Bangalore girls – Where not to meet women in Kannada

Bangalore girls

After 11 pm in Bangalore it is like a black and white silent movie, there is no action in the picking up girls scene because of the 11:30 curfew. Metaphorically from an women’s perspective,  like Cinderella at the ball,  their Uber rides turns back into a round pumpkin again because of the 11:30 curfew. Does this mean love on the Deccan Plateau is flat? I do not see it that way.  Like this on FB is you agree.

Bengaluru fairy-tale wife
The Brahmin’s Wife and the Mongoose

Panchatantra and Hitopadesha tells the tale the The Brahmin’s Wife and the Mongoose which is popular in Karnataka. The moral of the story is find a wife who is not rash to judge and whose actions are tempered by wisdom.

The world is your oyster, and you deserve all the good pleasures in life if you have money or not. My definition of pleasure is true love. So why waste time with Western girls who will mess with your head. You want a nice girl; and one stop I recommend on your world-wide quest for your one and only true love (the only quest in life worth anything) is Bangalore, India. If you live in Bangalore, this post will also help you, as it is packed with specific and up to date places and ways to meet girls in Bangalore. If you are a foreigner this post will help you also find places to meet girls in a nightlife setting. The purpose of this post is to tell you where to meet girls in Bangalore for love. However, just as important where not to start is where not too meet females in Kannada.

Bangalore girls
There are girls you want to date and marry and there are girls you do not, know the difference.

Avoid these pick up spots Bangalore

Let me explain, there are literally hundreds of respectable places that are easy to meet nice girls in Bangalore, maybe thousands. The problem is tourists are directed to the bad places. I know, I am a perpetual tourists around the world. If you ask any cab driver or just wander the streets in a foreign city like I do, and try to get lost and unlost, you can find yourself, in the land of temptation.

India is a confusing place. In a word chaotic.  You can easily be swept up in the ebb and flow of the wrong currents and land yourself in a place where temptation is stronger than your will to resist when it comes to females. In the land of temptation, even if your will is strong, your flesh is weak.

The strange thing is that beauty is mysterious as well as frightening. God and the devil are fighting the battlefield of a man’s heart.  – Feodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov

This is why I first want to outline places where bad Bangalore girls go, so you know not to get swept into these.

Places to avoid and not let the cab driver take you to pick up girls in Bangalore

  • Avoid the bad Bangalore girls squatting down in high heals and short black dresses checking their mobile phone on the  BIA road between the CBI flyover junction and the  Hebbal campus of UA. Also do not chat or make eye contact with any females in front of the veterinary college, nor approach them as they site packed into a white Maruti vans with bunches of other girls in this area. Eye contact for girls is a sign of flirtation.

I feel bad for these girls.

This area they really need to clean up.  The only reason police do not do anything about it is alleged they take money and turn their heads.

  • Similarly on Cunningham Road, between Foodworld and Chandrika hotel, do not go there as well as MG Road, and further Cunningham Road – arround the Chandrika hotel and Palace road Jn.

What the word Dance bar means in Bangalore

Dance bars in Bangalore – this might seem innocent by the name but really, when you are looking for this type of club do not expect some dance club where college girls go for fun, rather, more for business, if you know what I mean.  The women are scantily clad and their ages are questionable. Avoid these places. Dance bars are not the places you want to go, do not be confused. In 2005 contact dance clubs of this sort were technically made illegal. However, they simply reinvent themselves in different forms.

Do you want to see that life is like for women in India giving their bodies in dance bars  what the 2001 film Chandni Bar by Madhur Bhandarkar, it is pretty realistic and good. Basically they use their bodies for money.

Russian girls in Bangalore

Russian girls love warm exotic weather. India is a cheap place for them to travel. India is generally a safe place and non threatening. So if you want to meet Russian girls in Bangalore you will have no problem. I estimate there are about 13,523 Russian girls in Bangalore for various reasons. That is a lot but with 5.8 million people in the city and over 10, million in the metro area that puts it in perspective (just a demographic note 79% Hindu, 13% muslim and 6% christian). But these are usually single girls willing to date and meet guys.

You want to meet a Russian girl in Bangalore you can. Write me in the comments, and I can tell you how but this is beyond the scope of this article.

