Skinny girls
This is my experience with skinny girls. This post will tell you where they are from and how to meet them for love.
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I married a tall thin girl (not the one in the above photo). My wife looks like a model. I would never have got married if I did not follow these steps.
- Admitting to myself that I think a thin girl is attractive and this is what I want despite what the media tries to convey.
- I stopped looking in the USA and for the girl next door.
- I started being open minded about other cultures.
- I used the Internet and traveled to Russia, Ukraine and Poland.
Doing the above steps I meet ladies that only Brad Pitt could talk to. American and Western European girls have such big egos they can not be a good bride for anyone. Eastern European women have a body like a model like waif. A typical woman from these countries look like an elf in terms of body type.
Why skinny girls are desirable
If I women is fat it means she is out of balance on some level, the same goes for a man. She can not control herself in some way or another. She will not be able to keep your life in balance and harmony. Many people who are not thin are good humans but they lack in terms of balance and harmony. Often times they have unresolved emotional problems that is the root cause of their unhealthy behavior or eating and diet. If you are looking for a mate or bride, this is not a good foundation for a good marriage. A skinny girl on the other hand is more humble and can restrict herself more than heavy one.
Skinny girls in my experience are nice people. This is my personal experience. I have traveled and lived a lot and overweight girls tend not to have a personality that would be congruent mine.
A thin girl is usually more interesting for me personally and for me a lot more attractive. People say generally they are more sensual, and being fit is just healthy. These are some of the reasons skinny girls are desirable and stop listening to western feminist influenced media. Go for what you really want in life.
If you are a girl who wants to be thin, I can make some recommendations but that is another post. Basically the key to lose weight is to get your mind off food and develop another aspect of your personality that is latent and wants to come out. Peace and love, I do not want to sound too hard in this post as it is written more for guys looking for a wife. I know what I am talking about when it comes to a skinny girl diet, but it is again not the focus on this post.
Where to find thin women
The reality is certain cities are better than others for thin women. Any girl from the country side, is better than a city girl.
Russian skinny girls
In addition, girls from St. Petersburg in Russia are better than Moscow. Krakow in Poland is better than Warsaw for slender ladies. Lviv in Ukraine is better than Kiev for elven goddesses.
Ukrainian, Polish and Russian skinny girls
I think major cities like Moscow for example become too modern and Western. Secondary cities like St. Petersburg, Krakow, and Lviv have still the educated population, but not the western corruption of the bigger cities. This is where I would look in Ukraine, Poland and Russia.
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I would not use a tour for bride
By the way I would not use any Russian tours or Ukrainian tours to find a bride for marriage. I will tell you the best way to meet these thin tall girls.
American and UK girls are not that skinny or why thin girls are rare outside Eastern European women
I do not know, I think its they it is a combination of media and the western idea that you do not need to restrict yourself. I do not think its the food. I am an American in Eastern Europe and we have fast food here. We have fat food and cakes and pies and sweets.
I think it is more that some women in the west think it is a bad idea to deny themselves. I on the other hand think denial and ascetic practices are something that can be good if not taken to extremes. It is good to fast or to meditate. It is good to take the money you might spend on food and give it to the poor for a day. I think the healthy pain of exercise or hiking in the wood for the weekends is a good thing. Also it is painful to examine your emotional issues. I think most people swallow a lot of emotion. Do not be afraid to address this emotional pain and the root of your eating problems. If not you are forced to accept the fact that a size 8 is amazing and size 10 or 14 is normal, which it is not.
Where I am in Europe a size 4 or maybe size 6 is normal, with half the attitude. So why not go for thin girls who will be nice to you. Rather than some American girl who will be demanding and nag you and play games and have moods and be fat.
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Thin girls – how to meet them
To meet thin girls its very easy. I recommend you do not spend all your time looking in America or Western Europe. I would say that Russian and Poland and Ukraine have the skinniest girls and they are tall girls too. This is my personal observation, traveling and living in different counties.
If you want to meet these ladies from Russia simply go there. Do not take a tour or stay in a hotel, fly to St. Petersburg and rent a flat. Stay for a couple of weeks. You will meet more skinny girls in those two weeks than in your whole life, and most will be happy you are talking to them.
If you can not fly somewhere today, try the Internet. Chat them up online. My site gives you exact places to meet girls online from Russia, Poland and Ukraine that only people in these counties know about, so they are not fished out or over crowded or have serial daters like match.com.
Explore my website. Explore my post on Russian girls for example or a few post. I give you exact sites to try. Let me know what you think of skinny girls for love.
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224 responses to Skinny girls
Well I am sorry for being rude. I just felt so frustrated at some of the things you say because I am not like the things on your list and I know many other girls that arent like how you say either.
I guess I felt very angry if this is how men across the world feel about us. Maybe I am just the exception to the rule. I work out, try to stay healthy and fashionable. I am very feminine. I value family and christian values. I hate materialsim and I love to cook real food.
I actually kind of despise the bad customs of the U.S. which is why I have really been wanting to fall in love with someone overseas so I can leave here. I feel like the nice guys here in America are all taken and I really love to learn about other cultures. Im sorry for the harsh comments, that would be the German temper in me, I assure you I am normally a very kind and peaceful person. I just will defend something against something that is untrue.
I know that many girls are like you say here in the U.S., but if you meet good christian girls, we are different than what your list says. I was raised with old fashioned morals. But I wouldnt change that. I believe in true love, marriage and family. I want children so much, but what am I supposed to do when many guys here do not want children?
Also, I said what I did about gypsies because I have read many international news stories and watched documentaries on the problems Europe is facing with Gypsies. France has said they are a problem, along with Germany and others. I live in Arizona and we even have gypsies. They would come into the cosmetics shop where my mother works and steal bottles of expensive perfume and skin cream. A lot also interbreed with family. So I am not try to be offensive but it just the facts. Now maybe roma gypsies are different than the kind I have read about.
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Do not worry, I know you are not a rude person. Basically the only people I edit or ban from here are people who make direct attacks at others or change social observations about trends as a whole into these people are bad. People may disagree with me on this but the Roma I know are totally different than European society but are law abiding people whose kids go to school.
Look many guys have been exposed in the USA to upside down values. I think it is largely the woman’s role to the the guardians and transmitters of culture to the next generation. When American women start taking their values from TV pop stars rather than ideals like love and marriage, they give in. They start believing that multi partners even at the same time is cool. Men of course take advantage of this and become players. Men even have a count on how many girls they sleep with and get their ego reinforced when the number gets over 20. I understand this. But that does not mean I represent this.
This is one of the reason I recommend American guys consider women from other cultures. The typical American guy will go somewhere abroad fall in love and meet a girl who tells them, not it is not OK to get divorced. No it is not OK to cheat or look at other women. Girls that have faith. At least this was my experience. It goes back to my theory that girls are the guardians of culture and values in a society. Many but not all American women have chosen to represent the lowest common denominator, that is value money, power and bicep size or car. In Europe and in South America for example, women place value on other things like intellect or faith. Again these are generalization but this is what I have experienced.
