Ukrainian girls
Who is this page for?
- If you have an interest in meeting Ukrainian girls
- If you are looking for a Ukrainian girl to be your bride.
Why do I know what I am talking about with regards to Ukrainian girls?
- I am an American but Ukrainian roots.
- I am living in Eastern Europe and married to a beautiful Eastern European princess.
If you want to meet a Ukrainian girl for love and marriage then this page is for you. If you are player, there are better pages for you.
What I recommend to meet Ukrainian girls
What I would recommend to meet Ukrainian girls for love is go to Ukraine. You will meet the best Ukrainian girls on a trip alone. I prefer to rent an flat rather than a hotel as the prices are better. You do not need a visa for Ukraine. You just fly there and find a flat before you go or when you get there.
That is it. Ukrainian girls will find you. They are bright educated and have good values. See Ukrainian girls want to get married and have a family. This is not what women in the USA want. American girls put a premium on money. They are not secure with their identity and often cause American men heart ache. Ukrainian girls have values and like staying by their man.
I do not recommend a Ukrainian girls tour. I think that these are neither cost effective nor the best selection of women. They are more for the organizers.
You could also try free Ukrainian mail servers or internet dating to meet Ukrainian girls.
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Hello Admin,
I am very pleased that I found your website and it is very informative. I am a nice man born in the USA but my ancestry is Polish. Both of my parents were born and raised as young adults in Poland. I was brought up with all of their European cultures and I am very happy that they taught me to be a good and religious man. I could not have wished for more loving and caring parents and they have been very blessed!
My friends tell me that I am a very attractive man and youthful for my age. I am in my early 50′s and I have never been married. When I was a younger man I did not have a desire to settle down and get married. Now that I am getting older, I am wishing to have a nice loving wife. I have made up my mind that I don’t want to have an American wife because of their attitudes towards men and the emphasis that they place on their careers have turned me away from them.
Several years ago! I went on a romance tour in Ukraine and have literary been blown away by these lovely women. They are beautiful indeed, educated, intelligent and they are far removed by all of this feminist movement that we sadly have in the US and other western countries. Sir, to get to my point. I will be traveling to Odessa to meet a nice lady that I have been corresponding with for the past 6 months. I have to say that all things have been going very well! The lady is a widow and not divorced and I like the fact that she is not divorced because this in a way scares me much. She is very attractive, kind, sincere, smart, and has never asked me for anything that have lead me to become suspicious of her in any way.
My lady lives in Odessa and I made travel arrangements to meet her and spend the most time that I possibly can with her. I feel so good about her and I hope that the chemistry will all be there when we meet. I want things to work out well because I don’t want to waste more time to meet and get to know other women. When I get there and all things go according to plan what should be the next steps that I should take in order to solidify our realtionship? Should I propose and get engaged? I think that 6 months may not be enough time? Worse case scenario what if there is not enough chemistry should I just approach an agency in Odessa and just keep looking? Do you know anything about Odessa? I would appreciate any of your comments and suggestions.
Keep up the good work with your website. What is the best way that we can share thoughts, ideas and notes. All of my best wishes.
Sincerely,
Timmy
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Different girls of Ukraine
Hi Timmy, Great comment. I am very happily married in Krakow, Poland ( I am an American with Polish and Ukrainian roots) and have gone to Ukraine and Russia many times. My advice is this. Marry for love and spiritual values. I am very happy and everyday is filled with joy. If I married anyone else I would not have been happy. I meet my wife in less than a month of being here, but it took about 3 years to get married. I would not rush marriage. We were married in the Church. That is my advice. But everyone is different.
If you have Polish roots like I do you can get a green card for Poland. Very easy and quickly, by the way. Ukraine has some of the most beautiful girls in the world and the girls in Ukraine are educated and sweet, however, unlike Poland some are religious and some are not. The issue is Ukraine’s form of communism was Soviet, while Poland’s was not. Many Ukrainian girls say they are spiritual but are really Soviet girls, not feminist, but not religious in the sense that they live it with their hearts. Soviet girls(some girls that lived in the former Soviet Union) have in the back of their minds, a little bit of ‘how do I maximize or optimizes my situation’. Then work in their minds secretly for that goal.
Odessa is a Russian/Ukrainian city and it is highly traveled by western guys. Depending on your time I would also consider Western Ukraine like Lviv and Ternopil, Ukraine as these are very western in outlook but traditional in terms of values, Ukrainian Catholic. Western Ukraine is very different then Odessa for example. If you are looking for love and children then consider a younger girl. Maybe in her 30. But that is all up to you. But for me a girl who is humble religious and beautiful is what you want. You should feel, regardless of your age, you can get the happiness and love you deserve.
Consider some of the site I recommend, anyway let me know how you are doing and what your ideas are. Ukraine girls are in my opinion perhaps the best in the world.
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Ukrainian girls from Odessa and age difference
Hello Admin,
Thank you very much for your quick reply and all of your suggestions. I have never been to Poland and had many thoughts of going to Poland to look for a wife there. I want to avoid the Warsaw ladies because I think that they are too much westernized like here in the US but still maybe better than American women. I have not noticed there being any romance tours going anywhere in Poland. They don’t have any dating/agencies there in the bigger cities like they do in the Ukraine and Russia. I have some family that live in Poland but they are getting older now and they may not want to show me around like I would want them to. So I think that it may be easier to find a suitable lady in the Ukraine. I traveled to Ukraine several times and I have been in a few different areas. I agree with you that they are some of the most beautiful, loving and caring ladies in the world.
I came very close to plan a trip to around Lublin Poland and other cities and to avoid Warsaw but I settled on Odessa because I have a lady that lives there and we have been communicating for that past 6 months. She is 35 years of age and is a widow for some time. She has a lovely 16 year old daughter which is an ideal situation for me. I want to have a nice lovely wife but I don’t wish to have any children of my own. I want to except and love her daughter as my very own and I want us to become a happy family! There is a 19 year age difference between us and I asked my lady if she had any concerns about our ages and she said not at all! That she is not at all too concerned with the age and how handsome the man is. She is Orthodox and I am Roman Catholic I think of whether our differences in faith will make matters uncomfortable. I have not discussed this with her yet but I think that it can be a problem if we only make it a problem. I am willing to accept her the way she is. I just hope and pray that we will grow in love and we will live very happily. I will be leaving on my trip soon next month and I will let you know how things have progressed. I feel happy now and I am hoping for all the best. I hope that I made the right choices.
I appreciate any of your comments and suggestions.
