Pakistani girls mobile numbers – call for a date

The purpose of this post is to tell you about finding Pakistani girls phone numbers online. The problem is any country whose name means “Land of the Pure” and whose motto is ” Faith, unity, disciple”, the society has male-female interaction under lock-down. Therefore, to find لڑکیوں کے فون نمبر it might be a challenge, yet with 180 million people, not impossible. Here is my guide to tell you how.

Faisalabad girl
If you go to Pakistani websites with girls photos, names, emails and numbers they are fake and posted by some guy. Do you want to chat with a dude? Better is to read my advice here, follow it and find the Shahzada, Rani or Malika of your dreams.

If you have read my website you know the purpose is to help people find true love. Therefore, this post is written as a combination of  my own personal experience and wisdom connected to love and dating and some specific practical tips relating to Pakistan and how to call girls for a date. If you want to dial-up a lady, please read on.

I give you some interesting pictures and a list of resources to follow up on, that will help you on your quest for that right series of digits that correspond to the girl of your dreams. You will go from want to be operator to having a number in hand. If you have questions ask.

Pakistani girls numbers

SMS-girls-Pakistan
I did not meet my wife on a mobile, but the first thing I did was get her number. Subsequently, texting alone move the relationship along. I sent her over 11,000 sms messages during our dating phase.

How I courted my wife in secret

When I meet my wife we had a brief walk in the park. I got her cell phone number and we learned that communication was easier on the phone messages and exchanging pictures initially. I was from another country and the stress of meeting parents and family and friends openly did not have to come into the picture with mobile communication. We lived in a conservative society and religious and the angst of bringing our relationship in the open took time. I think both our parents had a different vision of who we should marry. She was from a farming family from a village and I was from a big city. We were from two different worlds.  However, modern technology of mobile phones (she had a Nokia and I had a Samsung) with the expression of written messages from the heart, we built a rapport.

Ufone Telenor princess
Noor,Mahnoor or Komal it does not matter the name of your Rose, focus on lofty pure intentions and no matter what you call her your experience will be sweet.

I remember countless nights I would lay in bed texting her. I know it might sound trivial, but in a conservative society how else can you date someone outside the expected. The metaphor of a Hindu Romeo and a Muslim Juliet is analogously becoming more frequent and texting and Skype is the way people meet in their secret garden to avoid detection from well-meaning parents that would not understand. The film ‘Henna’ is a little dated but makes the point.

dail up a Paki
choose a female who is not not plugged into her phone all the time, walking down the street with it in her hand. If is plugged in than her mind can not grow.

Love sees with the heart and not with the eyes, so let your heart be draw to a women who is not a walking G3/G4 speed Android hotspot.

 

 

 

girls numbers in Karachi
Girl carrying a mobile waiting for her date on a bridge in her secret garden.

When dating or courting a girl on a mobile phone the biggest tool you have is your imagination.  You need to become linguistically eloquent and subtle. You need to know how to flirt and write about ordinary things, not go right for the source and give her crude messages. Maybe late at night you can hint at something but nothing during the day or too much or it will get old.  Use creative ways to convey love.

The key to unlock her heart is:

  1. Make your pictures you send her count.
  2. Choose your words carefully.

The next two sections will give you hints on how to do this.

How to make your mobile phone photos become breath taking

I recommend you download an app by Pixlr.com  – it is a photo imaging app that can artistically add spice to your imagines.  I have worked with Photoshop, GIMP, Paint.net and other image editing software professionally for years. The number one app I can recommend for a mobile device that will let your creativity go right to her heart is Pixlr. You can take any image from your phone and liquefy or do a color splash. It will significantly increase your ability to impress her.

  • Go to Pixlr Express app over the retro Pixlr-o-matic to transform your pictures to make them ‘girl ready’. Remember the gender with the XY chromosomes likes embellishments as it shows you are making an effort to attract a mate. Therefore, put some effort into your images you message them.

By the way, the artwork in this post was done by my wife. It did not take a lot of time but with I wanted to show you with creativity you can send the object of your affection something that will be like roses in the digital age.

If you have questions on how to use the mobile app, let me know and I can help. I recommend you start with trying the web version of Pixlr express and use ‘adjustments’ and ‘effects’ initially. ‘Overlay’ make things look amateurish, you could add a sticker or text eventually. However, I recommend first try to experiment with cropping and color splash to just try it out.

 

Pakistan phone number list women
It written that ‘you do not take a woman against her will’. (4:19). Parents and family can give advice about choosing a marriage partner, but it is free choice of both man and woman. I do not regret acting on my free will and ignoring my parents advice. I got married and living the dream.

OK now that I sold you on the possibility of meeting women and having a normal relationship with a mobile phone how do you find them?

