How to tell if a Russian girl scams or you?
If any Russian girl, or any girl ask you for money, for visa or airline tickets or for any reason she is a scammer. Drop her like a bad habit. Do you understand? Do not think too hard,it is true. Further, I recommend that you walk away and do not contact her again. I know this will hurt your feelings to hear this but you have to be strong and yield to the logic of the situation.
Why so many girl scammers in the world
Why? Much of the world is poor and 1000 dollars is a lot of money for someone, even 100 dollars is a good amount of money, so if they can get a few hundred dollars from a few guys, this is better than working in a shop all day, this is the mentality of a scammer.
Good Eastern European girls
However, I live in Eastern Europe, trust me. No self respecting girl in Europe or Asia would ask for money. Even if the world is poor they will not ask for money unless they are a scammer. A normal good girl you want to spend time with will not ask for money. In fact she will be ashamed if you try to offer her money.
Guys wake up. I live here. No normal girl would do this. I know scores of girls from Russia, Ukraine, Poland, China etc, however, not one normal girl would ever ask your for money, even if it was about a visa or a chance to see you. Trust me on this one. It is not in the culture of a respectable women. Maybe an American or UK women would do this, but not a Polish girl for example, at least not one I would ever date.
In fact, when my wife was my girlfriend and I offered to pay for anything like a trip, she did not like that at all, even if we had been dating for several years, and she would for sure not take money from me. Even now that we are married she still does not like it. Love is never about money.
My wife for example has no desire to live in the USA, unless I really wanted to, unless I dragged her there. I was a high flier in corporate America (at least I thought so), but she would prefer to live with me in Eastern Europe with me as a humble teacher than leave Eastern Europe for some desperate housewives/bay watch land.
Russian girls love Russia
Russian girls love Russia and want to stay if they can. I know many that had full visas in the US and moved back to their beloved Russia or had chances to go and did not. These are normal Russian girls.
The good girls I know would prefer to picnic in a local forest and not have a guy pay for some fancy vacation or sponsor her for a trip somewhere rather than to ask for money.
If a lady you have been corresponding with and asks for money for any reason, it is a scam.
If she does not scam you now, she will scam you when she is in the US and has a passport and can take half your money and your house. Do you understand? Money is not about love.
No normal girl wants you to sponsor her, get a green card or passport or visa, or ask for money or help in anyway.
Is this girl trying to scam you?
Take these steps to prevent yourself from being defrauded:
- Ask to talk on the phone and see how it feels, use your intuition.
- Research her on the Internet, look everything you know about her on search engines.
- Look up her ip address check projecthoneypot.org – where you can cross reference her ip found in the header of the e-mail under advanced options of your e-mail service or simply finding the show full header link.
You can see if her IP is that of a spammer. Scamming is a form of Spam.
- Ask for a specific photo of her wearing something in a specific place. This way you know she is not sending the same photos to every other guy.
My best advice about Russian women
If you really want to smoke girls out, go and visit her. In fact you should do this anyway. I have have taken trips all over the world. Get a discount flight and book a cheap apartment and go there.
Tell you if you ever got married you want to live in Russia and see her reaction. Hey I live in Eastern Europe its great. If she loves you she will not care you are a teacher in Eastern Europe and she will not get a USA green card. Smoke her out. But use your intuition. No need to be overly cautious, just be aware and connect the dots.
The good news is most Russian girls are honest and normal. Further if you use the site I recommend on my website about girls chances are less. Most of the sites I recommend are not only free but more for people who live in Russia, therefore, these girls are not looking for foreigners.
What if you visit her and feel she is a fraud? No loss you can meet real good Russian girls everywhere on the same trip and you will forget about her in a heart beat.