Spanish girls ready to date foreign guys

Who am I am why do I know about Spanish girls? I live in an old Spanish town in Florida. I have traveled all over South America and I am an EU citizen and have similarly and lived around Europe. I feel just based on my contact with Spanish culture over the course of many years from women from Madrid to Buenos Aires (lives downtown). I can write an authoritative commentary on Spanish girls.

This Spanish girl is from South America and would not be on a dating site but you never know. I want to motivate you to find matrimonial bliss.

If you go to Spain looking for love

If you are going to Spain I recommend Miami to Madrid or NYC to Madrid direct, get a SIM card for your GSM phone at any Kiosk. Public transportation in Spain is excellent and your first ride on a metro in Madrid will prove this out. There is a reasonably large number of South Americans and Russians and Romanians in Spain ‘working’, better is to go to respectable clubs, easy to meet girls if you learn a little Spanish, but they all speak English. It is safe at night and taxis are honest in my experience. Even with the unemployment crisis in Spain now, it is not cheap, it is the Euro zone and your dollar is worth less for some strange reason. Unemployment has not caused any increase in crime and you see foot patrols of police everywhere in the tourist areas. Alicante, Malaga and Valencia are three good areas in the Winter to find women. A lot of Moroccans in the south, they are beautiful of course too and have close ties to Spain. The difference is they are Muslim and you will have to convert to marry one.

  • It would be better to be an expat teaching in English for a few years earning proverbial Spanish pieces of eight and finding your soul mate than spending another day at your 3% raise a year career job and  sleeping and showering alone.
I live in New Spain – girl on the street (my wife).

Characteristic of Spanish women

  • Catholic – This perhaps is the quintessential characteristic of the Spanish world view. Even if an individual is not practicing the influence on the society is profound. The result, is the women have an awareness about family issues, life, the desire for children is not suppressed and idealism is retained.
  • Romantic idealism – I have never met a Spanish girl not idealistic. I wish I could say that for all girls. Spanish women basically dream of love and marriage from a young age, while Western women are more concerned about their self confidence, career and independence from men. There are many closet female Don Quixote reading magical realistic romantic literature. Maybe they do not carry books by José de Espronceda or Carolina Coronado, but more likely they simply have fantasies of marrying. Or read modern fiction like The Witness by Juan José Saer, Love in the Time of Cholera by Gabriel García Márquez, Santa Evita by Tomas Eloy Martinez Or reading even Gothic novels like: El Príncipe de la Niebla by Carlos Ruiz Zafón Now not to over project my own lofty views of the world on Latin culture as I have met middle-aged Spanish women that are kind of bossy. So all is not perfect of course. But not bossy and cut-throat anti-man feminist Western way, more in a Latin way, that is hot-headed. That aside,.
  • Tendency to marry young and start a family and have a large family – This is not a cliché. A Spanish social worker named Dr. Maria told me she has found that one of the issues of Latin culture was to start a family before the economics or education of the household was stable. I personally think this is not a problem, but she was trying to raise awareness about this and the implications for a cycle of poverty.
  • Warm and friendly – Sure women are women, but you know the first contact with Spanish girls are more flirtatious or warmer than in the English-speaking world culture. I am sure it has to do something with the weather and sun. Fruits in more tropical environments are sweeter.
  • The Group dynamic – I have hung out with Spanish students of mixed genders traveling around Europe and there was nothing overtly romantic going on. They were just groups of friends traveling. They were very nice. It was not about picking up girls, just traveling. It seemed to have a very different dynamic than say an American or UK group of students there was always latent tension romantically and the need to impress or for the women to be cold or distant.
  • Feminine – Watch any Spanish network show and you tell me what you think.
Skinny Latino girl with raven hair wearing a black bikini in paradise.

Online dating in Spanish countries

  • chateagratis.net – Large Spanish free chat site
  • mobifriends.com – pretty big and has an English interface, obviously more geared towards mobile users.
  • quecontactos.com
  • estoycerca.com
  • gentechat.net
  • encontrarse.com
  •  There is always POF
  • mensagenscomamor.com – Not a dating site but a pretty good site with love phrases in Spanish and about the theme of love.
  • My page on Love phrases in Spanish or Spanish love phrases.
You want a traditional bride, take my advice you do want to find a hot chica who stands by her man.

