Polish girls

The purpose of this post is to tell you where to meet Polish girls for true love.

How to meet Polish girls online

I live in Krakow, Poland.  I am an American and happily married. The reason I wrote this post is to give you some ideas about how to meet Polish girl. I give you a couple specific recommendations where to meet a Polish girl for true love and marriage.  Lets be honest if you were searching the term Polish girls you do not want to read the philosophy of dating but are looking for love and specific useful bits of information to help you find your Polish princess.

I did not meet my wife online. I meet her when I was living in Poland, and I have a Polish background so it is a bit of a different story. However, I have some ideas for you.

Kasia has made my life complete.

However, for most guys that are not living in Warsaw or Gdansk or traveling through the countryside and do not have a Polish family (grandparents) like I did the first step might be online dating.

When looking for a date, make darn sure they are the right age for you.  The best Polish females are in their 20s and 30s as they are looking for a real relationship.  In my opinion students that are say 18 or 19 or 20 years old are too young and will cause you and them problems. They are not mentally complete and erratic in their emotions and have a high flight factor. Better is a 25-year-old to 27-year-old. I met my wife when she was 27 years old and she had a Master’s degree and a career going. She was living with her sister in Krakow just finishing school. I think if you are a guy in your 30s, 27 is a great age to search for.

Rule of seven for meeting your spouse. – Some people say you should take your age, divide by 2 and add seven years. I meet my wife when I was forty-one and she was twenty-seven so this is about right.

Poland is a conservative society and this should be respected. It is Catholic and the family is the center.  Just because they are smiling and friendly might just mean they are friendly people, that is it. However, it does not mean you should pick them up. Only go for real true love as life tends to karmic in this regard. The laws of Karma are in place in the realm of dating.

OK enough of all that stuff and here are some sites to meet ladies from Warsaw to Krakow and even in London and the Chicago.

Polish women on free dating sites in Poland

  • The largest free Polish dating site is This is not as user-friendly as the above mentioned site as it is in Polish.  However, the benefit of this is simply it is the largest. It has an English language interface for Polish girls in Ireland Polish girls in the UK and the USA. This site has the most people on it and most Poles use it.
  • There is also and the latter is just for dating while the former is more a social networking site which of course will lead to dates if you have the gift of gab and can chat with a Polish lady. However, it also is in the Polish language. I think they have added and English interface, it is a little more swanky in my opinion then the one above.
  • Of course you can always go to the biggest social networking sites in Poland.  That is, this is Facebook for Polish people. in the Polish language also. Nasza Klassa (our class) has lost momentum and Facebook is where Poles are. I also recommended a website I use to work at called nightlife but it non longer seems to be attracting new blood. But a lot of nice photos of Polish girls on there anyway.

Are there any scammers on these site? As much as might be on Match in the USA, they are made for Polish girls looking for Polish guys and Poland is an EU country which never had the economic crisis. They are not a Russian dating website in the 1990s.

Also please give me feedback my Polish girls post. I am trying to create a resource of real value to my readers and want to know how I might improve. For example should I give more information about the country of Poland or simply focus on the main points of the post, that is meeting these women. Is the organization set out well? Should I give more information about how to approach women and what to chat about? Do you prefer more photo and pictures or just facts and useful information. Also consider subscribing to my RSS feed on both comments and posts as I try to keep this girls for love site pretty up to date.

Now if you can take a flight to Poland, I recommend Krakow, Poland as it has about 100,000 students and one studentka (female student) might find you interesting. I recommend the clubs on the market square or the cafes of Krakow’s Kazimierz district. It is the artsy trendy area where locals hang out.

Good luck on your quest for true love with  Polish girls online.

Pages I created to help you find a Polish girl who are worth exploring about love and marriage in Poland

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By Mark Biernat

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116 replies on “Polish girls”

Hi Admin, Great site been reading everything for the past couple of days.

So I’m going to Poland in few days, any advice? Well I can take anything. Talk to me,I’m 25 years old, traveling alone and want to have a blast. Like full mode blast. Will stay there for around 10-12 days. My budget will be around 3000 Euros. Enough?

Thank you.

Since 3,000 Euro is about 12500 pln an amount of money some Polish people live a whole year on, I find it hard to believe you could spend that in 10 to 12 days evn if you were exceedly decadent and reckless with you money.

I would advise staying in youth hostels to economomize on money and more chances of meeting 20 something people and girls. Hotels are for business travellers.

