A lot of guys are looking for Chinese girls. This post is about my personal experience with women from China. I am not talking about Chinese Americans but girls from China. I also give you concrete sites for finding places to chat and meet Girls from China that only the Chinese go to.

What are Chinese women like?

There are a billion Chinese and everyone is different. However, this is my experience with Chinese girls. They are smart and hardworking. They are very practical and not much into religion or abstract thinking and excess idealism that is found in European culture. Chinese women who move to Europe and America are friendly, smile a lot and just want a normal guy. They are not out to cause you trouble if you marry them. My cousin married a Chinese lady and he is very happy with her. A few of my friends also did and they have a had no major problems they have kids and a normal family. Asian Americans are the wealthiest demographic group by the way.

Usually Chinese girls like classical music, and things that normal educated western women like. People are people and its hard to generalize, however, the way to a Chinese girls heart is in my opinion talk about brainy things but they are not into religion (a major drawback for me personally). Keep it light, non political and intelligent. Chinese ladies do not go for the same things American girls go for.

Why date a Chinese girl

Most guys do not want to put up with the nonsense of American girls. American girls tend to be bossy, overly opinionated, tattooed and over weight. Chinese girls in contrast are none of these.

I personally find a Chinese girl OK looking but unless they really make themselves up I prefer Russian or Ukrainian or Polish girls in terms of looks. But Chinese girls have hurt no guy I know, emotionally and many guys dream of this exotic look.

If you are from the West, you have an allure to women from China just like they are attracted to you, you are exotic. It is very sexy to mix genes from another culture on a primal level.

Chinese language

Most Chinese know some English. Further, Chinese is not hard to learn to speak, just the writing is hard. In fact, for speaking, Chinese with no verb tenses, gender, noun cases has no grammar. The pronunciation is easy as the words are short and not phonetically rich like Slavic languages. So I think in a few months if you do not care about writing you can pick up Chinese at a basic level.

Travel to China

Easy to travel to China now. Prices from the states can be 500 dollars if you look around or try any Chinatown travel agent. Major sites like are full of young professional girls like, Shanghai, Beijing, Hong Kong, Tianjin, Wuhan, Guangzhou. These are young women looking to connect like any American women, but they are nicer and more marriage oriented.

I have never had a problem traveling the world. I just book a cheap flight bring my passport and start chatting with any girl that looks interesting. Once you do it a few times the world is yours and you can find your one and only. But do not be afraid to travel to a foreign county all alone. Do not be afraid to talk to any girl you find beautiful.
Fyodor M Dostoevsky wrote:
It would be interesting to know what it is men are most afraid of. Taking a new step, uttering a new word is what they fear most (Crime and punishment).
Joseph Addison wrote:
“He who hesitates is lost”
Amish proverb:
“Don’t get smart too late”.
Consider these quotes when you are shy and do not want to try to go for the women of your dreams or whether you are considering a trip to China or approaching a Chinese girl on the street.

Sites Chinese girls look to meet guys online

The best website to meet Chinese girls are as follows:

Chinese sites that are based in China for dating and social networking Xiaonei.com Chinaren.com Kaixin001.com

Foreign Chinese dating and social sites Myspace.cn Cyworld.com.cn

Use a translate tool to navigate these sites or try to use a free dating site with an English interface.

If you have any questions about dating or marrying Chinese girls leave a comment, please write with proper grammar and not in chat style.

Published by Mark Biernat

I live in with family between two worlds, US and Europe where I create tools for language learning. If you found my site you probability share my passion to be a life long learner. Please explore my site and comment.

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  1. Hello beautiful girls in China. I am looking for a friend for pen pals. You can send me a snailmail letter at my home address. David Seto, 2 Sheba Crescent, Port Colborne, ON, Canada. Hope to hear from you soon. Take care for now.

    David Seto, B.A., B.Sc

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