I see many a geeky guys in Europe dating beautiful women and everyone is looking at them like this is normal, except Americans whose society has taught them something else.
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Morals and Temprament
I agree totally with everything that you say Raquel, the womens movement has definitely destroyed the family and made it difficult for a decent girl to find a decent guy. Also, I think that the age of technology and the ease of access to porn on the Internet etc has also contributed greatly, if not more to the demise of the family unit and societies morals in general. It is the same here in Australia as it is in the USA. I am so disgusted with girls here that I am looking overseas also. I am quite happy to marry an African, Asian, Russian or whatever nationality girl I meet who has a decent character and decent morals and beliefs. I know I am choosy and I get ridiculed for this often, but I am going to stick to my guns and find the right girl for me, a skinny one who is not a feminist or who needs liberating from whatever she thinks she needs liberating from. I am not perfect, none of us are, but I want someone who will honor their marriage vows and stick with her partner for a lifetime commitment, and work through those difficult times that are sure to arise. With God on my side and His strength and guidance I know that I will find my ideal partner, and I will go on to fulfill all of my dreams and enjoy a wonderful life together. I wish you the same, keep your chin up and your faith and enjoy life to the full.
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Hi Raquel, your frustration is understandable as I am equally frustrated with the enormous population of American women that follow the trends in Mark’s articles that he describes. You are indeed the exception to the rule…or at least I hope you are telling the truth about that. I’ve done extensive research into why so many people in our nation divorce so frequently. One finding led to another and I came down to the conclusion that the feminist movement is directly responsible for the collapse of the American family. I just turned 30 last year so people like you and I were born and raised into this post-feminist movement society. It basically screwed us in the aspect of dating and relationships. It is what forces us to look outside of the country for true love. That is the long story short. I moved to Arizona almost 3 years ago to go to school in Phoenix. Since then, I have been living a quiet and humble life (by American standards anyways) while going to classes. It’s left me with a lot of time to think and surf the net.
“I live in Arizona and we even have gypsies.” Wait..we do? When I go out for a walk all I see are lots of Mexicans, lol. Which part of AZ are you talking about?
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To the girls who come on here and join in with the negativity and insults: Doing so only make you seem very insecure and ignorant. Living in one state in the USA for a short period of time hardly gives you authority on how American girls are for whatever reason you sound like you feel inferior and therfore have to insult us about things you very little about. The girls in California and Arizona are really pretty, take care of their bodies and have nice tanned toned skin. There will always be a few who are chubby. Just like in any culture. I have seen fat old Russians, South Americans, and Indians, French and Germans as well. It all depends where you are. At least here in America we are realizing the weight issues and trying to be more active and eat whole natural foods. We dont sit around blaming and insulting everyone like little children would do. If you hate the U.S. then dont come over and visit it. We are kind and fun loving people but hate people with nasty attitudes who stereptype us like you did. Most Americans do travel outside the U.S. and unfortunately some have giving us all a “bad name”, but that can be said for ANYONE. I know some Brits who act rudely while in Spain too, so it goes both ways. I am friendly to people who are foreign, at my last job I worked with a lot of Romanians, Czechs, Bulgarians and Iranians. They all liked me because I was genuine, and didnt have sterotypes made up about them. I love different cultures so Id ask them about theirs. If you choose to see us all as “Ugly Americans”, then its your loss.
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@guyver,I truly am being honest about being the exception to the rule. I have not dated in 3 years because I’m careful who I choose to spend my time with and with alot of girls being so feminist and promiscuos, it leads many guys to think that I too will give anything up to them, which I won’t. Personally, I can be single and be happy, until the right guy comes in my life. I dont need a boyfriend constantly to make me happy. If God brings me one, then awesome. I also dont go out much with guys here because Ive had a very bad experiences so far. I actually care about things that matter, I read about current world situations and news, I love history and being outdoors. Id rather be at home painting or reading a good book than out getting drunk at bars and sleeping around.
I agree with how much the media has influenced our generation with the feminist ideals. It really has weakened our family structure. I was raised by stay at home Christian mother though, so I dont feel as influenced by pro-feminist society as much. She also came from a German background so there was alot of structure and rules. But in the end it was better for me, even though at the time I hated it and rebelled for a bit. I came back to my senses though.
Oh haha and the gypsy thing…I didnt know about that either here in AZ until she showed them to me when I was visiting her at work. I dont know how they came to AZ but there are some. They do look some of the like gypsies you might see in eastern european countries. They were very pretty but steal alot. Im suprised that Admin didnt agree with that, the gypsies in his part of world are known to be the some of the best pickpockets.
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Gina was right on with her intelligent replies to this article. She said it much better than I did. I know many happy American men who love and adore their pretty American wife. The ones like your friends, maybe had a few too many character/personality flaws and that is why they blame one nationaltiy(American women) for their bad luck with love. Women don’t like jerks no matter what culture. And while I’m sure your Eastern European wife just dreams about cooking your healthy dinner for you everynight only shows what a narrow world she grew up in.
I dream about traveling around the world, finding a nice Christian guy to settle down with and about having a family. I dont dream about fixing dinner for someone everynight. I like for a guy to cook for me too every now and then, you must have balance to make a relationship work.
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Raquel, you will not have a problem finding someone, I can promise you that. There is no way a girl like you will not attract the right guy.
Skinny girl from Brazil - my experience
Hi Admin, I am very much into nutrition and health! you forgot to mention Brazil, we are pretty thin as well. I am 5 foot tall,105 lbs and for brazilian standard am below average, as far as looks go. I am Mila Kunis style with a butt! I also agree that pretty girls are much nicer, specially as a chick, I get more nasty looks from not so cute girls than prettier ones, on a day when I am down, it can be hurtful, specially that I work retail. I am very insecure but never mean or ugly to a prettier girl than I, to me beauty is a sign of health and evolution, bye for now.
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Why skinny girls tend to be more positive
If you look like you have described, I doubt you are below average. If you were ever in the USA or Europe, I think you would have numerous suitors trying to win your heart’s affection. Men from all walks of life would fall in love.
Anyway, I do not know why it is, but the girls that are healthy physically or thin girls seem nicer than the ones that are unhealthy and plus sized. It is just a personal observation. I have almost universally I have heard men say this, that is skinny girls are nice and plus sized girls tend to be unhappy. I do not know if statistically it is true, but I can tell you if I was single I would rather be with a fit girl.But look around you men go for thin girls or fit girls even defined as curvy more than BBW.