Use eloquent variations of text love phrases to win a girl’s hand

The trend for the new generation of  guys from Islamabad to Balokinstan to look for girls number online, maybe the guys are too shy to be introduced in real life  (this I understand). They use, GSM to win their hearts. Love words and phrases for women are like pictures for men. Men respond to visual imagines and women verbal and written communication. It is the way our brains are wired. Therefore, I recommend the following to ramp up your poetic silver tongue.

  • Read Urdu romantic poets and memorizes some of their lines or attend Mushairas. This is how you win a girl. Just like men respond to visual stimulus women are won by auditory stimulus, as this is what move their heart. Read: Poetty from Kabir, Meer, Dard, , Anis, Ghalib Dabeer, Iqbal, Jigar, Zauq, Josh, , Faiz , Firaq etc.
  • SMS variations of the above poetry – combined with feelings from your own heart and you will win the girl of your dreams. When you copy and paste a phrase it is not a meaningful as if you transform it into your own words.
  • Rewrite others text messages of love – You can take even corny SMS expressions of love and use a thesaurus to create different iterations that mean the same but sound eloquent.

The next section deals with where to actually find numbers.

The best way to pick up girls on your mobile phone is a secret method

Better than looking for fake numbers online is to learn to pick up girls mobile ‘nick’ on a chat or on the street as you are in their proximity. Many people go to cafes in Muslim countries and read a book and drink tea. Yet, they have the phone on to pick up and scan other phones in the area. They can flirt with and signal women by doing things like holding their phone close to their chest once communication has been established.

All you have to know is how to get their phone chat nick.

Rawalpindi auntie texting
Often Aunties in Pakistan want to meet, you just have to know the secret signals to contact them. They could be right next to you and you need to pick up their Bluetooth nick to chat covertly.

Toothing might be a little passé but you get the idea. You need to connect and identifying other people’s nicks.

Here is a list of more conversational ways to establish a connection not just in Islāmī Jumhūriya-ē Pākistān:

  • WhatsApp Messenger
  • Viber
  • Skype
  • Facebook
  • LINE
  • Google +
  • KakaoTalk
  • mig33.com
  • paltalk.com
  • pof.com if you search Middle Eastern women in the USA.  However,  most online dating sites are worthless for Middle Eastern countries.

Meeting girls with Uber and Lyft in Pakistan and India

The idea of jumping car with a strange woman is a fantasy.

Islamabad Uber
To ping an Uber ride on your Android and jump into the car and find a strange girl at the wheel is a fun experience, and  fuel for fantasy. Just be respectful during the ride even if your and her imagination has gone wild.

In the USA there are many Uber girls who are attractive and stylish like my Russian friend Ola below. People are nice and it is safe. She drive at night with the club crowd as she makes the most tips.

Woman uber driver called from mobile
My friend Ola an Uber driver. She loves driving and feels safe as her mobile has GPS and Uber takes safety as a priority. Its a way to make some money in the evening driving people going clubbing in the beach town she lives. Uber is in New  Delhi and any day Karachi.

Uber wants to promote women drivers in Indian and Pakistan. I think it is a good idea for economic liberation. Economic liberation is the start of freedom for women. This is good as long as it is tempered with morality.

Since Uber has GPS tracking, runs background checks and has payment information it is pretty safe, especially during the day. I personally Uber in the morning rather than the evening.

What to meet a girl on your mobile? Try Ubering in New Delhi or Uber in Islamabad (future) or Uber girls in Karachi or Lyft type services and you will be meeting women everyday.

It is better than chatting on Whatsapp. This is because, you will be chatting in close proximity with a real Pakistani girl or Indian girl you ordered from your Andriod or IOS app.

Nothing sensual at all, just simply the idea that you have a conversation with a beautiful female Uber driver or passenger in South Asia, while she drives you around or you drive her. This is not a pick up, but a polite, safe conversation. If you did anything foolish or immoral there is 100% chance you would be caught, so do not even think about it. God sees everything.

Focus on the privilege of riding in cars with Pakistani girls and the conversation that might lead to a cordial rapport.

Women want men as much as men want women

I have thought of setting up a dating site but I prefer to write about relationships than be in the matchmaking business and tell you about other sites where you can meet girls. I have many ideas on my website and they are not just about Pakistan but also Russian girls, Polish girls and Asian girls.

However, I can help you if you are looking for telephone numbers of ladies from the Karachi for example. I can help by giving you some advice and sites to go to.

Better is than looking for a no. online directly posted is hang out at common social sites like instagram.com or Facebook or browse olx.com.pk/brides-cat-406, although I can not believe anything on this site in the matrimonial is real. If anyone has had a different experience let me know but I think all the pictures of females are fake.