Happy Father’s Day
Sincerely,
Timmy
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Timmy, Orthodox or Catholic in my opinion does not matter at all. Basically the same. Really. No bride or marriage trips to Poland (as in Ukraine) as Poland is a Richer country, it is EU. Ukraine is less western. Ukrainian women are more open to relationships to western guys I think. Ukrainian girls are less stress. Polish girls are a bit western, and more stress, but any Eastern European women is not stress compared to her American counter part. Ukrainian girls are more traditional. Given the fact that you do not want children of your own, she sounds great. I think she will appreciate you. Eastern European girls believe, like I do, in fairy-tale marriages in their hearts, however, deny it outwardly, Americans girls are the opposite.
Hi Admin
First of all, i would like to introduce myself i am Thai, from Thailand. In fact, i like Ukrainian girl very much. I would like to know how is impossible or possible that Asian guy can get marriage with Ukrainian girl. What they think about Asian guys?Please answer me.
My best regard
Phong
Excuse me, but…aren’t you ashamed of what you do? Even sometimes? Is it a market here that you are searching for “suitable” variants and in case you fail to succeed there are other options? Yes, Ukraine is famous for beautiful women. Historically, Kiev Rus was situated on the Ukrainian territory. Ukrainians have the same roots with Russians, but long-term mixture with invading nations (especially Turkish) resulted in the so-called heterosis effect and, according to some opinions, Ukrainians became even more beautiful.
It was also interesting to read your point of view (thought, nothing new for me).
What are you, western men looking for here? Beautiful housewife who will combine all features according to “all in one” principle? Good-looking, educated, interesting to talk, caring mother, loving wife, cooker, housekeeper, etc. Moreover, not so feministic to consider a compliment as a harassment. Convenient, isn’t it? Plus much younger…Plus it’s so fashionable nowadays to have a Slavic wife.
But…there’s one BUT. Have you ever asked yourselves why such women are interested in you? What’s extraordinary in you that they preferred you to the local men (who are attractive, just for information, + native mentality)?
Real love is too rare to become a rule…Yes, there are cases, the exceptional cases of happy international marriages, however, exceptions confirm the rule.
Unfortunately, our state is developing and many economical problems still exist. As in all countries there’s a certain percent of people ready to improve their life anywise. If such people want to live better they will achieve their objective by hedge or by stile. Being less intellectually gifted, they are smart enough to find another solution – international marriage. Do you, personally, respect people who are willing to relocate from their motherland just for wealthy life? But unfortunately, such cases create the certain reputation. Do you think you have chances to meet a real proud, self-confident and truly interesting in all aspects woman? The chances are miserable because she will not rush to the agency or to internet. Such women are on the other side of the moon. They live, work, make money, travel, communicate, meet friends and sometimes even marry foreigners but only for love.
Religions women…do you consider religious people better than others? Don’t you think that it depends on education and moral rules that differ individually? What was bad in Soviet way of life? What do you know about it to make such judgments? We know what family is and our children never leave old parents alone, we know what friendship is and we always help our friends in need, we are not used to place business and money above relations and we don’t rush to the “help chain” if we notice someone mistaken, we will talk to him like humans first. We will never understand you completely as you will never understand us.
By the way, education in the former USSR was on a very high level and that is why it’s usual when a girl with a model look can talk about chain reaction or protobiont theory. But, sorry, you will not meet them. You will go to Odessa (where already half of the world is prowling about) and meet whom you meet, then make fake opinion and the cycle will repeat.
Conclusion: I kindly ask you to stay away from our women, leave our genetic pool for us and try to find a common language with your feminists.
P.S. Did not meant to hurt your feelings and as I’ve already said, there are exceptions.
Source: marriage agency working experience + long experience of communication with people worldwide.
Regards,
Aspasia
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Aspasia, 1) “Leave our genetic pool for us” what are you talking about? sounds a little racist- besides – I am Ukrainian (and American). 2)The Soviet morality failed (consider the ends justify the means ethic). I think you would be hard pressed to find a morality without religion that will work because like Fyodor Dostoyevsky said ‘without God all things are allowed, why not lie cheat and steal if it is to your advantage.’ 3) All my friends that are married in Eastern Europe are happy including myself. 4) Ukraine is a great place and Ukrainian girls are beautiful, smart in my opinion make better wives than Western Europeans or American women.
“I kindly ask you to stay away from our women, leave our genetic pool for us and try to find a common language with your feminists.”
Aspasia,
It seems you are upset or angry that men are coming to your country. Sure you bring up good points. Some men should not come to your country if they are uneducated and crass. However you should tell your women not to marry or date any foreign men, if that is how you feel so much hatred against every foreigner.
In a way, I respect secular but stable people, than religious fanatics, that have no concept of science and evolution or even the basic tenets of their own religion that they espouse with such fanaticism. So I agree with you in this way.
But you show your ideas fairly quickly. You talk about “mixing”. Let’s not forget, Ukraine is one of the most mixed countries in Europe. I mean you were mixed in with Tartas, Mongols, Goths. Celts, and Slavics. So any other blood mixed in whether White or Asian into your dna will not radically change your gene pool, unless of course it is African-Black.
As for your wonderful Ukrainian men. Like every other Eastern European male, all they can do is treat you like bags. Go ahead stay with them. But then stop advertising to foreign men.
Hi Admin,
iam highly impressed with what your site has for serious and young men looking forward to find their beloved one in ukraine and other countries. By the way, this is karan from india and iam 25 and single. After reading a couple of your advices on this site and your non-racist and rational attitude, i would like to tell you that iam interesting in dating and marrying a ukranian female as i want a loving and devoted wife for whom i would not mind spending my whole life. What are your valuable advices you would like to give me as iam serious about it and want to start on searching a girl from this country. I have just read that you mentioned a couple of ukranian cities for the most beautiful girls. If you could suggest me some genuine stuff as to where i can find these women online and establish a contact with them, it would be very helpful on your part. I would sincerely wait for you reply. God bless u and keep up the awesome work.
regards,
karan kohli
Possibly I will break up someone heart if a say, I don’t want marry. May be because I am 23 years old and life is beginning. But i want contact these people from around the world to get new experience, travel and enjoy life. I never was outside Ukraine, but I believe there many good peoples in another ways of our planet. Peace.
Natalia, you should not get married yet! If you do not feel like you want to be with one person your whole life please wait. Marriage and love are too important to do it for guilt. If you want to experience life and other cultures, I think the world is full of opportunities.
Natalia, Ukraine is a great place by the way.
