Does true love exist
If you have ever wondered does one true love exist? I will lay all the cards on the table, the answer is yes. I have it and know others that also believe that true love exists.
Does one true love exist?
The purpose of this post is to give you an argument about love. However, not just about love but one true love. The number ‘one’ is an important word in this equation, err well I mean sentence.
This argument is for all you who are left brained and are skeptical if one true love does exist. This post is a little bit tongue and cheek, but nevertheless the logic is valid.
Consider my thesis in this post. However, in the end, perhaps love is a little like faith, for those who do not believe true love exists, no explanation is possible and for those who believe in love, no explanation is necessary. Or perhaps it is is something you have experience for yourself, it is a gift. So for all you doubting Thomases out there here goes.
Love and destiny are one
Does true love exist? But what if you do not believe in love?
Love is about is about finding your destiny. Love is unconditional and without limits. Love is not about finding someone that will make your life comfortable, or money, or education or profession or nationality or race or fat or skinny. Love is about finding your other half. That is it. There is only one person for everyone.
However, what if you do not believe that there is one love in your life. What if you do not believe in your destiny. In fact, some of my friends do not believe there is one person for everyone. Oh ye of little faith. Indulge me and listen to my reply. OK even if you do not believe there is one person for everyone. Let us look at this from a mathematical perspective.
One love - One life
Setting up a quantifiable, measurable conceptual framework for true love
Lets say that the mutual benefit of love generates something called “love utils”. That is, when two people are together they generate units of love happiness for each other. Let us make the hypothesis that these units are measurable, quantifiable units of happiness.
Therefore, If you are with a girl named Jane then she personally might generate ten units of love happiness for you. However, if you are in a relationship with Sally, then the relationship would yield a robust 12 units of love happiness for you. This is clear.
Even if you do not believe in true love you can understand the idea that some relationships are more or less optimal, the only thing I have done here is added this quantifiable objective measure to it.
In this measure of ‘love utils’ there is calculated and factored the sum total of all things that makes you personally happy. There will be different weights attributed to different factors and components. Each person will have a different utility curve. For example, if one person values intellectual creativity while another person values long legs, your personal love equation factors these components into the ‘love utils’ measurement.
Mathematical optimization – one true love must exist
If you understand the idea of linear algebra optimization, even if you do not believe in love as some abstract ideal destiny, then the reality is there is one person in the world who will maximizes your ‘love utils’. It is a mathematical fact. It is an optimization point if you may.
Present value of your true love choice
Now here is the problem, in order for this person to be your destiny they must be the person that would maximizes your units of ‘love utils’ over your whole life.
For example, you could wait to meet a girl in outer Mongolia that will give you 100 units of happiness every year. However, if you do not meet her until you are 98 years old and your expected life expectancy is 100, than you will only get 200 units of love happiness or ‘love utils’ over your whole life. On the other hand, if you meet someone when you are say 25 years old and this person gives you only 5 units of love happiness or ‘love utils’ over your life then you would get 75 * 5 or 375 units of love happiness from this person. Therefore, she is a better choice than the person from outer Mongolia.
Next if you consider in this equation all possible matches, all probabilities of meeting (although determinist do not believe in chance, they are not the ones I am trying to sway as I would be preaching to the choir). You also need to consider of course things like if the girl does not like you, she will not stay as she is also a love maximizer. Everything needs to be factored. Once you understand this and are aware of this than you can not deny there is one person for you on their earth that will make your dreams come true.
Dating burnout or diminishing returns
Further, people will say, ahh but Mark, what about the idea of changing partners and riding the waves of love, from one romantic high to the next. In the long run this strategy is ineffective for personal happiness as you begin to hit diminishing returns for each new partner.
You experience dating burnout. It is like eating one banana, the first couple are good, but after that, you experience this economic law of diminishing returns. Further, once you eat too many you might become allergic to bananas like some of my friends who claim they are allergic to love. Hmm, look them up when they are all alone in their 60s living with a room full of cats still cruising chicks and and see if in their heart they are really happy. This is on par with pitiful girls who claim they do not need love to make them happy. Sorry about all that, lets get back to the analysis and examine some more naysayers.
True love
I meet many guys who just want to meet a good looking girl who does not hassle them. They do not believe in the fairy-tale called love, ever. And I meet many girls who stopped believing in fairy-tales long ago. However, the truth is both patterns of negative thinking are a fallacy. If you find yourself in one of those camps, I only ask you to yield to the logic of this model.