Perhaps it has something to do with the idea that healthy people feel better generally. They might not be happy everyday but generally more positive. They are happier with themselves. When you are happy without self you make other people happy. When you suffer inside, you eventually can bring others down if you do not interpret your suffering in a spiritual way.
Think about it, if you added 50 lbs to your frame you would feel sluggish and every time you look in the mirror unhappy with your body. This energy would then be projected on others. I believe make yourself happy and healthy and other people will see your centers and peace and say ‘I want some of that’, that is ‘I would like to be like that’.
Or maybe healthy people are more proactive and feel they have control over their own lives, they are masters of their own destiny if you will.
The main thing is body image, especially with girls they need to understand that first no matter what you will attract guys. No matter what your body looks like. The forces at work here are so powerful, that is reproduction and mating for the continuation of the species. No matter what you look like you can attract men. However, that being said, for you, not guys I would think you would want to be a healthy thin girl as opposed to a plus sized sluggish girl who only leads to health problems and suffering. Why are women so offended by this truth that being overweight is not optimal for health? I am not saying it to be mean at all. I just wish people were honest with themselves and this honesty will empower you to transform your life from the inside out.
So as within – so as without. When you transform your inner body your outer body will manifest this. Your inner world eventually will be manifest in your outer world. If you live in blame, envy and angry and non acceptance than this will eventually manifest itself karmically in your life. If you live in a place of self empowerment and moderation and harmony this will manifest itself if your life. The men you attract and the relationships you have will be more positive generally. Being a skinny girl does not solve all your live problems, but it does not hurt.
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Thin Russian girl a truism
I am from Russia and what you write seems to apply and that Olivia wrote has been my experience. I am a ‘skinny Russian girl’ which is almost a truism. Maybe it is the diet in Russia is more natural or we do not eat out as much as in the west.
People that are positive and healthy are nice to me, but people who are unhappy with their lives, and lets say they are disproportional in their appetites for obvious reason look with disdain on me.
I prefer to be as I am a thin athletic Russian girl.
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Oh and back to Guyver, it was in the Scottsdale area where the gypsies were. You were correct though, way more hispanics than gypsies lol. Where are you from by the way? Do u go to ASU? I guess youre right, the reason why traditional moral minded people like us and Admin want to find love outside the US is because of the whole feminist society thing. Have you also noticed how much the gay agenda is really being pushed on us too? If you could move to Europe, where would you want to live? Just curious.
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I don’t think I have met any gypsies personally but I once met a guy on a plane ride who was from one of the Nordic countries. We got into talking about different parts of the European continent. I told him which parts I wanted to visit eventually and mentioned Romania as one of them. He looked at me like I was crazy and he said not to go there. I asked why and he talked about how there was a huge problem with the gypsies in various parts of Europe. He said that France is getting ready to kick out every gypsy in their country because of all the drug and sex crimes they have been doing. I said that not all of Romania can be that bad. I remember his exact words which were “the only good place in Romania is the road headed out.” He was very enthusiastic about it but I still think he was being a bit cynical. He was an older gentleman so my guess is that he still had much of that FSU communist attitude in him. Either way I learned something that day.
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Yes, I had hear the same thing as well. France has ahuge problem with gypsies and it is fact they do bring a lot of crime, drugs and sex into communities. Some are very violent too. Not all romanians are like this but alot are. I worked with a very beautiful, intelligent and nice Romanian girl a few years ago. She must have left Romania for those reasons you mentioned. Do you think it was a communist attidue or fascist? Far left dont seem to mind immigrants, the far right seem to loath them the most.
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Scottsdale eh? I’ve only been out there a few times to see one of the local rock bands play at Martini Ranch. I hate bars but I love live music so that is the only reason that will put me in one. I actually go to DeVry University close to the Glendale area. My friend works at ASU. And yes I have noticed much of the gay agenda being pushed on us and many other western countries as well. Did you know gay marriage is actually legalized in 10 different countries now? Canada just legalized it about 6 years ago. Being a Christian, I’m not a big fan of gay marriage but I guess if you’re gay then you’re gay, whatever! I’m not the biggest opponent of gay marriage either but what I will never support is gay parenting! I don’t give a damn what anyone says, it would be a psychological disaster for a child to be raised by same gender parents. Children are complicated and need to see the male and female characteristics that helps them grow into a healthy human being.
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Exactly. I cant imagine how it would damage a child to grow up with two parents of the same sex. Im not a huge anti gay marriage person either but IMO its some kind of mockery of the scacred vows between a man and woman that God created. I dont go around with protest signs though ha. I just dont agree with it. Now even movies are glorified about having gay parents. I just dont get it.
I hate bars too but I love live music. What bands did you see out there? Yeah Scottsdale, bleh. Im over it already. Ive grown up in AZ so Im bored with it. So many are pretentious snobs here in Scottsdale.Im going back to SCC in the fall. Glendale is cool. There is a place in downtown Glendale, called Haus Murphys which is supposed to be great if you like German food.
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Oh and to answer your question about moving to Europe, it first depends on where I meet my future wife. Ideally, I would like to have a home a short distance away from a major city. That way, things could stay quiet and I wouldn’t have to deal with the city nonsense and I could go there easily for whatever I needed. My first stop in traveling will be western Ukraine, followed by train rides to different areas and possibly the Black Sea. Where are you going to travel?
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From someone who is living in Europe it is very easy to make your life comfortable outside the city as long as you have Internet. Internet means, skype, netflix, amazon etc. On the other hand you have the peace of the countryside.
Ukraine rocks. I love it. I almost moved there. I could still move there but not now. Western Ukraine and the Black sea are on of my favorite parts of Europe. Crimea or Krym is becoming very in vogue because of its natural beauty.
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I’m ex-military so there isn’t much I won’t eat, lol. The only thing I won’t touch is liver, blah! I don’t think I’ve tried German food directly, maybe if I travel to Frankfurt or Berlin then I’ll have plenty of opportunity to try their cuisine. Alas, I probably won’t have time to try out this Haus Murphys because I am moving very soon. I went to see Vayden and Idle Red. Ever hear of them? I thought they were good, my friend who works at ASU often gets commissioned as their photographer so he was able to get me in on a guest pass a few times. Recently, I went to go see Blind Guardian in Tempe. They are one of my favorite German power metal bands and they were awesome!
I don’t blame you for being bored of this place, it’s too deserty here with not enough green. Where are you going to end up?
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Haha! Liver sounds disgusting, I agree. Schnitzel is really good, there are a ton of different ways to make it too. Its sort of like a German version of chicken fried steak, but different. It is usually veal…but you can have pork or beef schnitzel too. I only know this because my mom is German haha. I really want to visit Germany soon.
