Skinny girls
This is my experience with skinny girls. This post will tell you where they are from and how to meet them for love.
- Skinny girls
I married a tall thin girl (not the one in the above photo). My wife looks like a model. I would never have got married if I did not follow these steps.
- Admitting to myself that I think a thin girl is attractive and this is what I want despite what the media tries to convey.
- I stopped looking in the USA and for the girl next door.
- I started being open minded about other cultures.
- I used the Internet and traveled to Russia, Ukraine and Poland.
Doing the above steps I meet ladies that only Brad Pitt could talk to. American and Western European girls have such big egos they can not be a good bride for anyone. Eastern European women have a body like a model like waif. A typical woman from these countries look like an elf in terms of body type.
Why skinny girls are desirable
If I women is fat it means she is out of balance on some level, the same goes for a man. She can not control herself in some way or another. She will not be able to keep your life in balance and harmony. Many people who are not thin are good humans but they lack in terms of balance and harmony. Often times they have unresolved emotional problems that is the root cause of their unhealthy behavior or eating and diet. If you are looking for a mate or bride, this is not a good foundation for a good marriage. A skinny girl on the other hand is more humble and can restrict herself more than heavy one.
Skinny girls in my experience are nice people. This is my personal experience. I have traveled and lived a lot and overweight girls tend not to have a personality that would be congruent mine.
A thin girl is usually more interesting for me personally and for me a lot more attractive. People say generally they are more sensual, and being fit is just healthy. These are some of the reasons skinny girls are desirable and stop listening to western feminist influenced media. Go for what you really want in life.
If you are a girl who wants to be thin, I can make some recommendations but that is another post. Basically the key to lose weight is to get your mind off food and develop another aspect of your personality that is latent and wants to come out. Peace and love, I do not want to sound too hard in this post as it is written more for guys looking for a wife. I know what I am talking about when it comes to a skinny girl diet, but it is again not the focus on this post.
Where to find thin women
The reality is certain cities are better than others for thin women. Any girl from the country side, is better than a city girl.
Russian skinny girls
In addition, girls from St. Petersburg in Russia are better than Moscow. Krakow in Poland is better than Warsaw for slender ladies. Lviv in Ukraine is better than Kiev for elven goddesses.
Ukrainian, Polish and Russian skinny girls
I think major cities like Moscow for example become too modern and Western. Secondary cities like St. Petersburg, Krakow, and Lviv have still the educated population, but not the western corruption of the bigger cities. This is where I would look in Ukraine, Poland and Russia.
Polish skinny girls
I would not use a tour for bride
By the way I would not use any Russian tours or Ukrainian tours to find a bride for marriage. I will tell you the best way to meet these thin tall girls.
American and UK girls are not that skinny or why thin girls are rare outside Eastern European women
I do not know, I think its they it is a combination of media and the western idea that you do not need to restrict yourself. I do not think its the food. I am an American in Eastern Europe and we have fast food here. We have fat food and cakes and pies and sweets.
I think it is more that some women in the west think it is a bad idea to deny themselves. I on the other hand think denial and ascetic practices are something that can be good if not taken to extremes. It is good to fast or to meditate. It is good to take the money you might spend on food and give it to the poor for a day. I think the healthy pain of exercise or hiking in the wood for the weekends is a good thing. Also it is painful to examine your emotional issues. I think most people swallow a lot of emotion. Do not be afraid to address this emotional pain and the root of your eating problems. If not you are forced to accept the fact that a size 8 is amazing and size 10 or 14 is normal, which it is not.
Where I am in Europe a size 4 or maybe size 6 is normal, with half the attitude. So why not go for thin girls who will be nice to you. Rather than some American girl who will be demanding and nag you and play games and have moods and be fat.
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Thin girls – how to meet them
To meet thin girls its very easy. I recommend you do not spend all your time looking in America or Western Europe. I would say that Russian and Poland and Ukraine have the skinniest girls and they are tall girls too. This is my personal observation, traveling and living in different counties.
If you want to meet these ladies from Russia simply go there. Do not take a tour or stay in a hotel, fly to St. Petersburg and rent a flat. Stay for a couple of weeks. You will meet more skinny girls in those two weeks than in your whole life, and most will be happy you are talking to them.
