How to get skinny? I have the solution you will not see on the web or in a book. There is a strange relationship between body weight and money. In rich countries people are fat, generally. Unless you talk about urbanites who shop at whole foods and do the whole lifestyle. But generally there is a strong inverse correlation between becoming thin and rich. Girls in the USA often wonder why. They have it all but can not lose weight. They are often envious of their European, Asian or South American girls who seem to not have money but lithe. The truth is maybe Western girls do not have it all.
Where I live in Eastern Europe thin girls are the norm and being curvy, an over sized size 8 is a rare exception. Further, those overweight women do not get dates, like they would in the States. Here is the connection between money, weight and love for women. If you are a girl, read this and you will learn how the Western culture of money and status has created a society that is culturally poor and overweight and cheated you out of love. Yes, it is not your fault, it is the culture you grew up in and it has betrayed you and keeps you from finding the love of your life. If you want to get love, rich and skinny read on.
Culturally rich, economically poor girls are better for dating and love
Well how to lose weight if you are a girl? In one of my past posts I pointed out the reason why many Europeans are thin girls. It is because they focus their lives on living. That is, these slender European gals spend their time learning languages, culture and other aspects of their lives other than food. While their American counterparts are not learning musical instruments and do not speak three languages and have not travel to twenty different countries. American girls do work hard, but the culture in America is not classical and humanistic. American culture puts an emphasis on social status for girls and money for guys.
Poor American girls. They are under so much pressure and struggle with eating. My first answer is live more like a European girl. Travel to Paris, study languages, learn classical piano or Chess but engage your mind and take it off the American culture of social status, which makes you neurotic and eventually mean. If you want try a Mediterranean diet, but better yet live in Italy. If that does not work, read on. Get into ascetic practices connected with your beliefs. Moderation and denial are great virtues.
My example of a poor skinny girl from Europe who lives a rich life
However, another reason why girls are overweight in the USA and UK statistically is because of money. Women and money can not be underestimated in the equation. When I was dating my wife she had no money at the end of the day. Maybe enough to buy a small package of noodles. But she really had no money. She has a Master’s degree from a top school and some medical school but unemployment was 20% and jobs did not pay that well a few years ago. She worked in a lab. She could afford a couple of apples (bananas were a luxury) and some potatoes. That is it. She would buy butter for extra calories to keep her weight up or jam when she could afford it for calories.
When her parents came from the countryside, where they have a small farm, they would bring some eggs and milk. This would help. She was thin and her skin was perfectly clear and it was like she was aging very slow because of her minimalist diet. She was like a princess from a storybook. Pale, lithe and graceful. Not because of any hard to follow diet or gym, she certainly could not afford a gym, but because she had not money to pack herself. Here is a photo of my wife and I and you can see she makes no effort to get skinny and find love as she lived a poor life monetarily but rich life intellectually and we have everything.
Beautiful poor girl with great style
Her style was simple too. Her hair was long and natural and she wore jeans and a nice white t-shirt but always did manage to have really cool shoes. Being a skinny girl will make you look attractive almost in any style. For night cream for get all these expensive anti wrinkle creams she used real cream masks when she was home in the countryside.
The most I ever saw her with was three dollars in her wallet. If she had three dollars she would feel rich. In contrast, American girls often have ten or twenty dollars in their wallet and have no problem buying food when they want. American and UK girls are really soft because of the excess money they have.
Also my wife not having a car would walk to work. And in her spare time if she every had extra money should not spend it on food but took some French lessons. I mean in her mind a bag of chips gave her much less utility than a French lesson, which could occupy her mind for a week until the next lesson.
If I asked her if she was poor, she would say she has wealth in her friends. Her life is rich in many ways besides money.
Economic reasons why American girls have weight problems
In contrast the American family stocks up. They pack their pantries with food. If they are hungry they buy and eat out with their friends with super sized portions. The film super size me had a lot of truth to it. American girls pack themselves with cookies, cakes and pies because they can afford to.
If you have food in your apartment you will eat it. Every time you walk by the fridge you will check it. And even if ten minutes ago there was nothing that interested you, you will check it again. This is what spending too much money on stocking up on food will do. In the USA, women not need moderation as fat acceptance is in vogue.
My Mantra is yes I accept fat girls 100%, but that does not mean they are healthy or I have to date one. I mean virtue is its own reward and when a girl is moderate she is healthier has more energy and most likely developing her spirit or at least mind besides obsessing about food.
If you are an American girl want to be thin and beautiful first realize you are sitting on the top of the food chain in the world in terms of money and power. I do not even think most American girls know this. Even if you are a poor girl in the USA you are rich by global standards.
In conclusion, my point is, rich is not about money. If you are a fat girl there is a good chance you are monetarily rich but humanistically poor and do not have love. To get thin try the opposite. To get love reverse this.
American girls do not understand, can not buy beauty, only develop it, western media has given them the wrong message since their youth.
How to get skinny and rich
Here are some ideas.
- Try ascetic practices of self denial. Combine this with your spirituality for growth. Few successful people achieve anything without self denial and hard work. Be obsessive about something great and high minded. Take an interest in noble things, not necessarily money, and live spartan life. Try ascetic living and self denial. If you are not religious try yoga. Deny yourself and obsess about other things in your life. Get your mind off food and start living. My wife always says it is good to suffer as it makes you a better person. Impose denial on yourself with a purpose. Do not suffer for the sake of it, but for a greater good. Like take the money you would have spent on food that day and give it to a children charity. This is real fasting.
- Pull out all stops to get skinny, move– I do not mean move your butt, I mean move to another continent. If practicing self denial does not work, and you are too weak because of the affluent culture you live in to resist temptation, move. Move to Europe or give money to charity or max out your 401k deductible to 20%. Whatever it takes, but do not let your financial power be your downfall.
Every girl is a princes. I truly believe this, but to be complete you need your prince. Do what it takes to get thin and be a skinny attractive girl so when he appears before you, he has interest and you can catch him. Do not let a culture of money or status steer your values and actions to a path of self destruction and weight gain. Any girl without a guy is lost and alone. You need to find your other half so you can date, get married and have a family.