Smart girls don’t get married?
Those girls who think themselves smart do not get married, or not for long. However, those girls who are actually intelligent do get married.
Educated girls pumped with ego who say I am too intelligent to get a guy to stay with me are making excuses. There is a big difference between smart and being educated or egotistical.
Mark Twain said never confuse school with your education.
Spinsters of the future – smart girls
These future old maids blame everybody but themselves for not being married. I have herd countless times, she’s too smart and most guys don’t appreciate or like intelligent women.
Nothing could be further from the truth. It’s pure biology and genetics, men want to meet and reproduce with intelligent women. Don’t you? However there’s a difference between being intelligent and being pumped with ego.
Let me tell you a story, this “intelligent girl” I met is 34 and she’s a doctor at it at university, and she claims the reason she is not married is men are intimidated by her intellect. First she is not too bright in my opinion. Maybe she has a lot of book knowledge, but I would not say she is a clever girl.
However, more important was after about maybe fifteen minutes with this girl and her inflated ego, I had to leave and go take a shower. It was all about her. I think many guys feel this way around girls from the west who put a lot of stock in being a career woman.
Yeah at 34 that girl has a good chance of finding a guy to fall in love and get married and have kids in one year. I feel bad for her yes. But there are many other people in this world that deserve more attention than some egotistical American girl. My point is women – don’t get smart too late. Humble your pride and ego.
I know this is hard to believe and swallow, but this is how many people are in this world. They are pumped with ego they cannot see their own faults. Myself included of course. But that’s not the point.
If you are a girl and not married there are two reason. First you do not want to surrender your ego. Surrendering ego I man say ‘we’ is more important than ‘I’. Second, you do not make yourself attractive for men. Men need to be inspired like the woman below who is an intelligent girl but still has the ideals and beauty of a woman.
Men are simple, if there is a damsel worth rescuing they will. However, if this girl is not worth it, usually not making an effort to be cordial and humble, then guys will go back to playing computer games and going out with the guys.
Men are programmed to mate and reproduce the same as women, and want to have a normal life with a wife and family. It is instinct. If they do not want to it is because the women are not making themselves women. They are making themselves men. Further for a man to stay with you he needs to be inspired by your ideals.
Many American women cut their hair and focus on job, rather than ideals, and become pumped with ego and turn men off.
Love and marriage for many girls is a supplement to their lives
They feel that love is an addition to their life. Love is not a supplement to your life, love is your life. Many women say I can balance career and money intelligence with my marriage. I believe that they see love as a shameful supplement to their life like they see their fitness or career. Love is not a supplement to your life. Love it is all or nothing.
Smart girls who are not married
Therefore for all the girls 35- 40 years old who are not married and keep saying they are too intelligent. This is the furthest from the truth. It’s because they’re too stuffed with book knowledge and lacked a real wisdom and intelligence to understand the realities of this life. That is life is short and you get along time. Further you will not get another chance. Humble yourself before it is too late. Commit yourself to humility or you will be cruising match.com for guys in the evening while your working on your beloved career in the day.
Real intelligent women
When I met my wife I thought she only went to high school. I did not care. She never ever mentioned that she had a master’s degree from a top school. However I noticed she was able to solve complicated brain puzzles in a flash, do Rubik’s cube sitting on the sofa! She picked up languages without ever studying, I ask wondering what was going on. Latter it came out she had a masters when to some medical school but she did not like to talk about such things as what does it matter. I was inspired by her ideals first.
Societies measure of intelligence does it matter we all add up to 100%, it is more are attitude towards people that counts.
Smart American women
In contrast many American girls I met had PhD.s and were doctors and yet couldn’t figure their way out all box. Further, they all talked about was a career and how great they are and how smart they are and always looking for a way to prove this into one up the next person.
I met this one girl in Boston who was a doctor and said with all seriousness that is one day she could not be a doctor she would end her life. What a freak.
Needless to say those girls are not married to this day, however if they are I feel sorry for the guy.
Solution for smart girls
The next time you ever hear a girl say the reason her friend is not married is too smart. Tell her to she is not humble and should get a life before, her life is over. The worst thing is I do not think people can change so my advice is simply avoid women that think themselves smart and go for girls that are smart. Remember smart girls do get married.