I have never heard of the bands you seen. But that is a good thing, I hate mainstream music for the most part. I listen to a lot of German electronic, trance music. That and bands like The Cure and good 90′s alternative. Yeah, its way to brown here, but in the spring is it pretty in its unique way. I dont know where I’ll end up, my whole family is here now so Id hate to move away from them. But who knows where life will take me. I have 2 years until I finish my degree so after I graduate, I plan to take a nice long trip to Europe. If I can manage my money enough and save to go. Im getting bored here like you said. I need to travel outside of the U.S..
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You are right about the perceptions of how men and women interact in American Culture. I guess I feel like an outsider. I feel like I dont belong because my views are the same. I feel like marriage is scared and that the way a man treats a woman and how intelligent he is, is worth far more than what kind of car he drives. Ive usually dated poor guys and I was the one to pay for all their food and things. I am older and smarter now than to do that. I hope to find true love one day, because I still believe in it. Movies and music glorify sex and being perverted and sleeping around, but I dont watch or listen to those things. I think that is why I have a stong desire to move to Europe after I visit it a few times to see what part I would want to live. I do not want to have children and raise them in America. I do want children but I want them to be in a better culture than here. The kids nowadays worship celebrities instead of God. I just have to hope and pray to meet a nice european guy if its Gods will. :p
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Sorry I got mixed up and that miss cherie is my sign in name for yahoo. oops.
Also admin, the problem is that I dont trust American guys, because in the past Ive attracted bad ones. The great guys I do know are only friends because they are dating or are married or they are much older than I am.
Also to guyver, I really think the place Id like to travel to first is Germany or maybe even Slovenia/Croatia. I think it is so beautiful there. I feel the same way, I want to live outside of a larger city so you have both options of the countryside and the city.
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Houses in the European countryside are supposed to be pretty awesome. Many are made of wood and stone. That is kind of what I am hoping for. Germany produces a lot of great stuff and I’m sure the countryside would be beautiful. The guy from the plane told me that Croatia has a great football team and the people are friendly. Heck, if I had enough time on Earth, I would want to visit every square inch of Europe and Asia. Okay, it’s almost 3am here in AZ lol I’m going to bed.
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Haha I should be in bed but Im reading some helpful info on here. Yes the houses in Europe are so pretty. I watch this show called House Hunters International. They go all over the world. Today I saw an episode in Croatia. The homes and scenery are so beautiful. The homes are as you say, stone and wood. The people seem pretty down to earth too! Hey best wishes to you and I hope you find a really nice girl who treats you kindly and that you can live a great life with wherever you go.
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Its really silly when you compare these women to elves.
Ok, lets go there; all the drawings Ive seen of “elves” have been of very beautiful women with a small nose, nose bone is high (to center of the eyes), high cheek bones, sharp shaped eyes, shallow eyes, a V-shaped jaw, and a VERY narrow body.
I live in Japan, and have worked with Russians, I can tell you these women dont even come close to your strange “ELF” cravings. Russian women are large framed, long and big nosed, deep set eyes, large brow bones, square jaws.
another wards they look like Cavemen in my opinion. and they are much heavier than the girls here.
The only way you can even come CLOSE to getting something that resembles the frequent drawings you see of elves is if you have a mixed child with an asian.
The half asian, half white (Eurasian) children come the closet to the description I mentioned above about the elf.
theyre usually tall like a caucasian, narrow like an asian, high cheek bones like an asian, sharp and shallow eyes like an asian, pale like a caucasian or northern asian, nice sized nose (another wards not BIG and LONG like a russian, or FLAT and WIDE like an asians nose), and a V-jaw like many Eurasian children have.
Go and take a look at euroasian children, russians dont stand a chance. Another thing, russians may be taller, and maybe slimmer than the majority of americans, but their faces are ugly; unless you like big nosed, big jawed women.
Many americans have native american mixed in them, and therefore their face tends to look a lot better with softer and more feminine features.
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I have been around a lot of Russian girls. It of course all depends. Each girl has a different archetype. Some girls are elves some are greek godesses, however, no girls are Orcs as I think all have their beauty, they just need to know who to bring it out, and being a skinny girl is one way.
Let’s just say our American Government wants us fat and lazy as not to be a real threat. I have several european friends who have moved here and were appalled at the standards (or lack thereof) our foods have to pass.
Our foods are poisoned and laced with chemicals that screw up hormones and homeostasis (or your own word ‘balance’). It is from there forward a roller coaster battle to gain back any balance.
It is unwise to say chubby girls have emotional issues. If you were doing all the right things, working out, eating as good as your government allows but yet canNOT lose weight then you would find yourself with an onslaught of emotional turmoil as well. I agree, when you are heavier you don’t really like yourself. But this is not some emotional nightmare that you just chalk up to ‘American Women’.
Look beyond the scope and stop being superficial.
It really annoys me to see all these super thin attractive girls with these fat, red, tubby men that do nothing to make themselves look any better. Women would rather have a connection than an attraction. And women are by far better looking than men will ever be. So they just settle.
So are you happy being their ‘settlement?’
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Interesting point about our government. The bottom line (no pun intended) both genders like people who are active and take care of themselves. It is a strong signal for dating and mating. You want someone with the ability to move and take care of children not someone who is sluggish.
Canadian girls are skinnier than American girls
Admin- So in your article and also in your comments, you only mention the UK, Eastern Europe and American women.
I feel you are kind of missing out on a lot of potentially beautiful women. What about Germans? Dutch? Norwegian? Swedish? Italians? Middle-eastern women?
Not to mention, Canadians.
I am a Canadian, and there is a quite a difference between Americans and Canadians, I see it all the time as I travel between the two countries often. I have visited almost every province in Canada, and have lived in three of them (Ontario, Alberta, Quebec), and the girls here are generally considered to be some of the most beautiful in North America.
If you’re looking for a girl with a European style but want to stay in NA, why not Quebec- Montreal is completely bilingual and the girls are considered the thinnest, the most beautiful, and most stylish in Canada.
The majority of Canadian women are thinner than, or the same thinness as the thinnest state in America (Colorado, if you’re curious as to where I got this information; it’s from here: eaves.ca/wp-content/uploads/2008/Obese%20Map%20of%20NA%202.png)
You don’t need to travel to Eastern Europe or Asia to find beautiful thin girls with a good attitude, just take a trip to your neighbors up north.
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Skinny American girls and Canadians compared
When I lived in Boston I would go to Montreal twice a month. I had friends there and did yoga there etc. I like Canada and Canadians. But I think Americans are nice as Swedish etc. I think one of my main points of my posts is this.
If the girl or girls next door to you are not doing it for you in terms of what you envision for love and romance, the world is full of opportunity. Consider people from all over the world to be your mate. Open your mind and your world will change.
I personally had less than optimal experiences dating American women. However, as soon as I went to other countries people seemed to see the world differently and their culture was more in line with my world view. Why?
Each of use as a different world view. Some feel good with marrying the girl next door. Others prefer a culture that different. Me, I love to travel learn languages and am a total geek. I do not care about money (too much) and am religious. I also had family from Eastern Europe. This is where my family was from. So it make perfect sense for me to consider this area in my travels.