See even if you are a person who does not believe in one true love, they can not argue with the notion that love is an optimization model. There is one optimal choice for you, when you consider all probabilities and factored weights and expectations in the statistical sense.
You need to consider all factors including such as, imperfect information, the ‘flight factor’ (that is the percentage of risk that she will dump you and run), how much effort it is to be with her, expectations etc. Love is reduced to nothing more than a deterministic equation, on par with an economic optimization model. That is where your marginal cost of being in is equal to your marginal benefit of being in a relationship. Once you find the intersection of those two points you can maximizes your the present value of that benefit over your lifetime, you catch that girl because that is the girl for you.
Love exists
Conclusion about does one true love exists
You can not argue with math. Even if you are some fat drinking guy that watches sports all day and believes nothing about love, you can not argue with the mathematics of my love model. The only conclusion is there really is one person in the world for you. Call it what you want, the ancients called it destiny. Go out there and find your one true love, your other half. Here is my page on love quotes in several languages, I hope they help for your search for true love.
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40 responses to Does one true love exist
Well, that’s all so nice.So deep and true in so many ways. But how often does this really occures? Is it really meant to happen to me? I had so many desappoitments that now it’s hard for me to let life be.I DON’T TRUST PEOPLE ANYMORE. I feel like I’m the demaged one. But am I? How much more frustration I have to go through to find out that I’m agging alone? Do I really need someone else?
I see my friends surching all week on. They meet guys and tend to accept more and more BS each time, just not to be alone.
I only know who I am in my work. Being a doctor I help people out everyday. I get enough sattisfaction out of this to keep on going. At least,most of the time. But the truth is that I hide myself on being good to everyone else. I’m done, you know. I live in a cinical city called Rio de Janeiro. Where people prettend to be nice, happy and joyfull all the time. The truth is that they are selfish and superfitial. All that matters is what people see and think about you. Is there a way out of this feeling?
Cris, this is a big problem many people face. But you know I find my guy friends say they have the same problem. It is not a girls problem it is a human problem.
I think the reason you have not found someone sincere is simple. You have not meet the right one. Me, I am a big believer in international marriages and relationships as I married someone from the other side of the world. Try to not to limit yourself to the guy next door as the world is full of possibilities. As an American I know lots of American guys that would dream of a girl like you.
I think for you is to meet a guy who is very idealist. Guys that are idealistic are more likely have the vision to see you for the princesses that you are. The others are not poet enough to see your beauty.
Cris,
If you live in Brazil, and you are not happy, then you either are living in some desolate part or you just ….
Cause Brazil is full of hot women and they are better then women in the U.S.
The person Cris is a woman not a man.
Well, ok. I just got out of a realationship. I think love doesnt exist, its merely a reaction to our driving instinct to not be lonely, to feel secure. Its an excuse we concoct inside ourselves to stay with one person, to have whats called a normal life, and as i say this im still crying. Love never existed, but she told me she loved me because “its what people need to tell each other”. I suffer from a mental illness called bi-polar, and that to makes it very hard to be with someone, or shall i say for someone to be with me. They go through alot, from suicide attempts to money spending sprees. Ive never been much of a thinker, but i work hard, and i gave her more of me than i had, but then when its true love you give everything, so what happens when your left with nothing?
Yes, true love does exist. It might not exist for you in this time and place. However, that does not mean it will not exist for you in the future. I have true love and I know many people who have been in love, true love for over 50 years.
Humans are animals and instinct is part of out psyche. However, that is not all we are. Humans have a soul. Of course true love exist. It is just that with this girl, things did not work out and time heals all wounds. I promise.
I would serious consider a non American girl.
Your illness has something to do with it, but not completely. One of my friends is married with a family and has this illness. The main thing is to be aware you have this. To be conscious of it and in your ups and downs be aware. Just be aware of it. However, that is not the scope of this conversation. I guess many people need meds to help them with this.
Anyway. True love is possible and does exist, you just need someone with a heart and compassionate not some b__ch that talks crazy none sense like that.
There’s no such thing has true love.
Did some sweet girl break your heart or maybe you do not believe in anything but yourself. Explain why your do not believe in love?
