The purpose of this post is to twofold. First, it is to tell you about Tamil girls and their culture and give you one good resource to read more about “incredible India”. Second, I want to give you some hints very specific ways to contact them. My thesis in this post is, if you can find a way to chat or write women from south-eastern India or even how to get Tamil girls mobile numbers for a SMS this is one thing. However, if you know something about their culture you will have a greater chance finding love or even matrimony. I hope this article will serve as a resource for you and I invite user comments for those who have more information to share with others.
The name Tamil Nadu literally means ‘the country of the Tamils”. The Tamil civilization started about 2,000 B.C with the height of their Chloa civilization being reach about the year 800 A.D. There are 67 million people living in Tamil land. It is like a medium to large European country in both size and population.
The capital of Chennai has almost 7 million people alone. If you are looking for a Tamil girl and can travel there this would be my first stop as your chances are very good here to meet at least one single girl in Chennai. I drew this map this morning using to show its location in India and the relation to Sri Lanka.
Like other areas of southern India like Kerala, the sun is direct and the climate is a truly a tropical climate. The women in Tamil Nadu have a darker complexion because of the sun, than the ladies of Northern India. This is more Dravidian land, which is Southern India. I married an Eastern European gal but her complexion is so dark I wonder if she has any Indian roots. Gypsies are originally from India and maybe there is somewhere in the bloodline. For me it is all very interesting. I like this dark exotic look that Tamil girls have.
Eighty-eight percent of the women in Tamil are Hindu, however if you are looking for a Christian Tamil girl you need to look in the district of Kanyakumari. Here a little less than half of these women are Christian, a faith brought to India by the Portuguese. In fact, many of the last names in this area are Portuguese, such as Pinto, think of the Bollywood star (there is a Kollywood) with this same last name.
Although the language spoken is Tamil, English is almost universally known if you want to chat up some girls.
If you want to know more about Tamil culture or are thinking of a trip. I would highly recommend this site about Tamilians to learn about Tamil girls. This is an official site and they even have a honeymoon section. I would go to India just for all the great Ayurvedic centers. If you know something about the people and history than you have a better chance of chatting up potential Tamilian brides even if you are from India and already know a lot. Learn some more.
Specific places to meet Tamil girls when in India
I think you can meet Tamil girls in Dubai or in America or online. But if you can fly there, I would. I think from anywhere you can get a ticket to India for about 1500 dollars. Once you are there it is very cheap to stay and live. So transportation is your only cost. As mentioned I would start in the capital of Madras.
Indians have arranged marriages. All my Indian friends got married this way and arrange marriages work. They are all happy, except one. And he grew up in the USA so he is not fully Indian in culture. The parents set these up and the singles can choose to opt out of their parents initial selections. However, things are changing and there are many places to meet someone if you are not an insider.
Here are some place to meet girls of Tamil if you are coming in from the outside.
The night life approach to meeting a woman in Chennai
- Kishkinta – HFO – Super large 6000 square feet disco. This is the best for night life action in Chennai.
- Dublin – Many cities in the world have this type of Irish pub and night club. Attraction for many western tourists and even some Russian girls from the Sheraton.
- Pasha, EC41, Flame Le Club are other noteworthy places for singles.
Tamil matrimony agencies
Do not assume all the desirable singles are online. They are not. This is India and a very conservative culture. If you got to Chennai you will find real life match makers. As a tourist before I meet my wife and got married I checked out a few places on trips to various countries, more for fun. What you do if need to look in the newspaper and in the back you will find scores of these places in the classified sections. You have to sift out the sleezy ones from the respectable ones. Hint: The good ones I recommend have addresses, the bad ones just have mobile numbers of Tamil girls for your to call. I do not recommend the bad one at all. The best papers to look in are, Dinakaran,Dinamalar,MAlai Muracu,Thanthi also look in the Indian Times generally.
When you are at the matrimonial agency there is usually an older person running it and has a book for you to look at with photos of Tamil girls and important information about who they are, just like online. However, the advantage of these match making places the matchmaker helps in the selection of possible mates based on a million different factors. I do not want to go into it here as it’s too complex and deals with astrology, family, caste etc.
If you are an outsider I do not think this is the way to go, but it is an interesting experience to see this, and the photos are interesting.
The western guy approach to meeting girls
- Tour guides who you hire than try to date
- Teachers if you have time for a language class
- In shops (please do not start with the duty-free shop at the airport), on the street, depends on your ability to chat up girls. Your ability to charm a princess is mostly dependent on your level of self-confidence, or at least perceived level of confidence combined with refinement.
- Temil girls in diaspora in Dubai and London
The tour guides and language teachers are great as they are educated open to foreigners but they get hit on a lot.
Online dating and Tamilian women and brides
Under my Kerala girls post I give you some general sites which you can localize. Here are some ideas. The best places to meet Tamilian girls online are as follows:
- FaceBook – nothing new here, the entire country is online
- Orkut.co.in – India is one place where people actually use Orkut en masse (Romania also)
- jeevansathi.com – this is part of sulekha.com the largest classified site in India. Both these sites are highly recommended.
- bharatstudent.com – more for students
- Shaadi.com – This is very well run matrimonial site. I recommend this as a trustworthy site with many services.
I would could write so much more as the culture of this area is so rich and the people interesting (for example they have some of the best chess players in the world). However, I think at this point instead going on and on, I want to invite your opinion and more information. Any comments are really appreciated if you can intelligently add more about Tamil Nadu or the girls from this part of India.