Conquistador genes and feminism – A cautionary note on Spanish women in Spain Vs. Latin Americans

I tend to think the South American Spanish are more conservative or domestic than Spaniards from Europe (maybe with the exception of Argentina as the girls are notoriously game player before you lasso them into a relationship. There is something about this EU that perpetuates liberalism in the worst way when it comes to Social interactions. Maybe the settles of the new world have been isolated sufficiently or the Conquistador genes are more resilient to feminism.

However, each reason of Spain has a different set of social mores. I think the East coast and the Islands like Ibiza tend to be sin city, while in the center and the west towards Portugal there are more conservative values, farmers and villages and isolationist equals more traditional wives.

Men of old like this conquistador were men of iron and would not have taken a feminist bride.

Finding a non scam dating website in the Latin world for social netwoking

To find nice chicas do not go to websites that have anything but a green WOT rating. If you do not know what WOT it is an add-on that rates websites based on trust.

For example, amor.com, or cupid.com has a read rating. mingle2.com has a green rating but is American based. You want Spanish dating in Spain or South America.

7 Hot Spanish models – just for eye candy

You can do a search on any of these Spanish actresses and models. There are zillions of others, in fact a typical Spanish girl looks like model just based on their proper body management and long hair. I did not upload photos of these models because the web is flooded with them. You can search them yourself, I only provide my personal favorite list.

  1. Inés Sastre
  2. Samantha Torres
  3. Eva González
  4. Esther Cañadas
  5. Nuria Bermúdez
  6. Lorena Bernal
  7. Nati Abascal
Me in the Madrid quarter of my town. My other half took the photo.

Success story with Spanish love

If a guy like Matt Damon, who has his choice of women married a Latin girls from Miami, maybe you could be too. I have known scores of guys that once they started to date Spanish girls never considered the WASPy American girl again. My neighbor Dave, a red-headed freckled American boy learned a little Spanish Language and I never saw him date another gal from the States again.

29 Replies to “Spanish girls ready to date foreign guys”

  1. HI I’m searching for my dream girl – Spanish girl or other.

  2. i need a lovely careing girl that she will be a good mother of my baby, infact if i could find i will be so greateful, and i also promise to love and care about here and it will b only her

  3. J’aime beaucoup les filles espagnole j’aimerai se marié avec une jeune fille de 21ans plus moi je suis un jeune marocain de 21 ans plus d’information aprés la mise en lien .

  4. HI I’m searching for my dream girl – Spanish girl or France or German women.

  5. HI I’m searching for my dream girl – Spanish girl or France or German women

  6. I’m Conor. I live in Limerick, Ireland. I have 28 years. Study Spanish, so – I speak it very well. Give me a message to learn more. I am kind, funny and wanted a woman to love.

  7. I am a dream merchant who is looking for soulmate. I want to mentally , soulfully and physically faithful to my soul mate come dream girl. One cant choose his relatives but one can choose his friend.

    1. With words like that and ideal like that, you will certainly find her. I believe as you do and I found my soulmate.

  8. Pase en las mujeres españolas, que son totalmente impregnada de femnism.

    I have heard many times over and over, Spanish women are very westernized and some of the most die hard feminists in Europe. I will avoid de feministas..

    I hear Mexican women, still have more traditions and more respect for their male counterparts.

  9. Well i’m telling i lived in Spain for a year and they’re not beautiful, i mean some of them are beautiful, but not many of them, but those who are beautiful are really beautiful..

  10. Jimmy is right, Spanish women in general are not that attractive. Same goes for arabic and most middle eastern women. The beautiful ones are extremely beautfiul, but a majority of them are below average in looks. Spaniards do have a resemblance to middle eastern people, IMO. Italians are much more beautiful, overall. Italians are also much friendlier and not as xenophobic as Spaniards are. Spain also has all type of internal feuds, based on provinces. It seems every year there is a new feud and seperatist movement taking place.

    Another thing about Spain, is that the people are not religious. Religion is heavily shunned there, whereas religion and morals still have a place in Italy.

    1. Yonatan …

      I am a spanish boy!

      You don’t live in Spain, nor you know how I am, nor you know how are my neighbors, nor you know how are the girls in my neighborhood nor my country, or how know is the history of my country to say we are Arabs and xenophobia, and the Italians are beautiful and nice. Your demagoguery is so risky, foolish and and disgusting, so you don’t know that Spaniards, French, Italian, etc, are of the same family. As for xenophobia, I don’t speak of the racism in your country and I will not say what really I think about you, for not to put at the height of your shoes (and your ilk low) nor pretend to be expelled by the administrator

      1. I am not anti-anyone or anybody. Each person regardless of their background or people are humans and children of God and equal. In fact half of this forum is about considering dating people from around the world instead of just the girl next door.
        Spanish people are very nice in my experience.

