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  • Hi Mark. What areas of Poland should I explore/avoid and what areas of the Ukraine should I explore/avoid?

    Awesome list. Thanks.

    • If you are looking for a nice girl, I think every area of Poland is good. Of course the rural areas are better and Eastern and Southern Poland is better than Warsaw. In Ukraine Western Ukraine is where nice girls are. In Ukraine, Ternopil to Lviv and all the rural areas around there. Crimea can be good as it is vacation land and many girls go there to relax. However, all I can ask is this, if you are going there with sincere intentions and an pure heart you will find love, if not, if you are there to be a player, remember about Karma. I would do a trip like Krakow to Lviv and maybe if you have time to Crimea. You could fly into Warsaw and take a train to Krakow and then a train to Lviv then a train to Crimea. Maybe you go to Kiev (via train, they are only about 20 dollars at most) to fly back home. With that tour you can stay in youth hostels really cheap and decide when you are there what to do. I recommend stay in cities as this is where the highest concentration of women are. However, on the train and on excursions or on the beach you can meet girls from the countryside. Just collect Polish girls and Ukrainian girls mobile numbers and e-mail addresses. When you get back home you can write them.
      If you fall in love, leave you job and stay in the country. Do not even think about it. I did and have lived happily ever after (I was making over six figures in Boston and gave this up to live in a small flat in Krakow. I have never looked back.

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  • I’m 36 and never been married … by choice, not because I could not or cannot – I’ve had several opportunities and I still do right now. I share most of if not all of your views on American women. Many of the marriages I’ve observed make me feel sorry for the poor sap who is stuck with that nightmarish woman. This sounds awful but my own mother can be quite scary – I do not want to marry someone like that. I feel sorry for my Dad sometimes.

    I totally love the way American girls look but the attitude is rotten – generally speaking. I spoke at length with an amazingly gorgeous American woman last night and she told me without hesitation, “Control is better than Love”. I was at a family wedding over the weekend – there was over 1000 people present – and all the points made on this site were bleedingly obvious once again. Then there are the tattoo freaks, ball-busters, feminists, man-haters, etc, that can be found everywhere.

    I would love to meet ‘the one’ and live the life that you describe. Believe me, I am the kind of guy who would pull the trigger and do this if I found it. I also prefer many elements of European culture to American culture.

    Yet I have been looking for it my whole life (home, wife, etc) – and have still not found it. To be honest I have thoughts that it is all an illusion although you make an excellent case for holding out hope. My heart has grown cold and apprehensive – it will take some time to undo this.

    I had intentions of doing this (starting over) last year while in Argentina but knew after the first month I was not generally attracted to Argentinian culture and/or women. I know that many people are attracted to Argentina but it was not for me.

    After I make my journey to the Black Sea region I will know where I stand:

    1. Maybe I like USA life more than I realize or admit now, or

    2. Maybe finding love is all an illusion or

    3. Maybe a love-filled, satisfying existence is possible after all.

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  • Japanese Wife, American Life.. An Old saying.. I still think it holds some weight, although Japanese women are not what they use to be.. However, stll they are better than most western women.

    I love the freedoms I have in USA, but those freedoms end when you get married. The court and legal system favors women in every respect and she will incarcerate you with her selifsh ego-maniac persona and her upperhand in legal matters. Basically, if she wants to divorce you and sue you, she can, will and will also win and take your children away.

    Thankfully, pre-nuptials will protect you from the onslaught of laws she will throw at you. However, most women now use their children as bargaining chips in the court system. Even though with a good prenuptial they cannot suck you dry, they can swindle money from you under the false pretext that it would be used for supporting the children.

    America is a feminized mess. I still wonder if I can raise children in this place. iTs tough situaiton, because if I was to marry a foreign girl and live in her country, she could also probably win the heart of the government on marriage issues. I am not sure how Poland or other Eastern European countries treat foreign ex-pat men. I think the native men of these countries however have it a lot better than we do in USA.

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  • Latin American are one of the best for marriage? Don’t think so.

  • My god, I feel like at a meat-market. ridiculous

    • Why? Because in some cultures women want to please their husbands, take care of the family and educate themselves and dress nice while in other countries girls do not want to wear flip flops and sweat pants in Target and get their sense of values from the latest politically correct fad?

  • No, but because you guys are talking about girls and marriage here like talking in a book shop and decide which book to buy.

    Thats the impression I got by reading the comments here.

  • Afghanistan. Ha, ha, ha, I’m humourist!

