The aim of this article is not only to tell you where to find Sri Lankan girls mobile numbers, but how to obtain their contact information in general for a date. This includes e-mails, chats and forums for finding a pen pal. I will give you specific websites to communicate with women from Sri Lanka for true love or marriage in the land of copper-red hands (Prince Vijaya).
The websites in this post are based on personal experience and research. I choose websites in terms of effectiveness, trustworthiness and ease of use. However, these are only portals, you are the one who has to have the ‘gift of gab’ to be able to chat them up. If you are good with flirting with ladies you will be able to get their e-mail address or chat with them.
To obtain a mobile number of a princess from the land of Tambapanni you need to be a bit clever. Furthermore, once you have their number, you have to practice the virtue of patience, in order to romance them to the point where they will reciprocate interest.
Remember my website is not a look up and hook up site, that is why I do not post the numbers directly. I simply research respectable sites (listed below) and you need to use a balance of romantic idealism and moral restraint, to transform the initial spark into love marriage.
For example, if you were to search for some +94 dial code digits, someone could put an girlfriend’s telephone number on it a website out of scorn because she rejected one’s romantic overtures once. This sweet gal would get all kind of freaks sms-ing her.
I respect people’s privacy too much. In the end, it is a good thing that numbers are not easy to find, and you have to get them the old fashion way.
For example, I meet my wife this way, that is, I asked for her number in person. She rattled it off fast, and only remember her number though a mnemonic memory trick. I wanted to impress as swavy and causally remember it, rather than type it in my mobile. It would have broken the rhythm of the conversation. This is just a hint. If your good with numbers, the eye of your affection tells you it, just tattoo it into your memory (could be with a henna tattoo if you are not sure she is your destiny). Memorizing her number is better than typing it into your contact list. It will appear you are more about her, and not just walking around the island collecting random phone numbers from skirts who catch a young man’s fancy.
So if you can obtain get her number in person it is optimal. Think about it, a cell phone number and then an SMS is not the most romantic way to win a women’s heart, at least not in my personal experience. Women take time to trust you. This is especially true for a traditional country like Sri Lanka.
So my recommendation is to first your day game of chatting up women you meet. If you are shy, try the websites I list below for contact and dating. These are free and the most active networking and contact sites by singles in South East Asia for long-distance relationships.
Call code and other background information for Sri Lanka
I have traveled a lot of the world. If you want an advantage over other guys (your competition) in trying to win a girl’s heart, then learn something about the culture. Sri Lanka is a country with:
80% Buddhist girls – there are some Christians in the south-west and Hindu in the south. I prefer marring in my own religion if possible. I think most people do, but I would be open to other faiths if the person is a good human and accepting of my beliefs.
Timal and Sinhala are the languages, however, English is widely spoken as a second language, no problem to communicate or SMS in English with anyone. There are many books and websites with romantic text messages in all languages, you can use these as a resource once you get to that point, for example, jilljuck.com/Tamil-Love-SMS.
There are 20 million people this Indian Ocean paradise, so lets say about 5 million single Sri Lankan girls.
Start with Colombo girls, it is the largest city, the villages are good if you are going for a very traditional girl. I would also look in the North Western province in Kurungala and in Candy.
In Colombo there are Russian girls there if you are interested.
There are also a number of Sri Lankan girls in Dubai, Bahrain and the UK working honestly mostly in the customers support and IT fields.
Some people say the Maldives are the best place to meet girls, it has an open culture to foreigners.
If you want to travel to Ceylon directly here is their travel and culture site: Sri Lanka – there are beautiful photos on this site and useful information.
The calling code is 94
Cell numbers phones in Sri Lanka to contact girls
Now that you know I am recommending the indirect approach. I believe encouraging on Sri Lankan girls for friendship, rather than a phone number directory. Here are the websites you should explore:
elakiri.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=49 – it is a chat forum, the most popular in Sri Lanka. Do not just post your phone number or look for numbers online. That is like staring into the sun, it is too direct and girls get turned off. Use this forum to establish a normal rapport. After a month or so if you are flirting and chatting, move your rapport to the next level. Elakri forum is the best social community for Sri Lankan females.
sms.wow.lk/user/login.php for sending and receiving free Sri Lankan sms messages. This is a useful site as you can use this remotely anywhere in the world once you have their number.
To get a mobile phone card to call the girls locally try mobitel.lk it is a wireless company.
Try matchmaker.rediff.com – this is more of an Indian dating and matrimonial site but if you search by language you will find some overlap. I would search girls by language and religion and remember the best ones are the ones without the photos, I often find that the rule with dating sites.
Facebook is of course very popular in Sri Lanka and can be use to meet girls online.
From all of these ideas I would start with Elakri to try to make a connection. Try to chat then eventually get their phone numbers.
Love phrases in Sinhala
Everyone is dating and texting. Where is the romance? I am on a mission to bring romantic idealism back into the world. I recommend reading Wimalaratne Kumaragama. If you want to really take your love life to the next level memorizes some lines from Wimalaratne Kumaragama so they roll off your lips.
I personally recommend these works of poetry:
He is not the only original source for love words, also look Siri Gunasinghe, Mahagama Sekara, and Gunadasa Amarasekaraat, also the Tamil poet Neelaavanan.
Here are some love-text in Sinhala to warm things up
Hello – ආයුබෝවන් – āyubōvan
What books do you like? – ඔබ පොත් මොනවාද කැමති ඇයි? – oba pot monavāda kæmati æyi?
What is your phone number? – obagē durakathana aṁkaya kumak da?
Where do you go to school? – ඔයා කොහෙද පාසැල් යන්නේ? – oyā koheda pāsæl yannē?
Your eyes are beautiful like almonds – ඔබේ ඇස් ආමන්ඩ් වැනි අලංකාර – obē æs āmanḍ væni alaṁkāra
You are a flower, I am a bee – ඔබ මල් වේ, මම මී මම – oba mal vē, mama mī mama
Do you believe in destiny? – ඔබ ඉරණම ගැන විශ්වාස කරනවාද? – oba iraṇama gæna viśvāsa karanavāda?
The key thing about this post and site is it is about love and marriage not about short-term relationships. This is why I do not give you a simple page to post phone numbers. I have thought about this but I do not think this is the best way to go. I think simply providing you with some trusted websites to explore where you can flirt with potential brides and eventually get Sri Lankan girls phone numbers and contact information the old fashion way by meeting face to face.
If you are an Indian guy looking for WhatsApp numbers or mobile numbers of some Indian ladies, listen up. Yes, you can get these numbers and chat usernames.
I will show you how. However, be realistic. Indian ladies do not post their cell numbers online or a ‘call me now’ button adjacent to their photo. The web is full of fake profiles (posted by Indian guys wanting to get clicks on their website).
Indian girls love online dating – Indian culture has arranged marriages, to some extent. Therefore, what is suppressed in the collective subconscious mind is romantic love in the Romeo and Juliet sense. Indians both male and female dream of meeting their partner in an alternative way and alternative person to their parent’s selection based on pre-defined criteria and understanding of success. The last generation’s view However, your generation want something different. Even if that vision is just a fleeting romantic dream. No value-judgements here, however, it is an observation, Millennials and Generation Z are different.
