Tamil girls – Chennai women

The purpose of this post is to twofold.  First, it is to tell you about Tamil girls and their culture and give you one good resource to read more about “incredible India”. Second, I want to give you some hints very specific ways to contact them.  My thesis in this post is, if you can find a way to chat or write women from south-eastern India or even how to get Tamil girls mobile numbers for a SMS this is one thing. However,  if you know something about their culture you will have a greater chance finding love or even matrimony. I hope this article will serve as a resource for you and I invite user comments for those who have more information to share with others.

Tamil Nadu

The name Tamil Nadu literally means ‘the country of the Tamils”.  The  Tamil civilization started about 2,000 B.C with the height of their Chloa civilization being reach about the year 800 A.D.   There are 67 million people living in Tamil land. It is like a medium to large European country in both size and population.

The capital of Chennai has almost 7 million people alone. If you are looking for a Tamil girl and can travel there this would be my first stop as your chances are very good here to meet at least one single girl in Chennai.  I drew this map this morning using to show its location in India and the relation to Sri Lanka.

Map of Tamil Nadu India

Like other areas of southern India like Kerala, the sun is direct and the climate is a truly a tropical climate. The women in Tamil Nadu have a darker complexion because of the sun, than the ladies of Northern India. This is more Dravidian land, which is Southern India. I married an Eastern European gal but her complexion is so dark I wonder if she has any Indian roots. Gypsies are originally from India and maybe there is somewhere in the bloodline. For me it is all very interesting.  I like this dark exotic look that Tamil girls have.

Eighty-eight percent of the women in Tamil are Hindu, however if you are looking for a Christian Tamil girl you need to look in the district of Kanyakumari. Here a little less than half of these women are Christian, a faith brought to India by the Portuguese. In fact, many of the last names in this area are Portuguese, such as Pinto, think of the Bollywood star (there is a Kollywood) with this same last name.

Although the language spoken is Tamil, English is almost universally known if you want to chat up some girls.

If you want to know more about Tamil culture or are thinking of a trip.  I would highly recommend this site about Tamilians to learn about Tamil girls. This is an official site and they even have a honeymoon section. I would go to India just for all the great Ayurvedic centers.  If you know something about the people and history than you have a better chance of chatting up potential Tamilian brides even if you are from India and already know a lot. Learn some more.

Specific places to meet Tamil girls when in India

I think you can meet Tamil girls in Dubai or in America or online. But if you can fly there, I would. I think from anywhere you can get a ticket to India for about 1500 dollars. Once you are there it is very cheap to stay and live.  So transportation is your only cost.  As mentioned I would start in the capital of Madras.

Indians have arranged marriages. All my Indian friends got married this way and arrange marriages work. They are all happy, except one. And he grew up in the USA so he is not fully Indian in culture.  The parents set these up and the singles can choose to opt out of their parents initial selections. However, things are changing and there are many places to meet someone if you are not an insider.

Here are some place to meet girls of Tamil if you are coming in from the outside.

The night life approach to meeting a woman in Chennai

  • Kishkinta – HFO – Super large 6000 square feet disco. This is the best for night life action in Chennai.
  • Dublin – Many cities in the world have this type of Irish pub and night club. Attraction for many western tourists and even some Russian girls from the Sheraton.
  • Pasha, EC41, Flame Le Club are other noteworthy places for singles.

Tamil matrimony agencies

Do not assume all the desirable singles are online. They are not. This is India and a very conservative culture. If you got to Chennai you will find real life match makers.  As a tourist before I meet my wife and got  married I checked out a few places on trips to various countries, more for fun.   What you do if need to look in the newspaper and in the back you will find scores of these places in the classified sections. You have to sift out the sleezy ones from the respectable ones. Hint: The good ones I recommend have addresses, the bad ones just have mobile numbers of Tamil girls for your to call. I do not recommend the bad one at all. The best papers to look in are, Dinakaran,Dinamalar,MAlai Muracu,Thanthi also look in the Indian Times generally.

When you are at the matrimonial agency there is usually an older person running it and has a book for you to look at with photos of Tamil girls and important information about who they are, just like online. However, the advantage of these match making places the matchmaker helps in the selection of possible mates based on a million different factors. I do not want to go into it here as it’s too complex and deals with astrology, family, caste etc.