If you can not fly somewhere today, try the Internet. Chat them up online. My site gives you exact places to meet girls online from Russia, Poland and Ukraine that only people in these counties know about, so they are not fished out or over crowded or have serial daters like match.com.
Explore my website. Explore my post on Russian girls for example or a few post. I give you exact sites to try. Let me know what you think of skinny girls for love.
131 responses to Skinny girls
I guess my basic question is why do guys have to settle? Why can not beauty and virtue be in one for their dream princess?
Katja, I am not arguing with the fact that fit= healthy=more attractive. I thought it was more to it than that in the Admin’s post. If it is just the statement of fact – then fair enough. Everyone knows it. Why write about it online? To me every message posted for public sruitany must have a purpose to it. What is the purpose of this post? “I like skinny girls, my wife is hot and I found her in the East, everyone should do the same (followign by a specific advice of places to go)”. To me this sounds like the purpose – to encourage men to leave West, migrate to Russia and get a skinny girl. To me the purpose of the post is morally questionable and in some respect dangerous. This is why I replied. That’s all.
As to the new/old wave. I dont even know what that means. It’s just another “box” to stick people in. I live my life to get closer to inner peace and harmony. Is that new wave? As to the judgement – Admin, if you choose not to judge one’s life, how do you justify judging one’s thinking? It’s initially the same thing. Thinking leads to actions. Actions result in consequences that are then called “life”. So judging one’s thinking is judging one’s life more or less…
I am leavng this now, as it is pointless. This post may not have the purpose, so there is no purpose of me spending eny more time on this.
Be happy guys, thin or not! And if you don’t want others jusging you, then it’s probably better to stop judging others. Peace&love
индивидуальность начинается там где заканчивается сравнение
Peace and love, comparison does not mean judgement.
I asked my wife why you say such things yet you yourself are a thin girl. Her reply is it makes you feel good to talk like that. You are a skinny girl but its OK for others to be fat.
If you were fat, I think you would not have this attitude. A fat person generally wishes they were healthy and lean people. Why not encourage people to join a gym or sell their car or eat less and donate the money to charity for the really hungry from the money they save on food? Or to a charity for the environment they save on gas? No pun intended.
Your the one judging and putting yourself out there as holier than thou. You are judging me without knowing me. I have no illusion. I just tell it like it is. Skinny girls are attractive to men. Fat girls are unhealthy and not medically recommended in almost any case. What is wrong with that?
People need to know overweight is no good for their lives and from a man’s point of view, overweight is not attractive. However, some girls that have curves are OK. But please size 12, 14 16. I thought gluttony and gluttonous excess went out with the Romans.
You can’t judge unless you have something to compare to. 1 person on a deserted island won’t be able to say if he is attractive- as there would be nobody to judge against. Judgement is a comparative variable, not apsolute.
If you are so concerned about other people’s weigt, why don’t YOU encourage them to go to the gym without judging, stereotyping. Could it be that it makes YOU feel better about YOURSELF? Because judgement can only occur when one feels superior to another. “I am skinny, my wife is too – this enables me to look down on everyone who is fat by calling them unbalanced, controlling, etc…” This is exactly why I don’t care if someone is skinny or not, I can still see beauty within them and it does make me feel good that I don’t have to conform to judgemental patronising attitude. I think my friend is beautiful – you don’t, because for you it is impossible to be size 14 and beautiful at the same time. ANd I am not luying to make myself feel better – that would kinda defeat the object… I dont care how your wife, your mother, and everyone you know interprets my words and imagines some hidden agenda behind my intentions of writing what I do. The question is – why are you unable to take my words at a face value? Why do you think it is hipocritical for a fit person NOT to judge (“think it is OK”) people who are bigger?
“People need to know overweight is no good for their lives”
seriously….. do you think someone has illusions about that? EVRYONE KNOWS that already. YOu are not discovering America. You are not saying anything anyone does not know already. So what are you doing then? HAve you asked yourself that question? What did you write that post for? What is it that you wanted to say? Every time I try answering that question, you get more and more upset with me (or it seems to me that way). Then you start looking for hidden meaning behind what I say… Why?
