How to meet girls online to get their mobile numbers from Russia
ICQ is the respectable international chat arena. It is a little retro in regards that it reminds me of AOL chat rooms in the 1990s when the ‘information super highway’ was becoming popular. Yet it is perhaps one of the most efficient ways to meet women online in existence. I can not imagine a faster method to get a girl with less physical effort. Finding a girl online is it is up there with working at home as opposed to communicating.
- It is a lazy but effective method for chatting up women. Further the women online are no less attractive and maybe even more than women who go clubbing or you see on the street. Women need this boundary to feel safe so they can establish a rapport. Online chats like ICQ and AIM messenger do this.
I am a former online chat pick up artist. Trust me there are a lot of women out there that enjoy this type of communication as much as you. Even if a lot of moving to mobile phones you use ICQ and other chat messenger services as complement to each other, and with the ultimate objective of getting girls mobile phone numbers online. Women do not just post their cell phone numbers online (the ones you see are fake profiles), however with a little bit of chatting you can get them.
The issue is the ratio of men to women chatting is always skewed. Your approach should be to focus on chat rooms that are the most productive but not too obvious. Do not spend an inordinate amount of time in something like “Women searching Men”, the numbers would not be in your favor. Instead go to country specific and region specific chat rooms where the male-female ratio is more balance and the women are looking for local guys. Also try interest specific chat rooms like literature or yoga. It was no coincidence guys who majored in Art or English literature in college got the hottest chicks, that is because this is where the female majors are.
Basic advice on how to get women online with ICQ
Be goal focused. Use your tablet or iPhone or android or whatever with the objective of establishing enough rapport over about 20 minutes to get their mobile number. Once you have this take the relationship offline or to Skype.
Do not ask to swap pictures too soon. I would say you need about 15 minutes of chat before you ask to swap photos. I know that is a lot but if you get to that point you are in. If you do not have 15 minutes of material to communicate about you are online way too much and your intellectual skills are suffering. Go out and read a book.
Meeting girls online is little different from meeting them in person, with the exception there is a premium on verbal communication that manifest intelligence as opposed to non-verbal body languages. Further, females have a better ability to disappear.
The sensitive artist guy – Ask in-depth probative questions, rather than “what do you look like?” maybe a little more like “what is the last book you read”. It seems like too simple advice but it works. Then follow through with imaginative questions based on the initial query. For example if she said “Anna Karenina” – write something like “I can relate to Anna Karenina’s pains of loneliness, what aspect of the book sparked your curiosity?”. Your questioning should be meaningful and this will earn respect.
The Vicomte de Valmont approach – If you have an adequate literary background you can weave in lines, and they are pick up lines like “you make the moon appear in the sky and the stars shine at night” but only if you know how to use love phases. I do have a page on love messages in a few languages if you want to try to weave these into your chat.
Political liberal pick up – A lot of girls because they are women connect to liberal movements like Greenpeace and environmentalism. What I mean by this is the nature of women is they are peaceful, nurturers by instinctive and hence many ally themselves politically with pro-earth movements or liberal causes. You can strike up a conversation based on this.
Direct pick up – You can try a basic approach of asking demographic and cultural questions and just be normal. The only thing here is every written communication can be a potential disqualifiers as the hooks that hold the tête-à-tête together are not as substantial. If you have a more meaningful rapport going, some chat mistakes are more tolerable.
Macho approach – Does not work, nor any game or player method that will work for Alpha males in the real world. Women react different with the written word in contrast to the spoken.
I am giving it to dating advice from the heart that works. I am a from a former online pickup artist.
More online ways to meet Russian girls for free
- qip.ru This is a Russian chat and SMS service, has download-able software and lots of features to get you chatting.
- avito.ru/ Classified ads with many single girls. Many photos of girls here. Then go to women seeking men -> она ищет его.
- en.loveplanet.ru/ – English language interface for large CIS dating portal.
- liveinternt.ru – Classified ads in Russian.
Here is another list of Russian sites with match and dating potential.
Where to chat with Russian girls other than ICQ
- rambler.ru – learn Russian a little
- love.ru which is mail.ru dating and chat
- vkontаkte.ru – has an English version
- odnoklassniki.ru – learn Russian a little
You need to see any online dating venture as a numbers game. I do sales, I sell Real Estate in Florida, and I know that a percentage of prospects are serious and some are just feeling the market out. You need to develop a system for attracting leads, weed-out the ones that are not serious and then focus on potential partners for long-term relationships, the ones you have a chance with. It is that simple. It as a numbers game and not to take it personally. Rejection is par for the course if you are a male.
The basic idea is to get Russian girls mobile numbers, but to do that you need to prove yourself with a little chutzpah and the gift of gab in addition to knowing where. If you have further questions about anything from Moscow to the vast expanse of Siberia or how to win the heart of a devotchka, just ask.