Then I would take trains everywhere you can meet more girls, a nice studentka on summer holiday.

If you want to meet nice girls stay away from the pubs, maybe the discos but not pubs. Meet them at Empik or the Libary or park or somewhere fun, just walking though the center.

Eat at milk bars, these old communist cafe to save money and meet more young students. Also hanging out at cafes with a laptop will lead to many conversations with girls.

I would hit Krakow, and Warsaw to start. Let me know if you have any question, be specific as possible and I can help you more.

Well where to start. First I’ll travel alone and I’ll head to Krakow first. What I’m asking for is where in Krakow should I stay? I have no info at all! Since you live there you know everything I suppose. I want to meet the girls there, explore? Points of interests maybe? And most importantly the nightlife.

Aren’t hostels where backpackers stay? Never tried it! I could maybe rent an apartment or a good hotel? I will not be spending that much money of course, lets just say 1000 euro is for back up and maybe shopping?

Also how is the weather there at the moment? Thing I haven’t traveled for a while and I really want to visit Poland and go wild.

Walk arround the park in the main center and there are many student girls in the park around the center reading books. If you can chat them up you have a nice girl you could get married to. I would avoid Univerity of jagiellonia girls as they are head trip egomaniacs mostly, as Jagiellonian is like an Ivy league school and you will have a feminist.

Go wild doing adventure things like Polish mountains, stuffing your face on Polish food and drink like a viking, but try not to break girls hearts. Go wild but do not in a cool way. What can I say.

With the money you have there you can buy anything you want. Anything. Spend it wisely. By the way how did you get that money that is a nice bank roll?

About hotels it is your choice. I am a seasoned business traveller. I was billing consulting rates of 300 dollars and hour staying in five-star hotels. When I travel for pleasure I would stay in a hostel or a cheap hotel. Hotels can be a few hundred a night or at the least 80 dollars, do you really want to shell that cash, you only 25? But if you have cash why no.
But if you want a nice hotel room for private reasons, you could stay at Sheraton or Holiday Inn, in Kazimierz there are many hotels that are not too pricey.

Most of the hostels are very nice, for example there is the Good Bye Lenin hostel or Nathan’s villa Hostel I think both run by western guys. Or the Globart Hostel or Dizzy Daisy. So many cool trendy hostels you can meet nice traveling chicks.
For nightlife go to Prozacs, anything on Szewzka, Bracka, Jana, Florinska streets. Anywhere around the main market square.
Kazimierz is highly recommended, many clubs with tons of nice local girls.

The weather is in the 50s this week but is going back to the upper 40s. It rains a lot in Krakow.
Shopping Bonarka is one of the biggest malls in Europe, but the two in the center are Galleria Kazimierz and Krakowska.
Many sleazy night clubs that advertize in Krakow to single guys looking for dancers, mostly tourist traps.

I really like the way you write about Poland and Polish girls. Your wife must be a very happy woman. Everything you say is true and I can tell that it is not as easy to keep Polish women happy as Russian or Ukrainian. I am divorced (for the last 7 years) and I decided that if I want to marry again, he must be from foreign country – I am Polish(just for the fun of it,and for the opportunity to speak English,and maybe learn some other language, and I love to discover different cultures)but when I start to think about it there are so many setbacks, I am not sure it would be worth it. I would not move anywhere (except US, because I love it) and also my career, would I be able to work outside Poland?
But still, there is something about foreign men that is exotic and compelling, that I can’t stop think about it.
Well maybe someday I will find my foreign prince charming.

Thank you once again for those warm words about Polish women.

Thanks a lot for the info man it’s very helpful.
Can you tell me about the apartments? Price? Location? Do you have any website you recommend or something?

Regarding my money it’s my job. A good job and probably because I’m from Kuwait. Don’t look like an Arab that’s for sure.

Well Kuwait is a rich country, money flows through the street like oil. Check Gumtree all the prices and ads for flats in Krakow are there.

I have met some nice Polish ladies, here, in Turkey. They are Erasmus Exchange students coming to our college to study engineering practices. Some of them are my grad. projects students and definitely know how they should behave and make some fun. They are very kind and intelligent as i know and sometimes i invite them to my house for dinner.

Besides, i will go to Opole for an international Erasmus meeting there, at the end of April. There, i plan to give a lecture for OuTech students on my current study topics. I think i will visit Krakow and see some historical places (including Auschwitz) and bet i will have good days there.

