Why do guys settle for anything less then their dream lady friend? I did not. Why would you? There is a simple way to get your dream girl, go for a foreign lady friend. If sassy, over-confident girls who do not attend church on a regular basis yet who live next door are the only game in town, then get the heck out of town.
We are all citizens of the world – One world
I would not go fishing for girls in a place where the society did not meet my ideals. I have no idea why guys look in all he wrong places for women. If you want to find the girl of your dreams start looking in places where you will have a better chance. American culture places an emphasis on confidence and funny. For me a girl who is can zing me in a joke or sarcastic remark or over confidence has nothing to do with being a good partner in marriage, someone who will raise your family and love you.
My dating advice for guys is look for these personality traits:
- Faith – Goes to church and teaches corrects your caveman moral behavior and brings your ideals to a higher level.
- Humility – You are her hero.
- Self-denial – Manifest in being thin and non-materialistic.
I am talking about finding your princess for marriage, and not just looking in America, but anywhere in the world. Yes you can find hometown girls. But why limit yourself?
Western culture accepts divorce, I do not
In the USA 53% of the marriages end in divorce and the majority 79% are initiated by women. If you get married to a foreign girl you have about 13% chance of divorce. If you pick the right one – none. Read my lips, do not date a girl who believes in divorce or you will find yourself years later giving her your house and half your income and you will be bitter. Instead date a girl who will be with you no matter what.
I asked my European friend why this was, he said ‘American women are not princesses nor good wives, in general’. That is a pretty bold statement. I started to argue the point that that is not true, some American girls are nice, but he told me it does not matter, learn it yourself. I still believe there are many nice girls in the States and the UK, but I pushed the eject button and went abroad and found meet my princess weeks after getting off the plane.
Call me a fool for love. I arrived in Europe on April, 1st. But 30 days later I was chatting up my wife to be.
What you do today will echo though eternity – Marcus Aurelius
My personal story – how I changed my destiny and found true love
I traveled to Krakow, Poland as it has a city rich in fairy-tales. Initially when I met my wife she would not talk to me, so I decided to move to Poland for her to win her heart. I lived in Poland. I am an American guy, but lucky for me my family came from Poland way back and I moved back to Poland meet the girl of my dreams.
I pulled out all stops. I took destiny by the horns. I did something radical and quite my career moved to a foreign country and instead of being a corporate accounting executive making 100+k a year, I sold vegetables in the market and taught English. I do not regret it for a second. Even after moving back to the USA almost ten years latter I have trouble being the investment accountant again, it does not matter I have love.
My life is pure joy since I am married to my other half.
In the USA there are many nice girls but the culture is such that men and women do not respect each other in the same way and ideals are broken. There may be no princess in the UK or America left except in fairy-tales. Girls want to focus on their careers more than family. Slavic and Spanish women who appear submissive to many are actually strong but have less need to assert themselves in their relationships. It is just a cultural thing. Rather they focus on making the home a paradise. And they are proud of it.
Love or money is a common theme today
Date a girl who cares only about love. If a girl says she wants career and love, run. Run so fast and have another fool marry her. You need to be a fool for love if you are to have a happy life. Money is like water it comes and goes. Not important in life. If you have brains you can always obtain some with your own wits. Not a concern. But a life partner will be the biggest determinate criteria of your happiness in life.
As an American guy, If I was living in the USA I would
- Move to South America or Europe.
- Try to contact women that are not from the UK or US via dating sites or normal mail servers. On my website I recommend a number of specific sites to go to.
I am a bright – good looking – hardworking American guy. I was not desperate. – Not at all.
It is just the world I grew up in – that is the USA had a lot of materialistic and the culture did not agree with my ideals of prince and princess type of relationship. I in my heart always believed one day I would meet my princess. I moved to Poland and I did. Nothing in the world can replace this.