How to get a girl – dating Dorota in the land of OZ
In American dating if you do not ‘appear successful’ (job title, car size, clothes labels) then getting girls is a bit of a problem. Not to worry, I wrote this post as a straight-forward guide to getting a girlfriend no matter where you are in your life.
If you really want you can skip my rant go to the end of the post. There you will find the real answer. It is found in step 2 of how to find a girlfriend. However, read my whole post, as the truth is funny in a strange kind of way and it sets the stage.
The first part of the solution for obtaining a female partner is obvious for those who are aware. However, trying explaining to someone who has never traveled a lot, it is difficult for them to grasp the concept.
You need to start looking in the land of OZ. The land of Oz or candy land is any place outside the USA and UK. This includes but is not limited to, Russia, Brazil, Poland, Argentina, Ukraine, Italy, India, Spain, Greece, Ireland etc. Basically where the other 5 ½ billion people live. Some people call it OZ other people call it candy land. It does not matter. Think about it, there are over 1 billion single beautiful girls in marrying age that want to get married from OZ.
- Be warned, if your demsel is taken out of the land of OZ and brought to America, and she is not a deeply spiritual and humble girl, Dorota quickly will become Dorothy, that is, just another farm girl from Kansas with red shoes.
- However, if you follow my advice you will live happily ever after somewhere over the rainbow.
Dating in America – Dating Dorothy born in the USA
What you do today will echo though eternity – Marcus Aurelius
Do you believe character is destiny? I do. On the other hand girls will deflate your ideals when they realize that in the good old US of A, your ability to attract women has more to do with the zeros in your bank account, horsepower of your car, or the square footage of your house. You know, I wonder if American girls know they are top of the food chain?
So what is the problem? America is the land of opportunity. Just make some money, save the farm, get the girl and live happily every after like in the movies of the silver screen.
Your life for a Wife
Here is the issue: You can get rich in America if you sacrifice your life. You sell yourself to corporate America in finance, consulting, IT, law or medicine. Then if you bust your rear end and have a little luck you will have a house, car and an average American life. You will not be living large (designer clothes, Jaguar , European vacations), mind you. But your will do like everyone else. Working hard, commuting to the office and mildly depressed and from time to time stressed about your job. But mostly mildly depressed.
Seems like a fair trade off? Your life for a wife? Except for one more straw to put on the camel’s back. All this will still not get you the girl of your dreams who will love you, and make your heart skip a beat when she comes into the room. Yep, in the USA near perfect is not enough. Further, feminism poisoned the well. This woman will divorce you 100% of the time. OK maybe I am exaggerating but about 50% of the time. Even if you think no way ‘we are such a good couple’, if she was born in the USA, believe me, way.
Now here is my disclaimer. This is not all American women. These are not all marriages. However, I am being a little dramatic to illustrate my point about my culture because I am not a hyper consumptive materialist and my relationship with my family is the more important than career. America might be the land of opportunity if you are willing to be a corporate serf and have Ivy league degrees, but it is not the land of happy relationships.
- Getting the girl is almost not worth it
- Keeping the girl is hard
- It is exhausting to go on countless dates and disappoint so many women because you are not looking like Johnny Depp, with a 290k income. American girls have the highest and most unrealistic expectations. You will disappoint them no matter who you are. And remember, you do not need to be looking like Depp or have the wealth of Prince William, nor would I want to get a real princess. We all add up to 100%.
Step one for getting a girl – out with the old
- The pill you took is part of a trace program. It’s designed to disrupt your input/output signal so we can pin-point your location. – Morpheus
- What does that mean? – Neo
- It means, buckle your seatbelt, Dorothy. ‘Cause Kansas, is goin’ bye-bye. -Cypher – The Matrix
So what is the solution? Forget about all the women you thought were hot and erase them out of your memory. Believe me they are not hot. Hot is a thin, leggy Russian girl, ten years younger than you with a PhD who adores you and will stay with you as her champion and prince.
If you cannot get some American girl from your past our of your mind, mentally say to yourself ‘cancel, cancel’ every time the thought of one comes up. You need to deprogram yourself. You need to know all girls are not like the women you have meet in your past.
If that does not work imagine them in your grandma’s old pink slippers and a ratty old house coat with about ten lbs more on their belly, since the last time you saw her (which is probably the case) and burping like a truck driver walking out of a greasy spoon dinner. Or anything like that, but forget about all females you have ever meet before. All of them.
Step two for find a girl – in with the new
Here is the real secret to getting a girl for love. I am changing the tone of this post from light and amusing to more serious because this really works. I talk enough on my site about specific places, either online or in real life to meet girls. You can go back a revisit these post. However, here is a method that helps in a more universal way. But it does work. It is something you will not find on too many dating websites or relationships sites as it is not cool to talk about things like this. But you can threw stones at me if you want but it works. I will probably offend people with the following, but I am just giving you what works. Test if yourself.
Mystical way to attract girls
I believe that God guides people. Monks have something called Lectio Divina. They open the Bible and randomly, point to a passage with their eyes closed. They then meditate on this passage. Then they see how this passage applies to their life.
You need to start thinking this way, that is trusting and believing your life is not random. If you have not found your other half there is a reason.
- Examine your life and see what needs to be changed. – what is blocking you from your bride to be ? See if you have anything that you had to learn or do or clean up before you move to the next level. Do you have anger about the past or pride about your abilities or jealousy about what others have or unforgiveness or judgment in your heart. You need to be unbound from these energies. I do not care if you see these energies as something real or abstract, but you need to clean house,our spiritual house. Pray for those who have hurt you and hope good things come to their life. If you cannot do this, have the intention of wishing good on them and leave it at that for now.
- Next, thank God for all that you have. In your mind think of all the things you have been given in your life.
- Last, ask God to bring you a wife. Make sure your request is specific, sincere and in your own words from your imagination. In the imagination is where the divine resides. This is why the imagination is so powerful when it comes to women.
Another methods to attract your sweetheart include:
- Making a connection with your future princess – As you drift to sleep at night try to imagine your princess and make a connection, even though you do not know who she is or where she is. Play out a fantasy that you find her alone waiting in her castle. I did and it worked.
- Pink balloon -. Imagine that you put your request for your other half in a pink balloon. You let it go and let it drift about creation collecting energy. You will see your life will start to bring changes.
- Subconscious mind connection -You simply drift to sleep and whisper in your imagination ‘true love’ or ‘beautiful princess’. You do this as your drift to sleep. This will start bringing profound changes in the universe and set the stage for you to meet your other half.
After you have been around the block serial dating and spent an inordinate amount of time with numerous low-effort contacts screening online dating profiles, the simple reveals itself after the complex has been exhausted. Continue to ask God to help you and be patient and trusting and you will see how the universe will changes around you.