Harvard geneticists, George M. Church wants to clone a Neanderthal and have a woman surrogate carry the baby. This would bring cavemen back to the earth. Maybe this is not a bad thing. Think about how lazy we have become in our dating process. Men and women in the 21st century hide in their apartment caves except for excursions to work,their local Wholefoods and yoga/Pilates class and an occasional guy or girls night out and a random hook up from a dating site. My question to you is where is your courage man (girl)? What is happening here, are we all becoming like Morlocks from H.G. Wells ‘Time Machine’?
Another valentine alone – here is why
Most guys (and girls) looking for a mate are lazy as a sloth. After putting in their grinding ten hours a day at the office, being a super hero and dancing around their boss’ every whim; when it comes to finding a mate, someone you will spend the rest of your life with, they take the path of least resistance.
The average single comes home, puts on their comfortable baggy sweatpants and slippers, starts dinner and surfs the web, checking Facebook, LinkedIn (yes people flirt with LinkedIn) and their dating site of choice, lets say match.com for example.
Geographically desirable dating is for losers
They turn on their laptop, tablet or mobile phone and search dating sites for girls they would not have to drive to far to meet. Geographically desirable dating is one of the lamest ways to find your other half. Get a life. You are searching and dreaming of the person you are going to spend eternity with. Why limit yourself to the girl or guy next door? Why not find your true one and only with courage? If you are such a super star in your career, working nights and weekends, why not go the extra mile to find your destiny?
For example, the girls that are my neighbors are, two obese college students addicted to their cell phones and two middle age divorced ladies who smoke. If I extend this net out beyond my condo complex it does not get much better.
What about speed dating?
Singles are desperate and impatient, they do speed-dating and hope to find a lifelong partner in minutes. Speed-dating is another form of people who are lazy and opting for geographically desirable partners over the perfect girlfriend or boyfriend.
My solution for finding enchantment
If you are lonely search the world for your love. Pull out all stops and surrender your ego and admit you want to find love and take action proportional to your desire. If you have weak desire and a limp lets say, ‘libido’, the plain Jane next door will do. If you want to find your Helen of Troy, then launch a thousand ships and take up arms against your sea of troubles and find her.
Weak hormone strategy of mating vs. strong hormone play
If you have a strong limbic urges, search the world. If you have a weak hormone level, than maybe the girl or guy in a ten-mile radius will do. The Bible says ‘seek and you will find’. Try to understand your search for love, not as something that you keep on the down low, but as a badge of courage. Do not be afraid to admit you are single, rather take action without limits or boundaries, especially geographical.
The drive to find a wife or husband needs to be courageous
Hormones are the impetus for action. Do you have impetus or are you impo…? If you are healthy than these chemical messengers should motivate you to find the optimal spouse for reproduction. If you are a slothful dater, then examine if your degenerated diet plays a role. Or perhaps you have psychosocial attachment to your mother, or culturally determined mores shackle your DNA’s drive for mating. Healthy Homo sapiens have something akin to Pon farr (Alpha memory Vulcan dating reference), that will stop at nothing to find and capture their companion.
Girls tool cool to date swindling themselves out of their own lives
Why are people are ashamed of admitting they are lonely? I have no idea. Somehow in American culture girls like to say ridiculous things like ‘I do not need a guy’ or ‘let’s meet but it is not a date’. In fact the word “date” is almost taboo. It has to be something else, something that will say, ‘I am so cool and independent that I do not need a guy’, while their ovaries are aching so bad each month they are neurotic about food and shopping or find some random guy in a club to have a relationship with. That is they have a psychological conflict between their real human side and culturally determined signals.
One million years of evolution vs. modern cultural messages
Girls are designed to find a guy, mate with him frequently and have babies. Why all the pretending? Everything they do from spending an inordinate amount of time on their looks and style is because they want to reproduce. There is nothing wrong with that. Yet, materialistic culture messes with their heads. Nature wants us to reproduce and so do all major religions. What is so wrong with it?
Me, I decided not to put up with all the nonsense in my own culture, where up is down and down is up, and traveled the world. Sure there are nice girls in the USA, but consider my point. You work so hard at your job, you should work a zillion times harder at finding true love. Because true love is the only thing that will bring you happiness.
What specifically to do to find your other half
Since you cannot not just order a wife, you need to think of plan B. If you have ever considered meeting a girl outside a dating site via a search for girls 18-35 within a 25 mile radius of your zip code, let me tell you what to do. Get a plane ticket and fry away and meet your mate, a foreign lady friend or groom.
Do not be scammed or pay out the wazoo for a foreign lady friend tour. Do you want to meet a lady whose beauty and virtue is intertwined? Listen up, I know what I am talking about,I lived in Eastern Europe for about a decade. I meet my wife in Eastern Europe. I did not meet her on a foreign lady friend tour. I was just a world traveler and it happened. I traveled on a shoe string and it takes no money. It just takes courage.
Let me know if you have any questions on how to travel the world and find your prince or princess.