In a word, Yes, they want to meet you – in hopes of finding true love that lead to a “love marriage” or even just a long-term relationship with possibilities.
However, since India is still a traditional culture when it comes to the mores and standards of dating, you need to approach your quest a bit cavalier, like a humble cricket star rather than a flashy T-series dancer.
Use these love phrases and text it to a girl on your phone
Since ‘love sees with the mind and not with the eyes’, to some extent women respond to words like you to visual stimuli. Here is my post on: love phrases in Hindi. This will help you send messages to girls numbers you have obtained. Just copy and paste a English or Hindi love phrase into your mobile phone and send to girls you are flirting with.
However, before you do the above, read the post below in its entirety.
This is a long post but stick with me, there is some wisdom here and if you read it, this post will help you find the love of your life.
Why am I an expert?
I am happily married for many years.
I am a college Professor and I see how people interact.
I suffered greatly in my life and with that suffering comes wisdom when combined with values.
Basic data collection on Indian singles
When I drove Uber and every time I picked up an group of Indian girls usually shuttling them to their medical school prep exams, I asked them about dating a love because I was curious about their perspective. I am married and I have the ‘gift of gab’ so I was able to get them to open up a little. What did I find out?
They will put their profiles on dating sites which are respectable.
They use online dating as the main way go on a date. Many of these girls are medical students as there is a medical school near me. They come from good families. They are attractive. They have an arranged marriage coming but want to consider their options.
They really want to meet a guy for a love relationship. They did not want to be assigned a mate by their parents. The bottom line is they are trying to find guy online or at least they are testing the waters.
I contrast, do you think they are randomly posting real numbers on the web next to their pictures? Not a chance. Girls do not do that type of stuff an. Get real.
Women that want that type of attention have an Instagram or YouTube channel and are inaccessible except through their comment steam which is flooded with two hundred thousand followers.
There is not one Indian girl that would ever post a risqué photo and their real number online.
Fun fact: Actually those are guys that do that, not girls. You do not want to text message a guy do you?
Good, now lets talk real. You can get the number of any girl Indian or Pakistani or Russian or American if you take my advice.
This post discusses how to find an Indian girl on your mobile phone.
It also addresses how to develop a rapport with a woman using your cell phone which will lead to love and marriage.
I will show you how to get a girlfriend using only your cell phone. I will look at this honestly and based on personal experience.
My first piece of dating advice for mobile phone users – Visualize
First piece of advice is more powerful than any 6G connection.
Take a 20 minute break from the phone. Mediate and visualize the girl of your dreams. See her in your third eye. See yourself meeting her. Try to do this everyday and bring this image to reality.
Do this everyday. You have the most powerful Internet and cell phone web in your brain. Technology makes use forget this. This is why you guys are single. You can reach out to a beautiful girl in your imagination and she will find her way into your life.
Next wait, and see how the universe will start to listen. This is much better than just a swipe on your phone though pics of girls that have a thousand other guys doing the same.
If you see something in the mind’s eye, she will come to fruition. Maybe not like you imagined but some manifestation of this. The purer you are in heart the closer you will get to your vision.
My second piece of dating advice for mobile phone users – Go Offline
This is the best dating advice I can give after visualization. Forget the trendy dating apps. Why waste time searching for girls Snapchat usernames online? Better is to develop your offline skills, then use Snapchat to continue that rapport.
For you millennial or Gen Z Indian geeks this is a hard message but, will yield more girls phone numbers that will lead to a real connection. These are girls that will not flake out. Can you imagine a lot of women?
I have some authority as I am happily married and in a love marriage.
Meet in person first because girl’s brains are different than guys. Girls need rapport and trust. The ones you meet online have 1001 other suitors. You do not need that competition.
Once you meet them and they kind of like, you then you can retreat into your bedroom and slowly build a cordial rapport on Snapchat or Whatsapp through mutual respect.
I know this article is long but take the time to read this because it has subtle insights regarding the use of technology and finding love.
This page will teach you to get from ‘no’ to number with any girl. How to contact them and win their heart.
How I won my wife – It all started with her cell phone number
My salient point is technology is a tool, not a replacement for an authentic tête-à-tête and interrelationship bonding in the real rather than virtual world. Trust me I am married and have traveled from Asia, Europe with years of dating experience.
I met my wife in the city center of a busy city in Europe. She was a University student. I met her face to face, chatted her up as we walked. Somewhere in the conversation, I wrestled her phone number from her. I did not write it down but committed it to memory. I have kept that piece of paper to this day. It was the start. I would have to be very patient and charming in my written correspondence with her via the phone. I was careful to give her space and time and chose my words carefully.
The issue is ladies make you work for them, especially from a traditional country like India. It is the female nature to build trust and make you wait. Therefore, mobile phones, the new virtual relationship venue, is not always quick and easy. For example, I could not get a date with my wife for a year after I met her. That is how it is if you want a good girl. I did and I am happily married to this day.
You have to be radical in your actions and idealistic and romantic in your words. Just do not tell her you love her or you want to date her. That is too much cream not enough sugar. Learn to subtlety wrap you words in a text that contains specific references to your situation and hers, and describe it poetically and if you can reference classical Hindu text even better. For example do not text her you want to see her again. If she wore new shoes, do not make comment on it during your meeting, rather, the next day mention something in a text her new shoes and say something cute like:
You have intoxicated me by just your glance (Amir Khusro Hindi poet) – and your new shoes (embellish with specific adjective connected to her shoes). – What you might SMS.
This surprises her you were paying attention and you know how to be romantic and you care about things like classical Hindu culture, all in a concise written SMS.
I did something radical to find true love. I had to leave the USA, the country wear I was born and raised. I left my career and life behind. I moved to the town where I met my future wife Kate and tried to be friends. Before we dated we would walk and in the evening exchange text messages before we went to bed. It really helped me learn the language. We both spoke English, a but to learn her language was something endearing.
Expect to do the same, really do something radical if you like her. Do not just be one of countless guys that turn their heads as she walks by. Be someone who proves themselves as worthy of winning her hand in marriage.
For example, I wrote her countless text messages on a simple flip phone (over 3,000 the first year and some were love phrases and poems and the best were original, not only copied from Hindu romantic historical writers, but classics work well too). Work in a few quotes in your text messages from Indian female writers like Shobha De or Namita Gokhale. Show them you have some class.
I would ignore her some days and keep her waiting. Remember the ‘course of true love never did run smooth’ and you need to add a little drama. Even if you do not think so they are checking their iPhones ten times a day. Do not be needy or desperate, play the dance and entice her.
Girls numbers for friendship posted online – Platonic first – Romantic if you can win her
The purpose of this post is to give you some ideas one way or another to get Indian girls mobile numbers for friendship. If you really want to try to find out where and how here are some ideas. I will give you one very good website for you to explore in this regard, but first read my view on telecommunication dating.
