How to get a girl to I love you

How to get a girl to fall in love with you

Because women are responsible having and raising children they are very careful who they they will fall in love with.  To get a girl to fall in love with you is the easiest and the hardest thing in the world to do depending on your approach. If you are young and you really like a girl but she does not notice you, remember there are plenty of fish in the sea and the best ones are yet to come., but consider my advice is as follows if you want to get a girl at any age.

Why girls make you wait

My advice is this, girls are funny, they will often despise guys and think they are freaks, only later to fall in love with them and marry them. I do not know why girls are like this, but I think it has something do with it takes time for a girl to analysis a guy in her subconscious before she becomes aware of him and her subconscious gives her the OK.  A guy can see a girl and say wow, this one is beautiful, and start projecting all kinds of ideals on her. Woman on the other hand, because of biology, are not as likely to do that.  They have to take time to get to know a guy, not personally, but subconsciously.  Seeing them in yoga class, or at the gym or at school a few months. Even if she has never thought of this guy concisously her mind is processing what he is about. What girls look for to fall in love: What her mind is processing is: is the guy 1) normal 2) sincere 3)  interesting.  In my opinion, for love, that is it.  Really girls do not like weird guys, liars or boring guys.

How to get a girl to love you if you are not normal

No one is normal. In fact, woman love the French film Amelie because they all see themselves as an abnormal shy freak, they see themselves in this film. But there is good abnormal and bad abnormal. Good abnormal is another word for interesting and not afraid of your weird dreams. Bad abnormal is if you are into anything that can cause harm to others or have fanatical views.  The key thing is be the abnormal person you are as long as you can make a girl feel safe, and you will not hurt anyone nor have judgemental extreme views. My point is if you want a girl to fall in love with you is be the freak that you are, but be peaceful, light and breezy and make sure the girl knows you are easy going.

Girls will chew you up and spit you out if you are a cheat and a liar

If you are looking for action, be straight with a woman, do not lie to get it.  If you are looking for love, do not cheat.  If you are  depressive, tell them, I think girls have no problem with problems just insincerity or when you try to hide things.  You will find all kinds of people in this world and there is someone for everyone, as long as you are honest. Do not try to impress girls, they do not go for it, despite what you think. By the way I think girls lie more than men.

How to get a girl to I love you

I love you: Geek

Girls do not like meat guys, they like geek guys. Meat not geeks get love and happiness.

Me I love, Russian literature and fantasize about going to Siberia one day. I am an American from Boston,  left my career because I always wanted to learn Polish.  I moved to Poland.  I like chess and play it all night. I do not drink or smoke or stay up past 9 pm, I am not cool in any way shape or form. If I do get dragged out to a club I wear big ear plugs. I am very allegric to cats. I think I even have a little OCD.  I like ballet and drinking Kvas.  I am a freak about Eastern Europe and could be a rich guy in America, but I am an Eastern Europe geek and live like a pauper here following my passion traveling on a shoe string and learning languages.  However,  I have more romantic appeal to girls than a jock, or a movie star or a rapper or a rich lawyer or business guy or ‘important person’, whatever. Why? I am a geek like you,  and I have interesting passions and I am sincere, even if it costs me fame and fortune.   I am true to myself.  If you are true and honest with yourself and really mean it, you will get the girl of your dreams to fall in love with you.  I did.

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