The purpose of this post if to encourage you to find the love of your life in Europe. Have you ever been depressed and thought there is no hope for you in dating and love? Listen up. You are not a loser. God does not create mistakes. The only thing that is wrong is you do not understand how the mating game works. Here is the key to finding romance, nature likes to spice things up a bit in love and dating and rewards those who take chances.
Is this what the girls next door look like around you? This is what they look like around me in Europe. I kid you not.
This includes crossing the seas to discover a simple European peasant girl who is in reality a princess who had forgotten her birth right. This takes more guts and proves you are a man more than the pursuit of your career, the size of your… biceps, the car your drive or the amount of money in your bank account.
Think of the TV show the Office. Why did Jan go for quirky Michael in the Office instead of responsible Toby? Why did Pam go for prankster, hipster Jim instead of some stable career alpha male?
- Nature works in this way: it tries to mix things up a bit. So if you marry the girl next door, this is fine. However, if you try to date a person from another culture or even Europe, you might find yourself dating girls that look like models and movie stars, while the only guys who get those girls back home are professional baseball players.
- Dating and mating strategies are not the same as career goals. And no girls do not go for money and alpha males, they go for authenticity, and settle for money when their dreams are defeated.
Instead of spending countless hours in self-analysis and defeatist thinking, try something outside the box when it comes to dating. Skip the self debasing and take charge of your life. How? Do not try to perfect your dating tactics, that is your approach or reading books on “how to meet women or “online dating guides” – instead change your strategy. In the battlefield of life tactics can win the day but strategy wins the campaign.
How does this translate? Consider a European girl. If you are a lady just reverse the genders in this post the same will apply.
I have no idea why so many American guys chase the dream of a house, a car and a career, while the most important thing in the world is love. American women are nice, but.
- European gals have style, hard to argue that. They love American guys, learn languages, musical instruments do not care about money, they do care about authenticity and brains. Maybe I am idealizing because of the contrast. However, this is how they will see you also, with rose-colored glasses. So take your chance and try to capture one and make her your princess.
How to live in the EU when a Visas and Economics is a problem
- Teach English as a native speaker or get a job with a company. This is not too hard. All work is noble. I have a Master’s from a top school and solid professional experience and I did not mind making a few bucks an hour teaching English, because it lead to my one true love.
- Take long vacations in Europe from your job, like 2 or 3 weeks. I did this at first, you might have to beg your boss. Or plan it first, then ask your boss, as it is easier to ask forgiveness than permission. Cost is not a factor as I work to live, not the converse.
- If you want to get a green card or European citizenship consider your roots whether they are from Italy, Spain, Poland, Sweden, France, Ireland etc. and learn about Jus sanguinis. You will have your foot in the door faster than you can say Brussels.
More important is how to date a girl from Europe:
I have a number of posts about this:
- Eastern European female
- Russian maiden fair and beautiful
- Information on Marriage to European girls , or scan my site map.
I hope you do not interpret this as a slight if you are an American lass. It is not. It is to inspire you guys to find a partner. That is, if what you are doing now is not getting you to the altar with your lady friend, try Europe, I you will not be disappointed. If you have any questions whatsoever about EU dating just ask. Ask any question no matter how trivial it might be about travel logistics, citizenships or Europa damsel.