Very interesting post and feedback. I know that I had almost given up on true love. After a couple of divorces and being absolutely devastated emotionally and financially as a result, it would have been easy for me to give up. Yes, I was cynical for a while and had a hard time dating and opening myself up to women. But when the right woman came along it was easy. True love isn’t demanding or allow a person to leave when there are difficulties. In my eyes, it is stronger than anything on this planet and it sees past any difficulties, such as bipolar disorder or divorces, in my case. My wife saw something in me that even I didn’t see at times. I thought I was destined to be alone forever and I was cool with that. I didn’t need anyone and I was ok. Yes, I was lonely at times and I don’t think I really understood what life (or God?) had in store for me. I know that I appreciate my wife more thanks to everything that I went through in my life. Yes, my wife is Ukrainian and what may have started out as a shallow attempt to just not be alone led to a love and complete adoration of a woman that has to be the sweetest, funniest, kindest and most loving human being that I could have ever hoped to meet. It does sadden me that there are so many men that are not sincere in their desire to find true love with women from Russia or Ukraine but instead are just looking for a “hot wife” or a piece of eye candy. I do wish everyone the same happiness that I have found though. I don’t care if they find it in Ukraine, Russia, America, Canada, Columbia, Thailand or in their own back yard. I firmly believe that we were not meant to be alone and unhappy. Why else would love feel so grand?! =)
Great comment on does true love exist. I think others should read it.
I also agree with your comment many guys are going to Russia, for example, with the wrong intentions. However, the reality is they are cheating themselves out of their own happiness. True love and a happy marriage is the highest level of happiness. Nothing else can even come close or compare with finding your one true love. However, to find that, like you and I have, it take patience and courage.
It wasn’t easy, my friend! But nothing of value and worth having in live comes easily or without struggle. This is not to say that a wife is an object to have. I am referring to a loving marriage with a woman from any country. But a relationship with a woman from a different country and culture can be difficult for both parties at times. For instance, it’s very easy to doubt or become insecure given that I have been divorced and hurt in the past. It is easy to become scared that the same thing will happen again given my track record. I mean, I feel so fortunate to have found my wife but the international dating industry does have women that are just looking for a green card. Insincere women who are just looking for rich western men to win and dine them or to bring them to their country and after two years they dump them. But likewise, there are women that have lost their lives thousands of miles from home because they married a man that didn’t have the best of intentions. They marry a woman that they think is going to be subservient, almost like a slave. They might mistake shyness or culture shock for a subservient attitude and once she comes out of her shell and says “HET” a few times to their man then it’s “game on”.
But when you match a Western man who IS truly marriage minded and wants to love, care for and protect his wife and family and make his life a living sacrifice to those that he loves, with a Ukrainian or Russian woman who dreams of having a loving husband to live her life with and raise a family with…well, it’s pure magic!
Not in America.. The men go out of their way to spoil and pamper their women, and the women go out of their way to use, manipulate and degrade their men, before divorcing them and taking them to court for everything they are worth.
LOL! I find it difficult to argue with you there Yonatan! But you know what? Each and every one of my ex’s has come back to me at some point down the road and apologized and said that they regretted ever leaving me, divorcing me and hurting me. I have never taken any of them back because once that trust is broken it is very difficult to believe in them or the idea that they sincerely love me.
There is an old saying though that the best revenge is to live a good life. To move on with one’s life and find someone that does truly love you and care for you and whom you love totally and completely in return can definitely eliminate all the pain. You might even find yourself almost glad that you went through what you did to get where you’re at when you do find your true love.
Well I live in Brazil too, and as a woman, I face the same problem Cris faces.. As an educated woman with a good job, only 2 kinds of men come to me: the ones who want only to get physical.. or the ones that want to take advantage of me (cause i can provide comfort) oh well.. it seriously made me give up on love.. I dont want another ex husband threatening me that he’ll ask for alimony…
Look for a guy from the USA or example. I know many guys that would love to meet a normal girl with brains. I wish I could get them together. But look, American guys are not looking for a meal ticket as they have their own money. To stop the physical advances tell me you do not believe in intamacy outside of marriage. Really. If they are serious about you they will only be more interested in you. I am a guy. If a guy things he can get action and does he will lose interest unless he is in love with you. If he is in love with you nothing can stop him even if you deny him everything. Love is stronger than instinct.
Try not looking for the guy next door.