Why guys look for ladies telephone numbers and why girls reply? It is the trend now in the modern world that everything is so fast and easy, but it did not start that way.

The history of finding a date in chronological order from the 1800s to today’s telecom revolution

Letter writing was the primary form of communication with family introductions as the center of introduction. This lasted hundreds of years. My friend who are in their 90s now meet this way. They meet through an introduction of letter writing, promoted by their families. It is a time-honored eloquent way to get to know the opposite gender.  Think if Shakespeare and other authors of love letter. I even have done this when courting my wife during the dating phase of our relationship. I would leave a letter under the door and sealed in red wax and rose petals.

In the 1970s meeting at a club was popular. But the alpha male dominated this and geeks like me did not do so well.

Next it was singles ads in newspapers (1980s), then on the Internet message boards, next chat rooms (1990s), after that full-blown dating site, followed my social networking (20oos) and now SMS and mobile phone dating. In a thirty years time, we went from to the path of least resistance, dating via the GSM (Global System for Mobile Communications).

The world is changing according to the mode of communication that is used by young people. I would not say it is bad, it is just the way it is. People are like bees, we need each other to connect with and survive. We as a single bee separated from its hive can not survive well. Therefore, technology makes it possible to stay in touch like the birds and the bees so we can flock together.

It is better than having a panchayat raj decide your bride choice.

Looking for a directory of Pakistan girls cell phone numbers?

Join the club, if you are searching online for a real number. On my website about love everyday, I get scores of guys from India, Pakistan and Dubai, UAE leaving their mobile phone numbers on my site in hopes some woman will contact them, also looking for Paki girls numbers in Dubai or the UK.  As a disclaimer, I am sorry I delete  the numbers you leave as I have not yet created a dating site, this is more an advice and idea website.

The reason I do not post the numbers even if they are left with the signature of a Pakistani girls name like Anam, Fatima or Noor or Hina, is itt could be an old girlfriend’s number you want other guys to call for revenge. I do not want that and the PTA would not take kindly to this. So I can not post personal information on this site. Further, to maintain the quality of this site to comment it as to be a well-formed personal experience or expressed opinion.

  • Some guys try random messages hoping a girl gets and if it is not a girl, say it is a mistake.  I do not recommend this, but guys do it. For example they know the start of  the numbers and punch in random phone numbers. The numbers and mobile carriers it does not matter, dial  03XZ-YYYYYYY  – That is x is the mobile carrier (Instaphone, Mobilink,Telenor, Warid Telecom, Ufone, ZONG, SCO)  and Y the number.
  • With a demographic growth rate of 1.573% per year it makes sense that most people are young and the chances a text goes to a single female is reasonable odds, yet I do not recommend it as I do not know if this is allowed in PK.

On the other hand it is more fun to meet people in public and then use text messages to build the relationship, rather than the reverse.

  • Is meeting a Paki girl via SMS wrong? No, technology is a tool and is neither good or bad in itself, it is how you use it.
  • Is it optimal? It depends on your intentions, God sees the things that man does not, so ask yourself in your heart what is your real intention, a fast date or your destiny? The slower you take it in establishing a rapport, the more optimal it is, as girls need time to build trust. Again remember God see your intentions.
  • Can SMS dating be made personal? That is the paradox, while an introduction on a cell phone may seem impersonal, It can be very romantic. When courting a girl most guys communicate through SMS. This is written form of communication that actually takes thought. A well written SMS is like a Haiku or poem.  If you write a love SMS in Urdu or Punjabi for example, it takes often more thought often than an e-mail. This is because the writer tries to economize on words and chooses each one with purpose and intent. There is certainly more thought in writing than simply someone directly. Writing takes though and intent.

Stories of love though SMS

One of the biggest characteristic of youth is boredom.  A Sony Ericsson in idle hands with a body full of hormones translates to a passionate and sometimes systematic search to find a girl.

I have heard of situations where guys randomly SMS a lady and they start to chat or some Pakistani woman sends a text message to the wrong guy and they start a dialogue before they ever call.  This is the way the youth communicate, if you are like 30 years old and reading this and rolling your eyes,  it is because you are too old to understand.

Pakistani girls phone numbers
Do not make your phone the center of your relationship. Just use it to get a date then take them to the beach or park or something.

 

Girls on phones from Nokia to iPhones

Here is the truth, use technology, isms and chats as a tool not as a virtual world. Meet women in person, then at night send a text message and sms, once in a while, but keep it real. I meet my wife face to face, then got her number after I already was charming her (I hoped). She have me her number real fast, verbally and did not think I would remember it, as I did not have a pen. I did and when I called her a week later she was very impressed to say the least. That is how it is done.

However, If you have trusted resources that you know let me hear from you. I am looking for input from you.   I do not know where trusted resources other than well established dating site with controls and moderation to find a date.  However, I will give you some external resources to start with connected with Pakistan and telecommunication.