If you are an outsider I do not think this is the way to go, but it is an interesting experience to see this, and the photos are interesting.

The western guy approach to meeting girls

  • Tour guides who you hire than try to date
  • Teachers if you have time for a language class
  • In shops (please do not start with the duty-free shop at the airport), on the street, depends on your ability to chat up girls. Your ability to charm a princess is mostly dependent on your level of self-confidence, or at least perceived level of confidence combined with refinement.
  • Temil girls in diaspora in Dubai and London

The tour guides and language teachers are great as they are educated open to foreigners but they get hit on a lot.

Beautiful nice wife from Tamil

Online dating and Tamilian women and brides

Under my Kerala girls post I give you some general sites which you can localize. Here are some ideas. The best places to meet Tamilian girls online are as follows:

  • FaceBook – nothing new here, the entire country is online
  • – India is one place where people actually use Orkut en masse (Romania also)
  • – this is part of the largest classified site in India. Both these sites are highly recommended.
  • – more for students
  •  – This is very well run matrimonial site. I recommend this as a trustworthy site with many services.

I would could write so much more as the culture of this area is so rich and the people interesting (for example they have some of the best chess players in the world). However, I think at this point instead going on and on, I want to invite your opinion and more information.  Any comments are really appreciated if you can intelligently add more about Tamil Nadu or the girls from this part of India.

By Mark Biernat

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21 replies on “Tamil girls – Chennai women”

Tamil Girls are very conservative. However, they are open-minded guys. Your approach should not be like an animals or primitive to attract these Indian woman.

I think attracting women is a pretty universal thing. I am a Russian girl and I trying to chat with a Tamil girl is similar to chatting with me. Basically we want someone who has charm and intelligence and rescue us.

Tamil girls are the worst choice I hear for finding a traditional Indian bride. Also, they are really some of the least attractive as most are very dark skin, from the Dravidian lineage. However, that doesn’t mean you cannot find a wonderful wife in Tamil Nadu. I just think Andhra Pradesh, Kerala, Karnataka would be better. I hear its almost rare now to even find a girl in Chennai wearing a saree, as most now dress totally in western attire; the same can be said for Bangalore.

Tamil girls are very beautiful in our cultural dress. That is our secret of our girls beauty. Now a days they are going into western culture. So they will will forget our tradition. This is the wrong way to go about it. It is by being different than the rest of the world you are made beautiful.

Hi :

It is not much of a difficulty to find a Tamil wife. Many of us are willing to give ours. Do you want one? take mine!


That is very funny, I am sure you are just joking as Tamil girls are very nice generally.

We can’t say all tamil girls are going in western culture still now many Tamil girls follow there tradition. Tamil girls are really nice in character they will share our sadness if you got good wife. We can’t say in all countries girls are nice in character like wise Tamil Nadu

It’s sad that women are a commodity, Please try to look at them with respect, whether Tamil, Indian or any one.

Tamil girls are always good to everything despite of any culture changes going on around them. But Tamil girls need to hear the advice of seniors, parents and adults to keep them from turning bad. If a young person here this wisdom from an adult they may say I am not listening to that, but they are and the wisdom has an influence on them and keeps them good.

Tamil girls are very beautiful in the cultural dress, I prefer the more traditional dress than the western styles that this area of India seems to start embracing. What will happen will the whole world become like the west?

It will go to h*ll… Don’t forget , at one time, the girls in the West dressed traditionally and modest too. Back in the early 1900s in USA, it was almost impossible to find an American girl who not a virgin and unmarried. My have times changed. The flames of moral destruction are consuming the world like a wildfire.

In case someone wants to know. Tamil Nadu is the best place for a women to live. Because black or white, beautiful or not, fat or slim, they can always find a man to take care of them. It could be by arranged marriage or love or simply because Tamil guys choose their girls for various reasons and not only because of beauty. (most do though).
The Tamil environment provides the comfort for women and ensures that men do take care of their family unlike in some other countries which provides easy divorce.
In fact in my village we say, if wife does not get fat after marriage, the husband is bad.
Go figure…

Mr.Yonatan, Let our Tamil girls be dark. That is because of the climate. Pure Dravidian area. But I bet you most of the other region girls / wives will not be loyal to their boyfriend or husband. But our dark tamil girls/wives will be very loyal. Of course there may be very very few exceptions. But whereas in other regions there will be very very few exceptions in loyalty category. Wanna bet..? Take a survey.