Indian women and their relationship with giving the a ring (on the phone not their finger)
I teach languages. I can not say that my female students are better with verbal communication, but I can say, they do like to talk more in class. I think this is because their brains have more connections in the verbal and audio centers than men. Broca’s and Wernicke’s area on PET scan confirm this. Why? Because they often are the ones responsible for transmitting language and speech to their children. Hence the term mother tongue.
What does this have to do with getting mobile numbers from a Bangalore girl? Everything. Women like verbal communication in the same way men like surfing the Internet. Women like to talk and love cell phones. Men do not talk as much and prefer to think about the next steps and strategies in life and think in abstract way. Men use phones for business, unless then are talking to a lady of course. Men are simply not as chatty. For example, I do not even own a cell phone, I just use a Skype. On the other hand, how often are you driving along and you see a girl talking her mobile walking down the street?
I remember once I told a girl I barely knew that I would give her a ring after yoga class. She freaked out, as she thought I meant a ring on her finger, I meant a buzz or jingle on the line.
Even though I write cautiously and conservatively, I have polled lots of Larkiyan and they all secretly dream of a mysterious encounter, OK maybe not all but many.
Indian women secretly do not mind using the telephone for a mysterious connection with some guy. The telephone is a natural invention for them. I have had women friends say they had this happen to them. Some random guy sends them and SMS and they reply innocently or naively. They build a rapport and then even chat. However, I have never heard of two people really meeting this way. Maybe they do not confess.
Trace Mobile Numbers in India
Random wrong numbers – Sometimes lead to relationships but do not spam girls numbers, trace an Indian girls number etc. I would not use this as the your main arrow in your quiver to strike like cupid at her heart, but it has worked. I remember when I was a sixteen I called this girl by mistake and we talked for hours. We were both lonely, she was from Iran. I wanted to ask her out, but if you can believe it I too shy. She lived in my same town mind you. I was thinking why did I lose courage.
Reverse girl number look up – If you still really want to find to reverse search a girls number in India, and use it for moral purposes, I will give you a hint. The Department of Telecommunications has divided up the country into cellular zones or service areas. There are twenty-two telecom circles. The country code is +91 then all prefixes are 7, 8 or 9. You can start to pinpoint locations and lookups if you are clever. AB-XYZ-12345 ten digit numbering format. AB- access code, XYZ- MSC Code. The 12345 is the subscriber number. The MCC-MNC Codes are dizzying and for me confusing but if you really want to, you can put one and one together and based on her carrier and region (Andhra Pradesh to West Bengal and Andaman Nikobar). The main issue is 73% of the numbers are prepaid phone cards in India. There is number portability and this makes it more elusive than fixed numbers. Also I can image a self-respecting college girl posting her personal information online. Do not believe all those websites out there, you can not really get the exact number online, just pinpoint the region and carrier.
Trace and Indian girl with an image – Another way to do a reverse search on a girl. If you are chatting with her on your mobile ask her to send a photo. From there you can do a reverse image search using a website called tineye.com. With this website you might be able to find information on her Facebook page or university website. Although I tend to think a lot of social sites do not index profile imagines.
Indian mobile number trace and software – Here are two online resources to use: indiatrace.com and internet4mobile.com – Use at your on your own responsibility. The best is just ask her where she lives with honest communication.
I have had guy friends find numbers of women and begin to SMS them under the pretense of a wrong number and strike up a rapport. I think at the end of the day women will not accept this as a reasonable way to meet a long-term partner, but maybe. I wrote a similar article here on Pakistani girls mobile numbers
There are mobile phone dating sites. I have even thought of starting one, but I think it would be too much work, and not my style. I do not have any dating sites by the way. Besides not being my style, you would have to moderate thousands of cell phone no. from Indian girls and guys to make sure they are legitimate. I use to even worked for a company that did something like this, that is mobile phone dating and profile moderation for dating sites. I like real better than virtual.
Getting mobile numbers in person is best and do not make it a virtual relationship
The best way to get a girls from Kolkata mobile numbers (for example) is go there and meet them in person. Meet them in dance class, or take yoga or a literature class, or meet them on the street by talking to them. Then ask them for their phone number and then arrange a date at a coffee shop.
If you can get their number call them up on the phone and directly ask for the date – read how I asked for e-mail when I should have asked for a phone number.
Many times with girls I tried to get to know I use to have great courage and be able to chat them up on the street. I would charm them and then ask for e-mail. What am I crazy? I asked for their e-mail, not their phone number. Why did I do this? The reason is I am on the Internet a lot, working and writing e-mails. I though this was a better way to build a rapport. But this was a huge mistakes, I learned this latter. If I had the girl laughing and chatting with me in person, why would I regress to some virtual relationship? I do not know, maybe I am a geek or think girls do not want to really date me. They did not like it at all. They wanted a call on the phone and a date, not weeks of Internet banter, no matter how witty.
In a word, I blew it. I could have called them but I e-mailed them.
One more point, do not keep asking for their photo, chicks are into works like men are into visuals. Focus on verbal communication, ladies do not want to think their pictures will be plastered on your computer like a Bollywood screen saver download, unless she is your wife of course.
Ways to get mobile phone numbers women from India for chat
I think a lot of Indian guys are Internet geeks and shy, like me and would rather find a SMS a girl or find them virtually. This is OK but remember this is a guys way not a female way. Whether they are Kerala girls or Chennai girls instead of finding their mobile phone number on the Internet, go to these places in India and meet them in a coffee shop or a bookstore. Take a train and travel from New Delhi to Hyderabad or Prune.
Lines to use on someone your want to date
Then after chatting them up, ask them something like this:
‘Would you be terribly offended if you meet sometime on a cordial basis.’ Say those exact words. Say them with a smile. It sounds cheesy but it works. If they say ‘well, uhm, I do not know you’… tell them: ‘please just say maybe’. If they like you they will give you a ‘maybe’ and that is really a yes. They will give you their telephone number, then you make them wait. Do not SMS them.
Oh, yes you better believe they will be checking their text messages and voice message, every ten minutes, wondering. Read my lips, make them wait. Then when you are ready, call them. Make the telephone conversation up beat, light and breezy. Suggest a date, a walk in the park, for example. After that you are on your own. But if you did this, just like I said you will have no problem getting a date.
Indian girls mobile numbers for friendship
Therefore, my point is the mobile phone is a tool, not an end in itself. I know man, I have been there myself, working long hours and no way to meet girls other than with technology. Go national culture and travel site and consider a trip. In incredible India and you will meet women for friendship and communication and come back with a phone book full of numbers and you might even be an expert on local area codes.
If you really still want to try use Foursquare. It is social networking with your mobile phone and if you find an Indian city you can socialize with Indian girls on your mobile phone. List of numbers it is not, but a very good website it is. It is getting popular in Asia.
Did you really think I would recommend any less than legitimate ways of getting cell phone number from girls from Delhi. If you are looking to call a girl in Mumbai it is better you know here in person first. Telecommunications is evolving to mobile communication, this includes Skype on tablets and proliferation of smartphones. These replace landlines. However, with all this world-wind of technological change, remember I met my wife face to face. We establish a rapport over a long period time. Technology was only a tool that enhanced our dating process, but not the key to it.