  11. Hello

    I am spanish and have lived all my life in Spain

    I think spanish girls are really difficult to approach if you don’t belong to their network. You will need to work very hard and sometimes they give you very rude answers. If you are a foreigner their attitude may change.

    They are extremely independent and much more concerned about their professional careers than building a relationship. And almost all of them are strongly influenced in their thoughts and behaviour patterns by radical feminism. They have something like a hate against the male.

    In sex, they are in part liberal but also still conservative of compared to other european girls

    Good luck!

  12. This is funny cause this took me a long time to realise this myself…and its interesting coming from a Spanish guy above…and myself having family from there the truth is I ove Spanish women but it took me along time to get to know just how insular they really are and this may go for the general population to as this is usually the case, I’ve encountered lots of times where ive met women and they are all nice but you have to get into the social circle which can be done and even then it may be difficult, even being from abroad makes no difference to the degree that they wont ask about where your from or your friend is from, I noticed this and realised it happened again and again, it was the same pattern,
    apart from that I do love the culture but maybe its the feminism a touch im not sure., I blame much of this to tourism, places in europe just have obscene amounts of tourists which has gone on for decades,unless you go to much of the untouched small towns inland,the irony is that i truly believe that even without being in the USA you can find a really sweet girl in a small texas town that’s probably never met someone from certain countries in europe before and would love to be with someone like that, Ive actually heard this from guys in the UK that did’nt want to come back from these areas of the US, maybe its the accent but still, it goes both ways.

  13. I must agree with some of the things said before. Spanish girls are not as easy as UK girls or American, they are quite hard and with high culture and education level. Actually, for example they consider american people too ingnorant but they are greately gratefull when meeting somebody interesting, culturized and open minded.
    I think that wedding you are talking about went by more than 30 years ago, when the dictarure finished

    1. Americans are not ignorant at all. It is just that America is like ancient Rome and Europe is like ancient Greece.

  14. I’m a Spanish girl and I agree with some of you.
    Not all women in Spain are models, obviously, but most of them are quite beautiful and some are amazing.
    I agree with buffalobil, sometimes some Spaniards get rude with boys from the same country but not with foreign people, I think it’s because girls are tired of males here because they don’t like them, however being rude is not an option and I don’t consider that somebody could have the right to do this.
    Yes, now we are independent but I don’t think that’s an excuse for not to have a relationship. We are feminist but laws in Spain are awful in some cases, for example, if a couple wants to divorce only the women will carry with children and she will receive money from the salary of her ex husband, it’s something terrible because some males got poor because of this. I want this to change.

  15. I have read your other articles. And I realized that boys from the countries you speak about don’t like girls from the same place as them, for example, italian boys don’t like italian girls, spanish boys complain about spanish girls…
    Does anyone understand this? I think you’re too ambitious and want girls you don’t have… Every woman is different and no one of you should talk about us like if we’re all the same.
    Would you like women doing the same as you about men, guys?
    Sorry, but it offends…

    1. @Cristina

      You wrote:

      “I have read your other articles. And I realized that boys from the countries you speak about don’t like girls from the same place as them, for example, Italian boys don’t like Italian girls, Spanish boys complain about Spanish girls…”

      I’ll take your word for it that this is true. There is a tendency for people to believe that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, and they put “foreign” women on a pedestal.

      But as an american, I have found that the women here are totally unsuited for marriage. Are there exceptions? Of course there are. The problem is in finding one of those exceptions, and not being deceived.

      One never realizes one has been deceived until it is too late.

      No man here goes into a marriage thinking his wife has plans to destroy him. Everyone thinks their princess is an exception to the rule. American women are very good actresses, and they play their role, up until the day after their marriage when things start to change for the worst.

      A man does not realize what he is getting into.

      Women will plot, and the man will not be aware. Then, one day at work, a sheriffs’ deputy shows up and serves him with divorce papers and a restraining order. I have seen it happen in person, and I have had other men tell me this is what happened to them. The woman kept it all hidden until the last minute.

      What man would risk this?