  • Accurate Information

    Most of the Information here is spot on, UK are certainly the worst, they are not even human. Russia should have been a bit more at the bottom, but it’s true Russian girls have no values, although they are beautiful, Polish girls are incredibly nice, rather too friendly. I don’t know about the rest so I can’t comment, I always wanted to marry an Indian girl, but there is a problem, they don’t like to mix.

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  • American girls and opportunities for social improvement

    Mark, I agree with the chart. I am an American (as you know), but I agree that our girls are not well-educated. Even if they go to college, they do not continue to pursue further education once they’re out of college. They figure, “Oh, my schooling is done. I don’t have to learn anything anymore.” Statistics in American studies have proven that 40% of American people who graduate from college never read another book. I find that absolutely appalling and extremely sad.

    I also agree with the beauty/style/weight statistic. A lot of our girls don’t bother to keep fit and they do outrageous things with their appearance, which we talked about previously (piercings, tattoos, dyeing their hair odd colors, wearing weird clothes).

    Sadly, I’m afraid I have to agree that our girls have no devotion to their husbands. One of the best things about being married to a Russian man is that we spend all of our time together. We go out together, do fun things at the house together. Even when we’re pursuing individual hobbies, we’re still together. We don’t have a lot of outside acquaintances, but we do have a very small circle of friends that we enjoy meeting together on occasion. In America, it’s completely normal (unfortunately) for the husband to have his own group of friends and the wife to have her own group of friends. Because of this, husband and wife are off doing things with their friends all the time, completely separate from each other, not spending a lot of time together. Personally, I don’t want to be married if I’m not going to be spending all of my time with the person. That’s why you get married, because you love the person and want to be with them all the time. American girls don’t think like that.

    One thing I wanted to ask you about is Russian girls having a 4 in values. When I was in Russia, the girls I met seemed to have good morals. They were good girls and knew how to act like ladies and be humble. I would have thought it was the Ukrainian girls who had low values. No offense to Ukrainian girls, but when I was in Russia, I met a couple of Ukrainian girls, and to be perfectly frank, they looked like h__kers. Their look was overdone. That being said, I may be judging a book by its cover. They may have been very good, humble girls under all the glitz and glamor.

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    • Erickson and Maslow and the development of healthy personalities in American girls

      Does the problem in American dating stem from the psycho-genesis of the American teen and some issues around the development of healthy personalities

      I do not think all American girls are like this of course, but it upsets me when people do not realize one of the most important parts of attractiveness and general fulfillment in life is intellectual development. I am big on Maslow hierarchy of human needs and striving for self actualization. If a girl thinks she can get by on her looks in life, she will have another thing coming.
      Men are attracted to the heart and soul of a girl.

      Maybe it has to do with Erik Erikson and the teenage experience in the USA. That is the challenge of American teens to find themselves is a different experience than a European for example. No fault of the child at all, and not all people who come from this experience have this but, the American latch key kids from single parent homes do not have the same role models and their conflict of Fidelity manifest in Identity vs. Role Confusion creates a person who is a bit lost.

      This can also come about also if the child’s parents push the teen too hard to conform to their understanding of the world. Actually I think this is often more then case perhaps. That is they are not encouraged to explore intellectually or spiritually and this sets up a human to have an unresolved conflict of identity latter in life manifest often in rebelling against their significant other as they have not yet found themselves.

      I have met countless American girls who live on the lowest level of Maslow’s chart. I do not know why? Maybe it has something to do with the high pressure in America to keep up with your neighbor and compete. Not all girls mind you, but many have an inordinate emphasis on the here and now and macro forms of entertainment.

      Europe in contrast tends to be more introspective. Everyday I see girls with old books from Used bookstore and the Library sitting on park benches reading for hours. What can I say I am not kidding. I see girls here trying to learn more languages and even if they make 800 dollars a month to live on, one hundred goes to language lessons. I know I teach languages.

      Intellectual life in many countries is important in their mate selection and tends to be focused on the sincere and the authentic guys rather than the guy who have a good job title, bank account and is meaty and buff.

      About Ukrainian girls, you met the wrong ones. The ones I know are the exact opposite as describe. I have need to Ukraine countless times and live near by and they are not like this at all. They tend to be very normal girls. However, maybe the ones that visit Moscow or the ones that stand out are like this, that is have an old fashion style of hair and a short dress and heels but the ones I know are nothing like this.

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  • Maybe I should have been Eastern European. :-) I am definitely introspective and don’t really blend well with most American girls.

