Irish girls – find single women from Dublin to Belfast

The purpose of this post is to tell you how to find a real Irish girl for true love. Most Americans do not know how.

There are 4.6 million people in the Republic of Ireland and for such a small country it has had a tremendous cultural impact anyone could be proud of. I like the Irish and I do not have a drop of Irish blood in me. I love the music, the literature and the people.  I am writing to the music of Hayley Westerna (a cutie), a modern Enya.  So take a deep breath I love all people, this is more a critique about a strategy for a single guy to find a traditional girl who would lead to a life of happiness. If you want to find your lass under the rainbow instead of a pot of gold, my recommendation is go East young man. Way East to Ireland.

It is not a cliche the Irish do have a disproportional number of women with fair skin and red hair.

Shamrock shakes and green beer in American clubs on St. Patrick’s day or authentic Irish Catholicism and loneliness under cloudy skies?

There are two types of Irish women. Irish from Ireland and those from America. For some reason, and I am sure it the culture they are polar opposites. Women in Ireland are like Polish girls, pretty soft-spoken and sweet, yet the problem is some are being corrupted by the UK drinking culture and feminism. The Irish American women are generally a pain in my personal experience. They have been here for several generations and take pride in how hard their grandparents had it (fleeing from the potato blight, not the great Irish potato famine of the century before), but they themselves have lived nothing but a life of ease. A cushy American lifestyle with the cultural ideas of feminism and a ‘strong woman’ who stands up to her man on a daily basis.

They are purely American girls with a chip on their shoulders, even if cloaked in green on St. Patty’s day with corn beef, cabbage and potatoes on Sunday, reading books like Gangs of New York on their tablet. Based on their shape they have not experienced any Gorta Mór. Even the cultural memory of the great famine has been overwritten my feminist American cultural programming. Those in diaspora embrace nationalism (I despise nationalism as it has caused so much suffering). I can only conclude for a cultural memory to be erased and not transmitted from generation to generation in a meaningful way that it influences the depth of an individual, needs a very strong force. That force is America relationship culture which overwrite the cultural source code and suppresses biological instinct. Kind of like saltpeter in the food supply that suppresses ardor and maternal instincts in populations.

All said and done the Irish are a find people, friendly, cheerful and always up for a celebration.

Admittedly maybe this is a function of my experience growing up in New England and subsequently Irish Boston meeting so many American Irish then living in Europe and being in Dublin, that has given me a distorted impression. I can see the contrast of the two cultures.

Women of Éire contrasting portraits example
I worked for an Irish company in Europe, and my boss was a woman and sweet and smart. In contrast, I worked for an American Irish female boss and she was ruthless for petty reasons always trying to prove herself.  This is pure cultural influence.  One man’s experience and might not be the rule. You let me know what you think.

It is like the yin and yang of Irish people. The Irish Catholics in Europe try to just be good and are a bit in the shadows. While in American a lot of people talk about religion yet have embraced the aggressive boastful American imperial business culture. Below is how to marry a nice female from Ireland.

The Irish do like to wear green.

Anotherfriend.com review

So when you are searching for Irish girls I can highly recommend anotherfriend.com rather than an American dating site with an Irish component. Anotherfriend is run a person who has good moral character and the managing director is an Irish woman who is married and with a family and excellent morals. They use a subsidiary company based in Krakow, Poland that is a quality check for dating sites profiles and they screen for scammers 24/7. I worked for this company indirectly on the inside and I can tell you they make a very good effort to provide quality.

If you live in the USA another way to meet Irish girls is fly to Ireland. It is a short trip over the big pond. The flight is only six hours. I have been shopping in the mall for longer than six hours. Aer Lingus has good meals and a nice Green uniforms for their cute Celtic stewardesses. I would recommend staying at a youth hostel or do couchsurfing.org.

How to chat with Irish girls for free

You can try Irish dating to chat with Irish girls, I would not recommend American dating with an Irish spin to it if you are looking for an Irish girl. Go for real dating sites.