Irony of wireless cellular communication during courtship
One of the reasons that mobile devices is so appealing is all the things you can do with them on an actual date. You can find a Rajasthan Girl mobile number or a Jharkhand woman’s phone number, and then use your phone on the date to entertain and charm her. You do not have to spend money for a date if you can use your imagination. I never try to impress women with money, rather do it with your creative ways to pull at her heart-strings.
7 ways to use mobile phone device on a date
Watch TV – For example go to yuppty.com. Yupptv is an Indian TV on your mobile phone. There are scores of interesting programs, that you can watch. Can you imagine taking her to a park and you sit on a bench and watch TV on your mobile, I bet she never did that before with a romantic companion. What an innocent and quirky way to win her heart.
Watch a movie – Alone the same line as the above point and does not need to be explained other than this hint. Women on dates are stressed. I do not know why, they just are. Comedies or romantic comedies are the best to watch.
Gaming – Something about the female brain loves arcade games. Guys like shot them up games, women like fantasy or simple games. You take her on a date somewhere nice and play games on your phone and do it in a charming way, she will fall for you. If her adrenaline is going than other hormones might kick in as well.
Maze running. You can try to locate with maps some obscure point in the city using interactive maps and GPS navigation. The idea here is it is team work and solving something together, this builds fondness. The reason is being married as husband and wife is about being a team against the world working out challenges. If you found your Indian princess in Arunachal Pradesh with a mobile platform of Northern India, or a Madhya Pradesh telephone number in the center, woo her with an amazing step around.
Music – Women are more into music than guys, it is very important to them as music tunes into their primal need to express themselves with their body and attract a mate. How else can you explain the reason women are obsessed with dancing. So no matter where you are on your date you can listen to or create a play list of amorous music on your digital phone. If you got a Maharashtra girls mobile number for friendship or love, music is the way to unlock the limbic areas of her brain connected to deeper feelings at a subconscious level.
Browse women’s things, as girls clothes or houses on your mobile browser. Women love to look at styles. I often look at Amazon.com dresses with my wife and I do not hear her complain.
Take photos together of each and use pixlr.com moble app to make funny doodles and layers. Use this if it is not a first date. The chick might get weird on your if you do not have a bond or affinity based on dating over time yet.
The purpose of this post is to twofold. First, it is to tell you about Tamil girls and their culture and give you one good resource to read more about “incredible India”. Second, I want to give you some hints very specific ways to contact them. My thesis in this post is, if you can find a way to chat or write women from south-eastern India or even how to get Tamil girls mobile numbers for a SMS this is one thing. However, if you know something about their culture you will have a greater chance finding love or even matrimony. I hope this article will serve as a resource for you and I invite user comments for those who have more information to share with others.
The name Tamil Nadu literally means ‘the country of the Tamils”. The Tamil civilization started about 2,000 B.C with the height of their Chloa civilization being reach about the year 800 A.D. There are 67 million people living in Tamil land. It is like a medium to large European country in both size and population.
The capital of Chennai has almost 7 million people alone. If you are looking for a Tamil girl and can travel there this would be my first stop as your chances are very good here to meet at least one single girl in Chennai. I drew this map this morning using to show its location in India and the relation to Sri Lanka.
Like other areas of southern India like Kerala, the sun is direct and the climate is a truly a tropical climate. The women in Tamil Nadu have a darker complexion because of the sun, than the ladies of Northern India. This is more Dravidian land, which is Southern India. I married an Eastern European gal but her complexion is so dark I wonder if she has any Indian roots. Gypsies are originally from India and maybe there is somewhere in the bloodline. For me it is all very interesting. I like this dark exotic look that Tamil girls have.
Eighty-eight percent of the women in Tamil are Hindu, however if you are looking for a Christian Tamil girl you need to look in the district of Kanyakumari. Here a little less than half of these women are Christian, a faith brought to India by the Portuguese. In fact, many of the last names in this area are Portuguese, such as Pinto, think of the Bollywood star (there is a Kollywood) with this same last name.
Although the language spoken is Tamil, English is almost universally known if you want to chat up some girls.
If you want to know more about Tamil culture or are thinking of a trip. I would highly recommend this site about Tamilians to learn about Tamil girls. This is an official site and they even have a honeymoon section. I would go to India just for all the great Ayurvedic centers. If you know something about the people and history than you have a better chance of chatting up potential Tamilian brides even if you are from India and already know a lot. Learn some more.
Specific places to meet Tamil girls when in India
I think you can meet Tamil girls in Dubai or in America or online. But if you can fly there, I would. I think from anywhere you can get a ticket to India for about 1500 dollars. Once you are there it is very cheap to stay and live. So transportation is your only cost. As mentioned I would start in the capital of Madras.
Indians have arranged marriages. All my Indian friends got married this way and arrange marriages work. They are all happy, except one. And he grew up in the USA so he is not fully Indian in culture. The parents set these up and the singles can choose to opt out of their parents initial selections. However, things are changing and there are many places to meet someone if you are not an insider.
Here are some place to meet girls of Tamil if you are coming in from the outside.
The night life approach to meeting a woman in Chennai
Kishkinta – HFO – Super large 6000 square feet disco. This is the best for night life action in Chennai.
Dublin – Many cities in the world have this type of Irish pub and night club. Attraction for many western tourists and even some Russian girls from the Sheraton.
Pasha, EC41, Flame Le Club are other noteworthy places for singles.
Tamil matrimony agencies
Do not assume all the desirable singles are online. They are not. This is India and a very conservative culture. If you got to Chennai you will find real life match makers. As a tourist before I meet my wife and got married I checked out a few places on trips to various countries, more for fun. What you do if need to look in the newspaper and in the back you will find scores of these places in the classified sections. You have to sift out the sleezy ones from the respectable ones. Hint: The good ones I recommend have addresses, the bad ones just have mobile numbers of Tamil girls for your to call. I do not recommend the bad one at all. The best papers to look in are, Dinakaran,Dinamalar,MAlai Muracu,Thanthi also look in the Indian Times generally.
When you are at the matrimonial agency there is usually an older person running it and has a book for you to look at with photos of Tamil girls and important information about who they are, just like online. However, the advantage of these match making places the matchmaker helps in the selection of possible mates based on a million different factors. I do not want to go into it here as it’s too complex and deals with astrology, family, caste etc.
If you are an outsider I do not think this is the way to go, but it is an interesting experience to see this, and the photos are interesting.
The western guy approach to meeting girls
Tour guides who you hire than try to date
Teachers if you have time for a language class
In shops (please do not start with the duty-free shop at the airport), on the street, depends on your ability to chat up girls. Your ability to charm a princess is mostly dependent on your level of self-confidence, or at least perceived level of confidence combined with refinement.
Temil girls in diaspora in Dubai and London
The tour guides and language teachers are great as they are educated open to foreigners but they get hit on a lot.
Online dating and Tamilian women and brides
Under my Kerala girls post I give you some general sites which you can localize. Here are some ideas. The best places to meet Tamilian girls online are as follows:
FaceBook – nothing new here, the entire country is online
Orkut.co.in – India is one place where people actually use Orkut en masse (Romania also)
jeevansathi.com – this is part of sulekha.com the largest classified site in India. Both these sites are highly recommended.
bharatstudent.com – more for students
Shaadi.com – This is very well run matrimonial site. I recommend this as a trustworthy site with many services.