      American culture is sick. No wise man will have anything to do with american women. There are many reasons why “foreign” women are sought after by american men, especially on dating sites. How many dating sites are about “foreign” men looking for american women? None that I know of. Ask yourself why that is, and maybe you’ll find the answer(s).

      Yes, american men marry american women, obviously. In my opinion they do it because our society expects it of them. But there are some men here in the US that don’t give a damn about what this sick society expects of them, and live according to their desires. These are the men that search for a real woman, and they don’t care where they find her.

      1. Spanish girls, I would marry a Spanish girl. I live in St. Augustine, Florida and I know a number of American guys happily married to girls from Latin American. These guys are not losers who could not get a date but attractive normal guys, just with Spanish wives. Why did these guys not marry American women that were born and raised here? Well I would ask yourself what is American history about? But that is a different story but it is a bit telling about the way some American think.

        My observations as a hotel director
        I am the director of a luxury resort hotel, we have short term and long term guests. A disproportionate number of guests I observe are divorced women with big dogs living alone doing the career thing. Another group are married families building houses. The women once they are married are not the women I would ever want to be married to. They seem bossy, controlling and arrogant. I can see the pained look on the men’s faces. Rarely do I see a harmonious couple.

        Alternative girls
        In contrast, where I live on an island there are happily married couples, but these are people who have chosen more of an alternative lifestyle. Alternative lifestyle people seem pretty peaceful. If I was a single American guy I would find some alternative, idealistic American girl or foreign bride. I married a Polish girl and I am very happy, we have been together for sometime and I can tell you there is a world of difference between American dating and true love. American guys do not confuse the two.

        The American woman raised on a diet of text messages, expectations about having an SUV and house and a husband to accept her whimsical devious ideas about love and marriage, that is a hard road to travel for the American man.

        American culture lacks ideal for marriage to be a serious spiritual commitment
        The main problem with an American wife is they do not believe that marriage is forever and they need to submit their will to the will of the marriage. They have demands and expectations. They will leave and the Sheriff will be at your door serving you papers.
        Yes the Sheriff will be at your door. The pretty girl that you felt lucky to be married to will often betray you. First in her mind then in her acts.

        Like in the Bible it says that people commit adultery (betrayal) in their minds. I am not talking about an instantaneous moment of lust but conscious plotting and thinking about their position in the marriage and how they are not getting what they want and seeking advice from their friends or lawyers who tell them what it is OK to get divorced if you are unhappy.

        American guys and American brides
        American men marrying American women, what an idea. My advice is universally that the world is large and there are many opportunities to find your mate outside of the norms and walls of the good old USA.

        I would like to qualify this with not all American women make poor wives. Not at all, there are many happy, loving couple of strictly American husband and American wife. I have meet scores. I have meet many wonderful American women. Yet on the other hand ask yourself, is this the social norm that you are in agreement. I mean do you think Hollywood, pop star and daytime talk shows, is the culture you want to marry into?

        I recommend some idealistic alternative American girl or a foreign bride. If you marry Jane or Sally next door, because she is a girl that smiles at you, you might find the Sheriff at your door serving you papers, paying alimony for the rest of your life and living in regret. Think before you leap. read other men’s experience. Read statistics about American marriage and compare this with say Spanish girls or Latin girls. Do your own research.