However, when I hear girls say they can not find a decent guy it is ussually because they are playing their cards wrong. Any guy on the planet with a pulse will prefer a beautiful girl to a video game or a night in the pub with his buddies. Any guy will try to make you fall in love with him, if and only if you are hot. The problem is girls often think guys will be attracted to them if they have a career and a good CV. Wrong. Guys are attracted to hot women who have morals and values.
If a guy has a dream girl then he will not let her go. Ask yourself what messages you are putting out to guys?
There are billions of single guys on this planet and there is one for you. I promise. True love does exist. I know it for a fact.
I’m french and I met my ex girlfriend( she is Korean) in NYC. She came to France I went to Korea last summer. We spent a year and a half together but only 7 months face to face. We used to say that it was our destiny to meet each other we were such in love and already talked about getting married. Last fall I left Korea and went back to France and she started to work she promised me to wait for me. But I guess out of sight out of mind she started to realize that her life with me would be so hard since we don’t speak the same language and I’m not Korean (she said her father would have never agreed but I met him already and I was the first guy to enter into her house) and I don’t have a job yet and I’m not even in Korea. There was a guy around her so she thought that it would be easier to date this guy. She broke up with me (she cried a lot was so worried to make the wrong decision, still loved me…) and started to date this guy she said she still had feelings for me and told me that if it’s our faith to be together then we will. I still believe in it but I get tired so ‘I’m going to go to Korea for a year just to see if it was our destiny to be together. I know she is the one she said we are just the best match ever. But do I have to face the truth and let it go or just give a last shot?
You know girls are going to do and say all kind of things. It is a kind of testing even to see if their man will really stick it out. However, I believe you have to be really good about understanding if your girl believes in love that is forever and will be with you no matter what if you were married. This is important as you do not want to marry some psycho girl who flakes out on you after you are married. So understand where she is coming from in terms of ideals. Romantic love brings people together who should never be brought together.
When I was trying to get to know my wife she did everything she could do break up with me and get rid of me. She would hang up the phone, throw my stuff out the window, close the door on my face etc. But if I were to ask her did she believe in one true, one and only love with no limits, she would say yes, she believed it with all her heart.
I think what girls say and do is something different then what they believe and feel in their heart. What you have to do is discern what she has in her heart, at her core. Culture does not matter this is universal stuff. I married someone from across the seas and it is a positive not a negative. If she is not for you there are many billions of other girls that are single, the world is full of opportunity, however, if she if your other half and she believes this also you might want to give it a try. It is really what ideals she has in her heart. If she believes love can over come all problems, from money to culture to time. This is true love.
last year she spent 8 months without me even though she had a lot of men around her she chose me saying that her future was with me when i arrived in Seoul she looked at me with her bedroom eyes and in 10 minutes she kissed me and told me i love you so much. And now i’m certain that she still loves me but she is trying to convice herself that it’s impossible between us. I went to korea a months ago for an interview i saw her and she said it’s over i asked her do you still love me she said i don’t know. And a week later she said when you left i cried a lot and when i asked her you don’t love me anymore she said i don’t want to answer then i told her i’m not giving up on you she didn’t say anything. I don’t know i’m just gonna try to push the fate a bit even though i know i’ll probably never get her back. i guess Korean girls will always listen to their mind over their heart. Cause my ex never had the courage to face her father. maybe she wasn’t the right one but i still love her and i’ll keep trying until i’m too tired
Love?
Does not exist in my life that is the face I acknowledge some are main to be a lone for life, I’m not saying tthat true love doesn’t exist for everyone.
Just a fact that true,
watching good happy anime films full of emotion love keep mi moving on
My faith is seal to be alone and I accepted it, maybe next life.
I’m very happy for those whom have found true love wish all the luck from me.
Gomanasai
I do not even know what you are talking about. Love exists for everyone, it makes the world go around.
After 45 years and 17 years of marriage I now believe in true love. I, being married, wasn’t looking but now my life is upside down.
My question and my worry is – can she be my true love without her being mine?
She avoids the question, supposedly because i am married. But how do I know. I could make a very expensive decision and be left poor and alone.
I meant “without me being her’s”
Nearly all marriages, even happy ones, are mistakes: in the sense that almost certainly (in a more perfect world, or even with a little more care in this very imperfect one) both partners might be found more suitable mates. But the real soul-mate is the one you are actually married to. – J.R.R Tolkien
I dont believe it really exist. If it is existing.. why many people are sad? why we need to feel the pain of being alone?