Yes my experience with Canadians have been positive. There are many nice Canadian girls.
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Men are programmed to pursue women they view as healthy of course but skinny is not necessarily healthy.I also question that the majority of men prefer skinny women,statisitcs seem to show more men prefer women with curves and more naturally healthier body types.I think the confusion has come around on here because its not so much skinnier girls men are chasing,its younger women who happen to be skinnier.Thats why so many men are now pursuing women from places like Eastern Europe,the average age of potential partners is lower than it would be in countries like America.
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I guess the question is what is skinny to you? What size? I do not mean emmaciated or weak, but healthy like Anna Kournikova or Natalie Portman or Evangeline Lilly. These girls are pretty strong girls but also skinny girls and shapely. It would be a hard arguement to say they do not look attractive for men.
What a ridiculous thread. I really dislike how much attention is spent on female bodies. As if a woman looking a certain way will change her personality or her core values. Why can we not have threads and discuss how most men seem to prefer to put less effort into their appearance? How many men go to high end salons for their hair? how many men spend hours grooming themselves every day? How come women are expected to do so much more than men? And how dare a man who more than likely spends a lot less time on his appearance than the average women does on hers have the audacity to criticize? This is not particularly directed at anyone from this site, but really leave the poor girls alone.
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Biology of mating and being healthy vs. Poltically correct fat acceptance
Look one million years of evolution and biology about mating can not be changed just because the fat acceptance movement is poltically correct. If women or men want to attract dates, there is nothing wrong with being healthy. I find it odd the same women that protest so loud about being healthy spend a lot of money on clothes, disproportionately. I have a better idea. Focus on being healthy and postive and spend less on clothes to hide your body.
Do not shoot the messanger. You do not have to be a victim, you can choose to be healthy in most cases. And if you do the rewards are you get married and have kids more often then those who live an unhealthy lifestyle.
Be the woman that you are and do not laugh at the widsom of nature.
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A skinny girl's view of weight and attractiveness in the world
All right, so skinny girls are your thing, and they happen to be nicer in Eastern Europe.
So many things bother me in this thread. Don’t you think it’s rather primeval and chauvinistic to insist that girls are only beautiful when they’re underweight? Healthy, fine, but how many people have the time to work to get to be that thin?
The only reason I’m thin (not underweight – I’m 53 kg, you’re probably going to tell me I’m horribly obese) is because I made lifestyle changes long ago when I got into a school system which requires you to sit down and work for 10 hours out of each day. The only exercise I can afford to get is the 3 km I walk in total, home from school and to the art centre, which is in a dangerous part of town (I’m already risking my life for a few kilograms of fat I might possibly lose). I’m not eating bread, dairy, pasta or candy, I only enjoy alcohol occasionally, and I try to walk at least 2 hours out of a normal day (when I’m lucky I can walk for 7). I live basically on protein and vegetables, maybe a wheat biscuit occasionally.
If you consider that it takes 12 hours to walk off a pound of fat, you realise it’s not possible for most people in a Western society to stay fit. Couple it with the American diet, and you have people who get fat inadvertently, although I won’t disagree that the American mindset as a whole creates problems, and this comes with the consumer mentality we have nowadays, which is supposedly the benefits we are reaping from the Industrial Revolution – blame it on technological progress?
Also, skinny isn’t considered beautiful all over the world. I live in South Africa, where the majority of the population is in favour of a bigger lady. Of course, as in almost all cultures, the beauty standard is controlled by the men, and they consider skinny women ugly and weak.
Thin girls also have as much self-image problems as overweight ones, different, of course, but they do. You have as much a problem (not including people who can’t afford food at all and are really starving) when you are anorexic as obese. Also, when you live in a country where food shortage is looming because the farmers leave farming because they are systematically killed off by ruffians, you tend to look beyond the size of your body or what Western society dictates to you about what you should look like. I would never do anything as superficial as starve myself in order to please some men, because I have experienced poverty in such a way that we would eat only toast and Bovril for days. Yeah, I lost weight – I weighed 47kg, and I suffered terribly during the winter, because I didn’t have enough fat to keep me warm. Gives you a little perspective on this weight issue, doesn’t it? Come to Africa once – don’t hang around places where the wealthy live; the experience of the average African will change your tune drastically.
Also, I disagree that a woman’s ambitions in life should be love, marriage and reproduction. It’s old-fashioned to expect that. I am a lesbian, and although this makes me a bit of an outcast, it’s amazing how enlightened one becomes when sex and babies are removed from the radar. You stop caring about what other people think (especially men, the only compliment I have ever received from a man is that I “look good enough to be raped”)and your weight is irrelevant. No one appreciates you as somebody in breeding condition – from an evolutionary point of view – and you are valued differently and more profoundly.
Yes, there are gays who start families (in response to what Guyver and Raquel said in protest to this) and they raise kids just as balanced as straight couples. Straight couples have screwed up pretty badly too, don’t conveniently forget this. I don’t want kids because I think there are too many people on earth as it is. I’m not going to get married either, I’m not the type, but why prevent other gays from doing it? Marriage isn’t natural or sacred anyway, there isn’t a god, we’re just a species with an inherent need to make up entities to worship and to blame. We’re animals with dangerous imaginations, we’re no better than other animals, and I think it is time we get this sense of self-entitlement out of the picture and acted less supercilious.
And Raquel looking at the skinny girls with a girl’s eyes? She’s right, some are unattractive. They haven’t any substance. Skinny girls can be ugly too – is the beauty emphasis on the skinniness or the harmony of the features?
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I choose to get fit rather than flabby
Beauty is relative and in the eye of the beholder, depending on the culture and the individual of course. However, that being said, there are some universals that apply to human mating and dating.
That is, and unfortunately, so as nature can be cruel, often healthy people and genes have a greater selection in dating. For example, someone who has an addiction problem is not going to get the same number of potential mates as lets say a female sprinter with long beautiful legs. How can you argue with that?
It is because we are not just spiritual beings, people are judged on the relative strength of the body and mind for dating. I never liked this, but it seems to be our society and the realtity that we live in.
This includes women who are unhealthy and obese. That is they do not get the same number of suitors as models or athletes.
Now the good news is you do not have to be amazingly skinny to get noticed, just not extreme in terms of weight. Look at a movie start like Jenna Fischer from the Office. She plays Pam. She is not skinny and yet Jenna Fischer is hot. She is not fat either, just normal. People like normal with weight. She also works out hard and the reward is she has a nice husband and family. What is so wrong with that? She is a strong woman. She overcame great physical challenges as her back was broken in four places. She had emotional drama in her life. Yet she did not make lame rationalizations, but rather hit the gym and took control over her life.