Слишком много хочется сказать про эту страну, в которой нет будущего, но, пожалуй, не буду портить никому впечатления. Стране все равно выживу я или умру, буду я работать на овощебазе укладчиком овощей на три кучки или хозяином казино…страна никак не поможет выбрать вектор развития, помочь для начала финансово в достижении каких-то целей. Может быть “трава за чужим забором” не всегда зеленее, но ухаживают за ней явно лучше
Natalia, do not worry, Ukraine will be a great country. Right now you see it from one side. Ukrainians are smart and hardworking. I know my family came from Ukraine. However, the economy is not like the USA for example. But its not like Africa or India on the other hand. When I was growing up Ireland was very poor, they only grew potatoes but now they are the riches country in Europe. You will see. Ukrainians,including the middle class will get rich in the next ten years. Nothing wrong with jobs like farm work either. Look I had a masters degree from a top school in the USA and I was doing work like this. This is normal for people who have not yet like ten years experience in the work place. Ukraine is a great place and you sound like a very bright hard working Ukrainian girl who will go far in life.
Hello!
Admin, do you realize the difference between patriotism and …? You seem to be an educated man to know that. Every nation will start worrying when such “women hunting” is on-going.
2) There is no Soviet or non-soviet morality.The morality is a complex of certain principles. There are “religious” people who lie and cheat and there are atheistics who have high moral ideals. By humilitating atheists you humilitate millions of people (whose women, by the way you are promoting here). It looks like religious intolerance.
3) “All my friends that are married in Eastern Europe are happy including myself”. Sure they are (as i mentioned above – free housewife). And all my friends are unhappy with your men and stay there only coz of children. Shicking truth, isn’t it? And they are afraid to tell that. Moreover, you are of Ukrainian origin and have a little another mentality, for your wife things should be easier.
4) “Ukraine is a great place and Ukrainian girls are beautiful, smart in my opinion make better wives than Western Europeans or American women.” Perfect. Whom will Western European and American women leave with?
I understand that it’s your site, business or whatever else. And nobody will convince each other, though I decided to express my opinion to show you, guys, the other side of the medal.
Spatula,
Have you read my comments or just that poor phrase about “genetic pool” you all cite there? Metaphor it was. Such a linguistic method, or you think I’ll start genetic expertise? As for “stupidity” – it’s harassement already (I know how you like that word), you see how you behave? Eastern European men don’t tell me such things, to be true my western and even far eastern friends also don’t do that. Right at the beginning of my 1st post I devoted all the 1st paragraph to the mixing of the nation. Did you read from behind?
As for our men – our men are our men, the women who talk badly about their own people are not worth respect. As for “punching bags”, how do you know, I wonder? And do you imagine the level of a woman in that case? And I know from my friend from US that her husband cheats her and she’s crying every day and cannot return. So should we stick labels to all our males and to your males?
As for Ukrainian women who advertise – yeah, that’s their right to advertise and that’s your right to come. IMHO if there were happy marriages only – god bless them. But most males come her to relax and tell rubbish about serious relations though hang in the clubs. I worked at the marriage agency. I quit coz it looked like slave-trading. Men come to 50 women at once! I understand when 2 people fall in love, they have a feeling, they cross borders and they meet. And when a man is looking for a woman only coz it’s fashionable or coz all friends have such it’s…I’ll try to be polite…not good.
Just my opinion.
P.S. Do not worry, as I wrote in my 1st comment, there are many women left, they are nice and even not silly (Dostoyevsky is our school program, by the way, I know you like him), so come.
Aspasia, Thank you for your comments on Ukrainian girls.
The world is made up of people who are idealistic and non-idealistic. You are not idealistic (although you are very bookish, which is a positive thing).
I think Soviet mentality has such an influence on people in the east that some people there do not even know they have this pessimistic approach to life. And if someone is idealistic they will find fault and try to bring those people to their level.
I do not put down non-believing girls, it is just that, these “Soviet girls” are ‘swindling themselves out of their own lives’ (Mortimer J Adler).
These “Soviet girls” (many are beautiful and have many paper university degrees) are just a name for Ukrainian and Russian girls who say ‘no’ to a basic trust in an ultimate meaning and reality to life.
It is my opinion, not based on race certainly not, but rather ideas. The world is a war of ideas (Auther Schopenhauer)
If you marry a Soviet girl or a Western girls your life will be trouble. Therefore,I highly recommend men marry a girl who will not always complaining, being negative and who walks around feeling like a victim.
There are many good Ukrainian girls in Ukraine, especially Western Ukraine like Lviv.
Many people in Ukraine for example, who stayed true to their faith, may not be perfect in actions, but there is something about them, something that makes them beautiful, maybe it is because they say, ‘yes’ to lthe meaning of life.
These Ukrainian girls believe that we are not just ‘gypsies living on the edge of an alien world, a world that is as deaf to our music as it is to our sorrows’ (Albert Camus). Life has a meaning beyond the pain of this life. This is girl of humility and faith is a girl who will be a joy to be around. While the Soviet girls are tempting and their lips are sweet like honey, but will give you a lifetime of grief.
I see it as an outsider that who lives in Eastern Europe.
So I maintain there are “Soviet girls” and “idealistic Ukrainian girls”.
If you say your friends are not happy in marriage I would suggest you get other friends. My friends are, both men and women. There is an Ukrainian saying ‘if you start to hang out with a women with a limp, you will start to limp yourself’.
I believe in love. I believe that western girls are generally pumped with ego and pride, and there is not way I would marry someone who lacks humility. To be married means to serve the other person, both men and women, 100% and 100%. It means to be loyal in your mind and your heart, and not to even think about another option. I know many Ukrainian girls who think this way. And for the Ukrainian women who do not think this way, they are cheating themselves our of their own lives.
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I only want to ask you something, and I hope you can help me to solve my doubt, I was thinking to go to Ukraine for vacations, actually I live in Mexico city and I´m 25 years old, so, how much money do I need to be a couple of weeks on Ukraine? i mean, not to be hostage of a luxury hotel. a youth hostel l or something like that, talking about American dollars, is expensive to live in that country? and, do i need a visa? or just my passport. thanks a lot.
For Americans you do not need a visa but check the Ukrainian website for Mexico. I think if you stay in youth hostels or ‘Babcia homes’, some older ladies private house and eat Ukrainian food from the market (I always do this), you need lets say 20 dollars a day. If you want a hotel etc, you need 100 dollars a day. You can get old Ukrainian hotels in many cities cheap. I think it depends if you are going there to see Ukrainian culture or meet and chat with Ukrainian girls. I would stay in the cheapest place. Maybe chat with girls before you go and have them help find a private apartment. Even a students apartment. I do not know but if you want to meet Ukrainian girls you can, they do not care about money and if they do, I would not care about them.