A better way to chat with Irish girls for free is this:

  • gumtree.ie
  • boards.ie

With these two sites you can chat with Irish girls for free all day long, get their mobile numbers, marry them get an EU visa and live happily ever after.

Fair haired Irish woman on St. Patty’s day.

Ireland is an Island of villages, After Dublin, Belfast and Cork you will not find a town with more than 100,000 people. Maybe Derick, Limerick and Galloway has some population, but at that, you talking towns mostly with populations of 20,000 or less a separated by green fields and stone walls. This may not be fertile economic territory but it is a choice place for meeting an Irish lass or at least a leprechaun girl who will keep you warm at night.

You can meet Irish that travel to Boston by staying at the Irish Embassy hostel Boston. Before I could find a flat in Boston I lived there for about three months. It was in the time of a housing shortage. There were countless Irish lasses coming through there.

American Irish in Boston are nothing special. You are better off dating a Russian girl from Brookline.

The Celtic from Northern Ireland or Scotch Irisher are different from the Irish off the south mostly because of the religion. I am Catholic and partial towards the south as I have an affinity towards from a world’s view perspective. I see the world the same.

Smoking hot Irish lass in the USA. Classic Celtic features, but with a bad cultural habit. Choose a bride on character rather than lineage or look.

What do Irish girls look like?

Irish girls are connected to French girls believe it or not. They are Celtic in base but there is a mix also.  Generally Irish girls follow the cliché, fair skin and fair eyes.  They can be very beautiful. However, I do not know how well they age, because of their fair complication they are very sensitive to the skin. Irish girls in the USA are not as beautiful as Irish girls in Ireland.

The black Irish, may or may not come from the Spanish fleet that ship wrecked in the 1500s.  I think this is more legend than truth. I think the reality is every population has generic variation.  These Irish girls have white skin and black hair. They are beautiful Irish girls.

If an Irish girl is thin, this is great, but unfortunately many Irish girls are becoming western. Like American or UK girls.

The real outstanding question today in Irish cultural dating is will the pendulum start to swing back to as a result of the economic crisis and people becoming aware of the emptiness of the lies of materialism and selfishness. Will Irish girls turn to their roots instead of embracing the world uniculture of consumption? I would like to know. But the choice for you if to be carefully optimistic if you dream of a nice Irish girl. Look, but look with your eyes open. Make sure you are not finding woman who does not hold to the ideals of love a marriage for a lifetime.

115 Replies to “Irish girls – find single women from Dublin to Belfast”

  1. I just read most of what was posted here. I see and hear the exact same argument played out time and time again. Let’s do away with some of the labels and get down to brass tacks. “Gender roles” as a label needs to burn a fiery painful death. It comes down to love and honor. If you love someone, you will honor them. How does this work? It works the same here in Colorado, USA as it does in Dublin, London, Dubai or Tokyo. IF you love and cherish someone, as admin apparently does, you go out of your way to bless them. So if his wife cleans the house and makes him a fine meal, she does it to bless him. Conversely, he goes out and brings home the means to support that home. If the roles were reversed, I’m sure he’d cook and clean to bless her.

    I grew up in a very small town in what we call the bible belt here in the States. You get all sorts no matter where you live. I’ve seen the woman-beating chauvinist and the fire breathing man-eater.

    Love and respect. Honor and blessing. These are the pillars to a successful relationship. Problem is, some people have lost track of what these words mean.

    Reading this thread made me realize the true scope of the problem. I thought it was mostly a U.S. issue but my eyes have been opened.

  2. I am a 25 yr old Irish guy and I am not attracted to Irish women but more generally I should say that I am not attracted to the current mentality that a lot of women in western societies possess. This mentality is one of misandry where it seems to be politically correct to disrespect men generally. People have referred to it as feminism but I would say that I am a feminist in the actual sense – meaning that I support equality among the sexes but not supremacy of either. Often times what is referred to as feminism is actually female supremacism or misandry which are malignant hateful doctrines.