    My husband constantly jokes that if you leave me alone in a room with books, notebooks, sketchbooks, pens, pencils, and a TV to watch movies, I would never come out.

    Most American girls my age are out partying, dating guy after guy, and not trying to further themselves intellectually or developing artistic interests.

    I will read about Maslow’s chart. It sounds very interesting.

    I should clarify: The Ukrainian girls I met were very nice and they loved meeting an American, it’s just that their look was very high profile. Even Americans girls don’t make themselves up like that. They were very beautiful, though.

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    • Being aware, introspective and cerebral are all traits I admire. I think they are universal, however, I have noticed in Europe especially Eastern Europe they are more common in people. I love living a life of imagination, because there are not limits. I forget which famous South American author who wrote something to the effect, ‘if you do not dream your life away you are wasting your life’.

  • Have you ever thought that maybe the reason American women are aggressive sometimes is because that maybe when they’re teenagers they’re pressured to have a certain look and are pressured to defend themselves when picked on? I know the reason sometimes I have a temper is because my family is full of mostly guys. It’s hard to be more feminine when you’ve spent most of your childhood and teenage years with the guys. I try to be feminine so I can be friends with more girls, but it’s so hard when girls in America are so fricking irritating. Now, when i’ve went into the South, the girls seemed very hospitable and caring. I think in Northern USA, the girls are pressured more to be prim, proper, and sophisticated. In the south, I believe it is more laid back.
    Also, Abbey, I believe some American women do focus on education for the rest of their careers. Such as doctors. For example,I want to be a doctor. For the rest of my life, I’ll always be learning about new things, new techniques, etc. Yes, I agree. Most jobs in America you probably wont be focusing on education.
    Also, if some guys like the nerdy quiet type, then why couldnt I get a boyfriend? Seriously. I love to read, and I can sit all day reading books. I love to draw and write stories. I agree with Abbey. If you gave me that stuff, the only thing I would ever come out for is food and water. My dad always jokes that if I was reading and the house caught on fire, I would die because I’d want to finish the chapter. >.< Haha.

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    • All good points. But the most important point is and trust me on this, guys love nerdy girls. But understand the trade off. Being nerdy or geeky means, you will find ‘the one’. You will have fewer boyfriends and more chances of finding your one and only and living happy in marriage. This is what I have observed countless times.
      While the ‘popular girls’ girls will have lots of dates and guys interested in them but their marriages do not turn out well. I have observed this countless times. Maybe not in every case but I think some stats will back me up on this.
      In life the best strategy is to fly beneath the radar and live your life according to your own way. However, this means you will spend a lot of time being lonely until your guy finds you.

      American women do have it had in some ways as there is a shift in the values of many American guys, that is they no longer are looking for a wife and family but a girlfriend for now.

      My reply to this is like I keep saying live your life. Learn languages, music, travel, write do the things you like and someday your prince will come when you least expect it. Even if you think no one will date you or you will not be popular or have a boyfriend.
      Many girls think they will never have a boyfriend and then one day the man of their dreams who is crazy about them comes a long and turns their world upside down in a positive way.

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  • Good, Brittany! It’s great that you want to be a doctor! I wasn’t speaking of all girls, of course, but in general, Americans don’t pursue further education after they leave school.

    Also, I am from the South, and I would agree with you that girls here are more hospitable. We are taught to care about people and consider their feelings. This doesn’t apply to all people here, but for the most part, people are extremely friendly.

    Keep drawing and writing stories. It’s been my experience that guys love girls who have hobbies and interests that they love devoting themselves to. Also do as Mark said: learn languages, music, travel, etc. The more interesting you make yourself, the more appealing you will be to the right guys.

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  • I know I’m learning Spanish and I took French before, but the most that I’ve traveled has been in the US. I also think that maybe for now, I shouldn’t put too much pressure on getting a boyfriend. I mean, I am only fifteen. But it’s so weird when all of my friends are standing there discussing dates and stuff when I dont have one. Dont get me wrong, I’ve had guys flirt with me, but I just dont like them back. I know I want to go to college in the south, so maybe then I’ll find a kind, southern man who’ll love me for me, not who I should be. I’m just so tired of hearing stuff about people being happy with their boyfriend or whatever when I dont get any attention what so ever. My cousins, who are guys, are always like, well you need to talk more and flirt more. Well, I’m not looking to seem like a wh_re in my school. I mean, most of the people in my school try to act like little preps and gangsters. Like, really? You’re in Virginia which is kind of where the south begins, act like normal people, not like you’re a gangster. It’s not cool.

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