I think the best places to start are established Pakistani dating sites rather than some free for all posting numbers on a message board. Dating sites have some moderation of the process so a greater level of trust. There are many even free Urdu dating sites.

Where not to look for telephone numbers and why

Guys are looking in the wrong places and here are some wrong places.

  • LinkedIn is one of the most popular sites in Pakistan (ranked number 19 over all) and has countless mobile phone numbers of Pakistani women, but I do not recommend this site at all, as it for business purposes. It is for professionals who want to do business, not love.
  • PkMobileNumber this was a site which was a horrible, I hope it does not exist, it had not moderation of numbers entered so there was not trust on what number was placed on the site. The problem is most sites have no quality control over posting, so the numbers could be some guys old girlfriend and he is resentful and wants revenge. This is very wrong. Guys will be calling her all day and night. I only mention it so people can he aware to avoid such sites.
  • Pakistani girls from a mobile phone directory. To get some random number is not respectful use of public information. The numbers you want are numbers of girls who are looking just like you.

Good mobile resources to explore:

  • urdupoint.com
  • Pakistan numbers and free mobile phone SMS to Pakistan
    Free use of carriers like ufone and telenor, it is pretty easy to use even if you are in the UK, you can send a text messages to Lahore.
  • If you are dating and flirting with Desi or Pakistanis girls by SMS or iisms , try this site. On various telecommunication networks and languages including Hindi and Urdu you have romantic SMS ideas for females you are trying make fall in love with you.  www.lovelysms.com
  • My best advice is start with online dating for girls and get their numbers that way, that is ladies give them to you after you win their trust.   I have not found any great resources for calling  Urdu girls numbers directly other than some SMS dating sites. However,  I do not know if they are good or not. Therefore, I recommend to start with a more traditional way and then bring it to the telephone and maybe real life level. It would be great if there was a list of numbers for friendship.
  • People in 2013 look for Zong girls numbers. – I do not know what this is about but it is the worth investigation.
Wallpaper of Multan female
Exchanging pictures is one step in underground communication between batchmates.

If anyone has more ideas for this post I would like to build it up as a resource, so write something below. If you have love phrases in Urdu that can be texted to a girl as a form of phone flirting, that you can leave. That will help others win ladies that speak Urdu with a combination of old fashion love phrases and modern technology in پاكِستان‎.

44 Replies to “Pakistani girls mobile numbers – call for a date”

  1. The Pakistani girls are cute, dashing and amazing, these women are gifts from the God.

  2. michael varga says:

    I want a woman that wants to have conversations through texting and does not mind sending pictures of themselves on their mobile phones.

  3. Unless you are looking for trouble, don’t marry a Pakistani woman if you are not a muslim. It is one of the most conservative Muslim societies on earth. Even if the girl is secular, she will likely have family members who are not. If you want a Pakistani girl, marry one outside of Pakistan.

    Pakistani women are beautiful and I would like to marry a Pakistani Christian, perhaps. However, the risk involved with marrying one, as a non-muslim is very high.

    If non-muslim people here enjoy beauty of Pakistani women, try to seek out a Punjabi Sikh, Hindu or CHristian woman instead. Punjabi Indians share same genetics as Pakistani people, since many Pakistanis are Punjabs.

    1. There are Hindu and Christian Pakistani girls. However, you are very right, most are Muslim and conservative. Nothing wrong with a conservative girl, and Pakistani girls are certainly beautiful with darker features and shapely bodies. However, you just need to be aware of huge cultural differences between western ways and Urdu ways of living.

  4. That is true admin.. However, being a non-muslim westerner and having a Pakistani wife is very risky if you are in Pakistan. I do like the Christian Pakistani girls, they are so homely, beautiful and traditional. The only problem is, you have to go to Pakistan to marry them which is risky. Christians in Pakistan are a minorty and have problems there. If you are seen walking around with a Pakistani girl in public, even if she is not muslim, you may run into problems with locals.

    Remember Hindus and Christians in Pakistan are very low in number and there is issues with conflicts. Do you really want to get involved with this as a foreigner? I have a friend who is a pastor from Pakistan and he tells me how volatile the situation can be there at time.

    I think India is a better choice, as Indians are very accepting people and you don’t have to deal with religious fanatics. There are many beautiful north Indian girls who are also very homely and family oriented. Nepali women are also known for their very beautiful features and are quite traditional. In Nepal you may run into issues with caste system, but its becoming less common, especially in Kathmandu.

    Nepal and India are much better choices than Pakistan for the non-Muslim. For Muslims, well Pakistan and Afghanistan is perhaps the best choice. Although I cannot say I feel happy the way some women are treated in those countries.