    More over, in Ireland traditional values have been eroded and the positive characteristics others here have described (such as admin about his wife) are fading. I no longer see Irish women as feminine but rather as neutral or in some cases masculine. The rewarding relationship a couple gets from having a man with masculine characteristics and a woman with feminine characteristics is gone. Now I see both the men and women in Ireland as being mostly neutral with the erosion of masculine/feminine characteristics.

    One last point is I don’t find that much interest/affection is given by Irish women. It kills my interest to even bother having a relationship where you don’t really know how interested the other person is. I make the effort to talk to women and while the conversations usually are friendly and go well – you can never really tell how interested they are due to what I think is the expectation that the man has to do all the work and she doesn’t have to “expose” herself to rejection in any way by showing her feelings.

  3. This conversation has run the entire gamut from hostile “men hating” feminists to traditionalists to calling people out for chauvinism. Makes my head spin. I’m an American lad of English-Irish heritage. We weren’t off the first boat in this country and we didn’t arrive yesterday either (some of us). 🙂 I went to Ireland once, for a week long vacation and found the young women I interacted with, to be polite, beautiful and witty. I tend to be a “Nice Guy”, capital ‘N’, capital ‘G’. Sometimes women go for it. Sometimes they don’t give me the time of day. Sometimes I don’t give them the time of day. People are individuals. We should try to treat them that way. This may sound sort of cotton-candy, but people are diverse. We hold many different interests. If you think an Irish girl will float your boat, go for it. If you want to go for someone else, do it too.

  4. Although I never lived in Ireland, I was raised Irish in a big Catholic family, with 5 sisters. 4 of my sisters were older than I, and raised pretty traditionally, ie, Catholic school, etc. Heck, this was before it was Ok for women to wear pants!
    Yet, all my sisters have “The Chip” That chip on their shoulder with every man. That presumption of the worst in every man. That feminist contempt. Even when the male was their dad, or brother, he was ALWAYS presumed guilty, beyond any hope of redemption.
    I was married 11 years to a foreign bride, (Asian) and things got pretty bad with her. I know it was not entirely her fault, but I gave my all. I never, ever did anything intentionally to harm our marriage, nor broke my vows. I also made major concessions rather than fight and scratch in front of our kids as I knew it tore them apart.
    Yet, for all that it was bad, my divorce was a shining miracle compared to most. Partly because I sweated it out to keep things as good as possible for my kids, but also because she was just not a vicious, vindictive monster. In spite of her bad side, she had some honor, and wanted a good outcome for her kids too. Compare that to Western women.
    But you know, my sisters were pitiless while I was going thru hell. Their reaction was to roll their eyes, so welded to their ideology, to the point that even their brother was “The Enemy”
    The posts here seem to concentrate on meeting women, establishing relationships, and hopefully, fugging them out of their shoes. You know, dating.
    Feminists have twisted dating also, but in some ways, to men’s advantage. They take birth control, and are free with their favors. Not quite as convenient as a vending machine, but close enough.
    The problem is marriage to one of these untrustworthy females. Men are not human any longer, to them, or in the eyes of the law. They use our most honorable and sublime emotions against us, to trick us, then clean us out, and the kids are simply a weapon to harm, or to get more out of you.
    Thus, whole generations of children grow up without a dad, and the prisons and mental institutes are bursting. Men are marginalized, disposable. As each succeeding generation comes along, the boys become more and more outcast. They are taught that they are subhuman, and just give up.
    Yet, feminists think this is somehow in their interest, and conduct a war against men.
    You can discuss minor differences between countries, just don’t marry.

    1. I am sorry you went thought that. It must have been hard. But you know, I in no way equate foreign brides with good American brides with bad. It is more about finding women who are idealistic and loyal to the bitter end. You need to find girls with ideals that believe in God and would rather die than divorce. Once you have devotion of this kind all things are possible. I am loyal to the end and a good human so why would I not expect the same with m mate. Forget labels like catholic or foreign. Find a girl who believes Jesus is the way and that we are on this life to suffer and bear pain to be more beautiful people to prepare for our real eternal home.