What are you trying to say to the world that the world doesnt already know? If your post was called “5 steps to a healtier life” giving specific advice based on your own experience – then we wouldnt have this conversation. But you are not, you are simply judging all Western women for being fat, lazy, etc.. because you had some bad experiences. Well, I had a bad experience with a skinny italian girl – I dont start a post – saying “all italians are this and that…” My friend was cheated on repeatedly by a spanish lad – she didnt write a post about how all spanish guys are cheaters,…
i will follow your example and assume why you are saying what you are saying (without referencing my husbnd though)
1 – it does make you feel better about yourself. Simple: skinny (you and your wife) = good
fat (western women)= bad.
2 – You are promoting your site “Explore my website. Explore my post on Russian girls for example or a few post. I give you exact sites to try. Let me know what you think of skinny girls for love.”
Here you go – my own interpretation (no external help required)
There is one thing I am wondering about – your english doesn’t seem on a “first language” level. Are you sure you don’t just own a “russian-brides.com” and have never been in America? – another one of my assumptions…
I really hope I can stoip myself from replying to your posts though- I think I am really wasting my time here
What is your point? You are just on me and attacking me. I grew up in the USA. I saw how bad women treat good decent men. You did not grow up in America. I saw how women rationalize being a size 16. It is self deception and false.
I think no website on earth does not say explore my other posts. I have 100s of hand written posts with information and good site references. Including most on true love and how to find true love and does true love exist. Read those they are written from my heart. If you read my post I recommend people come and travel to various countries and use if anything free dating sites like love.mail.ru.
You are just finding fault because you are want to feel good about yourself. You are case and point a new wave Russian, you moved to the west or something and are being rude.
Lena, In contrast to admin, I find the woman you posted to be attractive. I do like a woman with a bit of meat on her bones and do like more voluptuous frame versus the skinny skeleton frame that so many of these models have today. On that note, I find that at least 30% of AMerican women are quite obese and about 60% are fat to the point where they are quite unattractive. I say I like a woman with meat on her bones, not blubber on her bones!
Putting beauty aside, oh sheesh, so many are infactuated with beauty, that passes away as fast as the wind. Of course, I don’t want a woman who looks bad, but I am not going to be demanding she is beautiful.
The problem with you Lena, is you come from the communist mindset. YOu blame religon for the downfall of society, when in fact, the hatred of religion brought the downfall and destruction of your society. Russia, like you say, is suffering from poverty, alcoholism and corruption. When your leaders were burning down our Jewish synagogues and even the Christian churches and throwing priests and rabbis in gulags in Siberian wasteland, I wonder who was commiting the atrocities, the religious or the anti-religious person?? Religion is marketed in the USA, just as secularism, drugs, filth and pornography are marketed in Europe. SO what? Marketing is not a sin, its a way to communicate what you have to offer. Religion isn’t corrupt, people are corrupt. Russian aristocracy, whether religious or communist was and is quite corrupt; God save the Russians!
Lena, as with most western/westernized women, you tend to have a self-absorbed, myopic view of civilization and humankind. You believe in a false utopian, eglitarian society that is only practiced in theory, but never implemented.
I will write more to you later.
I love skinny women, I am just totally turned on by them. I think they are exceptionally beautiful. They also are easier to talk to and live with than the overweight ones.
I am am American girl, Born and raised. I remember once my mother told me she knew a man from the middle east somewhere, and he told her he could never marry an American girl. When mom asked why, He replied “because they are spoiled.” I was around 12 when I was told this. But it does not account for all of us. I would give a 50/50. The bad 50% I have known were abusive fat and confrontational towards men. Use innocent man as scapegoats because they can not accept fault. I would go in to that more but I don’t want to offend these women. They might sit on me. he he. They also are very materialistic. They are taught as children to grow up gold diggers, and not many values. However, there are women here who are very good. Lets not forget America is a land founded on culture. We are a mix of everyone. So to say American women are all bad even if it is from experience, seems hypocritical to me.
Julie you are right not all American women are like this, but from a guys point of view, many maybe more than 50% of American women need a correction of morals and values. My very innocent good-hearted American guy friends tell me that American girls really are spoiled, materialistic and blame their guys for some much unhappiness. The values I was raised on do not apply to many modern American women. It is really sad, because America is a great country and I feel one of women’s special roles in society is to transmit culture to the next generation.
