The purpose of this post on Polish dating is threefold:
- I want to give you ideas about Polish dating based on my personal expereinces.
- I would like to give you a resource for learning some Polish love phrases and one recommendation about the language.
- I will to recommend websites to find Polish girls that my friends have personally used to find their love.
The value in this post is I want to give you clear, crisp and concise where and how to find a relationship. This is not theory but something concrete and specific. Further, I live in Poland and am married, so I am giving you the insiders websites and view. Also, I used to work in the industry in Poland many years ago but have no connection with it now. This is why it will be of value. to you. The greatest complement you can give to me is leave a comment about love and dates with European women or love and marriage in general especially if it is about Poland.
Polish girls are conservative in relationships
I am married in Poland, therefore, I think I know what I am talking about in this regard. My underlying premise regarding Polish girls is they are generally conservative and to appeal to them you should be idealistic. Idealistic means you need to have morals and values. In a survey the number one value in Poland was family. They want to have a family. I would not say this was the goal of women, at least the ones I meet when growing up in the Boston. therefore, talk about high culture like Eastern European literature, Slavic languages, history of central Europe and art and your values and your world view. Learn something about Poland. Let them know if you are interesting in a family or not so they can decide, do not tell them something in this regard if you do not mean it.
You might be able to date a girl from the States with a direct approach, but Polish women have been flooded with appeals from foreign guys who try to win their hearts affection. I walk through the main market square here I live in Krakow, called the ‘Rynek’ and everyday I see Brits hitting on Polish waitresses at the cafes. This approach has not worked here since the 1990s I would say, if every. Look at any picture on the web, ladies from Poland are attractive, thin and cultured, desirable as mates that is life long partners in marriage but really are wise to the ridiculous tactics guys use to try to pick them up.
Statistics about Poles:
- Highly educated. Most of the Women in Poland have a masters degree (over 50% this is because society here places a premium on intellect). This is compared to 11% in the UK or US for example.
- Poland is still 99% catholic and take values such as family and life seriously.
- Dreamy. Maybe it has something to do with the weather, however, I have found that Poles are more imaginative and dream in their cognitive life than meat and potato ‘show me the money’ . statistically 93% consider family as their highest value. American girls for example might not say this.
- Polish women want to me married and stay in a marriage not just be a bride. Compare a 19% divorce rate in Poland to over 50% in the West.
Therefore, if you want to win the heart of a Polish girl appeal to her ideals and imagination. However, if you misuse this and try to win her hand with wrong intentions then the dishonor is on you and I believe God sees everything.
Love phrases for Polish dating
Here is a useful pages (I wrote one and my wife wrote the other) on Polish romantic words of love, so if you find your princess and it is real then you can use them with sincere intentions.
It would also help if you learn a little bit of the language (here is a free site I recommend for the language www.polishgrammar.com).
How to approach girls in Poland if you are physically in Poland
I have lived here many years and my first rule is forget the Internet to find a date. Go to Poland and meet girls everywhere simply by talking to them about normal things. In Boston this did not work for me that well. Here, talking about the weather or politics does work. This is the best way to meet someone. Take a class in the Polish language, even if you are in the USA.
If you still prefer the Internet, use websites like Gumtree.com and Craigslist.com and Polishforums.com to arrange a Polish tutor to teach you the language in your area. Or hire a student who is cleaning for money and maybe you will hit it off. However, the best way is to travel to Warsaw or Krakow directly. Stay at a youth hostel. It does not cost a lot of money. If you do not have the confidence and courage to meet Polish girls in person then that is another issue.
Dating sites in Poland I recommend
These are the insiders sites based on personal experience, not something you will find by searching unless you know the language.
- There is a Polish chat that can be used for dating called gadu-gadu.pl I recommend this. However, again it will help if you know the language.
- One of my friends meet his wife on a sympatia.onet.pl.
- There is also something similar to this at znajomi.interia.pl/randki.
- Also consider nightlife.pl There are many beautiful photos of Polish girls there.
There are other Polish UK dating sites, I guess they are popular but do you really want to be fishing for Polish ladies that are already overwhelmed with affection from UK and foreign guys. With these matchmaking sites you run the risk that the person you just meet online has already been spoiled by excess attention.
The main thing is if you are serious about finding a relationship, try in person or in the personals I recommended in this post, as they are the insiders guide, not anything too commercial. However, I recommend the former with a trip here.
Let me know what you think about my post on finding a single girl from Poland. Specifically are there any sites you recommend that I have missed? What experiences have you have with relationships with someone from Eastern Europe, a date in Poland or anything related that will add value to the readers. If you share this it could help others, so please comment.