    2. Brian, Well written indeed. My slight differences and enormous similarities are as follows.
      I was born in Ireland, an adoptee given up in 1965 by a woman who didn’t return. I left when I was aged 27, not once having found a relationship with an Irish woman and when I came close it would be destroyed by the jealousy of another Irish woman. I had seen best friends dumped for no reason and far worse. I went to England, stayed in a one sided marriage for nine years. Regardless of fault there were just two reasons she left. Selfishness and fashionable. Being charitable I found myself importing a Filipino, She was far worse. Affairs, gambling, spent the money on herself and left our 3 children almost destitute whilst I worked 14 to 16 hours a day. Left after 9 years too, same reasons and didn’t want the children.
      Ive met the Irish here, its refreshing to hear the attitude and accent, but they are course and rough in their chat still. They speak badly and unmercifully about their men. And they’re bad language worse than I ever heard at home in my 27 years. The feminism movement hit Ireland the same time as it started and the same time it affected all the world. The 1960’s. I have met East Europeans by the bucket load too. The common factor with all these women nowadays is that they are all fairy princesses and they all will only take a man when they find out if he has lots of money and or assets. The minute they find that out they are prepared to get pregnant by him immediately and if he tries to dodge it, its in front of the judge/court to get that money.
      Finally, I find myself trying to educate all my children to avoid relationships, to avoid the pain and suffering and to spend their lives standing on their own two feet because if they don’t they will end up as I have done, with a broken heart, home and bank and nothing to bring their own children up on. And don’t bring Jesus and God into it, such people do not exist other than in the lies of their own mouths.

      1. Your story is an illustration how turning from the light will lead you to a life of sour relationships
        Your life is not tragic because of feminism, but because you do not have the the love of God in your heart. It is that simple. If you have an authentic devotion your life would have turned out different in terms of relationships. It is tragic you are passing this negativity to your children.
        Yes feminism has damaged a lot of relationships but there is no reason it has to. Make the choices in your life. Surround yourself by humble devout people of God. Do you think the Amish would have problems you speak of? I do not have such issues and I travels and lived around the world. Because I choose to align myself with God and people who are positive and humble of faith and gentle of spirit. I have had struggles like everyone but God is always there.
        The reason I posted your comment was to illustrate to others how negativity and turning from what is good will affect your life. It amazes me you are not aware of this? Jesus said, ‘they have eyes but do not see.’

        1. Hmmm, I was raised Christian/Catholic, as were my sisters. I had several members of my family join Holy Orders. I never considered myself “religious” but as I age I see very little real religion anymore. I feel like a “Voice crying in the Wilderness”
          Its all well and good to speak in empty platitudes, and tell people what they should have done. But worthless.
          I listen to Christian talk radio, and some of it is insightful, intelligent, helpful. But there is a significant percentage where the hosts entire philosophy is “You should be wonderful, like me”
          First of all, marriage, by definition, requires two people. So, no matter how wonderful you are, you must risk disaster by trusting everything to another. Secondly, modern culture has made this virtually impossible with feminism. Real marriage requires self-sacrifice, feminism is all me-me
          Also, its a failure of logic to assume from what we write that we are angry, bitter, etc. I am a single dad of 3, and they love me as much as I love them. They are smart, friendly, good looking, healthy and happy. They are kid magnets. Wherever we go, other kids want to be with them.
          I am an early retiree, still in my 50’s, and I am engaged to an impossibly cute lady 26 years younger than I. A woman of integrity.
          But, what I write is true, the lessons I learned the hard way. Just because I, and others here, write about harsh reality does not make us mean and angry. That is a false logic.
          So far as foreign women, yes, they can be as bad, but there is still a small percentage of them that are good. Feminism and other ugliness of our culture has not fully permeated yet.

          1. Remember being religious does not equate with an easy life. Being devoted and walking the walk, not just the talk is about taking up your cross and understanding suffering in the context of a greater reality.

            I also agree that authentic devotion is not a pop psychology fix for happiness.