Admin,
I agree with your guy friend from USA. But it’s hard to be labeled because of the majority. I am not so materialistic, in fact I wear combat boots and a uniform everyday so i don’t have much for clothes. I dont wear earings to often the ones I have are like 5 dollars. I dont do my nails. My hair is long and straight, I haven’t even used a blow dryer. I am 5’7 and 130. I remember being force fed because my height and weight were considered too skinny for my job. I wear a 27 waist I think. I don’t even know, all combat uniforms come in just these sizes x-small, small, medium, large ECT..:)). The women here are forced to work as men because of society. This doesn’t make them bad. I should think the men in US should take control again, before they lost it in the hippy generation. But in my oppinion, they run from the problem they let be created. You cant run from a problem, that just spreads the disease. But on another view. My mom told me “Don’t ever lose steer of the ship, once you do it is gone forever.”
That’s nice they are skinny, but that doesn’t stop them from being Russians. They have their own set of psych problems, with money, materialism, etc. and then you are stuck bringing the in-laws over…. it goes on and on.
You are an interesting woman. I agree with the captain of the ship theory. A man should guide the ship and not jump, but this applies to the individual relationship not society as a whole. If a man from the USA falls in love with a princess in a far away port, it does not mean he has to focus only on American women for marriage.
Dear Admin:
I do think that there is a line here, of course. I am American, and thin. I was a size 3 when I got married, and become a size 14 in kid’s clothing while my husband (American) starved me. It was a very controlling relationship, and he had these ideals, but did not let me complete my education at the university or work. I am 5’5, and after 5 years of this perfectionist merry-go-round I was 80 lbs, and rushed to E.R. to to starvation. My parents rescued me from this controlling person, and saved my life. He wouldn’t have payed for my recovery. Today, I am 100 lbs and a size 0 or 1, normally. Whatever race a person is, too much pressure is too much pressure. There is a point where a husband can be too scientfically calculating and controlling. Fortunatley, I am free of him and living a much better life now. Ideals and rules like this can be dangerous. This kind of thinking is so black-and-white, perhaps some gray could help.
Best Wishes,
S.A.
Of course there is a line. The saying you can never be too rich or too think is not true. I am a big believer that rules are made to be broken and Jesus was about the spirit of the law not the letter of the law. But in general it is healthy to be thin and balanced in life and not healthy to be obsese. But again they are just general rules. Also have you ever notices how the word ‘should’ sounds like another vulgar work that begins with ‘s’. Should is a very bad word. I am very sorry to hear about your experience. It was very tramatic I am sure. My only recommendation for you is, if I may, try to do normal things like take a trip to Paris or Hawaii (I would choose Paris or Italy) and enjoy your life as you have been though a lot.
In fact I would say in your case since you had so much stress it is OK to live your life without thought to rules and not feel bad for while.
Dear Admin:
Thank you so much for your comments!
My husband was very religious, and now I will not go near a church due to all of the rules. He called himself a christian, and I was a christian as well. I still believe in God, but I will never go near controlling environments or people that make me feel guilty. Before I met my husband I did not think about my size, now I wish I could go back. He worshipped thinness, and personally, I care more about contributing to the world through my career. I think that you had a good read on my experience, especially to bring up religion. Thank you for your efforts in trying to help people find happiness. You sound like a sincere person, and perhaps a business man… Today, my boyfriend is overweight, and I love him and appreciate his kindness and humaness. I am still a size 0 or 1, but I feel like we were made for eachother when it comes to the priority of contributing to society. I think that if a person can find someone with a good heart who is smart, the other issues will not be as much of a priority. At least that’s what I look for. — S.A.