I am Ukrainian and lived in US for the last 5 years and after dating several American guys I realized that there is nothing better than being with the guy that has same values, morals, mentality and came from the same background
Talking about American women are not the greatest wives in the world we shouldnt forget about American guys since they all grew up in the same society and were tought same things… I wouldnt call them best bf in the world either. They are ok and i fell in love with couple of them but… guys that truly appreciate and value woman come from Eastern Europe and East. American guy look at me as a equal partner and its cool as long as we r friends but as for husband i prefer European guy; yes they might be a little tough sometimes but guys should be strong, tough and willing to take care of their woman…not partner…
so smart, handsome, young EUROPEAN guy hit me up!)) im waiting))
You are right on. American guys that are WASPs are not a great match for a Ukrainian girl. I am an American, but have Ukrainian/Polish roots. I never got along with any American girls as their values were very different than mine, even though I was born in the USA. However, Eastern European girls are great. I am who understand the history and language of Ukraine. Ukrainian literature, treat women with respect and let them walk first through the door, I love Ukrainian food of course and have good values. American girls in contrast are hyper consumptive and not humble. Ukrainian girls are salt of the earth, good values and beautiful people.
Hello administrator, I am planning to travel to Ukraine, I like the culture, please could you recommend me a few serious dating website,
regards
Santo
If you want to meet Ukrainian girls, if you are brave, walk up to them on the street. You will meet the best ones while you are in Ukraine. However, having a few contacts before you get there is something I also recommend. Here are some free online sites you can meet Ukrainian girls. vkontakte.ru and love.mail.ru. These are Russian and Ukrainian sites for Ukrainian people. I think on my website I list a few other ones that are only Ukrainian so look around at my related posts to Ukrainian girls.
Admin, it was getting more and more interesting to answer you comments (you are well educated too that also makes me happy). Why I’m writing in the past…It seems we are talking about different things. I’m telling that “homo sum, humani nihil ame alienum puto”. Citing famous people only shows users that you are citing famous people…sapienti sat. You know perfectly that there are opposite phrases to each of those chosen and also by famous people. I don’t think suitable to mention them here unless needed. Again, that division for “soviet” and “non-soviet”… According to your description, “soviet” are realistic and proud to live in their country even in hardships and “non-soviet” are idealistic and are looking to the first opportunity to emigrate. Weird also, coz soviet ideas are considered extremely idealistic and even maximalist.
Is the person who is searching for any way how to leave Motherland (instead of trying to bring some benefit to its development) worth respect? Do you really think that women of 25-30 years all fall in love with old guys of 50??? Here male to female ratio is less than 9:10 simply
As for my friends, your assumption is unsubstantiated. All my friends (those married to Americans as well) have PhD degree, not less. They are not gold-diggers or silly women who cannot find a sponsor at home and rush abroad for a better life. Maybe that’s why my friends are not satisfied with their husbands’ attitude to them? Because they are not speechless toys forever grateful for “saving” them? As for your satisfied friends, I will not judge about their mental and moral characteristics as you do.
Moreover, I wonder, how do you know that Western Ukrainian girls are more religious and better wives??? Gossips? Please, don’t give people false information.
P.S. Just for information…how do you, a married man, know such intimate facts about girls all over the world? Even Turkey? Let’s guess…Option 1 – you have a representative sample of 100 girls from each country whom you tried (because only in this case it can be valid). Option 2 – you’re spreading false unproven information based on gossips and impressions of a couple of friends.
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Aspasia, Western Ukraine is the heart of Ukrainian culture, language and faith, the girls I know from Western Ukraine are totally different than Eastern Ukraine. I have ties to western Ukraine of course as my family is from the Ternopil Oblast.
This is how I can write about this girls for love. I have traveled the world, have a few passports and speak a few languages. I am not saying I am Jason Bourne
But it would suffice as to say I have seen a lot of the world, Russia and Ukraine many times and have family there of course. I have been or lived in almost any other country you might mention. I live now both in American and Europe. I am not proud of my past, however, I have some wisdom accumulated with these experiences.
We can argue until we are blue in the face about life philosophy. I guess there is a chasm between us that can never be bridged, a measureless gulf.
Your friends are not happy as they are these Ukrainian women who do not believe or know love beyond themselves. They are hopeless arrogant prideful women liberation feminist women. It is true. Sorry to be rude as I know you are a respectful person. No mean to offend you but I want to warn people reading this that these women might be beautiful but are danger. How often we confuse beauty with virtue. They are the worst type of woman to marry. A girl with a PhD that thinks she is a modern educated women, and will destroy her own happiness and the happiness of her family who she promised to be loyal to. She is a liar and will never taste true love only self love.
On the other hand a friend of mine is a Phd from Western Ukraine and she is an angel on earth. If she was married she would not ever complain about her husband. To do so is to betray the promise you made.
Your friends are pathologically amoral. If they make a promise in marriage they should never ever think or talk bad about their husbands. They are lost. You can jump up and down and say I am judging these Ukrainian girls but its true. If you promise yourself in marriage, it is 100% for the rest of your life, because you made a serious promise. PhD means piled higher and deeper, you know that.
In marriage it is not ok to talk about your spouse to other people or to look at other women or men or flirt or check other people out or put your career ahead of your marriage or keep your own money. You should not complain about your spouse or be unhappy with them. Love is all or nothing and a gift.
Women that talk about their husbands are weak, like men who look at girls or cheat.
If a woman does not want to be conquered and have her world turned upside down and saved from her own selfish pride, it is better to leave such a girl for she is not a women but a creature bloated with self love. Love is about total surrender for a man and a woman.
I would be very shocked if you told me you were happily married.
Just answer me this question: What is love to you?
For me:
Love is the greatest power,
a great and complete good that desires nothing else.
It bears every hardship as though it were nothing, and renders
all bitterness sweet and acceptable.
Those who lack love faint and fail.
Love is not fickle and sentimental,
nor is it intent on vanities.
Love sees nothing as impossible,
Love is humble. It is neither soft nor light, nor intent upon vain things. It is sober and chaste, firm and quiet, guarded in all the senses. Love is subject and obedient.
Love is always trusting and hoping even when it is distasteful to be in love, for there is no living in love without sorrow. Anyone who is not ready to suffer all things and to stand resigned to the will of the Beloved is not worthy to be called a lover.
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You see, Admin how nicely you started to write now? I see the great difference. I understand that now I give you a perfect opportunity to promote your site arguing with me (you are a “good guy” thinking of love only and saving poor western guys from their terrible women and I’m a bad communist or whom do you consider me, who prevents you from saving Eastern princesses from the dragons). Well. Nice game you propose. If I had such a website, I would defend it as fiercely as you do, be sure. It’s business matter so it’s vital, right? You are clever enough to say you are doing it just for charity, because those banners say “No, it’s business”. But before you were not so human. If the messages you write now were in your articles…hm…would I waste time here? But it is “girls for love”. Why not “for marriage” or for “serious relations”? Love for females is not the same as for males. Not to spread false information, I’ve carried out a survey among my male friends worldover. They all associate “girls for love” with something like girls for [censored]. That’s how it looks like. That was the matter.