            I agree feminism has done hard to many people. It has destroyed so many relationships and caused unhappiness that does not need to be described.
            Yet I have a little bit of “I am not my brothers keeper” in me. I can tell people to avoid feminist America for example and unholy behavior of decadence but really I do not care. They can knock themselves out and go for it. They tend to bad mouth believers on their own personally paved way to a purgatory in this life and manifest in a series of unhappy relationships.

            Me I try to align with positive, faithful, humble people who walk the walk. It makes life on earth a little more bearable.

            Brain, I am happy you found someone you can connect with and yes foreign women tend not to be as corrupted if you have your eyes open.

  5. I’d like to comment on the following text quoted from above/introduction….

    A better way to chat with Irish girls for free is this:

    gumtree.ie
    boards.ie

    Gumtree is a buy and sell establishment
    Boards is a general forum for those with no experience in life, lots of over education, opinion and nonsense discussion.

    Neither offer any form of sustainable opportunity to finding a decent Irish woman at all I guarantee!
    Further to that, green is a color very rarely worn by Irish women In Ireland, even on paddy day! the most then you will find is the sprig of shamrock when they go to mass.
    You genuinely want to find an Irish woman? A matchmaking festival, the likes of lisdoonvarna as its the largest is the only way.
    Dating sites will bring you nothing but scammers, I speak from experience here and I include all dating sites.

    1. This is a good recommendation. I should write a post just on the lisdoonvarna matchmaking festival. I would say that anotherfriend.com is a good paid site. I know the owner Kevin Greene he is an honest man.
      Gumtree and Boards had a dating side to it, if it does not now you can try to take language lessons or other ideas and you might meet someone that way from these board. You would be surpised how many people meet taking language lessons. I was a language teacher by the way.

  6. You can be a perfect gentleman and a good man to a woman and both of you go to church every Sunday, Wednesday, and Saturday but when an Americanized woman becomes glued to a new show on TV these days it’s game over the devil got in her, and ‘beat your perfect man away and trade him for an African! ‘ rings through their head like a demonic chant.

    Ireland seriously needs to stay it’s old Catholic ways of loyalty and sincerest commitment to where you never hear a story of distrust or crime of passion, and keeping American media out of Ireland is the way to do it. American churches are corrupt, when I move to Ireland I will be attending Irish Catholic services all day on Sundays.

    I do not ever want to be abused by a Puerto Rican princess again, it can hurt your soul, since she gave me two heart attacks I have had to beg God to lift her curse, time and time again, I’ve broken out in boils recently cause I fell in love with this girl by accident, no more witches. I had no idea she was one. Puerto Rican and Cuban girls, often times Caribbean women will seem very sweet and serving but secretly they do dirty witchcraft behind your back on you, and just cause you may have heard about it is all it takes, and you’ll end up mad at God for not stopping or fixing it.

    Irish Catholic girls are where it is at and should stay, no dirty witch trickery.

  7. The recommended site, anotherfriend.com is full of “you must pay to do this or do that”, and “sorry this feature is for paid members only”, it’s an expensive site, do not waste your time registering unless you are willing to pay to get nothing.

    1. I know the owner of the site. He is a moral person from a business perspective. However, he does run that site as his primary source of income so he has a membership model. It is like the match.com of Ireland. Now perhaps it has changed, in which I personally would ask the readers to recommend other dating sites in Ireland. There is always POF and Match. However, perhaps the best way is to visit Ireland. They have one of the lowest divorce rates in the whole world. Irish American women no. Irish from Ireland are conservative.

      American divorce rate = 53%
      Ireland divorce rate = 13%

  8. Hello, I am a mother of two young men. The have dated a couple of young ladies-but no luck. One is 27 and the other will soon be 21. And since I am the one writing – will make no bones about it . I want to continue the blue eyed light skin and hair DNA, green eyes and red Hayden would be fine as well. The are both Eagle Scouts, my oldest of course no longer livers with us and yes he has a job. Our younger one will finish college next year, I am a loving mother and hope to find two young women who understand good moral values and that there is a God above all. In so I leave this I. Gods hands, with hope.

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