It will be very painful, when your fair, good looking beautiful wife/girlfriend flirts or even sleeps with other guys. But here one man one woman, we call it as Oruvanukku Oruthi.

People please go and visit Marina Beach in Chennai, Anna Nagar Tower, Perambur Park, etc. There is nothing like one for one. No oruvan ku oruthi. Girls and boys kiss each other in Anna Nagar Tower. Just visit a browsing center, you will find girls and boys doing cultural activities such as b**bs pressing and many more. Earlier boys would purposely ride over a speed breaker so that girls can fall on them, nowadays girls hold their boyfriend very tightly so that their b**bs touch the boy. After doing all this they marry another person and even after that it ends in divorce. Don’t trust me? Come to Chennai and see and believe it.

All Tamilians are pure Dravidians and migrated Africans. Please see the resemblances of the African men and women and the men and women living in places like Tuticorin, Virudunagar, Sivakasi, Palayamkottai. They resemble each other in many ways (teeth, lips, eyes, nose, nostrils etc)Anthropologically Africans and Tamilians are one and the same of Dravidian sect and a deep look into their morphology confirms it. If some Tamil women are red and beautiful it is because their ancesteral sexual contacts with the local Aryans.
Otherwise Tamils are pure blacks only.

I am a pure Dravidian Tamil girl with fair complexion, long curly hair. I don’t agree with the complexion because you haven’t seen many Tamil girls/boys with fair complexion. Tamil girls are beautiful girls and they are loyal, trustworthy, and typical shy Indian girls.

Still many Tamil girls follows traditional culture, and its the north Indians as well as people from other states who spoils our Tamil culture.

Some says because of Aryans we got fair complexion, nope in those days we Dravidians never allowed Aryans to our state. That is why people speak Tamil and English in Tamil Nadu state ( Not Hindi language). If you speak Hindi to any Tamil girl/boy they don’t respond.

Well said Malini. I wish to talk to you . Because very few people know this basic fact and Tamil culture is ancient and we have a lot of values. Due to some invaders in the form of cowboys or whatever there was some negative effects in our culture but it disappeared in due course.Even to me if anyone start speaking in Hindi , I will straight away say no Hindi please . I prefer English or Tamil or any other south Indian language if you know.
Let them know that there are group of villages and towns in Tamil (which is found in IN Tamilnadu even now) found in Pakistan Iran/Iraq and Africa . Lord Shiva worship was originated from us. Thennadudaiya Sivanae pottri.
We have lot of good values in Tamil culture but we are letting others are good in marketing our products to there fame.
Anyway I appreciate your comments above.

Tamil Girls are quite shy when it comes to interacting with people who are not from their race.. If you find a Tamil girl attractive it is better if you just chat with her casually earn her friendship and trust before you ask her out on dates or let her know that you are interested in a romantic relationship. I dont know about Chennai but most Tamil Girls are” one true love” type. They are quite loyal in relationships and most of them don’t look for casual flings. Chennai has become very westernised and so you probably will get dates easily. With southern Tamil Nadu girls you might have to try harder because they are far more conservative than Chennai. And we tamil girls play the “we’re hard to get ” game. Its hardwired to our system :). So dont let that deter you. Most Tamil girls are highly intelligent, passionate human beings and believe in family values.. And if you manage to get a Tamil girlfriend or wife, hold on to her and she most certainly will hold on to you.

Tamil girls were very good before 15 to 20 years ago. 90% of girls if they are not satisfied with x and money they just replace, First they were selfless now selfish.

I am Tamil and light skinned, with features like a fairytale Snow White or featured in Femina the Indian style magazine. It is only a different language and customs between Indians and Tamil. Tamil girls are kind hearted people perhaps from the warms the the sun that moderate our temperament not to mention the striking facial features.

Enriched souls make great soulmates. It all depends on what a person takes for granted. I agree with you, however, it’s not often that you see Tamil girls mingling freely with other races/faces. I m in SA, single, ready. True, you could be hidden inside one word; ‘difference’ and let a good thing slips away. @Claudia where has the good girls gone?

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