Find true love and be happy with your life. That would be nice. My mission is to tell you it is possible and show you specifically how. You can find true love even in this postmodern world. If you are painfully lonely like I was and thought something might be wrong with you or the world, then you came to the right place.
My name is Mark Biernat. I write language learning programs, and that is what most of this domain is about. However, I also write about finding true love. Why? Because most of my life I felt alone. Even when I had countless dates and top jobs living in big cities like Boston and New York as a professional, I was alone. Even if I went to premier schools (I am an economics Professor also) I felt the pains of loneliness. Even if I had friends and family, I did not have the love of my life.
Something was not working in my life and I started to doubt myself, the world I lived in. Even my doubts had doubts and my mind played with me. Life was almost taunting me, laughing at me. I concluded that the fairly-tale dreams of adolescence were the last illusion to be broken. Until something happened one day.
There is a world beyond a world when it comes to love
I discovered there was a world beyond my every day life.
The girls at the office, my neighbors, my friends of my friends, the people you go on dates with from some Internet dating site were not real. They are living a life of that will leave you with a no win scenario if you try to date, or God forbid marry them.
Either your whole life will be a compromise or you will wind up being left.
I do not want to be living with a metaphorical one way street. I wanted real magic.
If there really is a door in this house that leads to some other world … do you really mean… that there could be other worlds – all over the place, just round the corner?”
“Nothing is more probable,” said the Professor.
The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe by C.S Lewis
I will not give you some cliché statements about love, dating and romance. I will give you advice based on personal experience and wisdom that exceeds anything like the superficial recycled information on the Internet. There are other worlds.
The tragic world you were born into
Do not date the people around you, as our society is largely poisoned by postmodern existentialist nihilistic thinking. The result is many are players changing partners like rides at an amusement part. Even fewer live a fairy-tale and the result is most people life lives of quiet desperation.
Contrary to popular commentary, no gender is to blame. It is simply you have been sold a lie. The approach and way you find love is not what dating sites tell you, nor advice from the experts.