Pain of being alone brings awareness to life. Being lonely is very painful and there is no person who does not feel this. But if you have faith in God you are never truly alone.
Once you find your other half, this pain is not an issue. You life changes.
Sometimes the pain of aloneness helps people be better people, more spiritual prepare themselves for their other half. Other times the pain of being alone drives people to unhealthy behavior. I do not think its healthy to be alone too long.
In the end, I think most people find their one true love.
What if, you connect with an acquaintance and through a series of conversations you both realize that you are the same soul in two different bodies, you fall in love, but he is married? His wife finds out, he decides to pursue therapy to make sure there’s no way to ‘save’ the marriage or see if he can ‘find what was once there’? That is what happened to me. I buried the thought of true love for so many years and only secretly began to wonder when I bumped into an old friend. He told me the beautiful story of Pygmalion, he bought me a star, wrote the beautiful verses of Plate and Aristotle. Not just a line, not words, it was a connection neither of us had ever experienced and had always known should be…and then, it all blew up. I look at the first evening star every night and wonder if he is/was my one true love. I feel so strongly that his is; and yet, I have no contact with him and wonder if he is looking at that star, too. I will not give up believing in my one true love. For, even though it may not turn out to be specifically him…the true ‘him’ that was meant for me cannot be far behind. Perhaps our meeting was to validate our private belief about true love. I will not give up believing, ever.
Remember that in life sometimes we are deceived by false light. If he is married I would respect that, and for sure there is someone else for you. If you were married would you want some girl tempting your husband away. I am not saying this to be mean at all. I just believe that marriage is sacred. I believe that you feel very strongly towards him, but if he is married then there must be someone else for you.
I am divorced and TRUST ME it is not in my values to ever be with a married men (although many have approached me). As you’ve said previously, we do, sometimes, marry the wrong person. He and his wife are a mismatch and always have been; I am not holding out any hope that he leaves her, it is not something I would wish on anyone, man or woman. I was just coming out of the same thinking that many of your writers have had — I thought for a very long time that true love didn’t exist. Then, just when I began thinking it good be true WHAM! this ‘affair’ smacks me between the eyes. Trying to figure out why God/the universe/fate woke my soul up in this way to the fact that true love exists. Yes, there is someone else for me. And he will find me, I know he shall….you believe that, too?
Do people who are meant to be always end up together?
That is a good question. We do not know. I think yes, but maybe if something is messed up they do not. I would like to be an optimist.
I have learned recently that true love is found inside yourself. Once you have truly achieved being comfortable in your own skin, you are happy. That natural happiness acts like a magnet to other positive people, drawing that true love even closer.
Hi, I read all your comments. Mine is a complicated one. I have been with this girl for 3 years till June 8th, 2010. We broke up yesterday(but not exactly). Am from India. I went to Singapore for my higher studies in January 2009 and we were doing great I should say. My love initially was due to pressure from my friends and loving a girl was exciting. As time went by, I started loving her more and we had a wonderful rapport. But from mid 2009, she has been having a crush on a classmate of her(who proposed to her when we got committed and she said NO). But from Mid 2009, she has been saying she has a crush on this guy(her classmate) and i was fully supportive and told her to get out of it by herself though I was tensed. And now after a recent class trip(3 days back), she said she .loves me no more and the 3 days she was with her(though she never spoke much to him), she has stopped loving me now and she says she doesn’t love him either but she is confused. What should I do now? Am all but crying. Have I not shown my true love for her? Have I been immature? Inspite of all these episodes, I still love her. We have always been frank and open in our relationship! What should I do? Am now meeting her in 2 hours time. I have never got a crush on anybody but I can’t imagine losing her. Before this trip, she had another trip some 10 days back and she told she has come over him and she loves me and after this recent trip, she again changes her mind. What should I do? All I can do is cry and hope she comes back to me. Am 23 and she is 21.
I am very sorry you are going through all this. I know you do not feel it, but you are both young and emotions at 23 are very intense and not tempered with the wisdom of time and experience. Therefore, it seems all wrong. Everything is really hard.
From her perspective she is 21 and even younger and girls are all emotions at 21.
I have no easy answers as I do not know you, her or your core beliefs. I know what I would do. I would be very straight and say either him or me. If she choose him I would move on and find someone better.
But I am very sorry again about this – remember what Shakespeare said “The course of true love never did run smooth”.
