It depends on the Polish girl. Generally Polish girls are exceptionally good girls. However, you will hear a lot of vocal complaints from foreign guys that dated a Polish girl in London or Ireland or even Dubai or something that they are trouble. I have even heard of guys say this about women living in Poland. I only laugh when I hear this. I have lived here too long to be snowed by that type of argument. I guess my first question is where did you meet then and under what circumstance, and did you ever talk about the meaning of life question?
Facts on Polish girls morality
Living in Poland going almost ten years and being Polish myself in background, but being an American raised and born, I think I have a reasonable idea if the ladies from Polska are good or bad.
Argument for the girls are good
- Polish girls are good almost all are religious and take this seriously. I have meet a few that are not, but exceptions. The student’s mass at the Dominican church for example is standing room only in Krakow and people standing outside the door. I do not see the same crowds in any one club.
- Most Polish girls I know have gone on religious pilgrimages are only looking for their one and only man and do not change boyfriends. They date one guy and marry them. Maybe if things get all messed up another. But basically believe in one love.
- Polish girls are very humble and might even be said to lack self confidence. Basically you get a girl looking much better than Evangeline Lilly or Anne Hathaway but half the headaches, and will ask, do you think I am OK looking? Smoking hot girls with long legs will ask you this. Evangeline has said she does not believe in marriage, but wants to have a family. Wow is that not selfish, like I achieved wealth now I can have kids without marriage. And she in my opinion is a good girl. And Anne Hathaway when asked about religion does not believe in anything. I know there were issues in her case were complex but this is like every American girl. The level of problems are many fold the problems you find in a girl from Eastern Europe.
- My friend’s do not ever spend money on a Polish laska unless they are like going to marry them. I really did not spend a penny until I meet my wife. Women from Poland are not materialistic. Many experienced communism and live very basic and have been taught to live basic and humble. If you meet one about money, walk away. I asked my wife clearly would you rather have love, money or love and money. She said only love, anything else is not love. For me that was the right answer.
- Most Poles know the women does the cooking and takes care of the kids, it is just the way it is.
When Polish girls go bad
- When you meet them in a club
- When you do not learn the language
- When you live/sleep with them for many years outside the context of marriage
- When they smoke
- When they drink more than from time to time.
- When they have tattoos
- When they can not deal with you until they have had their coffee.
- When you do not go to church weekly with them
- When they have tattoos and facial piercings
- When they over dye their hair or go to sun tanning booths.
- If they like to go out with the girls too much.
- When you are not patent and interpret their drama as drama and not the need for support.
- When they wear provocative clothes. I would not go for a girl with a mini skirt and high heals.
- They have an excess interest in you because you speak English and want to speak English with you.
Look, people will say, ‘you mention religion (which in your mind is suppose to be connected with good) or tattoos (which in your mind is suppose to be connected with bad) and this has nothing to do with a person. Ultimately,you are right. But there is something called consistency of behavior. There is something called probability. It is all a matter of risk factors and external manifestations of behavior are telling signs. You can not judge a person by these behaviors alone, but they do tell a story.
What types of Polish girls foreign guys find
I see Brit, Greeks, Italians, Americans visiting Poland go for the lowest common denominator of ladies here. They do not know they are looking for the lowest common denominator, but they are. They are so blown away by the contrast with chubby American girls wearing sweat pants and flip flops from Targets tat they go to some pub meet a gal and boom, they have a girlfriend. They think it is great. I think they are just being played.
My friends that are girls in Poland do not go to pubs and do not like to talk to foreign guys as they are often beer drinking pub crawl guys who have no respect for God in them.
American girls (some people say) are easy to make out with, and foreign guys subconsciously gravitate towards feminist women who throw their bodies around in Warsaw, Krakow, Poznan, rather than having patience and meeting a girl who is not like that.
The take away is you will find some Polish girls who are good and some who are bad. However, the majority are exceptionally good and modest and focus on life and family and spirit and intellect. The ones that foreign guys pick up are often the bad ones because like attracts like. They go to places like pubs until 6 am – instead of getting up learn and going Church at 6 am on Sunday morning. Or you do not have to be that extreme, if you teach English in Poland you will meet many good girls. If you go to film festivals, cultural events and even out dancing now and then, you will find an angel in less than the time your passport tell you, you have to restamp it at the border.
If your intentions are to find a Polish girlfriend and nothing more, than you will be condemned to live in a self-made purgatory. But if you intentions are pure you will find your princess.