I would could write so much more as the culture of this area is so rich and the people interesting (for example they have some of the best chess players in the world). However, I think at this point instead going on and on, I want to invite your opinion and more information. Any comments are really appreciated if you can intelligently add more about Tamil Nadu or the girls from this part of India.
The purpose of this post is to give you information about Kerala girls and where to meet them chat with them and also some pictures of photos for you to enjoy. I think the main value here besides the information is, I give you one very good specific recommendation about where to meet Mallu girls for marriage or love. This website is the place where you can meet women online for free that are really from Southern India. However, I do tell you a lot of things that are important if you visit this part of India.
This is in contrast to my last post on Kerala girls in Dubai which focused on online places to meet these ladies, more for workers living in foreign countries.
In all my posts I want to be respectful, and as always if you have additional information that is of value please leave a comment, as others can benefit.
Land of Kerala girls
The State of Kerala is located in the south western coastal region of India. It is a unique, distinct state defined my the Malayalam language and culture. In my opinion it is the Malayalam language which really defined who is a Shakeela or Kerala girl and who is not.
The geography of this tropical land on the Indian Ocean is like Hawaii, that is tropical, with both mountains and flat lands and huge bio diversity in plants and animals. There is a lot of backwater also this is similar to Louisiana.
This one state in India has thirty two million people. That means there are about ten million single Kerala girls looking for a husband. That is a lot of single Kerala lady. That is more than the entire populations of many countries. That is like a couple of cities of the whole population of Paris for example. My point is if you are looking for a Malayali girls than you can find her.
I have mentioned this in my other post that the princesses of this land are the most educated and upwardly mobile people of the Sub Asian continent. This is because these people when to the gulf states to work and earned very good money, mostly because of the exchange rate and oil industry.
The biggest cities are Thiruvananthapuram and Kochi ( women of Cochin can look like models with their style). However, Kozhikode, Kollam and Thrissur are also big with populations of just under a half a million for all the Kerala cities mentioned. However, most guys looking for Kerala girls are looking for them aboard. But the best place to look is take a drive along the NH47 road, the main road here, into the remote villages. I love adventure and I would do something like this. Time has a different meaning in India and if you spend a few months there you would find your bride.
Good and bad Mallu girls
If you are going to Kerala to pick up girls I would say be very well behaved and do not do anything not legal. Why? Unlike in Mumbai and other places in India the authorities in Kerala watch very close what is going on with regards to women. It is a very different culture than the rest of India. There are crackdowns on bad behavior and you know what I am talking about.
Places to avoid in Malayaleeland are Kanghangad near Kasargode, The Oakwood in Thiruvanathapuram, the various truck stop type places off the Highway NH47. These are places that have less than “honorable Malayalee girls”, heed my warning above.
If you are going to Kerala for anything bad, I think you should think again.
However, while you are in Malaya land just get a healthy normal Ayurvedic massaj and this is a way to meet good Kerala girls instead of the bad Mallu girls.
The Indian express which is found here www.indianexpress.com ( eighty year old news paper founded by and Ayurveda doctor.) comes all of India. The New Indian express is southern India is here www.expressbuzz.com. In the classified section of this paper are ads for traditional Indian massage. I give you the site below.
However, again avoid firms like SoftTouch as they are as the name implies. I would say that approximately fifty percent of the ads for Ayurvedic massage with Kerala girls are not what I would call respectable unfortunately. These women are offering more than traditional Ayurvedic so do not bother with them if you get a hint this is what they offer.
Real Ayurvedic Kerala girls for massage
Massage is good for the heart and soul. I am a big believer in Ayurvedic massage. I do self reflexology with Ayurvedic oils on my feet. I would love to get one in India right now. I believe in natural healing. Here is the good news, these places are everywhere in Kochi for example and they are all good Kerala women in the authentic Ayurvedic places. I think the herbs they use are aromas are very balancing.
Look through classified ads below to balance your body.
Other considerations with Malayalam girls
Deepavali festival(Hinduism, Sikhism, and Jainism) in the Autumn is a great time to be in Kerala. It is a significant 5-day festival which is full of color and beauty.
Kerala girls wear traditional saris in the villages but very tight jeans and lose tops in the city.
Beaches at Trivandrum are pretty fun and full of women as is Varkala beach.
Do not hit on any married Mallu girls. Indian guys working their butt’s off in the Middle East just so they can be with their sweethearts and provide a life. A lot of married women are alone in Kerala. Do not even think about tempting them because God will see this. This is wrong. The above bad girls from India mentioned above may or not be wrong, but married women are off limits.
The friendship clubs avoid they are rip offs in my opinion
Kerala girls meet and chat
New Indian express classifieds are the best place online to meet Malayalam females. You can find a bride or wife here. There are more brides looking for grooms than the other way. Here is where you can find the classified ads of this newspaper: www.expressclassifieds.in Look through the matrimony section and you will find your Mallu girl for love.
The purpose of this post is to tell you a little about Kerala girls in Dubai. I want to shed a little light on:
Why these Kerala women are in the UAE.
Why so many guys want to marry Kerala girls in Dubai (beyond just reasons of looks).
What is it like in Kerala India.
Further, I will tell you how to meet them online or while you are staying in UAE.
I hope I also clear up some myths about these respectable women, as online there are a lot of sites that promote less then respectable reasons to find women. I want this site to be about culture of love, sincere love and even marriage.
Why Kerala girls are in Dubai
Kerala girls come from the south western part of India. They have a historical connection with the gulf states that actually started in the 1930s, it of course was all work or economically based as despite the proximity of being part of the Asian continent, Indian and Arab culture are different. Therefore, Keralian workers went to Dubai only for money.
There was a series of waves in migration to the gulf states of Kerala peoples in the 1970s and 1980s and subsequent waves today such as Kerala girls in Dubai because of this connection.
The reason there is so much interest in Kerala women in the Middle East is because they are proportionally higher educated than most parts of Asia.
This perpetuates the cycle of migration and allows them to continue to migrate to places like Dubai and and other Middle Eastern countries for professional jobs (30 years ago it was for blue collar jobs).
The result is they are now considered from a higher class as their incomes are disproportionately higher than the new wave of migrant worker families.
What happened was the Kerala women and men worked in places like UAE and sent money back home, this facilitated the development of Kerala land and perpetuated a cycle of workers going to the gulf states. This pushed Trivandrum or Mallui girls from the working class to the upper classes or at least professional class in many circumstances.
About 20% of the income of people living in Kerala come from remittances from the gulf states and this amounts to about 7 billion dollars a year. This is a lot of money considering the standard of living in India.
Therefore, although Malayali girls in Dubai may have roots in a village in South Western India, they have reach a reasonably high economic level.
Hence, the result of this prosperity, and education this gives them opportunities to interact with men from around the world in an international setting like Dubai, rather than marrying the guy next door in their village.
