different for everyone. It is about finding the one for you. However, generally I recommend a submissive wife. I know the idea of a wife being submissive is unbelievable for American and Canadian women, but I am writing about determinant criteria for a happy marriage not trying to score points with anyone. I am writing the way I see it. A wife who is a feminist is a woman you will not be able to make her happy in the long run. Make the right choice in marriage, someone who puts the ‘we’ or ‘you’ before the ‘I’. Someone who wants to make their husband happy. My wife clearly says she hopes she makes me happy. Make sure during the dating phase the girl understand that love is without limits and selfishness or materialism has no room in a loving relationship. Marriage is about total surrender.
- To make your wife happy be a flirt. – You need to win your wife’s heart everyday. Be charming and a flirt with her (no one else, do not even look at other women). Smile and look into her eyes and tell her with sincerity she is the one. Be light and breezy and easy going. Dress nice and stay in shape and be the good looking charming flirt that you are. Basically think of the ideal as represented in the movie First 50 dates. This is a love story about a girl with no long term memory so her husband had to make her fall in love everyday a new. You have to behave like it is the first date every day. You have to get her to “yes” and “I do” by the end of the day. Often times I will even ask my wife at the end of the evening did I win your heart today?
- Make her feel safe in your relationship – This is about spending time with her to build trust. That is the way you make a girl feel safe. But also maybe take care of her. I am not a materialist and would have no problem being Mr. Mom. But on the other hand, I bring home the bacon in my relationship. I earn the money and even though my wife does a disproportionate amount of the domestic work, she is OK with it as I take care of everything. I am the leader and make the decisions. She can trust me 100% and can focus on just being herself. If a women does not feel emotionally safe or safe in other ways, she will be very good at handling things, but it will get tiring after a while. This will lead to marital unhappiness. Therefore, I recommend a traditional marriage. One where the man spends all or most of his free time with his wife and family. The one where the husband makes the money and the wife takes care of the nest house. Going out with the guys and watching sports all the time is not my idea of making a woman feel good. I am with my family 24/7. I am not saying you have to do this but, in your own way, make her relax about her life and forget all her fears. If she is an emotional roller coaster, just be easy loving and say your sorry with sincerity. Love is about making the other person feel good about themselves and never about being right.
There you have it. These are 3 simple rules to be happy in marriage and make your wife happy. If you can choose the right one, be a flirt and make her feel safe, you will be very happy in your relationship.