The problem is some women take normal as a size 12 or 16. It is not. Then they try to tell others that this is attractive, rather than hit the gym or go on a healthy diet.
My choice fit or fat
Life is about a series of choices. For me personally I choose to be fit rather than fat or flabby. I know this attitude has many rewards besides attraction, such as logetivity, energy and you feel better.
So there is nothing wrong with speaking the truth about skinny girls, that is guys like girls who have the mind power to moderate their eating and be active to tone up their muscles.
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Natalie Portman - normal weight?
Natalie Portman is emaciated, what are you saying? Have you not seen her in Black Swan?
I’m a size 1 in America, so yes I am small and skinny, but I have my curves. I am athletic and like to be smaller, but I find it narrow minded to say that being thinner makes you a better person for it.
You stated that bigger women aren’t as capable of keeping yours or their life in balance? If a woman has a thyroid issue, it’s not a factor of what she eats or not.
I understand having your own preferences, since I do as well, but to try to legitimize your opinion of beauty for fact is rather narrow minded and not exactly accurate, regardless of any scientific fact. Women have been adored for their curves, and beauty has changed and fluctuated at time moved on. Small, spread apart breasts were popular in the 1400′s, I believe, and it was better to be thicker. Brazillian women are thicker, and they are also confident and beautiful. Asians are stereotypically very light, small, and demure. Americans are either portrayed as blonde, thin and curvy or as overweight underactive slobs. Canadians like maple syrup, Russian women are hairy, etc
A stereotype is a stereotype, an opinion is an opinion.
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Sloth and immoderation can result in being overweight
These are horrible stereotypes, Canadian like Maple Syrup? I like Canada and Maple Syrup. Really I dislike all stereotypes that are negative about groups of people. I do not allow them here and I can strike them. However, what we are talking about is more a cultural idea. That is there has been a trend in the USA to rebel against health and fitness. Not everyone, but I find it sad that the USA, the richest country in the world has a life expectancy well behind many European countries and countries in the world. This is mostly caused by lifestyle.
What is wrong with saying skinny is healthy? It is. As long as it is not a total extreme, generally skinny people live much longer and enjoy a more active life. Thyroid issues are not the cause of chronic obesity in the USA. Americans like to tank up their car and drive to the strip mall. Americans (I am one) fight wars arround the world so we can keep the free flow of oil going to have cheap gas so we can replace our legs with cars.
Well I have not had a car in 15 years in the USA nor Europe and I am skinny. I just moderate my eating and what is the big deal. I am 48 years old and had serious medical issues. But I do not make excuses. I focus my life on other things besides being lazy and immoderate.
Skinny is beautiful.
Natalie Portman is great looking. I saw Black Swan and I have always loved the story of Swan lake since I was a teen. In fact, when I was in Russia I went to Swan Lake, the inspiration for the story.
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Hi Caitlin, Natalie Portman is perfect! I like to joke that I practice kindness in this lifetime so in the next I will either be a supermodel or a ballerina lol, lots of self detrimental jokes. Brazilian girls are only bigger in unfortunately very low-income regions, if you go to a private school or university they are gorgeous! They have the perfect hourglass shape, slim and curvy, Adriana Lima is the best representation of our body shape, Giselle on the other hand a totally unobtainable look! Growing up bullied for my height(or lack of)my weight is the one thing I can control. It made me kind and sensitive towards others but on the other hand very strict with me.
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I do not like skinny girls
Honestly I dislike skinny girls, I prefer to have place to touch and hold onto a woman. Skinny girl reminds me a skeleton, they are so skinny when you are kissing them you see the bones in their skin, when I see that make me feel a bit weird like they do not eat or something, I prefer the girl’s who are more chubby, than skinny.
OK one vote for chubby girls. I actually get a reasonable amount of guys who prefer curvey and I think that is what you are talking about. A woman who is size 6 or size 8 can be nice a curvey and not skinny but still look good. I personally do not like too think either. We are not talking about that as that does not agree with the idea of moderation and balance. Just know even the thinnest girls once they have had children or age a little fill out. If you are dating someone who is in their 20s or 30s and with a weight problem then it will snowball.
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Rage and anger at patriarchal society
We just received advice from an uneducated almost illiterate man as to why we are “overweight” ( a size 6 isn’t appropriate right?) I am so glad all of the women in North America have just been psycho analyzed by a guy who would prefer you to be bulimia rather than 15 lbs “overweight”. (note: Dripping with sarcasm)
I have a couple of issues with this article if you will.
1. Who do you think you are stereotyping women as an entity? You lack knowledge, experience and evidence. Based solely on those factors, this article is laughable.
2. Try to get a better education as your writing is poor and redundant
3. Different body types existed long before fast/processed food. It is natural for humans to be different shapes and sizes, But No conformity is the only acceptable existence (fascist are we?)
4. Did you ever consider that your narrow-minded, ridiculous approach to “finding a wife” would actually make you a poor candidate as a husband?
Oh Wait I forgot, we live in a patriarchal society, (ps I am rolling my eyes)
Good luck with finding someone who loves being skinny more than living a full life, and does not have emotional issues.
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Choose health not packing food
First, before the skinny girls conversations – please try to proof read your comment before you submit it. I had to make over 30 corrections to you small comment before it was understandable. This included you spelt the world ‘illiterate’ wrong as well as ‘overweight’ and ‘bulimia’ etc. Please do not write in caps etc. Basically you have a written a feminist rant. Which is fine, just check it so I do not have to correct it.
As for me being illiterate and inexperienced, I do not think so on either point. I have a Masters in Economics from a tops school (Trinity) with top marks. I am also an avid reader and worked in bookstores for many years, so it would be hard to argue that, however, I could improve my writing style if you have specific suggestions let me know or write me personally. I also speak and read and write in several languages.
I have been with my wife for a long time and we spend 24/7 together as I work from home. We are both happy. And thankful everyday we have each other. We are deeply in love. So I think I write about relationships not from the standpoint of a chauvinist male or a politically correct feminist perspective but rather on a practical level. Someone who is 48 years old and lived a little. I am not an expert on life, but I do have some perspective. I do not advocate anything extreme or politically correct. I am just writing from a personal perspective as a guy, that men, write or wrong have this instinctual idea that healthy equals beauty. This of course excludes people who have physical problems beyond their control.
So lets stick to the point of weight and beauty. As a woman you can be red with anger at the idea that you should have a healthy body for yourself and to attract a mate, but whether ectomorph, endomorph or mesomorph – somaotype and consitutional psychology is important in how we manifest out level of fitness, but does not discount the idea of being healthy and balanced.