    1. Your right. Pakistani women are beautiful but the cultural differences are too large to bridge if you are talking about a westerner and someone who is a strict Muslim. Indian society is more open at this juncture and less problems. Pakistani girls are for Arab guys and Desi girls, are for anyone who is respectful and wants to win their heart. Indian girls look like Europeans and in the States assimilate. I think this is because Hinduism is a religion which grows through assimilation and acceptance, while Islam is one of conversion. The world is changing and I am curious how the culture of Pakistan will look in even twenty years.

  5. Asif Mian says:

    Being a Muslim Country Pakistani Girls are always thinking and preferred to Pakistani (Muslim) guys.
    Ofcours Pakistani Girls are beautiful and Hijab (Nikab) are making them more beautiful……

    ****Be Positive****

  6. Its not taht they prefer Pakistani Muslim guys, its that they really have no choice.. Anyhow, I see plenty of Pakistani guys who chase after foreign women, especially blonde girls. I am sure Pakitani women, if they had the same freedom as the men, would also chase after people they feel are unique and interesting.

    I hate the face veil, but I find the Hijab is proper.. I think women wearing a loose head veil are also attractive. I always do prefer women who are modestly dressed and not showing off all their body parts like American and European women do.

  7. I think the real beauty is hidden inside a person, depend on that person that how he or she take it and about love I will say that if it take from the life then the whole building of life would be colapse and life would tasteless. But unfortunatly true love u will find in only old books.

  8. Raheela naaz says:

    I am a smart and beautiful girl. I live in Lahore. I am looking for a single buy who is smart as he is handsome, a boyfriend who is real.

    1. salman ali says:

      Pakistani girls are beautiful, if only they would be as easy to meet as other girls. However, dating here is a bit more restrictive and guys need to find alternative ways to meet and date women.

      1. Simple words of wisdom. And here is the problem. Beautiful Pakistani girl are everywhere, they walk by you on the street, they are at work in school, but because of the dating and cultural restrictions it is hard to meet them like women in the UK or Europe where you can openly flirt with them. I have great respect these ladies but if I was a Pakistani guy I would consider all methods to meet girls, from dating online, to chat or mobile numbers to striking up a harmless conversation. You would have to convey that the conversation is only a friendship based on mutual respect not for dating, but of course she would get the idea. Girl amaze me, they will like you and pretend they do not, even if they are crazy about you.

  9. Being a Muslim Country Pakistani Girls are always thinking and preferred to Pakistani (Muslim) guys.
    Of course Pakistani Girls are beautiful and Waqas are making them more beautiful.

  10. Our life here on this planet is very short, I think because our life is very short we should enjoy it, however, with some limits. because we have also have to be aware f a greater purpose to our lives from above.

  11. Technology is not wrong,
    the use of technology is wrong.
    Now cell phones are the necessary for every person. Dating or meeting a girl this way is another thing.

    1. Maybe but I have not had a cell phone for years and I am feel like I am freer for it.

  12. Asghar khan says:

    I like all Pakistan khyber pukhtun khua girls for their natural beauty, they do not need to modify or change their appearance dramatically. They are naturally attractive.

  13. Asghar khan says:

    mobile phone is the dangour invention for the new generation it is the useful invention for those who use it for good works…..

    1. I agree I see many people addicted to their cell phones. They send 100 sms a day. If they do that many SMS it is a distraction from real life. As much as I like the Internet and technology, I prefer a non virtual life.

  14. Our life here on this planet is very short, I think because our life is very short we should enjoy it, however, with some limits. because we have also have to be aware f a greater purpose to our lives from above.

  15. naveed junejo says:

    Girls play so many roles in our life like mother, sister, daughter, wife and so on. male is always incomplete without his female. So we always have to respect them by all mean.

  16. I think the real beauty is hidden inside a person, depend on that person that how he or she take it and about love I will say that if it take from the life then the whole building of life would be collapse and life would tasteless. But unfortunately true love you will find in only old books.

  17. Asif Baloch from 24 GD Okara says:

    Being a Muslim Country Pakistani Girls are always thinking and preferred to Pakistani (Muslim) guys.
    Of course Pakistani Girls are beautiful and Asif is making them more beautiful.

  18. MIAN NAVEED says:

    Girls play so many roles in our life like mother, sister, daughter, wife and so on. A man is always incomplete without his female. So we always have to respect to Pakistani girls and all women in all cases.
    Be a meaningful Muslim.

  19. Hamid Nawaz Gondal says:

    Women a second name of love in defferent names, of kinds its depands on us how we treat them then she give us her reaction if you give him love she gives us lot of love so in my point of view just love this creation of Allah.

  20. umarhappyu says:

    Women a second name of love in defferent names, of kinds its depands on us how we treat them then she give us her reaction if you give him love she gives us lot of love so in my point of view just love this creation of Allah.