Thank you for all the kind words, really. Poland, I would recommend Krakow and not just for the Jewish exhibits (because of the emotional component tend to be exhausting). I would recommend the castle and the market square, the church on the rocks with the spring that has holy water and yes Kazimierz. But if ou just do the dark WWII stuff you will be emotionally spent.

Polish students tend to be soft spoken and sweet. I have another website that details a little more about Poland.


Based of information provided by you, I am planning to make a trip to Poland and Ukraine for total duration of 15 days (second half of July).

Would be great if you can provide me insights on the places to do any type of volunteering activity in Kraków/Kiev/other cities of Poland/Ukraine where I can meet maximum girls. I am interested in meeting a girl who:

Is devoting her life for the benefit of others, I mean engaged in social work without hope of any consideration, the bottom line being she should be very hind hearted

Is very affectionate & genuine.

Looks for long-term relationship.

I can join volunteering associations and volunteer there or can join some other hobby activity where I have the opportunity to meet her.

All and all I want to know the practical aspects of this idea and want to know other options of meeting her and want to really structure this.So i want your advise on it, please give me suggestions on this.

I will be honoured to receive your advise on the same.

Once again thanks for all the hard work you did on this website and believe me you are doing a great favour on mankind.

Deep Reverence,

I think for a two-week time you would not practically have time to do volunteer work, except for giving away free English language lessons, which you will get a cross-section of society, not necessarily the girl you are looking for.

Heart centered girl – However, to meet a compassionate girl you might try, yoga classes. Girls are really into Yoga in Poland and Ukraine and the type of girl who takes these classes are usually heart centered.
Polish girls mobile phone numbers – I would focus on the above idea to start, or play raw numbers. That is be charming in your approach and get girls phone numbers everywhere you can. That is, meet as many girls as you can, by collecting their mobile numbers and when you get back home though text messages, discern the lambs from the wolves.

Hi Admin,

Thanks for the response.

Really appreciate your site. You have done a fabulous job. Thanks.

Wondering for your advice on few things:-

(1) Which of these cities have highest percentage of english speaking girls:- Warsaw, Krakow,Kiev or Odessa

(2) Which is the cheapest option of travelling from Kiev to Krakow.
Train or flight. (If trains are cheap during day, I don’t mind travelling during the day) It’s advisable that rail pass is bought?

(3) As Kraków city is dominated by student population, will I find many girls,if i visit in august last week/September first week or you will advise me to come over here in October.

Will appreciate your response. Thanking you in anticipation.

Warsaw has the most then Krakow and Kiev and last Odessa for English speaking girls in Eastern Europe. The cheapest way to go from Krakow to Kiev is local train to the boarder of Ukraine, walk over and mini bus to Lviv and train to Kiev. Krakow always has students even in the summer but 80% are come in October, you can not even ride the tram without being packed up against leggy blond Polish student girls.

But why are you going there to meet them? Love or just to be a player. Remember treat girls with the respect they deserve or the laws of Karma tend to be strong.

Ask me any questions you need about Eastern Europe.

Sir, it was very kind of you that you responded to my questions. Thanks a lot. I am not a player, but I am looking for love,very serious relationship and marry woman of my dreams (I am really inspired by your site and have decided that I will marry only Eastern European woman). That is my only intention of visiting Eastern Eurpope. I was asking for student population because I was considering the highest probability of meeting my dream girl. So is the month of mid august to sept first week fine?

Also, I will really appreciate if you help me as regards the places where I can meet a religious girl (who has solid values) in Poland/Ukraine. (I hate meeting girls in pubs)Thanking you in advance Warm regards from Raj.

Hi, I won’t ask about Poland, because I live here :). I just need help, cause I met someone in here, and I don’t even know his name. We talk a little, and I am not sure how it’s possible that we haven’t told our names to each other. I know where the guys come from, and they have Polish roots, is there a chance to find them? Also one of the guys live at the moment in Warsaw.

You can find him but I need more information. You can write me directly if you want but with the use of the Internet and an a little imagination you can find him as foreigners stick out like in Poland.
What does he do for work? Where is he from in the USA? What are his hobbies you have to try to start with that.
Missed connections in love are one of the most elusive things in dating. People search for years, while others find their partner through luck some how.