Kerala girls matrimony
Gulf migrants are very sought after as wives and bridegrooms. Kerala girls attractive earnings enabled them to marry and go from the professional class to a rich, respected Indian family. Remember class is important in India, although this is going away, it is still a society that has class divisions ingrained in their collective unconsciousness.
Further if you marry an Kerala girl in Dubai for example, you can in one or two generations bring your family from a lower class to an upper class. This is another reason they are so sought after as brides.
A bride from the village – my story
I think this is a common theme in love and marriage, not just with Kerala girls in Dubai, that is people marry people from all over the world from different backgrounds.
For example I am an American from rich fancy Boston and I met my wife, who was from a poor village in Poland, however, she was studying at a top University in Europe. She had more culture and class and virtue than I did. Therefore, because of almost educational opportunities, she studied in a city I was visiting. Her education and luck of geogrpahy allowed us to bridge the artificial gap of culture and our minds and hearts could connect. In fact I feel honored she accepted me, some uncultured American cowboy.
My point is education opens up a world of possibilities when it comes to marriage. However, it should never be a determinate criterion for love. Love is about finding your other half.
Kerala land in India, what is it like?
Malayalam is the language of Kerala, as well as Hindi and English of course. Linguistics is the principle unifying idea behind Kerala. The literacy rate is over 95% and on a scale of human development index it is higher than most parts of India. In fact it is considered generally as the most develop part of India.
This part of India is coastal and tropical, many people consider it a tropical paradise, however, for me it is a little too tropical as it is very wet. But I think I am the only one who thinks this way. It is a stark contrast to the desert of the Arabian peninsula where many of these people work.
Here is a website to read more about the culture of Kerala girls and what their homeland is like beyond Dubai world and working and living in the Persian gulf. I think the website is good although the large image at the top is not easy in terms of usability. However, the pictures on the site are beautiful and the information is accurate as it is an official government website.
Kerala girls in Dubai want to meet
What is the objective in terms of relationships for these girls? Kerala females seek matrimony. They come from traditional societies and are looking for love and to be a bride, not libertine fun.
The Style of “Kerala women in Dubai” is sensual .Their style is suggestive, they look more like models than normal single girls. Despite the fact they are traditional and many Kerala girls wear a Saree in Dubai, others do not. My south Indian friends tell me do not believe they are so innocent. I was surprised when they told me this as I thought this society was one of the most traditional in the world. My Southern Indian friends smiles.
They like to play, chat flirt and meet guys. To attract guys, Kerala girls in Dubai wear the tightest jeans, almost painted on, and lose low cut tops. You might see some Kerala girls in the United Arab Emirates traditional dress but western clothes are more common.
Ten recommended ways to meet Kerala girls in Dubai visa online dating:
www.click.in – Classified site for India including a marriage section and screen for geographical location like UAE or Kerala.
www.desikiss.com and www. indiamatch.com are the most popular with Asian Indians women.
www.dubai.dubizzle.com is a site for general classifieds in UAE for Indians but not really singles website.
www.bharatstudent.com – Best if you are young and you want to meet Kerala girls in Dubai that are students. It is the facebook of India.
www.indianmatch or even match.com if you want to meet ladies or potential bride that are more professionals after school.
www.sulekha.com classified site with all kinds of people seeking all kinds of things, including romance and love.
www.shaadi.com – Indian and Kerla girls matrimonial services. It looks like thi is the I think one of the oldest and largest for Asian marriages. They have been around since 1996 and claim over 20 million marriages. Therefore, even though this is commercial I highly recommend this site to meet a Kerala bride.
Icq, Facebook are always top sites in any language or country.
If you want to meet Kerala women in UAE, I think the best way is through friends and work as these ladies are more establish and are not cruising hotels for their husband. You might meet them in a disco or night club in the city but again, I think this is hard as the competition is too high and the environment is not conducive to meeting your love.
Also look at the other online dating and resources I list on my site as I have many ideas. I am trying to build a website that is a place people can go to as a resource for meeting girls for love, but also learn about their culture and lives. Please leave a comment and let me know if you need to know anything else or something else can be added to my post on Kerala girls in Dubai. My only request is that you use good grammar and spelling and avoid chat style.
The purpose of this post is two fold. First, to clarity what the term “Desi girls” means and second to give you some ideas where and how to meet Desi girls or at least chat with them. I think the meaning of the term will surprise you.
Original meaning of Desi girls
The original meaning of the term Desi means literally ‘from the country of’. This is actually an ancient Sanskrit word. This alone does not make sense to us today. However, if you understand it in a broader context, what it means is if you are from India it means you are an Indian.
Let me explain further by giving an example of something you might already understand. In ancient Greece anyone who spoke the Greek language was from the country of Greece and anyone who did not speak the language of the country was called a barba or later Barbarian. Similarly, the culture of the Sub Asian continent identified itself as unique and culturally different then the rest of the world. The term Desi was applied to people of this area. Even if a person lived aboard they would be identified as Desi if this was their country of origin. It was a positive term, nothing negative.
Therefore, the phrase “Desi girls” refers to a girl of South Asian heritage, this could be from the country of India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Nepal, Sri Lanka or Afghanistan.
Today the term Desi girls has transformed into a slang or online term meaning hot girls from India and Pakistan. The Internet often corrupts innocent terms.
What kind of Desi girl should you meet
Do not go for Bollywood model types. Let me extrapolate. The women I know from India and Pakistan are beautiful, almost universally. They actually do look like Bollywood girls.
In fact, I think simple people from the countryside are always more beautiful inside and out than any famous person. Famous people and models have inflated egos and their pride makes them ugly or at least very difficult. These ladies will bring hardship to the man who marries them. So if you are searching for some model or actress, your better off looking for a normal Pakistani or Indian girl from the village . My personal estimate is there are about 300,000,000 girls form India and Pakistan that are single and looking for a guy. Therefore, why waste your precious energy and time looking at pictures of some lose moral-ed flashy Bollywood (Hindi: बॉलीवुड) girl online who is virtually unobtainable anyway?
Simple Desi girls from the village will treat you better, have better moral values and are physically more natural looking. They are corn feed natural farm girls, if you may. No disrespect intended. Rather common people are the best, that is why God made so many of them. So go for a village girl rather than a Bollywood model or city woman of you are looking for true love.
In my opinion love is a strange combination of primitive attractiveness and moral ideals, not just beauty. Heed my words of warning, there is a proverb that says, ‘how often we confuse beauty with virtue’.
Be a wise guy and do not fall in love with just any Desi temptress whose lips are sweat like honey, fall for a woman whose beauty is only exceeded by her humility and grace.
Can you image if you married the girls you thought was hot when you were 14 or some girl you meet at a disco while in Dubai. Usually your understand of women change and if you married her, in most but not all cases, you might not be happy if you base on looks with out thinking of God and values. But on the other hand Indian and Pakistani girls are more moral than American girls so this might not apply to Indian girls.
On the other hand again, my friend George from Boston meet an Indian doctor who was rather, sorry to say easy, so it all depends., I guess she was corrupted. See as soon as Indian girls go to Dubai, or the West many go wild as they feel they do not have the same social restrictions they experience back home. They breakout of their traditional mode and become artsy (which I love) or Bohemian or wild.
