The purpose of this post is simply to show you some pictures of Pakistani brides. Also to comment a little on Pakistani conception of marriage and ask for your ideas about these girls.
If you have read my post on Pakistani girls (I also have recommendations where to find Urdu brides online), you know I think that Pakistan is a pretty good place in terms of women and brides. I think highly of Karachi brides and the traditions of marriage and I have respect for this culture which men and women treat each other with kindness, in most cases.
Why a Pakistani bride is not for me – but maybe for you
The women there are loyal and hot. However, for me it is too foreign a culture. I am a American European guy and a Catholic. Therefore, these Pakistani brides were never a serious consideration for me for love, maybe I should have, but I think the culture is too different from mine.
Further I would not want an arranged marriage. Can you imagine marrying some girl from your high school. No way. there is no way I would be happy with any girl in my past, I want to choose. Many of these Pakistani girls are required to be in an arrange marriage.
A Muslim bride will be be better off with a Muslim groom in most cases as they understand each other’s culture.
Marriage in Pakistan – Pakistani bridal customs
A marriage in Pakistan is seen a a joining of the two parents families. It bridges two clans. This is a very traditional view of marriage. I like the idea that when people get married they leave their parents to cling to their spouse. Again this is just a cultural difference. I would not want my parents involved in my relationship. It would make things very complicated.
Most marriages in Pakistan are arranged. I know a lot of guys from this area and they all have arranged marriages. their parents choose the wife based on family and even astrology (more Hindu – Desi) and spiritual signs. I think they have the option to opt out of the marriage if they want, but most get married to their parents first choice.
Many do not even meet their Pakistani bride to be until days before the wedding. However, they may have exchanged letters before hand written in Urdu or English.
Arranged Pakistani bride – a teenager boys fantasy
I like love marriages not arranged Pakistani marriages. However, to a teenage boy the idea that a bride will just be given to you, rather than going through all the dating rituals of western culture is not a bad idea.
He would not have to put up with about ten years of head games American girls put most guys through. Basically he does not have to worry about chasing his bride, she is just delivered basically to him when he is ready. Not a bad idea. And and perhaps most important Pakistani brides are totally hot., with few exceptions. Take a look at these pictures of Pakistani brides, they are beautiful, each one has her own quality to her.
However, I still like the idea of a love marriage better.
Shaadi in Urdu
The wedding reception for Pakistani weddings are held at the brides house.
For about two weeks before the wedding the Pakistani bride to be goes under a process of beautification and seclusion with herbs and rituals. They have a mayoon or mayun (either spelling), which is like you imagine from a Bollywood film, that is colorful dancing.
The herbs I think are turmeric and sandalwood mostly. I see these sold in Indian and Pakistani stores in Boston pretty cheap. I think they are not bad in terms of skin care and anti-oxidants. Maybe the next time I am in the States I will pick some up. I think turmeric is one of the best skin healers, the yellow color are flavonoids that is what rejuvenates the skin and why women use it.
Are Pakistani brides happy
I think most are, as this is what has been conveyed to me, through people I know personally. Although I can not look directly into their hearts. However, arranged marriage is not a bad, thing, just not for me. I again believe in love and marriage with love. People should be able to make their own choices and mistakes if the case may be.
However, in Pakistani culture it seems to work very well. Hats off to these people to produce happy brides and grooms and marriages.
Pictures of a Pakistani bride
I hope these pictures of Pakistani brides inspired you. Which one is the best looking? Try some of the Middle Eastern and Indian dating sites I recommend on my website. If you look through my posts you will see many specific recommendations on where the best place to meet a girl is online or in person.
Please leave a comment about the photos or on your thoughts on marriage. However, do not use chat style, use grammar and proper capitalization and punctuation. But I would like to hear what you think of the photos of a these girls or ideas about brides in Pakistan in general.