The solution for turning bad girls away from working the streets
You know a lot of papers and hype is written to make the world aware of this issue, but I studied economics. I think, that laws and enforcement are not as effective as economics. When a region country develops, fewer girls will be tempted to be working girls. This will always exists but to eliminate such social problems honey is better than vinegar, that is economic progress. Similarly the best form of population control is when a country develops economically.

Non traditional places to pick up girls in Bengaluru

The top of my list is Rain Dance on 28th km Mysore Road. My recommendation is at least give this water infused party a try. This pool party type atmosphere specifically is geared towards matching and dating.

Where I really recommend to collect girls mobile numbers

Yoga classes

Come on, of you are doing downward facing dog with a Bangalore girl next to you, sparks might fly. 100% of my friends who do Yoga meet girls in class. Here are a list of yoga centers you want to try.

Yoga studios in Karnataka to potentially meet a girl

There are even western women on vacation going to these, hint hint.

Museums

Jayachamarajendra Museum

Government Museum

Kempegowda Museum

Folklore Museum (Mysore)

Does this sound crazy? It was always near the top recommended places to meet women with class, now that bookstores are passe. I mean come on, the quality of female you will meet in a museum is higher than you would meet by hitting on them in a cafe generally. And if you are not interested than you will at least learn something.

Hot girls go to museums, full stop.

Finding that material girl or not

If your pockets jingle with the sound of precious metal or coins – Garuda mall or Bangalore central are night spots where guys go, if your pockets jingle with the sound of precious metal or coins.

M.G.road or Mahatma Gandhi Road – You can figure this out yourself,I am not recommending anything yet I always had luck chatting up pretty women walking women down the street.

I do not recommend material women as it is the opposite of women should be. Women should be maternal not material. If you want to explore this can you research this site:stop-india.org/stories-of-survivors.html

Although the city prohibits activities after 11:30 because of a curfew and Nightclubs do not allow people in after 11 o’clock.

To meet girls seems a bit of a challenge. But is it not always when it comes to girls?

A trick to meet girls in a non conventional way

One of my favorite tactics for picking up women in clubs, that is going to sleep and waking up at 2:00 am and going to a club to hit on girls at 3:00 after they have been hit on by guys who have had too much to drink, can not be used in Bengaluru (I do not drink, I just have a thirst for picking up women, it is less self-destructive and more fun). You do not have to sleep with them, just make out with them and get their number.

Therefore if you want to meet a girl in Bangalore you have to start around 8 p.m. In this will give you three and a half hours to dance and chat them up.

Bengaluru is Silicon Valley of India, the southern IT tech center, full of of 8.52 million people in the metro area and 8.42 in the city proper. This means there are about 2.5 million single women in Bengaluru if you calculate the numbers since it is demographically a young city. This means that if you can not find a girl than your approach is wrong.

Bengalūru or ಬೆಂಗಳೂರು clubs to meet girls I personally have reviewed

No Limmits – located at 8, 2nd Floor, Allied Grande Plaza, Magrath Road – This is my personal recommendation as it is a dance club and girls like to dance as it is an expression of their sensuality in a respectable controlled way.

i-bar – located 14/7, MG Road

windsor pub – located on 1st Main Road, Vasanth Nagar

When I go to clubs I do not drink, rather only fruit juice or water. It dampens your ability to talk to women. Some guys use it because it lowers social inhibitions but for me it lowers the whole experience.

Nightclubs in Bangalore to be avoided as girls here are no the best for a long-term relationship

  • Bar bar dekho  – Not a place to meet nice girls. You walk in and it looks more like a line up of women in dresses with high slits going up their legs, than a place to dance.
  • Star Nights Bar & Restaurant – Kapali theater on Subedar Chatram Road, Gandhi Nagar
  • Brigade Gardens Bar at Brigade road – sleezy
  • Priya lodge near the central station- sleezy
  • Dance Club at the end of Race Course road near (Nanda circle).
  • Dance club on the Majestic Circle (Entertainment Plaza)
  • Better but still to be avoided
  • Saga (Residency Rd.
  • Ballerina (Residency Rd.)
  • Melody: (Majestic) – Majestic, cotton pet main road, in and around shivaji nagar

Koramangala girls that are met in places like those listed above take a rain check on. These are personally researched or friends have told me about who are on the ground in Bangalore and live there. So the information is solid.

Make inroads with Kannadiga girls online
Lets again start with where not to look. If you are looking for love with Local Kannadiga girl I can not recommend Locanto or Craigslist. It is a huge misconception that these sites have any value to find true love.