But even if you meet some girl in a Dubai night club and see seems like a pure one night girl, read my lips, all women want to get married and have children and a normal family. No matter how they act or behave deep down they want to be a bride. Sometimes the messages from the western media messes with their head. It is all according to if you want to marry a girl like that. me I would have no problem as long as she was humble and moral in other ways.
Where to meet Desi girls
The following is a list of sites I recommend to meet a Desi girl. These are free non-commercial sites. I have recommended these sites on other areas of my blog also, I hope they are of value to you.
www.bharatstudent.com – Best if you are young and you want to meet ladies who are young
www.indianmatch or even match.com if you want to meet Desi girls that are more professionals after school.
American writing about girls
I am an American/European who writes a lot about love and girls. Why? I am a hopeless romantic. I have travelled the world and know a lot about this subject. I as I am a historian and . However, I do not have all the answers in life. I have only my partial opinions. I would love to hear feedback from people from Indian or Asia or the Middle East about how to meet and make a girl fall in love with you. I write about love and marriage as believe in true love. But I hope I am not boring. I need to develop my writing style and ideas and need your help so I can be a quality valuable resource for other guys looking for Indian and Pakistani and Indian girls. So if you have any ideas about Desi girls please write.
What are the countries and cities with the most Indian girls who do not live in India? This is the question this post will answer. Further, this post will give you some ideas about Indian girls and how to meet them if you do not live in India, not just Romani but new migrants who just left the Indian subcontinent to seek work abroad. The reason you might be interested in these girls is simple. Indian girls make good brides.
Indian women are not a commodity. This is website is not about “working girls” used in the low sense. This website is about how to find true love for happily ever after. However, I do have great pictures on this site as I believe that looks are the bait that nature creates.
On many websites and Indian dating sites you will see women portrayed in various ways. Some as Bollywood models and others simply as hot Indian girls. It is true that these women are beautiful, most of them naturally alluring, however, the key to dating one, is to understand them. You need to win their hearts before you can date them. I am sorry. I write a lot about girls on my website, but women are something to be respected first then you can admire and enjoy their bodies in true love.
Where the Asian Indian girls are outside of India
The following is a list of countries which have the highest Indian populations that might be of interest if you are looking for a hot Indian model to be your love:
Indian girls in the United States – there are 2.9 million Indians in the US so that means there are about 500,000 single Indian girls living in the USA looking for a guy. Boston, New York and San Fransisco have the largest Indian populations in my opinion. They are about 1% of the entire population. Indian women in America are somewhat westernized but highly educated and still are traditional enough to marry. Other, American women (except Russian, Ukrainian, Polish or Spanish, or good Christian women) I highly recommend stay away from. They are aggressive and will make you unhappy in most cases if you marry them.
Desi girls in the UK – About 2% of the population of the United Kingdom is from India, contrary to popular belief that the UK is very soon going to be nation of people from India, demographics takes times to change. This means there are about 1.5 million, most living in London. from this total population about 1/4 million are single Indian girls looking for a man.
Beautiful Indian women in Canada – Did you know Canada is 3% Indian with a population of over a million. This leaves about 200,000 single Indian girls looking for love in Canada.
Hindu girls in Saudi Arabia – There are about 1.5 million about 6% of the population. I have not written a lot about Indian girls in Saudi Arabia but need to start expanding on this topic.
Indian girls in United Arab Emirates – There are about 1.5 million about 35 % (I think it is more like 45%) of the population. Many are working men but many are single hot Indian girls looking for a man. The reason there are so many Indians in the Gulf states is simple. The salaries there pay about for times the salaries back home for the same job. I have written many posts on Dubai and where to meet girls in Dubai. Use these as a resource. Basically in Dubai you can find a woman that looks like a Bollywood model to be your bride if you know where to meet and chat with them.
There are many other countries like South Africa and Malaysia that have high populations of women from India but I had to focus on a few countries I thought might be of interest.
The question is how is this very general information useful to you other than some interesting statistics on Indians in Diaspora? The best way to meet Punjabi girls living abroad is online. I think Indian ladies are very educated and intelligent and use modern media as the Internet without any problem to meet guys.
Meet Indian girls online aboard
I will try to give you the best sites, that are not commercial but more for simply finding the one for you if you are looking for Indian girls in Saudi Arabia, Dubai or the USA or the UK.
www.bharatstudent.com-student social networking for Indians
www.click.in – Classified site for India including a marriage section.
desikiss.com and indiamatch.com are the most popular with Asian Indians girls in the USA. For Canadian Indian dating try kamaconnection.com
datingfunda.com and desikiss.com are the Most popular in the UK to find and Indian bride.
dubai.dubizzle.com is a site for general classifieds in UAE for Indians but not really a dating site.
Is this Indian girls post useful?
My objective is to create useful posts about women. Useful enough to help you find a bride or love. I want to be a resource, rather then just then a site that has low quality. Therefore, I ask you to please comment on what information about Indian women you are looking for and how I can improve this post so it will be a resource to others.
External resources about Indian girls
At the beginning of this post I walked about how to win the heart of a Desi girl for true love. I said the key is to understand them. Therefore, here are two places of interest for your own edification regarding what is in their hearts.
This site is about Indian girls with information about their culture and role in society. Indian girls in society is more of an educational site rather than a dating site.
This is a resource with a more respectful theme about Indian women. These sites will help you understand their minds and therefore more easily win their hearts.
Meet and chat with Indian girls, I will tell you how to do both in this post. I will tell you in exact ways where to find Indian women online. If there are over a billion people between Indian ocean, Bay of Bengal and the Arab sea, the there must be about 250 million single women looking for love.
An interesting fact is Indians are actually related to European girls as they are Indo-Europeans living in an Asian land.
Meet Indian girls online
The following websites are the best websites for meeting Indian girls online. Why? Because these are sites for people from India. These are not western sites with some ladies but only sites from the land of Bhārat Gaṇarājya भारत गणराज्य. These sites are not mail order bride sites but rather normal sites for dating and matrimonial motives.
www.bharatstudent.com -More for university students, too young maybe for many.
www.shaadi.com – Matrimonial services I think one of the oldest and largest for Asian dating.
This is my list of sites I can recommend for finding a indianbride. I think the last one shaadi looks like the best.
Also consider just taking a trip to India, that maybe is what I would do to find India girls.
Catch a Bollywood bride
Of course I do not meet catch them like capture Bollywoodgirls, I mean it in the dating sense, to find them and win their heart for true love.
My impression is women from Indiangirls from Mumbai to Bombay to the Pakistani boarder to Indian girls in Dubai are motivated by one thing. They all want to get married and many believe in destiny and use astrology to find their love or at least a matrimonial service.
What are girls from Bengali to Punjabi like? There is a big sense that they want to break free from their traditional roles a little, but not too much. They want a guy who will earn money and treat them with respect but allow them to get out of control and go wild once in a while. But not like in the western sense of course.
If you want to win an Indian bride I would recommend impressing them with your intellect first and not your money or looks. In my experience this is what a woman from India who is looking for a mate wants. Westerners go for money and the ladies on the sub Asian continent go for brains. Destiny and brains are what and Hindu matrimonial women look for.
