The purpose of this post is to tell you how to find a real Irish girl for true love. Most Americans do not know how.
There are 4.6 million people in the Republic of Ireland and for such a small country it has had a tremendous cultural impact anyone could be proud of. I like the Irish and I do not have a drop of Irish blood in me. I love the music, the literature and the people. I am writing to the music of Hayley Westerna (a cutie), a modern Enya. So take a deep breath I love all people, this is more a critique about a strategy for a single guy to find a traditional girl who would lead to a life of happiness. If you want to find your lass under the rainbow instead of a pot of gold, my recommendation is go East young man. Way East to Ireland.
Shamrock shakes and green beer in American clubs on St. Patrick’s day or authentic Irish Catholicism and loneliness under cloudy skies?
There are two types of Irish women. Irish from Ireland and those from America. For some reason, and I am sure it the culture they are polar opposites. Women in Ireland are like Polish girls, pretty soft-spoken and sweet, yet the problem is some are being corrupted by the UK drinking culture and feminism. The Irish American women are generally a pain in my personal experience. They have been here for several generations and take pride in how hard their grandparents had it (fleeing from the potato blight, not the great Irish potato famine of the century before), but they themselves have lived nothing but a life of ease. A cushy American lifestyle with the cultural ideas of feminism and a ‘strong woman’ who stands up to her man on a daily basis.
They are purely American girls with a chip on their shoulders, even if cloaked in green on St. Patty’s day with corn beef, cabbage and potatoes on Sunday, reading books like Gangs of New York on their tablet. Based on their shape they have not experienced any Gorta Mór. Even the cultural memory of the great famine has been overwritten my materialistic American cultural programming. Those in diaspora embrace nationalism (I despise nationalism as it has caused so much suffering). I can only conclude for a cultural memory to be erased and not transmitted from generation to generation in a meaningful way that it influences the depth of an individual, needs a very strong force. That force is America relationship culture which overwrite the cultural source code and suppresses biological instinct. Kind of like saltpeter in the food supply that suppresses ardor and maternal instincts in populations.
Admittedly maybe this is a function of my experience growing up in New England and subsequently Irish Boston meeting so many American Irish then living in Europe and being in Dublin, that has given me a distorted impression. I can see the contrast of the two cultures.
Women of Éire contrasting portraits example
I worked for an Irish company in Europe, and my boss was a woman and sweet and smart. In contrast, I worked for an American Irish female boss and she was ruthless for petty reasons always trying to prove herself. This is pure cultural influence. One man’s experience and might not be the rule. You let me know what you think.
It is like the yin and yang of Irish people. The Irish Catholics in Europe try to just be good and are a bit in the shadows. While in American a lot of people talk about religion yet have embraced the aggressive boastful American imperial business culture. Below is how to marry a nice female from Ireland.
So when you are searching for Irish girls I can highly recommend anotherfriend.com rather than an American dating site with an Irish component. Anotherfriend is run a person who has good moral character and the managing director is an Irish woman who is married and with a family and excellent morals. They use a subsidiary company based in Krakow, Poland that is a quality check for dating sites profiles and they screen for scammers 24/7. I worked for this company indirectly on the inside and I can tell you they make a very good effort to provide quality.
If you live in the USA another way to meet Irish girls is fly to Ireland. It is a short trip over the big pond. The flight is only six hours. I have been shopping in the mall for longer than six hours. Aer Lingus has good meals and a nice Green uniforms for their cute Celtic stewardesses. I would recommend staying at a youth hostel or do couchsurfing.org.
How to chat with Irish girls for free
You can try Irish dating to chat with Irish girls, I would not recommend American dating with an Irish spin to it if you are looking for an Irish girl. Go for real dating sites.
A better way to chat with Irish girls for free is this:
With these two sites you can chat with Irish girls for free all day long, get their mobile numbers, marry them get an EU visa and live happily ever after.
Ireland is an Island of villages, After Dublin, Belfast and Cork you will not find a town with more than 100,000 people. Maybe Derick, Limerick and Galloway has some population, but at that, you talking towns mostly with populations of 20,000 or less a separated by green fields and stone walls. This may not be fertile economic territory but it is a choice place for meeting an Irish lass or at least a leprechaun girl who will keep you warm at night.
You can meet Irish that travel to Boston by staying at the Irish Embassy hostel Boston. Before I could find a flat in Boston I lived there for about three months. It was in the time of a housing shortage. There were countless Irish lasses coming through there.
American Irish in Boston are nothing special. You are better off dating a Russian girl from Brookline.
The Celtic from Northern Ireland or Scotch Irisher are different from the Irish off the south mostly because of the religion. I am Catholic and partial towards the south as I have an affinity towards from a world’s view perspective. I see the world the same.
What do Irish girls look like?
Irish girls are connected to French girls believe it or not. They are Celtic in base but there is a mix also. Generally Irish girls follow the cliché, fair skin and fair eyes. They can be very beautiful. However, I do not know how well they age, because of their fair complication they are very sensitive to the skin. Irish girls in the USA are not as beautiful as Irish girls in Ireland.
The black Irish, may or may not come from the Spanish fleet that ship wrecked in the 1500s. I think this is more legend than truth. I think the reality is every population has generic variation. These Irish girls have white skin and black hair. They are beautiful Irish girls.
If an Irish girl is thin, this is great, but unfortunately many Irish girls are becoming western. Like American or UK girls.
The real outstanding question today in Irish cultural dating is will the pendulum start to swing back to as a result of the economic crisis and people becoming aware of the emptiness of the lies of materialism and selfishness. Will Irish girls turn to their roots instead of embracing the world uniculture of consumption? I would like to know. But the choice for you if to be carefully optimistic if you dream of a nice Irish girl. Look, but look with your eyes open. Make sure you are not finding woman who does not hold to the ideals of love a marriage for a lifetime.