  21. I completely agree with Yonatan’s comments. The muslim either women or men in large are concervative and this is because of improper understanding of the religion.
    I agree if the fredoom had been given to the muslim women in this scenario like the men they would be like the western. It does not mean I am against the fredoon but it should be in proper manner and system.

  22. Every religion has its own point of view about life, nobody has right to discus about others religion when he/she does not know anything about that religion.
    For Islam, it has some limitations for us thats good, these limitations are not only for Muslim Women but also for Muslim Men. Unfortunately many of the people does not follow them.
    If you say that we Muslims are conservative than its your own opinion, you can think whatever you want to. But actually its not the case with us. I think I am very very lucky being Muslim and being Pakistani. We have good understanding with our partners and we stay loyal with him. Allah knows whats good for us and whats not, more than us.

  23. Well i have just one thing to say to Yonatan and to ALI. exposure of body is Haram for a lady. before comment anything about pakistani girls. you should think a little about the time before Islam. thay do have the same use of girls. same thing is happening in Europ. Muslims are not conservative. But Pakistani boys have respect for their girls. Thay provide respect and bring peace to their girls (most of them). Not like American’s and Europeans ” a mother ask to son.. where is your sister and he replies she is on her first date…” anyway think again if you are good muslim “Ali” if you are secular go a head and let your sister marry with any non muslim like another multi-father american guy. its useless to bring you guys to “siratam mustaqem” if i am having a name “Barak Obama” (muslim name) don’t mean that i am a muslim… unless have practices of islam. do you know what is brotherhood “ALI”. Do you know how is Ali Murtaza (RA) think who he is and what you are having same name but practices are diffirent. non muslims use to present their girls to distract (Satan’s act) muslims.

    A true muslim only can be true if he could understand muslim brotherhood.

    (musalman, musalman aapas main bhai bhai hain)
    my duty is to acknowledge you about your misconceptions. more over ladies have less will power and can easily be lead by evil persons so that is why Allah Make Muslims men as their protector. in every shape of life… as brother, husband, father, Uncle and so on… only husband has some diffirent criteria with certain limitations. well i can say much on it but i guess this would be enough to realize who we are…. and what we have to do. I am expecting some of the evil thoughs may comeout and argue and support Satan’s agenda but i have to ignore them so for now…. Allah Hafiz.

  24. I completely agree with Awais because its point of view is very clear.Therefore he is a true muslim .

  25. Well done AWAIS Well done. You r so right. All the points are clear. Every one LoVes there religion n culture. No one can be given permission to insult the other’s religion or culture.Some persons who does not know about his religion to pass comments about it. First to understand religion completely then should do comments.

  26. Well done Awais. You are so right. All the points are clear. Every one Loves their religion and culture. No one can be given permission to insult the other’s religion or culture. Some persons who does not know about his religion to pass comments about it. First to understand religion completely then should do comments.

  27. Qamar Abbas thaheem says:

    Well i have just one thing to say to Yonatan and to ALI. exposure of body is Haram for a lady. before comment anything about pakistani girls. you should think a little about the time before Islam. thay do have the same use of girls. same thing is happening in Europ. Muslims are not conservative. But Pakistani boys have respect for their girls. Thay provide respect and bring peace to their girls (most of them). Not like American’s and Europeans ” a mother ask to son.. where is your sister and he replies she is on her first date…” anyway think again if you are good muslim “Ali” if you are secular go a head and let your sister marry with any non muslim like another multi-father american guy. its useless to bring you guys to “siratam mustaqem” if i am having a name “Barak Obama” (muslim name) don’t mean that i am a muslim… unless have practices of islam. do you know what is brotherhood “ALI”. Do you know how is Ali Murtaza (RA) think who he is and what you are having same name but practices are diffirent. non muslims use to present their girls to distract (Satan’s act) muslims.

    A true muslim only can be true if he could understand muslim brotherhood.

    (musalman, musalman aapas main bhai bhai hain)
    my duty is to acknowledge you about your misconceptions. more over ladies have less will power and can easily be lead by evil persons so that is why Allah Make Muslims men as their protector. in every shape of life… as brother, husband, father, Uncle and so on… only husband has some diffirent criteria with certain limitations. well i can say much on it but i guess this would be enough to realize who we are…. and what we have to do. I am expecting some of the evil thoughs may comeout and argue and support Satan’s agenda but i have to ignore them so for now…. Allah H

  28. Well I am divorced from Pakistani women man from Denmark,We can’t say all Pakistani women are angel like and non Pakistani or non muslims are bad women, many ways Pakistani women are nice but many ways very strange know nothing about religion,culture,tradition and journal knowledge etc but if you ask who siri devi then they can reply you very fast if you ask some thing about faith know nothing in my experience many not all Pakistani women are on foot mark of Western girls but western have no sins etc because in bible jesus took there sins on cross they have to live as they like but we are muslims we must pay what we did,