They are used by guys to find girls with different motives, that is money. These sites are not worth checking as these are organized businesses offering females, not girls looking for sincere love. Even if I was looking for the other thing (use your imagination), I would not go for this as these are not the type of establishments I would like to support.  They are not poor local Aunties looking to make the rent at the end of the month. They are cold calculating business owners offering girls who might even be forced to work in that industry. Not my idea of a good time. Any Indian girl mobile number found online is not worth pursuing.

Better is shaadi.com – Shadi is trusted and known. Not that the above websites are not, but come on, look at the girls on Locanto, most likely not the type you want to marry. Maybe you do, what do I know, just seems a little sleazy to me.

Places  not in cyber land I can recommend in Bangalore to meet hot beauties

There are a zillion recommendations scattered on the web written by people who do not know what house or trance music is. My purpose here is to bring my recommendations that are good pick up stops for good girls together in a relevant list for single guys to pick up respectable women. The list is heavy on dance clubs, trance, house, hip hop and DJ clubs in Bangalore because, women like to dance. I think it is instinctive to attract men.

Bangalore Nightlife clubbing list

Places I recommend if you start early and can go club hopping:

  • Athena Nightclub, Bar & Pub HAL Airport Road,Bangalore
  • The Mine Nightclub Madhava Nagar,Bangalore
  • The Biere Club
  • Bar & Pub, Restaurant
  • Vittal Mallya Road,Bangalore
  • The Club Bar & Pub, Hotel Nayanda Halli,Bangalore
  • Hint Lounge – Bar & Pub, Nightclub Residency Road,Bangalore
  • Purple Haze 13th Floor, Bartn Centre, M G Road Bengaluru -More of a rock and roll than a disco
  • Minarva Circle Rashtriya Vidyalaya Rd, Doddamavalli, Sudhama Nagar, Bengaluru
  • The 13th Floor 84, Mahatma Gandhi Rd, Bengaluru
  • Opus 4, 1 Main, Vasanth Nagar – I highly recommend this place.
  • Via Milano –  Peripheral Road, Koramangala Bengaluru
  • Bounce here – Vittal Mallya Road, Bengaluru
  • Cross Over – Whitefield, Bangalore
  • Eclipse Arc Club – Wide Tunnel Road, Murgeshpalya
  • Funky Town – Residency Road
  • Inferno The Club – 7th Mile, Mysore Road
  • JJ’s –  Airport Road
  • The Rocks Dominion Allasandra –  Bellary Road
  • Splash Club Cabana – Jade Garden, Bellary Road
  • Titanic Entertainment – Terminus Club, Chache Towers, Residency Road
  • Winging in the Hip City of Bengaluru
  • Athena Nightclub, Bar & Pub HAL Airport Road,Bangalore
  • The Mine Nightclub Madhava Nagar,Bangalore
  • The Biere Club
  • Bar & Pub, Restaurant
  • Vittal Mallya Road,Bangalore
  • The Club Bar & Pub, Hotel Nayanda Halli,Bangalore
  • Hint Lounge – Bar & Pub, Nightclub Residency Road,Bangalore
  • Purple Haze 13th Floor, Bartn Centre, M G Road Bengaluru -More of a rock and roll than a disco
  • Minarva Circle Rashtriya Vidyalaya Rd, Doddamavalli, Sudhama Nagar, Bengaluru
  • The 13th Floor 84, Mahatma Gandhi Rd, Bengaluru
  • Opus 4, 1 Main, Vasanth Nagar – I highly recommend this place, lots of space and music I like.
  • Via Milano –  Peripheral Road, Koramangala Bengaluru
  • Bounce here – Vittal Mallya Road, Bengaluru

Let me know, if you find any inaccuracies or reviews of these clubs to find women in Kannada.

This site is about picking on hot chicks for love and marriage not about meeting homely plain girls with no juice. You want to marry a hottest girl you can, you know the one that looks better than a Bollywood model, one not resist chasing her around the house.

6 Replies to “Bangalore girls – Where not to meet women in Kannada”

  1. I want to thank you for your efforts made to come up with such a detailed info on these women of BLR. I would be willing to meet with the Russian girls and want to experience, their friendship and there like and dislikes, also if they are romantic. Waiting for your reply.