Further, I would conceded that some men like the overweight look in women, I find that the minority compared to a slender, strong body in either gender. However, I question if fat acceptance is healthy as fat not only accumulates on the body and stomach but in the arteries and veins and internal organs. Have you ever seen a full body MRI on an obese woman? I have, a lot of fat accumulates in and around vital organs.
obesity in both genders robs people of their vital energy and spark. They prefer to pack themselves rather than moderate and cardio-vascular routine of fitness. What is so wrong with doing spinning and Pilates or yoga and walking and eating whole foods? Me, I just have not had a car in fifteen years and eat food from farmers markets. I personally believe everyone has a right to be healthy and happy and find love in life. If you choose packing instead of love, that is your choice, but I am just saying most men prefer a woman who is not only brainy but balanced.
If you are not convinced that being thin is healthier than being chubby, I recommend you look into the research by Dr. Roy Walford.
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Whoa, hey, Mark, just to clarify, that abbey is not the Abbey you usually talk to.
From now on, I’ll type my full name to clarify which Abbey
i think the whole thing is just plain silly. I am an American and i am not over weight. I am 47 years old, 5’6″ size 6 and eat right and exercise on a daily basis. The thing is i still dont look like i did when I was in my twenties. We all age, that is a fact. I have learned to just enjoy my life and forget about what other people or countries think about “Americans”
Can you write a blog for women about how to become a skinny girl?
Admin, can you please post a blog on how an average size American girl can become a skinny girl? Considering all of the time you have spent around skinny girls and your skinny wife, can you tell us about her habits? Also, I want to learn how to think like a skinny girl, so that I will then act like a skinny girl, so that I will then become a skinny girl
Does your wife gain weight as she ages? I’m 25 and after having my baby, My waist is 2 inches. bigger than before even though returning to my regular weight.
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I can write more on this and how my wife does it. She is slim, however, the main thing is do not worry too much. If you are having babies your shape will not stabalizes until all that is over with. My mother had five children and she is thin. I will write a post in more detail. Think more in terms of being active and eating right over being skinny. Fit is a better word maybe.
I’ve seen studies done by English and Australian men where they prefer size 12 and 14 (American size 10-12). I will try to find them and post them here so you can take a look at them. I think size 10 is a little too much. To me, size 6 and 8 are ideal, once you get to size 10 and especially 12 and up, a woman loses shape and there’s a lot of chub there. I also don’t see how a woman can be happy and comfortable with her body at a larger size. Being that I’m pregnant at the moment, I’m about two sizes bigger than I was prior to pregnancy (about a size 6), and I am not enjoying the big size. Granted, being pregnant is different than being fat, but there’s still a lot of extra weight to carry around, and I don’t like it. When I’m thin and curvy, I’m comfortable with my body, and I think most men prefer women to be thinner and shapely. The point of this post is to ask what you think about the studies done in England and Australia–why would they find size 12 attractive?
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Thin and sporty or elegant beats any weight deviant not matter what style
If you ask me, I would say size 6 to 8 size American is great, why would a woman want to defend the idea of being a size 10 or 12? I mean, I have been fat and I have been skinny, life is much easier being fit than fat. I am sorry to say this but it is true. When you are fat, you feel more sluggish and do not feel great about yourself. When you are fit you walk with a little more bounce or energy and maybe confidence.
I think guys accept women in the US and UK that are larger, but they do not like it. They will not say this unless you talk to them guy to guy you will not find out the real true. People are afraid to speak the true. The truth is a girl riding her bike home from Pilates class in black skin-tight leggings and with a colorful yoga mat tucked under her arm is beautiful and every guy dreams of this girl. In contrast a girl who is squeezing into plus size clothes waddling from her car, with a bag of chips under her arm is not hot.
Dating, style and deviants
Many studies on preferences are just not true as they have an agenda behind them. That is to prove something that is counter intuitive. Well intuition is pretty good and mass culture is often off. Men like fit women, period. Some deviants like abnormal sizes in both directions but I am talking about 99% of the normal red-blooded men out there.
Further, if I was going to be a deviant with dating and mating there are much more normal ways than going after women who can not lose weight. It would be more fun to date a fit girl and buy her some really cool gothic Victorian undergarments or European lingerie. But even taking it a step further, come on lets me real, a extra large girl in some sensual French underwear will not be as nice as a yoga girl in simple sporty underwear from the J. Crew outlet store.
When I see American and British guys in Earn Europe they are speechless and forget all about that size 12 back home who was trying to convince them that being a BBW is normal.
Now if you are pregnant that is something different. For some strange reason, maybe nature, guy like the look of a pregnant woman. You do not have to worry about gaining too much, nature takes care of this. Your first responsiblity with the child. I know countless women that were huge when pregnant, then when they got in shape after feeding a year later they looked better than every. Being pregnant and when feeding is like a guilt free time you can enjoy your life and eating.
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Thank you, Mark! I keep feeling bad for being so big, but my husband tells me I’m a beautiful pregnant woman and my doctor says I’m healthy, but I can’t help but feel like a beached whale.
I never thought about it before, but you’re right about studies; they have an agenda behind them. And I definitely agree, being thin and fit is easier and you feel happier than when you are fat. I used to be size 12, and I didn’t feel good about myself at all. I never got any activity in and I just ate junk. Then I took up walking, biking, and yoga and eating the right foods, and I feel great. In my opinion, yoga is the best exercise. It’s cardio, strength, and flexibility in one, and I’ve even been doing prenatal yoga.
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All my friends that had kids got thin about a year after. A lot of the weight is fluid and your body naturally knows how to shed weight for some reason after. My wife did no exercise – except walking – when pregnant, just normal eating and actually a lot. I even gained weight as I tried to keep up with her eating. The main thing is take it easy and your weight is the last think you need to worry about. Gain weight enjoy your life. I think men from instinct are attracted to pregnant women. If you do not believe me look it up on the web. You can gain as much as you want within reason and it will come off after you stop feeding.
The reason some women do not bounce back is they are not moving after pregnancy. The female body is designed to bounce back to attract her mate to have more babies. After you have your baby you can move a lot more than now and it will come off.
All I can say is read everything you can from good sources on eating for a baby. I think from 3 to 6 months is really when the child’s brain is developed and this is the most important time. Do exactly what the doctor says. My wife was taking DHA for pregnancy of course I think it is pretty standard today.
Also if in a year or two, you can not lose weight, come talk to me, I have a zillion ways to safely lose weight, so do not worry about it. Being pregnant is like having diplomatic immunity, you can do whatever you want.
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If a girl is fat, it does not necessarily mean she is out of balance. There are health problems that can make a person fat. I have a relative that had thyroid cancer and had to have her thyroid removed. She is more than twice her old size and there’s nothing she can do about it. There’s no regulation in her body, so not even diet and exercise helps. I should also say that she’s a very sweet lady(you seem to have this idea that all fat girls are mean). You should think of these things before you write blogs on the Internet,
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I have qualified my statements that exclude medical problems of course. However, walking down any street in Anytown, USA I can tell you most people pack themselves. I live by the beach. I can not tell you how mow many girls, and I am talking relatively young, in their 20s, who have destroyed their bodies. I see them packing on the beach with chips and soda. In stark contrast in Eastern Europe I do not se it. Maybe in ten years of living in Poland I can count the number of over weight girls I saw on my left hand. I am not talking about people with special medical problems but rather, the other 99% how destroy their bodies because of lack of balance and harmony with their relationship with food and their body.
