Hi – My name is Mark and I have reluctantly built this site.
My philosophy is ‘I am not my brothers keeper’. However, against all odd, I married the girl of my dreams. Therefore, if I can help others find true love, maybe I have done something good for the world.
I have a unique mission
Find true love and be happy with your life. That would be nice. My mission is to tell you it is possible and show you specifically how. You can find true love even in this postmodern world. If you are painfully lonely like I was and thought something might be wrong with you or the world, then you came to the right place.
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Why a College Professor knows something about love
My name is Mark Biernat. I am actually a college economics Professor. I also, I write language learning programs, and that is what most of this domain is about (traveled a lot of the world). That is nice and gives me perspective but that is not the reason I know about love.
I write about finding true love because most of my life I felt alone. Even when I had countless dates and top jobs living in big cities like Boston and New York as a professional, I was alone. Even when I was poor and unemployed and all the times in the world I was alone. Even if I went to premier schools and had friends and family (I am from a family five kids), I felt the pains of loneliness. I have looks, yet I did not have love. It did not matter. Contrary to the misinformation on the web, looks, job, money, attitude and friends do nothing for finding love. I did not have the love of my life.
I became aware through the pains of life and the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune.
My doubts had doubts
Something was not working in my life and I started to doubt myself, the world I lived in. Even my doubts had doubts and my mind played with me. Life was almost taunting me, laughing at me. I concluded that the fairly-tale dreams of adolescence were the last illusion to be broken. Until something happened one day.
There is a world beyond a world when it comes to love
I discovered there was a world beyond my every day life.
The girls at the office, my neighbors, my friends of my friends, the people you go on dates with from some Internet dating site were not real. They are living a life of that will leave you with a no win scenario if you try to date, or God forbid marry them.
Either your whole life will be a compromise or you will wind up being left.
I do not want to be living with a metaphorical one way street. I wanted real magic.
If there really is a door in this house that leads to some other world … do you really mean… that there could be other worlds – all over the place, just round the corner?”
“Nothing is more probable,” said the Professor.
The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C.S Lewis
I will not give you some cliché statements about love, dating and romance. I will give you advice based on personal experience and wisdom that exceeds anything like the superficial recycled information on the Internet. There are other worlds.
The tragic world you were born into
Do not date the people around you, as our society is largely poisoned by postmodern existentialist nihilistic thinking. The result is many are players changing partners like rides at an amusement part. Even fewer live a fairy-tale and the result is most people life lives of quiet desperation.
Contrary to popular commentary, no gender is to blame. It is simply you have been sold a lie. The approach and way you find love is not what dating sites tell you, nor advice from the experts.
What is the solution
My way is the only way. I know it seems like a bold statement but it is true.
Date people who shares the ideals of your youth. Someone who believes in God, and is walking the walk manifest in humility and asking for forgiveness. Without the high ideals, relationships will degrade into self absorption and subsequently unhappiness. However, with ideals you have a union that you would never have imagined unless you experience it for yourself.
Also, marry someone who to you looks like a super model fantasy. Someone is way out of your league. When I saw my wife, I walked away as she was way beyond my level, and I thought I was top. Thank God I turned around and tried to talk to her.
This blog will tell you where and how to find them. And once you do it will be as if your eyes are open.
If you want to find love you have to have the courage of your convictions.
You have to believe it is possible and be willing to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune. You have to be willing to be burned, humiliated and defeated.
Whoever is not prepared to endure everything, and to stand firmly by the will of the Beloved, is not worthy to be called a lover. – Thomas Kempis, 15th Century German Monk
And that is it. If you do not have the stones to really fight for love, to be willing to risk it all and play to win, then you need to resign yourself to a life of quite desperation.
The advice on this website will help you find the the love of your life, the love that comes from your dreams and the unspoken prayers of your heart.
And one last thing. Is love worth it? Is it all that I dreamed about? Beyond what I can describe and what I ever could have imaged. Yes, it makes your life complete and happy.