    Tom

  2. While I appreciate the effort and degree of detail in this article I think the author does not really seem to have in depth knowledge of Indian society. It sounds so easy just go to the right places and you will find a good woman to date or fall in love with. Even if an Indian woman wants to date a foreigner she first has to decide if she wants to be an outcast of society or even worse an outkast of her family. There are only a few Indian women who are brave enough. Ok, they could come from a liberal background, liberal to the sense however that Indian parents support the daughter in marrying or dating a foreigner are very, very few in numbers. The same is reflected by the suggested site Shaadi.com Just go and try it out. There will be very, very few Indian women who don’t care about the race and caste. If an Indian lady marries a white guy her reputation in India as well as the guy’s reputation in India drops significantly. To any guys who want to get a feel of it, just travel with an Indian woman at your side and the ever so friendly Indians can get pretty mean. Quite sad actually. Pinching remarks everywhere, people whispering insults behind your back and so on. I am not talking about some village in the country side but any big city in India.

  3. I joined shaadi.com based on your glowing praises about it. Majority of the profiles there are created by someone in the woman’s family or a friend. Is this not a turn off for you? I want the woman to like me and go out with me, without prying eyes from her family watching every step. I want to date her without pressure like I normally met her not via online dating. Is this an unreasonable desire? Granted, I have a player mentality so this is more of a big deal for me, but what is your opinion now on shaadi.com?

  4. I am a American and I married a Indian lady, some of you all’s views are wrong. I have lived and worked here for 7 years. I am well respected as is my wife. I will say the places named are very much true. I met my wife in Singapore for one thing and I have never faced the problems which they speak. My wife is addressed Madam by everyone. But yes India is very much different from the rest of the world as I have lived and worked in 148 countries and have never found any place like India. I love it here and may stay forever.
    Jerry

  5. I am an Englishman of mixed parentage (25% White English, 25% Indian, 25% white Lithuanian, 25% Arab). I have lived in 21 countries in all (I must say Jerry who says he has lived and worked in 148 countries boggles the mind as it took me 24 years to travel the entire planet 197 countries but to live and work in 148 means he must be very very very old). I find that India is like most developing countries, it has parts (small percentage) which operates in the 20th century (I avoid 21st century as it is premature) and the majority still has a foot in the past. However, my experience is the Y generation (internet generation) no matter how they appear at home, the are quite up-to-date when away from home and are adventurous. I still think Indians still prefer to marry Indians for stability and security. However, the divorce rates in India are soaring. The number of single mothers is also soaring. So Indian society has to adjust. The American values are here. Everything is disposable, spouses, parents, children, all for the satisfaction of self. I find this sad. Yes, there is prejudice against mixed marriages but they are increasingly common place. Mixed castes, mixed religions and mixed races. It is unavoidable and inevitable. India has exported workers to the world and trades with the world. Therefore the world comes to India. Ergo, mixing is inevitable and actually healthy. London is the most cosmopolitan city is the world (I exclude Dubai because it is not a society, it is just a shopping mall). London has the most mixed couples and the least racism, and religious and cultural discrimination. This multiculturalism of cities has begun and is developing fast. In time it will spread to the country-side. We are still three generations from that in the country-side at least but in the cities I believe it will take only one more generation.

  6. stud nitin says:

    It is the most x-starved nation on earth (even worst than Arab states and likes of Pakistan).

    I am an Indian and lived my thirty plus years and can tell all the people who ever visit the comment section of this article that India still in 2014 is the worst country from casual dating and hookups perspective. You might ask why? Reason is very simple – the corrupt Indian psyche – they want to make money in everything. Even the marriages are done with an eye on the property and wealth of the other person – so you can understand what the thinking is like. The women here are genuinely disinterested in physical relationships and that’s why you find Indian males looking outside of India for physical relationships everywhere – Bangkok happens to be near so that’s a favorite.

    The women are no less – they are very poor in general in terms of quality of love life and disinterested in pleasuring their male counterparts. They are more interested in enjoying the wealth and the goodies of the male counterpart (so called husband).

    The Indian males too are too blame for this behavior as you will appreciate by the general forced relations hysteria over last few years from India.

    So net net I would not bet on my bets for casual hookups and good dating scene in a country like India – in any metro not just Bengaluru. Bengaluru is in fact worst because of the Kannadiga and Tamil Influence – extremely poor looking and poor hygiene and thought process people as most of the foreigners here comment on them.

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