Well two days ago I tried to find him on Facebook. But I suppose I had to do something wrong.
The thing is, we just seen each other once, we talked just a little, mostly we just danced together, that’s all. Situation is not easy, because I am engaged. Perhaps I am just afraid of marriage? I just want to try find him, beacause we haven’t say goodbye to each other. I don’t know, what is wrong with me, but I can’t just forget the guy I’ve met on 16/06/2012, after Poland vs. Czech Republic game in Gdansk (we have met in Pub). About those guys I just know that they all are from Chicago but they have Polish roots. One of them lives in Warsaw now, where he works, and He speak Polish very well. The guy I am looking for lives in Frankfurt, and I am not sure what he’s doing over there. One thing I am sure, that He loves reggae music.
I don’t know what more can I say about this situatiom. I know it’s all weird.

Thanks a lot for your help.

With endless searches on the Internet you can make great progress looking for missed connections. Linkedin is one site people use.Try Linkedin it is like goldernline in Poland. But chance are it was a moment rather than destiny as if destiny was ment to be, you two would come together not matter what.

You are probably right, Thanks a lot.

I come from the school of thought that the guy has to be wowed by the girl enough to search her down and sweep her off her feet. Women have to pay a price in being married, they have to take care of their husband and raise the children. This is a lot of work. You do not want some guy who just is cool about things. You want some guy that would find you, take you back to his cave with you kicking and screaming until you have no choice to love him. I believe that women, just want love to happen. Everyone does but the man has to prove himself. And if this means finding you after one conversation he will. But if it is not ment to be than it was not destiny.
If you have questions about your current relationship that is another story. You are most likely a pretty Polish girl. You could get any guy in the whole world almost to fall in love with you. I think you should be a choser in relationships.
If you get married you spend 24/7 with the same person until you leave this earth. So make sure you have your fantasy guy who can win your heart. Make sure that you are sure.
Yet on the other hand, it often looks better somewhere out there, yet it is difficult to find a decent guy.

Oh my, it’s so deep. I just don’t know what to do right now. I am so confused. I love my fiance, for sure. I just, don’t know. I just don’t know myself enough. I am so young, maybe to young for planning family? We are planning wedding next year. I just thought right now that being here is not enough. I think I am just afraid to stay here, have babies, etc. I just want something more. I am afraid that my dreams are just to big for my current partner. I know he loves me. I am lost in here. You are very smart guy, your wife is so lucky :). Thanks for all these words. You are right in all of it. I just have to think about all of it.

I do not have enough information and can not guide you. It depends on what kind of person you are. Me I met my other half and we spend 24/7 together. It is great. There is no doubt or questions. But you are younger and living in Poland I think.
In Poland people get together younger. I travelled the world before I met my wife. I also am Polish – even if I was raised in America and I am Catholic and I take marriage very seriously.
On of the things Polish girls complain about with Polish guys is they are good men and they love them but there is no, wow, and spin my world arround.
But understand this comes from Polish culture because of 50 years of communism and really rainy cold weather has a dampening effect on the mood of people. There is not great wow and Polish people like to complain.
In contrast when Polish people go to the USA, often they are more optimistic. I mean we moved to an Island off the coast of Florida and do you think we get depressed or down. Rarely.
Polish girls also see foreign guys as amazing because they are so dynamic. But being dynamic does not mean anything. I know a lot of foreign guys that seem so cool and everything but they have no values, they are players and they will cheat or get divorced. Polish guys not as much as it is still a Catholic country.
I am American but also kind of Polish and Catholic and it is a sin for me to consider any other women not that I am married. Before marriage everything cab be OK (almost) as you are testing who you want to be with.
If you are a girl who likes adventure and travel if you went to the USA or the UK or Ireland I think you would meet a guy. But if you intend to stay in Poland Polish guys are good, but do not expect the tension and mystery caused by dating someone from another culture.
Dating someone from another culture has pluses of the wow but negative of the do not know what to expect.
I think Polish girls do best with Irish catholic guys, Polish guys, American Catholic of Polish background and in some cases French and Italian. It’s all about culture.
I think the best matches are Americans that are Polish or at least very catholic. I also think Polish guys are the best match for Polish girls too. Just different.

About kids, you can never be ready but when you have a child everything is fine.