    I see many Paki women are converting Western short,tight,naked dresses its shameful for there parents and family’s,I married with Paki women when she got Danish citizenship she changed totally and left me take kids and finding on dates with other mens etc I don’t know what happened with her,

    Pakkistani leaders are more corrupted,evils then no other nations leaders on earth this is result of our people, no religion, no culture,just fashions and strange colourful halv n_ked dresses and mostly women don’t like and wear hijab and in the west more women are converting to Islam there going to be a kafir,
    peace be upon all of us,

  29. Well done Awais. You are so right. All the points are clear. Every one Loves their religion and culture. No one can be given permission to insult the other’s religion or culture. Some persons who does not know about his religion to pass comments about it. First to understand religion completely then should do comments.

  30. Let me introduce myself first, I’m Frank and I live in the US. I was looking around for some explanation for why most of my female friends have at one time been randomly contacted by men they’ve never met from North Africa, the Middle East, and South Asia. It sounds from this post that in Pakistani culture it is acceptable for a man to contact a woman he has never met and who has not solicited contact with him. Is that true? It just seems strange from my perspective because it is incredibly unacceptable in American culture. Are there less opportunities to meet girls in social situations in Pakistan? For the guys on here let me warn you, women who grew up in Western cultures, even if they are of Pakistani descent, will likely be creeped out by someone they don’t know texting them. All you are going to accomplish is forcing them to change their phone number.

  31. zuhaib iqbal says:

    Women a second name of love in defferent names, of kinds its depands on us how we treat them then she give us her reaction if you give him love she gives us lot of love so in my point of view just love this creation of Allah.

  32. Muhammad Ali says:

    I am not an Islamic scholar rather i am modest but still following the traditional tenets of Islam. I read almost all the above comments, and I am really shocked by some comments from my muslim brothers.

    I want to clarify that in Islam, women got the best place in society, we believe that men are made to do outside work like earning bread, while women are made to do inside work like taking care of family. Islam do not teach us to force women to wear hijab, but it teaches us that we (men) should act so much gracefully that women feel comfort in wearing hijab. eg. if i stare at other women, how could i ask my wife, sister, daughter or mother not to attract other men, rather i should kept my eyes on floor when i am talking to women, so that women could feel that i am not comfortable in looking at her.

    Secondly, I believe that normally everybody keep our treasure in secret, close guard and in a safe place, thus women is considered treasure among muslims, therefore, we don’t want other men to get excitment from our treasure.

    For difference b/w Pakistani and non-Pakistani, I would say ot all depends on your upbringing, as all fingures in hand are not alike similarly all people in a country are different. In Pakistan you can find many people who are more bold, open and beautifull then Demi More, Julia Roberts, Anjalina Joliejones, Brad Pitt, Tom Cruse, etc. similarly you can find many fanatics. Infact Pakistani nation is a wonder from Allah, and that is why for good or bad it was always a point of concern for all. Although Pakistan population is only 160 million, but has/had Nustrat Fateh Ali Khan, Atif Aslam (Music Gaint), Imran Khan, Muhammad Aamir (cricters), Faiz Ahmed Faiz (Poet), Jahangir Khan (Squash) etc. which are one in a billion. Pakistanies can tolerate Begum Nawazish Ali, Veena Malik and lot more.

    Many more things to say…..but i think thats enough for now.

  33. I am a smart and beautiful girl. I live in Karachi. I am looking for a single buy who is smart as he is handsome, a boyfriend who is real.

  34. I see a lot of guys searching for lists of phone numbers from girls from Pakistan, I guess my question do any meet girls this way? I mean with a random SMS or text message to a girl. I know most women are addicted to the mobile phones but I personally would not respond, but maybe.

    I am from Moscow and most guys are a little big more shy when it comes to dating. I do not know why but in Russia guys are shy. If anything girls are waiting and hoping a guy will ask them out for a date. Often times you see a guy and you think he likes you but then nothing ever comes of it.

    While when I have been on vacation in the Middle East it is just the opposite. Russian girls go to get some sun and Arabian boys ask us out in romantic ways and roll their eyes in love.

    They get some of my friends numbers sms for a while will write but never really call girls on the phone, maybe to save money. They lose interest unless they are going to go to go back to the Middle East again.

    Most of my friends meet guys in Egypt not Pakistan as this is too far and remote country and not for tourists not. Maybe India as it is easy for vacations. More girls are going on vacation there.

    I guess I am rambling one a subject I do not know a lot about. But I do not see a lot of Pakistani guys getting Russian girls numbers unless they are Russian call girls phone number.