As for Western Ukraine – going to the church does not mean much. The person can go and then do disgusting things. Or you look at the package only, not at the contents? But I will not tell you all the shocking truth, because I don’t like to discuss the inner problems of the country.
As for my friends, why theories again? Have I ever told they complain me? Simply the husband did not let one of them take a child to see his grandparents. He refused and that’s all, without any reason. Sure, I know that because I had to meet them in the airport. And another guy, a perfect guy as you described, took a perfect wife. But the day before marriage she received a marriage contract (by the way, if you speak about love, trust, common money – why do you all use contracts, ah? Trust maybe…heh). So, I was the one to translate this contract for her. If she signed it, she would become a slave. Thanks god, she had 1 day to ask the lawyer for advice and correct the agreement. I tell you the facts I saw and the women you try to pour dirt on are really kind and highly moral, yes and smart too. If you prefer deaf, blind, dumb women, so admit it and don’t mask it under “high morality” of such women. Real love appears when people value each other soul and spirit, they are independent people but they are attracted to each other and respect each other’s opinion and it is really exciting and interesting. It’s the pleasure of communication.
The question of love is a universal question, minds much greater than ours could not find the answer to it, so should I write my humble opinion here?
P.S. Admin, you know my kindness, and I don’t wanna you have a stroke saying I’m happily married. That’s why I’ll keep silent. I’m Aspasia. You don’t answer my questions, at least you choose what to answer and avoid what you don’t want to answer. It’s boring, Admin. I’m leaving your site for my dear husband Pericles and my dear friends Socrates and Protagoras. Don’t miss me much.
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You have so many points, I can not reply to all of them as I am working this evening but I read them and considering them. And if I do not reply it is most likely I agree with you. I really enjoy the exchange and again please do not take offense. But I write this blog to help others find love but also its a lot of fun, only losely connected to business. I have other blogs and make money other ways, but this is my favorite blog now as love, Ukraine and Russia are topics of interest to me.
I have a general view that love is all or nothing. I also think that people should stop thinking they have to marry the person next to them, they can marry a person from the other side f the world if this is their other half. I also think people need to be aware before you say I do to someone then you need to know what that other person thinks of love.
About me being fair for men and women. I think my ethics are the same. Men when they are married should not look at women. They should live with humility and patience and not talk about their wives to their friends. I do not like it when men go to a pub for a drink with their friends or watch the game and need time off from their wives. Your wife should be your fun, not the guys. I think husband and wife should be together. Ideally the man should not look at a women he has not been properly introduced to.
Men should strive to understand and respect their wives. He should always say I am sorry and admit wrong and humble himself to his wives needs as long as it puts the greater good of the marriage first.
I do not think two people are independent in marriage, I think they are interdependent.
About the contract thing, that is not marriage. Love is all or nothing. I believe trust is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. That is some freak of a guy, I would say, have a good life. It is crazy all these prenuptials, money and the idea that if things are bad you can escape your marriage.
About the grandparent issue, kids need to see grandpa and babcia – so I think she would have to clarification on why not.
People should ask all these question early on in a relationship. Ukrainian girls are beautiful and many men are tempted by their beauty and lose their senses. Men get intoxicated my the beauty of Ukrainian girls.
Women and men need to ask the question, what is love to them and talk about it. If they have different conceptions move on. If a person has conditions or limits, I would drop them like a bad habit.
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“If you want to meet Ukrainian girls, if you are brave, walk up to them on the street.”
You crazy idiot, you cannot do that in any country. They will get freaked out, especially if the person looks like a creep show.
“Eastern European men don’t tell me such things”
That is because they use fist of fury.
You mentioned genetics and trying to make ukraine into some homogenous country when like any other eastern european country it is very mixed along the blood.
As for 25 year old woman in love with 50 year old man. You are correct. No such real over there. If it were 40, then believable if the man is in good shape.
I placed an advertisement in Ukrainian newspapers in 2003 and I received a lot of replies. I met a girl from Rivne and we traveled extensively. It lasted for 6 years but she missed her family and her city so much and I simply couldn’t find suitable work there in Rivne. Now I am ready to start again.
Can you please recommend a method of advertising in Ukrainian newspapers. A Google search shows prices between $90 and $250 for exactly the same service – - so what’s the best way to do it please?
Just one more thing – I recommend that the age difference should be not too big. Cultural differences between me as an Australian, and her as a Ukrainian were huge. When the age difference was added in too, it eventually took its toll. Use your common sense. If it seems too good to be true, like she is drop dead gorgeous and you’ve got a beer belly, and she’s 20+ years younger than you – get real! You know it probably cant last. By the way that is not a description of me or my experience!
So please – advice on how to place an advert in a Western Ukrainian newspaper.
Newspapers seem old fashion when you have the internet. But It is actually a very good idea as you will meet Ukrainian girls who do not use the Internet a lot. Well If you can travel to Lviv, this is the best way and simply walk into the newspaper office, or call them or write their online equivalent. This is what I do if I need something. About a job, you can of course teach English.
Why not try some of the websites I recommended like mail.ru or www.vkontakte.ru and screen for Western Ukraine. There are also so Ukrainian classifies online I think I have mentions one of my Ukrainian girls posts.
Let me know how you do as your advice of a physical newspaper to find Ukrainian girls is interesting.
Aspasia,
You are getting a little defensive of your women and I understand that. If Ukrainian men were coming to America in hordes and taking pretty girls back to Ukraine with them I wouldn’t be happy about it. But the way you frame the situation doesn’t tell the full story. Like it’s all on us, like we are hauling your women out of the country slung over our shoulders… The truth is you should ask yourself – why the women are so willing to leave? The men of your country just aren’t able to provide for them as well as we can. It’s human nature to seek advantage for your progeny for men and women everywhere. BTW – feel free to come to America and try to convince our women to come back to Ukraine with you. Best of luck!
Hello Admin,
I’ve met a girl on a datingsite called “Hotrussianbrides.com”. She’s from Odessa, but the site wants to make money and I don’t want to waste my money. So, do you know a agency in Odessa called “Orchid”. Or do you have connections there? I’ll be glad if you help me. I must reach her, if you could find the adress of the agency.
Thanks in advance
I do not, you say you meet her, in what way, if you have any information on her like her real name or anything , you can look her up on vkontakte.ru or odnoklassniki.ru – I can not imagine she would be on that website and not have an account on one o these two free Ukrainian – Russian social networking sites.
I live in North Dakota but will be moving to Washington this year,I’m very interested in going to Western Ukraine(you mentioned the Western part of Ukraine)to meet that special woman and eventually uniting in marriage!I have read all of your articles but was hoping you would have more info?Is it possible to email you directly or call you? Also,when will you be coming out with the advanced learning course on speaking Ukrainian?I am very serious about this adventure and need your help!