What it comes down to is do you really love this guy and he loves you. Is it wygodny or is it real. Take your time to think but also do not let your mind play games with you. to jeden wielki skam, polowa ludzi to agenci tego portalu. Jesli rozpoznasz jedego z nich i zaczynasz robic kolo tego zadyme, zwyczajnie blokuja korespondencje do twojego profilu. Jesli skonczy sie czlonkowstwo, wtedy pojawia sie pelno dziewczyn piszacych rozne bzdurne listy, po to abys znow wykupil czlonkowstwo, poniewaz bez wykupienia nie da sie odpowiedziec na korespondencje. Wszystko co opisalem powyzej zostalo dokladnie sprawdzone w bardzo prosty sposob; po zalozeniu fikcyjnego profilu, w ciagu miesiaca bylo na ten profil okolo setki wejsc, kilkadziesiat oczek i listow, podczas gdy na oryginalny nie weszla nawet jedna osoba, procz kilkoro agentek. Innym dzialeniem, jest zmiana w twoich danych profilu lub usuwanie ich bez powiadomienia cie o tym. To co robia to zwyczajne przestepstwo, czas zamknac ten caly portal.

Hey, I have two questions – are your parents Polish and which region are they from? You and I are both Biernat and I was wondering are your parents “south Biernats” or “north Biernats”. Also it’s very disturbing, because I have an uncle – Marek, and you even remind a little of him, ha.

I have some advice about Polish women too. Guys, if you want to date Polish women, there is just one rule you have to obey – Don’t be Polish. Really. Poland is Catholic country with few immigrants and we are attracted to novelty. To Spanish, Italian, Irish, American, British, French, Australian guys – you can just walk right into the club, say some words in English (weird accent is welcome) and you got yourself a girl. I think that’s why there are so many mixed marriages, and in 90% it’s “Polish girl – (sth) man” couple. We are tired of our men and want something else.

I don’t speak for myself, since I’m very happy in a relationship with a Polish guy, but I have many female friends who think this way.

So foreign guys come to Poland and have some fun.

My grandparents come from Eastern Poland around Lublin but my parents are from Philadelphia.

About your advice with Polish women, basically yes. But this is the case everywhere in my experience, maybe a little more in Poland since it does not have a lot of immigrants. I think in every country foreigners generally are seen as exotic. I mean in the USA some French, Swedish or Polish guys I know get inordinate amount of girls, mostly because of they are from somewhere else. It is human nature to spice things up.

The marriages in Poland I know to foreigners work best if the male is Catholic because they share a commonality of values. Poland is a religious country and the girls as much as adventurous as they are still want someone to take home to Mama. A nice Catholic boy to have a spiritual connection with. I mean I am a world traveling businessman and I married my spiritual partner in live. There are things that are nice, there are things that are good and there are things that are important with mate selection. In my book looks and faith are what are important.

Hi Mark,

Trust you are doing fine and helping a lot of people by creating this solid piece of work. Really appreciate that.

I have a question, in one of your post, you suggested that for the person who is searching for long term relation, avoid polish girls who smoke cigrattes but i am in warsaw right now and i hardly find girls which don’t smoke.

Do you suggest me to go to Pozan or wroclaw. Do you suggest any other small cities where i can find my soulmate. But i am afraid that in small cities, whether girls will be spaking english or not ?

I will be grateful for your advice. I wish you good day. Thanks, Kind Regards, Raj

I am about to embark on my second visit to the wonderful city of Krakow. I had my first visit back in June 2016, loved it sooooo much I am returning on the 11th of September 2016. Apart from the usual tourist things, one of the reasons for my trip was to perhaps have a small chance of finding myself a lovely Polish girl to have a relationship with and hopefully marry. I did meet one or two nice girls, but only in the last couple of days of my visit (I’m quite shy), that is why I am returning so soon. I speak a few words of Polish, and would like to learn more. I’m a kind person with a good heart, and would love to meet a girl with the same temperament. My main question is; do Polish girls mind strangers going up to them and trying to talk to them, or would they be offended?


Each girl is different, so it all depends but here is a female’s point of view. Personally I think you should go forward, no one will be offended if you initiate a little chat. In order to take a first step in a romantic rapport you have to initiative conversation. Even if there is a linguistic barrier you can break this and prevail.

I visited Krakow about a week ago (Sept 2018) and I met a girl in the old town square. she suggested we go to Cubano, we did and we had a great time. we exchanged numbers and texted each other at least once while I was still in Poland. However, she has stopped replying to my text and calls upon my return to the United States. Do you have any idea why? I can only think of the distance between but I can only address this issue if she opens up to me.

I do not have enough information? What did you talk about? Are the text messages getting through? Have you tried to call her? If you were moved by her is there any chance you can write her a physical letter?

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