    I would say as advice to these guys:
    Do not seem to needy or I have to get a girl.

    Do not seek guys for any mention how back the economy is in Pakistan and would love to work in Europe or London on an EU greencard, citizenship or visa. I know things are hard economically and politically but it is better than you do not mention this in any communication as they will think your motives are not pure but rather for money or economic reasons.

    Do not try to get girls if they are married or you are married.I think sometimes Pakistani guys have a double standard. That is Pakistan women are beautiful and pure and foriegn girls like Russian women are not, but rather to be for fun.
    But keep the conversation and rapport fun and light. Again it is not for me but to each their own.

    What else can I convey or communicate?

    1. Thank you this is an interesting article. I was born in Pakistan but I have been living in Canada since I was teenager. I became interested in learning more about Russian women and their culture because I met Russian and Ukrainian women here. They are some of the best women because you are right they really want a husband and value family and they should be respected for that not treated like they are just for fun.
      It is true sometimes old fashioned Pakistani men have double standard and think that non-Pakistani women are just for fun but in my experience Eastern European woman are tender, very family oriented and often traditional.

      One thing that confuses me is the experience I had with a Ukrainian woman. She was traditional with good values and when we met she was very interested in my company and I noticed her flirting with me but then I found out she is married for two months and left her husband behind to come to Canada. I was very confused because there was very strong chemistry between us and I fell for her but none of us wanted to cheat because we respect marriage. I did tell her I truly love her and I ask her if she was sure about her marriage because she left her husband after two month of marriage. My intentions were pure and she told me she had feelings for me but can do nothing because of the situation. I said if we love each other she can start over with me but she should decide so we don’t play games and someone gets hurt.

      I can’t tell you how strong those feelings were and how difficult everyday was to not express to someone when feelings are so strong but we never did that because of respect. Both of us were in a difficult situation but in the end both of us respected her marriage even though it hurt very much, at least for me. I was alone with her many times and I knew she was lonely but I never took advantage, I was looking for love and not looking to treat her as just for fun. So there are good and bad people in all cultures. I know there are examples of Eastern European woman making good wives and Asian men being good husbands. I know if life gave me a chance to be with her I would value her and make her happy but I would do it properly, I wouldn’t have her cheat and I wouldn’t treat her as if just for fun, I would only be with her. She told me if we were together she’d be happy because she knew I didn’t lie about how I felt.

      Anyway, the world is getting smaller and everyone is getting to know other cultures. I think with time we will have better understanding of each other and in the end real love doesn’t care about color or differences. Its something you can just feel, and when the right people connect there is no need to rationalize.

  35. Pakistani girls are beautiful, if only they would be as easy to meet as other girls. However, dating here is a bit more restrictive and guys need to find alternative ways to meet and date women.

  36. Basically the best part of this article is you recommending guys read up on Urdu romantic poets from the past. If they do this they will have the edge on the competition. I do not understand why guys do not want to go the extra mile to find a girl and win her heart. That is with words and pen you can get any girl you want no matter what you look like.

  37. MariaElena says:

    I’m not Pakistani or even close but I am a girl and we all have similar ways of thinking no matter where we are from. What I’m about to tell you doesn’t apply to all girls, but most of them. So here’s some advice.

    If you want to look for a girl online, I think Facebook is a better place than dating websites. A lot of girls have a hard time trusting a stranger and it’s just easier to trust someone when you know more about them. That way she can look at your pictures, see your relationships with friends or even learn about your family members. But most importantly- she can make sure you don’t have a girlfriend or wife, as it is nearly impossible to hide such a fact on facebook, and is quite easy to do on most dating websites. She needs to know that you are honest and have good intentions.

    Try to become friends before asking her to meet you or to give you her number. Do not push her, best if you wait until she is ready and mentions it first. If you see someone you like on the street, bus or in the park, start a conversation by saying something innocent first, even if you can’t come up with anything else than asking what time it is. Anything is better than “can I have your number” as first thing being said. In fact, the later in the conversation you say it, the better.

    Too much confidence is a common mistake. If you’re a little shy you have a better chance of success. Most girls like shy men. Be friendly and have a smile on your face though. I have to agree with the admin- do not call or text her right away. By making her wait, you also make her think about you.

    When you eventually call her, pay attention to what she says and try to remember the details so that you can surprise her by bringing it up later. I’m talking about little things such as her cat’s name or the fact that she likes strawberries. It might be the key to winning her heart. Every woman seeks a man who can listen.

    One more thing: before you get serious about it, make sure you learn some basic things about your girl, like her religion. A Muslim and a Christian have a rather poor chance of a happy relationship and giving up what one believes in to make someone else happy is not a good option either.

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