La Religieuse was a book by the French enlightenment philosopher Denis Diderot. He wrote in this book about an interesting theme, similar to the one you mentioned. You know parents or spouses that are rigidly religious are sometimes too strict with the way things should be. Their religiosity is nothing more than a function of some neurosis. But that does not mean the idea of religion is bad, simply some people act out their neurotic behavior in a religious way, it is the language of their disorder. Generally belief is a positive thing, makes people happy and more easy going, but not always. After your experience I would just try to enjoy your life like I said, listen to reggae music or go to Europe, just enjoy your life without feeling guilty.
if we dont feel guilt then we are nothing
I am an American woman who measures 1.64cm (5’4″) with a 48cm (19″) waist and weigths 45kg ( 100lbs) and I do not think that where a woman comes from dictates her figure, or happiness. I drive everywhere, eat American food,dancing is my only exercise, and I eat all I want, without gaining a pound! In Eastern Europe it is hard to gain weight if for cultural reasons you only eat a cup of soup and cabbage roll, and for economic reasons you have to use public transportation.
When I visited Krakow,Prague,Lviv, Moscow, and Kyiv, I did not see all these thin, tall women. The majority of women(99%)were average size ( size 2-8), and they looked much fatter than me,and none of the stores or outdoor markets in Poland, Russia, or Ukraine would carry clothes that would fit my small size…
I am very thin, and stylish, so me and my other equallly thin, stylish, American friends were getting most of the attention, especially from their eastern european business men and oligarchs. The interesting thing is that we are not the exception. Most single girls under the age of 30 who live in hip cities such as Boston, NYC, LA, San Francisco, Miami, etc, are not bigger than a size 6 a popular size in Eastern women. In fact, I used to work at a boutique in NYC, and our most popular size was a 4, which contradicts your ideas of American women.
Perhaps the real reason why you are so against Americans, is that an attractive American woman would not consider you as a potential partner. From your picture and comments, I can tell that I know YOU ARE NOT FIT! and given the extensive number of good looking,intelligent, sweet, successful, and FIT guys in the US who would court us, a skinny guy like you would have NO CHANCE, and would have to go explore foreign lands in which there are literally very few men, and exploit your opportunities there…and would have to write blogs to convence himself that his wife ( whose picture is not here) is indeed hot….and that women size 4-6 are thin
Its not really the weight that is the big problem, it is more the attitude of American women. They feel they are the top of the food chain and will tell you how wrong you are in every case.
However, I agree, not all American women are bad or overweight etc. Many many are very nice. However, my friends that are not married and are American all have the same complaint. American women are feminist and out of control in terms of the way they relate to men. Cooking a meal every night for their husband is seen as a negative, while in Eastern Europe women dream of doing this.
About your comment that American women are not attracted to me. I have no comment, except that one thing I did not like about American girls is many were so easy. I always wanted to meet a girl who believed like I do that love and marriage.
Love sees with the heart and not with the eyes.
I only have one question for you: If ” Love sees with the heart and not with the eyes.”, then should weight be an issue? if the love can only see with the heart, then it would be able to note beauty and good feelings in ALL sizes
The heart can’t tell how many pounds a person is, or what size a person wears…
And you have a valid point in saying that you prefer a woman who is not feminist, and depends on a man, and believes in love and marriage; I am happy you found someone who shares your values, but to blog that your values are better, and that a particular racial group is superior makes you act no different than the “ugly American” attitude that you are trying to escape and criticize…
Love does see with the heart and not with the eyes. But on the other hand would you want some guy who is not for you, do you not? If your name is Paige and you are a New England prep school girl you do not want a guy with tongue rings and body modification all over his body. Similarly, I like most red blooded American males prefer a girl who is healthy and happy not someone who can not control themselves. Sometimes behavior like over eating is a turn off for most people, consider that.
Some people are fat due to hormonal imbalances, and metabolism problems, not overeating…or lack of control…
Ha!Ha!Ha! also, you are clearly so NOT American–because if you were, you would know that American prep schools specially in New England are VERY PROGRESSIVE and most do not fit the steriotype that you are describing—most of the girls, would have a few tattos of their own, body piercings, and wear Patchulie fragances… you should really get to the nearest American consulate, apply for a visa, book a flight, and spend six months getting to know USA as it is, not as some Soviet yellow press and 15 day packaged tour to the US has presented it to you… best of luck, my friend
I went to a New England prep school. I am and American born and raised as were my parents etc. Most cases of obesity are people eat too much. Some rare cases are other things but if your 18 to 35 the normal dating ages and you are over weight, except for rare cases you eat too much. It is funny how in Eastern Europe, Asia and Latin America not to mention Africa I do not see the metabolism problems you mention, but when I am back home in the states the skinny girls are few and far between.
you say you aren’t following what the media says, but to me it sounds exactly like that.