If someone is a size 16, that tells me there is disharmony in their life and it is not a person I would want to date if I was single. I know skinny girls and I know overweight girls. Just as a personal observation and I do not know it corresponds with reality, why is it the overweight ones seem a little more aggressive and difficult?
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You see, in my experience, in America, it’s all girls that are aggressive and difficult, not just the overweight ones. I think it’s actually more prevalent among the thinner ones because they think, Oh, I look good, so I should get whatever I want. Among the larger girls, I’ve noticed outrageous behavior (i.e., they raise their voices a lot). I agree that men and women are equal, but feminism in America has turned a lot of them into overbearing pieces of work.
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I have a question. I recently lost a ton of weight and I’m skinny now, but I have loose skin from losing so much weight on my arms, stomach, and chest (sorry, just sayin’). I also have stretch marks. You can’t tell when I have my clothes on that I have loose skin, except maybe on my arms. My question is should I get surgery to have this fixed? Will guys be turned off by this? I’m so insecure about it, I’m afraid a guy will find me disgusting.
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I would have to see the skin and you could send a photo if you want of your arms or something to me. I would not post it of course and delete it once I see it. However, I would you did a great job to lose the weight. Hats off to you for a job well done.
I also find nothing disquieting about the human body especially the female body. Overweight or skinny, I would have a hard time to think any body is disgusting. I do not know if I have ever seen a female that was not attractive. I may say I prefer thinner girls to BBW as most guys do, but the truth is all girls are beautiful. Ann Rice in one of her books, I think it was Interview with a Vampire or Lestat., wrote something to that effect that all women have a beauty. I need to find the quote.
That being said I can take an honest objective look and tell you my personal opinion for what it is worth. surgery is a serious radical thing. I have had back problems for years and I am sure is a fix it now with an operation, but I choose to wait. Why? Well medical techniques and technology increases every few years. What is only possible with an operation now might be done with stem cells treatment in a few years or other techniques. So I tend to be pretty convervative. The future always brings hope.
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Thank you for your view on thin women
I stumbled across this by accident.
I kind of struggle with the opposite. I’m 5’8″ and about 120 lbs, with a very narrow build (small boobs, tiny waist, narrow hips). Nowadays it seems like our culture is really pushing “curves”, and hating on the skinny chicks.
PS I’m not saying there is anything wrong with being curvy, or even being a bit on the meatier side, but the anti-thin thing is kind of disheartening.
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Do you remember The Sneetches by Dr. Seuss, some Sneetches had a star on their bellies? Read it if you do not know it. This is how it is with beauty. Curves are into today and out tomorrow. \Hair with waves is in today then straight hair tomorrow, you can not be a slave to trend. What you can do is optimizes your looks which and a healthy body is the foundation.
Look at that Lost hottie Evangeline Lilly, she as no hips like a boy, and guys were chasing her body all over that island. She was a horrible actress in some people’s opinion saying lines like she was reading it from a Campbell’s soup can, everyone was in love with her and off set tolerated her crazy tomboy stunts because she was skinny. Lets be honest if she was curve y or big, she would not have gotten that sweet ride on that show and to date the hobbits. Read up on her you will see what I mean.
At 5’8″ and 120lbs, I imagine you have suitors trying to know down your door like Princess Smarty Pants had in the children’s book by Babette Cote.
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Chloe,
Please stay thin.
To the girl looking to get a body lift: Don’t bother. If you’re saying you can’t tell that you have loose skin when you have your clothes on, there’s no need. The right guy will not care if you have loose skin and stretch marks. If you go around changing yourself and trying to make yourself “perfect”, you’re going to end up with a guy you don’t want, probably someone who is very superficial. Love yourself as you are, and the right guy will do the same. Ask yourself this: would you care if the guy of your dreams, the guy you had been searching high and low for had stretch marks or some loose skin on his body? Most likely not. Forget about surgery. Love yourself as is.
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Chloe you definitively sound like quite a catch and your quite tall. I’m 6’2″ and everyone around here is like 5’4″ and curvy. It’s a little weird. I think i’m living in the wrong area everyone is short here. All my guy friends even top out high 5s.
I’ll have to agree with Abbey here too. If you love yourself it shows right through. You don’t need to be the best look but someone who is confident in themselves is always more beautiful than a 10 who hates who she is. The thing i detest is a girl who says she is ugly, and fat. If they say that enough i’ll start believing it. I wouldn’t date them if i thought that.
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Thought I was alone about skinny girls
Thank you for your post. You say many of the things I have internalized throughout my entire adulthood or for that matter since my discovery of the opposite sex(women).
My on-line search on this topic was prompted today by the fact that I was considering seeking professional counseling for an insatiable and unrelenting attraction to thinner women.
Moreover, as you noted I found heavy women mostly incompatible, in attitude, to myself in a over abundantly percentage. Therefore I was starting to think the problem was in my mind only. I have found myself being a frequent quest in areas the have eastern European immigrants in America. My grocer is a Polish store. I really thought I was alone on this, and was bordering on a bit of depression for what I thought to weird behavior. Big women hate me I never knew why, skinny women and hit it off so magically. The problem in America is, at 38 years old the thinner women are younger. Over 35 is usually way beyond a size six.
I really found some solace here. I thought I was alone and weird. I love skinny girls. I really do. Thank you very much.
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What is wrong with skinny girls? Nothing. Women stay healthy and men like thin women. Why is it that in this culture of America, women defend having their body in a state where they know they are not attractive, that is overweight.
Why is it in this culture of America, women think they just have to ‘show up’ to get a guy. In Eastern Europe, women develop their minds and souls as well as stay thin to attract a guy.
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Traveling through the U.S. you are so correct. New York, Milwaukee, Chicago(yuk), Las Vegas all full of fat women. One place stood out however, Seattle. I thought I was in another country.
Virtues to stay thin
I would back up what admin says, that is in Eastern Europe girls make an effort to be beautiful. We take more a holistic approach, that is work on their mind such as study classical educational courses such as music and languages. These things take patience and practice and some self-denial.
Similarly, girls in Eastern Europe stay thin with these same virtues. This is why yoga girls and as Abbey said Ashtanga yoga and I like her comments. I am just saying you do not have to be a classical musician just have a practice of something, yoga or walking or whatever you like, but you need to discipline yourself. There is noting wrong with being overweight, other than the cost to your health, but why? Why not be thin, light and beautiful?
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