Desi means homeland or from the country of. Desi is देसी دیسیV in hindi and দেশী in Bangla. It is from Sanskrit देश deśa- and now often refers to people living outside South Asia. Such as Indian girls in London or the USA or Dubai or even Pakistan.
However, I would recommend a non Desi woman.
Indian girls in America
I do not recommend Indian girls in America, they are already on their way to be too western.
Hindi women and culture
Basically if you have a wife from this culture she will be very loyal and loving and kind and supportive. However, you have to do your part and be loyal and take care of her and respect her family and learn a lot about her culture. Because if an Indian girl is going to marry a guy from another culture than Hindi culture, the parents will have to approve.
India girl pics
You can look at pics of Indian girls until you are blue the face (for example on Myspace, Facebook or Flickr, but basically they are dark and exotic and when they want to be very tempting. They have thick black hair and thick lips and many times wide hips. This makes them basically irresistible. If you want an Indian girl then win her heart with love phrases and intellect.
The most popular random video chat sites like Omegle or ChatRoulette, where you talk to strangers, see their photos make you feel empty as there are mostly guys here. I do not like them and offer alternatives. The categories of alternatives are as follows:
Mobile video chats – These are psychologically healthier because of a better ratio of male/females. It is all about the percentage of female chatters who are socializing. Mobile chats have more compared to online video chats are girls are more into cell phones, in my experience. You can freeze their images or capture them while viewing them if they are pretty. Women are into cell phones.
Foreign language mail servers – Prettier, more normal girls, the girl next door but in Russia, less gross stuff.
Take a trip to a foreign country to meet girls – I met my wife abroad on a vacation. Nothing beats reality.
If you want more female strangers to in your video chat world here is my review.
The issue with sites like Omegle
It all seems so mind numbing, like junk food of web experiences. Why? The man to woman ratio is ridiculously skewed when talking online video chats. Therefore, sites that are akin to Omegle with more girls or interesting ones do not exist, unless you pay, and who wants do to that. The bottom-line is, all these video chat sites are choked with guys.
Yes, there are occasionally girls online, mostly from Eastern Europe who will communicate with you. However,whenever you see a geographic location appear of Western Europe or the States it is some dude doing who knows what. It is a frustrating and boring experience, like the people online on the other side of the webcam.
So lets get this out of the way first – here are two of the better quality sites congruent to Omegle, yet I still have hesitancy to recommend only as they will leave you feeling disoriented and empty like ChatRoulette and Omegle.com do:
Sites similar to Omegle:
chatrandom.com – The normal chat on this site is the same, but the distinction is the ‘girls chat’, if you want to just browse professional girls. These professional chat room women are from Russia mostly and have nice makeup, but can not see you unless you registrar on another site. The other site has a poor WOT quality rating and recommend you avoid it, for security and privacy reasons. By the way if you reload the page you will see a new selection of females.
camstumble.com – Minor registration slows the process down, but not bad as ads some quality control. Too much skin and you are banned.
bazoocam.org – A lot of French, Italian and Spanish chatters, but still if you want to move to a “more girls” section you have to go to a red WOT area.
Fun yo, Flip chat, ChatVille, chatruletka.pl and Cam stumble and so forth are all more the same so no need to go down the list. Go ahead knock yourself out, but you to see something distinct, read on below in the mobile section. I only use these examples, so you do not waste you time thinking the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, it is not.
Cell phones and Mobile for real alternatives to ChatRoulette
If you want to go mobile I can recommend the following for chatting and room, they are a better quality experience than the above. Remember most of the developing world, where all these high quality women are, are not wired with the web like the USA and the UK are, they are more into wireless mobile communication. Just a different technology base.
Mobile video chats – the new Omegle with more girls:
Tinychat mobile video chat – This is a video chat on your mobile device. You can use it on your iPad, Andriods, Windows 8 OS or any of the new ones they are coming out with (Like Firefox OS). So basically you can connect with ladies from India to Russia.
oovoo mobile video app – It is another Mobile phone chats with video experience I have tried. You can do it online or with a mobile app.
Fring, Facetime and QIK are also OK.
Foursquare.com – Unique from the above but worth checking, a location based social networking site.
Women have always been more verbal than men and into phones and now cell phones. Texting and calling is a verbal form of communication women love. Men are more visual with mate selection. So it does not make sense to go to a simple video chat site and expect female to be there. Better is to try mobile chat sites.
Better experience with webcam chat for nice girls – think international
I think that the best video chats for girls are always from local mail servers like Russia has mail.ru, Poland has interia.pl or onet.pl.
That is each country has their own ICQ AOL Skype try chat service that also has video ability.
Sign-up and then after you are established you can meet them on a webcam after trust is built. These are not video chats per say but rather after you get to know a girl she will turn on her web camera and chat with you., eventually. These are usually the chat that is most popular in their country and not in English. You do not need to learn a language rather just use enough to navigate a few Icons so you can install the chat on your hard drive.
Similar chat software
More traditional PC software can be found on download.com – it is called – camfrog video chat. This in my opinion is the most popular. However there is a problem with camfrog video chat if you are a guy looking to chat with a girl for love. You guessed it, there are mostly guys there. I tried downloading the software and using it to help me learn a language. I wanted to learn Russian in fact. But the reality is its mostly guy looking for girls. I could not learn anything using this. However, if you want to give it a try there are a few girls there.
What to expect in the foreground and background of the cameras you will see
If you are initially intrigue by cultural difference and the ideas of seeing what is in someone’s flat or apartment around the world, this is an interesting part of this whole game. The background is more interesting than the foreground as too many guys doing bad things. Summary of that you see in the foreground and background on video chats:
Eastern Europe highest probability of a meaningful rapport, sparse backgrounds, books on the shelve plants on the window sills.
Western Europe, well dressed, but still guys cruising and indulging in (fill-in the blank). More spacious better decorated backgrounds, but quality of chat poorer.
USA poorly dressed tattooed people, just hanging out, typical American roommate man caves.
Middle Eastern guys in white t-shirt and short hair, poorer background but good light for the camera.
Universally a few old guys that should know better.
This gets boring pretty fast. What are you to do?
The morality of the modern water cooler
On one hand video chat is the ultimate in making the world smaller. You do not have to drive or fly somewhere to see a girl. You can do it on your mobile with a chat. Men stimulate their brains with their eyes and women via verbal communication. Therefore, a video chat is a win win for both genders. The issue is where to go? If you go to ChatRoulette the ratio of guys to girls is not favorable, nor is the quality.
Yet I am not a fan for guys looking for girls, because the female gender love sees with the heart and not with the eyes. No girl who is looking for love is going to be on a video chat. You will not find any respectful girl who is on a video chat. Girls want real. They want brains, they want intellect not a video chat. Any girl on a video chat is not a girl for love.
The real alternatives to video girls chat
I would recommend traditional online dating services or, just taking a trip to the country of your dreams. If I was an American or UK guy I would consider a trip to the CIS. This is 100% better than any internet video chat for meeting girls.