I am curious as to why you feel that there is a marked difference between western and eastern Ukrainian women? I have heard of large differences between women living in metropolitan areas and smaller cities or towns, but not east to west.
thank you
Jason
Ukrainian girl differences
I am Ukrainian American and live in Poland. I have been to Ukraine many times and in my opinion there is a reasonable difference between Eastern Ukrainian girls and Western Ukrainian girls. I think there is a less difference between city and countryside girls but they do exist. Western Ukrainians are European, Ukrainian speaking and religious. Eastern Ukrainian girls are more like Moscow girls.
The reason the Kiev or city versus countryside differences are less than you think is because a city like Kiev is made up of mostly girls with some connection to the countryside as they came to the big city for work.
My experiences in Ukraine
To answer your question why or how specifically, I will give you and example. When I was in Kiev I had Russian speaking Ukrainian women who tried to get money from me (from Dnipropetrovsk). I have meet many Russian speaking Ukrainian ladies who did not care about their religion, more interested in marrying a rich guy.
In Western Ukraine I have never meet anything like this. On the contrary the opposite, that is women would be insulted if you offered them money. Women in Lviv I have meet are very idealistic. I can tell you many experiences of generosity I have received from Western Ukrainians.
My partiality towards Lviv
Now there are my own personal experience and might not be true. There regional difference are not better or worse just different cultural influences. However, given my experience and background you can choose to believe what you want. I might be partial as my family came from Western Ukraine.
I would love to hear what others think about the difference in Ukrainian women.
Admin, do you think being Jewish travelling around traditional places in Western Ukraine is ok? I didn’t realize you are a Ukrainian American. That means me and you share some genes, as I am Ukrainian/Russian Jew. Anyhow, religion aside, I like to know our feelings of traveling to traditional parts of Ukraine, such as Lviv.
I also would love to go visit my grandmother’s old village, I am not sure if it is in that are aof Ukraine. All I know, is that all the people there were killed in WWII, and she was one of the few who escaped before then. However, I would love to see some of my heritage and where my ancestors lived for hundreds of years.
Please tell me if this is a myth or wrong, but I was reading that Ukrainian village girls are bit more on plump side and not so “sexy” as the girls from the city. Perhaps, they are not so wealthy and cannot afford to eat healthy diets, such as people from the more cosmopolitan cities like Kiev or Odessa? Also , I hear the attire in the villages are not so upscale, more like traditional dresses or jeans, t-shirt, than the very well-dressed ladies in the cities?
Of course, I would take a modest girl that doesn’t have so much beauty over a beautiful sexy one who is cold-hearted and unloving.
I am eager to hear your honest opinion.
You have to go there and see. That is what I recommend at this point. You have read what I wrote about Ukrainian girls. What are you so afraid of? Life is an art and not a science. No one has all the answers. My question is why have you not spend a month or so there? If you are serious about finding love, take charge of your life and find your love. Do not calculate every step. Life is short and you are dead a long time.
Gez Louise. What is the big deal about spending a month in Ukraine. Are you scared of your boss and the time off? Are you scared someone might not like you there and call you names? In my experience it would not happen, not a chance.
But so what? Ukrainian girls and all girls go for guys with a sense of adventure. How are you going to rescue any princess from their castle and slay their dragons if you are shackled by your own dragons, if you have this planning and calculating attitude towards life? Just take a trip to Ukraine next month or something or start chatting online with some Ukrainian girls on the sites that I have recommended.
Sorry for all that.
Thanks admin.. YOu certainly have a way with words, that is enticing. Well, being Jewish, there is a bit of stigma about going to Eastern Europe, especially Ukraine, Poland, etc. We are bit afraid of anti-semitism. I read time to time articles about neo-nazi gatherings, synagogue and grave vandalisms. However, I know the news blows things out of proportion. I won’t deny the existence of anti-semitism, but I am sure that a majority of people are not racis t. Seeing, that I am Messianic Jew, I have a bit of flexibility since I do live somewhat as a Christian.
However, you are right at about life.. I have ventured to Africa nad other dangerous places and I am sure as long as I don’t cause trouble, visiting a place like Ukraine or Russia should not be too dangerous for me. I have almost lost my life in the past and I know how fragile life can be.
I am more than ready to fight dragons and find my Ukrainian/Eastern Euro princess.. Its true, the worst dragons of all, seem to be the ones that cause us to become faithless and fearful, which prevents us from achieving our dreams.
As I said, I do have some Ukrainian blood and want to visit my grandmother’s village and experience some of my history. I know that I wanted to go visit where my grandmother was born in Ukraine and my grandfather’s father was born in Russia.
RIght now, I don’t quite have the money and I am stuck in a lease.. However, I think in 1 year, I will maybe make a journey to Eastern Europe. I guess some other I know tell me not to go, but I don’t think they themselves have went and are mostly speaking out of ignorance.
If you do not have the cash now to go to Ukraine, start chatting up Ukrainian girls online. I think you will see no problems with the issue you talked about, and if you did,you do not want to be with those girls anyway. Money, it takes nothing as Ukraine is cheap. If you do not make a lot I understand. I would recommend renting an apartment there, not a hotel as it costs a lot. I understand people can not give up their lives. So even a 2 week or 10 day vacation will do. But if you can give up your life, you can go got Ukraine and teach English and live an upper middle class life, with the exception of the visa issue.
Thanks Admin for the advice. I will definitely look at it.. I am paying so much for my rent right now, because I had to move back to the city. My job is also horribly demanding and I don’t have much free time now. I and my father have small family business and I have so much responsibilities, I never get paid vacation, LOL.
Anyhow, I am overdue for a vacation. I was thinking maybe in a year, I would get a cheaper place so that I can not lose so much if I do long-term travelling.
I am thinking the biggest killer though will be plane-fare and hotel/apartment rent.
Do you know the best way to get a cheap plane ticket to Ukraine? What would you estimate the cheapest round-ticket fare from like Seattle, WA (west coast) to Ukraine would be?
Also, if I rented an apartment for 2 weeks in a decent area, how much would the weekly fare be?
Is high speed internet, like 2Mbps+ connection available in Ukraine? If I have access to high speed internet and VOIP I can practically live anywhere, as long as the government doesn’t kick me out, that is my visa expires.
I have a large apartment in the center of Krakow, Poland’s old town and pay 350 dollars a month. But I have the insiders price. In Lviv, Ukraine, you have to find the insiders price. I do not have immediate advice on that. I know worst case you can stay at the Hotel Lviv for about 20 dollars a day, its not bad, I stay there and it is in the center on the old town. You will not find the best prices always on the Internet as the hotels that they have on websites are western hotels. If cash is an issue you want to stay in a Babcia house, for about 1 dollar a night or a youth hostel for about 7 dollars a night or a Ukrainian hotel like I mentioned for about 20 dollars. If you are serious then as you get closer to th date I can guide you.