- you only want a skinny girl
- fat girls are mean
- country girls are better than city girls
- i get girls only Brad Pitt would talk to
etc.
I don’t think your totally wrong, but to basically tell me they shouldn’t “settle” for bigger woman is super shallow, if you look at statistics and studies they’ve done, a considerable amount more of men prefer bigger woman, and in some cultures, it’s looked at as completely desirable.
If that’s what you prefer that’s fine, but I know quite a few men who do not get off on thinking about feeling the boniness of a girl in bed, and just because a bigger woman is “out of balance” in something that is “noticeable” doesn’t mean a thin woman has nothing out of balance, from the sounds of it, bigger woman are probably rude to you because of how shallow you act.
Thanks for the comment. Asceticism, what is it and its connection to personality and body shape? I think some guys like fat women, most do not. I think a little curvy is OK but my friends prefer thin girls. The personality of overweight girls are a huge generalization but in my personal experience, they tend to lack the self control and humility as their skinny counterparts. However, this might be my personal experience and it might be wrong. But if you consider that being a fat or skinny girl is a result of a behavior, that is eating too much and not enough exercise i.e. lack of self control and ascetic practices, than perhaps there is something to it.
Asceticism is a bad word in a society that praises excesses, but for me asceticism is nothing more than the spirit tempering the flesh.
I think that you should take into account more the diet that is available to women in these different parts of the world.
In America, it is much more common for foods to have high sodium, fat, and sugar contents. Most of our cities, and certainly our rural areas, are planned so that driving in a car is a necessity, which makes one have a sedentary life. The combination of these two factors makes obesity much, MUCH easier to slip into – I wonder, if the same waif-like women who you praise here were living with the same amount of self-control in the US, would they still be so waif-like? I highly doubt it.
The diet is a factor of money and personal attention to fitness. It is an odd statistic, but in the US, obesity is concentrated among the economically disadvantaged. This is because the cheapest foods are also the most unhealthy. The cheapness of our unhealthy foods also leads to more temptation to stray from a fit lifestyle than in other countries.
All of these add up to making it significantly harder to control weight. As for being fat and being personally unpleasant, I do not think that one causes the other, but rather in some cases both are symptoms of poor control over one’s self, like you said.
And for some women, they have been raised under a new paradigm; one where their worth in society does not come solely from being the perfect wife. When women begin to believe that they have worth and value outside of men, they begin to see “beauty” differently – it becomes the icing on the cake, instead of a duty they perform for the men around them. You have to realize that if you expect a woman to become your wife in your more traditional sense, you are in many ways asking her to become your servant to care for domestic chores.
To women who look for a role outside of the role of wife, being beautiful for others becomes less pressing. This, and the bad diet/environment that is in the US, is why I think you find American women to be so fat.
I enjoyed reading your post because you are very upfront with what you think about issues that have become slightly taboo to talk about. Thank you for your honesty!
Thank you for the reply Ann. You make a good point, cheap food is the worst food for you. Unless you live a dull spartan lifestyle on dry chicken and brown rice, it takes money to have a good varied diet.
For example, I buy things that are good for the body like blueberries and pomegranates but these are not cheap. I drink carrot juice etc, I like fresh Italian herbs and quality spices, not cheap stuff.This take money. If I buy ring dings and cola it would be a lot easier and cheaper. However the good news is I live in Europe and get many things from my wife’s farm. Food is very cheap here compared to America.
It is not just rich or poor but educated or uneducated. Educated women tend to be aware of making the right choices about diet. All this feeds into the whole picture of a women.
Therefore, my friends who I think are good catches by anyone’s standards, humble, loving kind all go for thin women. Maybe because subconsciously this is a screen for education, background and awareness and moderation. But once you cross that hurdle I think women should not be so stressed about looks. I know it seems like every man s judging you on looks but they are not. All women are beautiful, everyone. Men are judging women more on morals and values and intellect and could I see myself with this person for the rest of my days. One part of being a good humanist is being moderate and nothing to excess, like food. So I think the relationship between and attraction is not strong like excess and attraction.
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