Do you think she will get back to me? And now I spoke to her on the phone and we have decided our relationship has broken down(we broke it up v.smooth). We both are single now. Am giving her the time and space. She always says I care a lot for her but she has not got the “true love” from me. So we are going to be friends again and I want her to be happy for the rest of her life. Am going to move on if she doesn’t select me. Am going to face whatever the result is going to be. I will be happy if she chooses me and I ll have my biggest achievement accomplished If I marry her.I still love her but we will be neutral to judge what we exactly want. Am more relieved now and am going to stay happy for the rest of my life. Thanks for your words and shall I contact you personally? Will help me big deal. Thanks again.
We have become friends again but we both still love each other which I can judge by our looks. But I want to be friends with her right now to realize the true love I have for her or to test myself, was it just infatuation.
Or is it the case of her testing or trying to bring out the real love I have for her? I can just love her and her only. No one else is coming into my mind. When I was with her the whole day, I enjoyed her company but now sitting at home hurts me a lot.
The biggest positive is that I have stopped crying and am coming out of the comfort zone( as we were always dependent on each other during our bad and good times) I want to be strong(not loving her) till I start loving her again. But I question myself is it just desperation I have to win her back gain or am trying to love her the way she wants me to? I have lot of questions like this coming in.
My initial months of love were due to peer pressure, excitement and then I started loving her. That is what led to our break up. I want everything to happen the opposite way(love her first, excitement in that order) if at all I love her again. But am sure that I ll never hate her.
From her perspective, She is also strong. We have broken up, she needs time to recover and she wants to love the person who loves her. Will I ever get back to her life? To be frank, I can’t think of marrying or loving another girl when she is around single.
What do you think will happen?
We finally broke up. Everything happens for the good of our own futures. God make her happy always and give her the strength to forget me when she is with her future love.
Finally “Love you kutima”. I always loved you and will still love you! Take care as I usually say before you go to bed.
Namaste/ Vanakkum Vignesh
Aap Kaise Hein? / Eppati irukkinga?
Vignesh, there was a great rabbi once who had what I consider the most infinite words of wisdom. He said, “Where your heart is, so your treasure also.” Women come and go in this life, but remember that God is always with you. Remember, there is always a treasure within your heart and no woman, man or angel can even take it from you.
I pray that you can overcome the hardship you face. God will find the woman your heart desires, but remember we must search for treasure on this earth. Nothing comes easy. However, never feel empty , as the greatest treasure is within you and no woman can take it from you or give it to you.
A majority of relationships involving attractive people in the western world, are based on outside appearences. It seems I don’t meet many attractive people in western world who can maintain a relationship for a long period of time. It is people who seek out a partner for their heart are the ones who retain their relationships forever. Outward beauty will soon fade away as our flesh becomes wrinkled, old and frail. The inner beauty of our hearts shall last forever and cancer and worms will not be able to penetrate a pure and beautiful heart.
Namastae/Vankkam Yonatan,
Am doing good(nalla irukane or mei teek hoon)by God’s grace. I have decided to wait for her hoping she wpuld realise my true love and come back to me. If she doesn’t come, I have to move on. And am still 23 and there are so many years ahead before I marry another girl before she comes back.
Am going to stay positive. I would say my first success is I have not spoken to her for 5 days now and am going to do that and love her the way I was earlier but by cutting the communication off. Hope she comes back to and I guess the bond becomes stronger after that. After reading what the situation I am in, what would have you done or do you think she ll come back?
I’ve been through the same, i know it’s hard however if you love her that much just let her go if she comes back then it’s meant to be otherwise, you’ll find someone better. I promise you.
I didn’t talk to my ex for 4 months and she emailed me about 3 weeks ago. She still has a boyfriend and i don’t know what does she expect from me. I keep in touch with her almost everyday. I don’t know if i’m gonna get her back but as soon as i get to korea i’m gonna tell her it’s me or him. And if it’s him then don’t contact me again and leave me alone with my own life. If she can’t stand losing me for good i hope she’ll choose me.
Otherwise i’ll move on. She told me that maybe she needed to be away from me to realize how perfect i was to her. I’m willing to forgive her already did actually. But it doesn’t mean she is gonna take me back i’ll just see in 2 months.
Courage Vignesh the pain moves away sooner or later but it does it’s a fact no matter how down you are right now, you’ll be better soon.
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