Internet do not worry, you can go to an internet cafe
Plane price will cost as much as you want it too. If you need door to door service it will cost more. If you fly to the UK and connect to Warsaw and take a train then to Lviv it will be cheaper. You can even take a bus from London, very cheap. Its all up to you.
If you are going to take a trip why not beg your dad for a month off?
You can stay for 3 months visa free, then you need to cross the boarder again and get a stamp for another 3 months and then that is it. If you teach at a school often they can help.
Dear Admin,Firstly I should like to point out that I’m an exceptional case,and at risk of sounding bombastic must “Blow my horn on certain points”
I’m a 63 year old man.I’m a well educated attractive,courageous,altuistic,charming & kind that
that is desperate to meet & marry a woman that has a child or children. As I’m very much into modern day culture,I seem to attract alot of very young girls that are far far too young in their 20s. I suppose you could call me the Envy of all dirty old
men,”BUT I”M NOT THAT TYPE.” Although I’m English my grandfather came fom Zhitimire Uk. I find Ukrainian women extremely charming.attractive & educated. My hope is to meet a younger female in Odessa that is maybe trapped in bad marriage situation,fall in love have a child & possibly live between the Ukraine and Denmark.I’m mildly reigeous.
Any Advise gratefully recieved.
Hi Nigel, you know what my advice is, go there. Travel and get to know Ukraine. There are many older women with children and no children that would love to meet a decent man like you. However, I think 20s might be too young, I think love has no limits but like a woman in her 40s or 50s might be better suited, don’t you think. I have no idea why you waited so long for all of this. But it does not matter. All that matters is today. If you speak many languages you have a lot going for you. Money does not matter. So my advice is to take many trips and spent time there. If you are in the UK it is only a hop, skip and a jump away.
Just noted spelling mistakes,so used to computer
spelling correction + I speak 5 languages so I get a little confused at times.
Forgot to say I’m a Biologist and not too wealthy.
Regards Nigel
Hello Admin.. Thanks for your advice on the subject. I just talked to a Jewish girl who said she visited Ukraine and really loved the people there. She had a non-Jewish Ukrainian boyfriend, for a while, as well. She was showing me some of her Ukrainian friends. I was shocked at how beautiful they were. I was thinking most of these pretty girls I see on mail-order bride sites are just fake models posing to lure people to the sites.
Well, there is no way I will be able to travel until next year, so for now I will just educate myself as much as I can. The city I will be living has a large Russian population and maybe I can try to learn some RUssian in the meantime, so when I travel, I will not be such an ignorant foreigner.
It sounds like from what you say, you can spend 6 months in Ukraine without much hassle. That should be long enough to get a good feel for the country and to meet some decent people. My goal of course is not just to do wife hunting, but to try to adapt and mingle with the culture. As I said, I am cross-cultural in many ways.
As time for my journey draws closer, I will ask you more serious questions. As for now, I am just setting some goals for the near future and doing some investigating. I’ll let you know when I get more serious and getting closer to wanting to buy my plane ticket.
I know many will go to Ukraine, wanting the more educated, skimpy clothing wearing, super model types. However, I probably rather find a good church girl who dresses modestly and has her mind set more on family than career. Some men admire women in a bikini; I, however, admire those Orthodox women wearing their coverings to church. I am not sure what type of stigma I will face marrying a religious girl from Ukrainian or Russian Orthodox church.
Hello Admin,when will you be coming out with the learning course on speaking Ukrainian?
Working on it as we speak. Right now I am waiting on the artist for the pictures. Most programs have just photos, I choose to hand draw all images, which take a lot of time So at this juncture the Ukrainian program will not be out until summer.
Hi I’m very interested on a free web site to meet Ukranian Girl I live in Sevastopol but due my work
I hardly ever have time to go out
I been here for about half a year and no luck
help.
Try some of the countless sites I have recommend on my site from vkontakte.ru to mail.ru, but you have no excuses if you live in Crimea. I can not believe it unless you do no like to talk to Ukrainian girls. That city is crawling with the hottest chicks.
Hello,
I am going to Ukraine next month, but I just ran into your blog and wanted to ask you for the name of your website. I like your advice. Please write! Thanks!
Where are you going in Ukraine?
Hey guys! I am a Ukrainian girl! I can answer the question about Ukrainian girls and Ukraine. If u have any question, write me.
Hi Aliona
I am US citizen coming to Ukraine very soon and would like to find a nice Ukrainian girl.
Hello Aliona, I have lots of questions.. You have an email?
Welcome to the West of Ukraine:)))
believe me, I am a girl and I live here.
the best girls are here
If you want to meet a girl for true love Western Ukraine.
admin, я з Чернівців) якщо Ви з Тернопільської області, то ми сусіди))
чиста правда про різниця між західними і східними дівчатами в Україні…
P.S. запрошую в Чернівці) теж дуже гарне місто))
Thank you very much for your kind words and invitation. You know there is a difference between Western Ukraine and Eastern Ukraine.
What is the difference between Eastern and Western Ukraine girls?
Western Ukrainian are very different in my experience then Eastern Ukrainian girls.
Western Ukraine is western leaning, that means very European, educated cultured, Ternopil has been called the last city in Europe. The people are religious and democratic. Almost all voted for Yulia Tymoshenko who wanted to bring Ukraine to NATO and the EU and get Russian troops off Ukrainian soil. The Eastern Ukraine wants to be more of a satellite of Moscow. The women are more like Russian girls, not Ukrainian girls. Know the difference. Eastern Ukraine is Russian post soviet ideas of money and values can be compromised.
Hi,
I am an Indian corresponding with a Girl from Eastern Ukraine. I feel that romancing girls from Ukraine and Russia is like walking a minefield. It is easier to climb Mount everest than finding that right woman in Ukraine or Russia. Can any one help?
Why do you paint such a picture of Russian dating? What has been your experience?
Interesting site and interesting topics. Thank you Admin for the opportunity to read about your experiences. I have a business venture that will lead me to Kiev, mid-July. It will be a very short stay (5 calendar days), but I will take in as much as possible. As for me, I am a 42 divorced male with a graduate degree and better than average looks. I am open to the opportunity to meet women during my stay, but I also realize my limited duration will lessen my chances. Do you recommend any places of particular that may give me better chance at meeting single women?
Thanks in advance!
You have a good chance, women are everywhere and are not like the USA. Five days is not a lot of time but I would get out and interact as much as possible, in normal places like the center, Independence square and the shopping malls. That is what I would do.
This looks like an interesting forum. I would really appreciate some valuable information from the admin and the Ukrainian girls from here.