  16. No offense but I read several of these post that seem to point out race as being a reason as why someone is the way they are. If you continue to think like that you will be disappointed because it has nothing to do as to why a woman is beautiful or is looking for a fairy tale guy. I’m African American and every African american woman I know is also looking for a fairy tale relationship and is beautiful. I personally find it to be a turn off to hear people talk like I have read in the post on here. Someone said on here “Jimmy is right, Spanish women in general are not that attractive. Same goes for Arabic and most Middle Eastern women. The beautiful ones are extremely beautiful, but a majority of them are below average in looks.” I think this is so foul and I’m sure Spanish women would be offended by that.
    I’m not Spanish but many guys tell me I’m very beautiful, almost got to beat them off with stick. I’m not fair-skinned either, though people often ask me if I’m native american which I’m part, meaning my grandmother was full Blackfoot. Race has nothing to do with it and beautiful is in the eye of the beholder and if you only seem to think one particular race is very beautiful then you are not looking on the inside of the person either. Remember looks fade and then what will you find beautiful if nothing else is about the person.
    Because of the stereo types people hide their love for people of the other race and that is said. I’m an african american woman who is attracted to all types of guys, black, white…etc. A guy with a bad attitude will be an ugly guy to me no matter how “cute” people say he is or he think he is or the modeling world say he is.
    I’ve turned down guys that look like celebrity models simply because their attitude was so bad that they became really ugly to me.
    What discuss me is how people try to say african american women are not beautiful, portray us like we are ugly but yet all different races is having sex with us and watching us with lustful eyes as we walk by. The same people that turn around and say that about african american turn right around and try to date us on the side or sneak tip. if big eyes like arabic women, and face shape and sultry body like some foreign women, makes you beautiful then I have it all, and I ain’t either arabic, spanish or Italian. LOL. See because of these stereo types I often see african american women not to particular about Italian women because some start trouble with them over men as if their men is not suppose to date an african american woman. Frankly it all makes me sick and I just wish people would look for inner beautiful first then it would save them the upset when they find out that underneath they are ugly as sin. The outside of someones body has nothing to do with true beauty. I’m in love with a 60 year old man, half my age and he is white and you know what, he is the most beautiful man I have ever seen, his beautiful shines through, I can’t stop holding him, touching him and thinking of him all the time and looking into his eyes. He has real true beauty, that makes his face and body so beautiful to see. This is what people should be looking for, true love that see the beauty within first and foremost. Good luck.

    1. If you read my website on dating and love, race has zero to do with choosing a mate. I sometimes say culture might as this is a human thing of psychology and social customs people have to be aware of, but I do not care about race one bit. But even culture can be over come.For example, an some slick NYC banker would have trouble marrying an eco-anti-capitalist from Oregon but it could happen, romance movies are based on this. In fact I recommend people consider marring people from around the world. I did.

  17. I just came from Madrid. I saw Real Madrid playing one day and Barcelona the next. Of course that is beside the point. I found that Madrid girls are beautiful and carry themselves very well with elegance. I also saw many couples (Not necessary Married) not afraid to show thier effections in public and believe me they were many. I was really hoping to go back and meet a girl. I am a bit shocked of what I am hearing. Although I did not interact with any girl, yet I did not get the impression that they are difficult to handle. I did not sense any of them being snobish. I am going back

  18. Spanish girls specially girls from Cataluña are not friendly and very difficult to handle, British, german and Scandinavian girls are ten times better and not so difficult, you are wasting your time guys

    If you go to a disco in Spain hoping to meet a girl,just forget about it, its time wasting.

    Spanish boy

    1. I think you are either writing this because you are trying to keep the girls of Spain to yourself or you have had little luck. Look I have (had) blond hair and look Alpine or northern in my physical look and when I meet any Spanish girl they liked me. These were moral, good, kind women. If you are a dark hair Spanish guy maybe the northern women like you in contrast. But whatever the case may be there is no way I can recommend UK or Scandinavian girls over Spanish girls. the former are feminist and the latter are devout family oriented. This is generally of course and not specifically.

  19. I´ll introduce myself: I´m a Spaniard man married with a Spanish (not Spaniard) girl.

    First we must try to make a difference between Spaniards ans Spanish women. First are European with a character like an Italian or French and not too similar to Spanish (South American) girls.

    In the case of Spaniards, I think that some of the guys above are true: it is difficult to approach them if you are not in their social circle. For this reason, my advice is trying to meet or know girls, better than in a disco or a bar, in other less obvious situation, as language lessons, or cooking classes, or something like this (even in your work place.

    About if they are rude or feminists, well, you can find them, but most are not. They will be rude if you are too obvious or seem so desperate. about feminism, as Cristina said, most of girls in Spain are politically feminist, but, in my opinion, in short distance and in a relationship they expect a “gentleman” who respect them as a woman, but in the same level and conditions.

  20. I missed my chance of my soulmate many years ago. She was a very beautiful, vegan, hairy, Spanish woman I met while living in England. I was in a relationship with a French women and so I behaved myself and stayed loyal to the French woman who later ran away with my two sons, leaving me broken hearted. I missed my chance, but to all you guys out there who like Spanish women, my message is simple, don’t miss out, go for it they are wonderful.I am now very lonely and know it is unlikely I will now find another submissive home making Spanish veggie woman. Never mind, will be moving to fantastic Spain soon so that will be nice.Best wishes to you all and especially to Raquel Caro whereever you may be?

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