I am an Indian currently doing Masters in UK. At one time I got interested and logged onto a Ukrainian dating site. I’ve indeed to my surprise found some real beautiful girls. I’m already in conversation with a Ukrainian girl and I look forward for a long term relationship.
The information I would need is this. How do Ukrainian girls like Indian guys? Do they have any reservations about our culture? I may go back to India and settle down. So would a Ukrainian girl in general be willing to settle down in a country like India? Any information shared will be valuable.
Do Ukrainians girls like Indian guys is a question I get a lot. I do not have any information on this. I think they certainly have nothing against Indian guys, as people from India are pretty peaceful family oriented people. Further, I think being from another country is often a plus as you are something different or exotic. However, I think it has more to do with way the guy presents himself. If he is wearing fashionable clothes and good style, Indians look like Italians in many cases. So I think it is not a matter of where you are from but more how you can present yourself and chat with the girls. If you are a total geek no one will find this attractive. If you are a smooth talking sweet sincere guy, not a problem.
My friend Rajesh who is Indian and grew up in the USA and world traveller never had a problem with girls from anywhere. But he is not your traditional Indian. The first thing the guy does when he gets up in the morning is turn on his computer looking for girls, he thinks about them all day and goes on trips to meet them. He is well dressed and cool. I think he is a little too liberal for my morals but my point is, it does not matter where you are from. It is only an issue if you make it an issue.
I am a Russian girl and Moscow has and Russians are a mix of East and West. You can even see that Russians are darker than Ukrainians, Polish or Belarusian girls. Even me I am fairly dark in terms of hair, naturally. I have something in me for sure besides just Slavic.
I am not a Ukrainian girl so I can not speak for them. But do Russian girls find Indian guys attractive. I think some, but I have never date an Indian, my path has not crossed with any really. In Moscow there are more people from the former Soviet Union Asian countries.
Hello Admin and Katya,
Thank you so much for that information. I do agree with you that no girl would like to stay with a person who is too geeky. I have also read that Ukrainian girls or Russian girls really do appreciate a proper appearance and manners. I am just a bit hesitant or I would rather say I lack experience of having a non-Indian girl friend (doesn’t mean I had a girl friend, in fact I never had one though I dated a couple of Germans and a Bulgarian). Partly because I somehow felt that we Indian guys have an undue bad name for some god-knows-what reason or is it just the lack of cultural knowledge or appreciation that the western and Indian society have between us?
That apart, I myself am not geeky, in fact I can proudly say that I have an international community of friends who keep inviting me to parties and socials. And though some of friends say that I love to immerse myself in academic studies (on the contrary, I hate going into academics) I believe I am more of a social being but of course with most of my Indian traditions.
And Katya, I have read about the statement of the Russian feminist Vladimir Radyuhin in the Parliament which I think made a big news. So I hope we Indians do not have an unnecessary bad name in Russia after all
I will keep looking for more comments on my post.
- Thanks,
GameKash
Hi everyone =)
If you are looking for a girl to create a family, then you definitely in Ukraine!
I believe Ukrainian girls to be the most beautiful in the World. Unbiased, of course! But… here in the U.K., I have come across many who want to marry me solely for a British passport. Then, obviously, it becomes difficult to believe them anymore… sad, I know, but a fact. So where do I go from here? British-born Ukrainian, speak Ukrainian fluently, love Ukraine (even in these hard times), visited Ukraine (Western) several times. Would love to meet, marry, have kids etc… Who to trust? Hmm….
Hello,I’m from Belgium. Last year I made a profile on Online dating Ukraine. Soon I get many letters from Ukraine girls. But there was one girl from Nikolaev that I liked. About 6 months we wrote letter to each other and than I deceided to go to Nikolaev. I booked a flight and hotel for 5 days. She arranged a friend to translate( later it turned out that that girl has worked for the local dating agancy but she got fired). It was my first travel ever in my life and I made it all alone, so you can imagine I was very nervous. When i arrived in Ukraine it was a bit of cultureshock, but I quickly adapted. Ukraine have beautiful nature, I saw that from my travel between Odessa(airport) and Nikolaev. After I have unpacked everything it was time to meet my girl. She was there on time with her translator. She dressed her up very beautiful, she looked fantastic, incredible. I will never forget that momment. We went to a restaurant and after that we took a walk trough the city. Tose were 2 unforgettable hours. The next day only the translator showed up, she told me that “my” girl found new work and she couldn’t leave from work….. But on my last day promised to come. It turned out that I never saw her again. The translator stayed with me trough the days finishing the programme(visiting museum, zoo, buying souvenirs….). After my travel I have had some contact with “my” girl but suddenly she did’t answer my letters anymore right after I have send her a present for Valentine. I asked the agency to make contact with her but they also lost contact.
Conclusion, I have had enormous travel experience but emotional it was a disaster. Fortunately the translator stayed otherwise I was in serious problems. English language is not common in Ukraine. If you do not speak or understand or read Ukrainian/Russian you can’t do anything in that country. You play for fool if you have to trust a translator, you never know what they say.
I still hope to find my Ukraine dreamgirl, and someday I will return to Nikolaev because it’s a very beautiful city with great history.
Now I only have a lot of pictures of the city with onle me on it
I hope I have opened some peoples eyes because it’s not always ends as a fairytale.
Best regards from Olivier.
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Olivier, that was a good story. Look Belgium is close to Ukraine compared to the USA. What you need to do is go there a few times and spend some times there. Its is a great place to vacation. Crimea is a fun place anyway. I think that life is an adventure.
Further, all good things come if you are patient and do not give up.
Like in the movie the Matrix, everyone fall the first time.
I know I’ll have to go to Ukraine a few times.
But that’s easier said than done. Like I said in my story there is always the languageproblem. I bet you(admin) speak Russian or Ukrainian or both. Indeed if you speak on of those languages it is a fun place to spend your vacation. It is very cheap country you can do a lot with little money.
I will return to Ukraine but now at the momment I do not really know to approach it. I’m not convinced about go there alone again.
I am not a natural with languages. However, I power learned enough of those languages in my brain to get a long. I speak Polish now and some Ukrainian and Russian. I think the best way to learn is learn words not whole sentences or grammar. Learn this with flashcards.
Hey Olivier I am from Belgium to. I would love to talk with you, because I like Ukraine girls too
Apparently many Belgians are interested in Ukraine girls
, maybe because our woman s*ck.
I’ve decided to start dating again and I have made contact with a girl from Odessa. She wrote me back she was intrested, it’s still early but I hope it turns out into a relationship.
There is a age difference (she is 21, I’m 28)but I hope it won’t give a problem. She is very beautiful.
@sfrn: what do you want to know?
Are you from the Dutch or from the French part of Belgium?
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