Comments on: Why have a wife?

By: Brittany

Brittany — Sun, 18 Dec 2011 18:11:05 +0000

So it’s selfish to want to be a doctor and help people? I don’t want to be a surgeon for the money, although the pay is good. I want to be a surgeon to help people and save people’s lives. I love kids and I want kids, but I couldn’t stay home all day by myself. I couldn’t. Kudos to the people that can, but I can’t. Is it wrong for me to want a job where I help people?
Also, I believe woman should have their rights, but even I don’t want to socialize with arrogant women. If you act like you’re better than I am, why should I want to talk to you? I don’t act arrogant. I don’t go around to guys and say, “I’m a woman, I have these rights. Do this, do that.” I’m not bossy. I don’t treat men as less than me unless they treat me like I’m not human. I don’t want to be referred as better than a man, but I don’t want to worse than him. I want to be an equal. We all are humans. Women are not lesser beings than men, and vice versa. I don’t think women should mistreat men, and vice versa. If a man is rude to me, I am bound to be rude back. If you were a woman would you want to be disrespected? The rules that apply to woman for being respectful should apply to men too.

By: Guyver

Guyver — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 03:17:23 +0000

I am from the Northeast quadrant of the U.S. close to the border of Canada. It is about as anti-social as it gets here. To give you an example, I had to go to the store today for some gift wrap. The people there had such an uncomfortable hostile vibe that I was feeling from them. Plus, they are all so cliquish in all of their own little social groups walking around. Any attempt for a stranger like me to go up and say hi is expressly forbidden. That’s the culture here. Go figure.

By: Abbey

Abbey — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 01:13:14 +0000

You’re absolutely right! Just out of curiosity, where are you from?

By: Guyver

Guyver — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 01:00:08 +0000

Abbey, did someone drug your food today? I am not used to hearing that from a woman. Anyways, to add to what you just said, I believe that it’s a man’s role to be a responsible leader and provider for his family, and also to show lots of love and affection for his wife.

By: Abbey

Abbey — Thu, 15 Dec 2011 23:08:21 +0000

Guyver, you’re right. It’s a wonder women were given rights in the first place. A woman’s lot in life is to be an obedient wife and have children. If she wants anything else, she’s being selfish.

By: Guyver

Guyver — Thu, 15 Dec 2011 03:57:19 +0000

Brittany, there is an old saying that goes “absolute power corrupts absolutely.” I’m pretty sure what he was getting at was that when you give too many rights to women, they will abuse those rights, become arrogant and undesirable, and disrespect and treat men like lesser beings. I have zero tolerance for that, and yet I see it all around me. You definitely come off like a feminist saying that you want it all. Family, great job as a surgeon, probably nice things for the kids, etc. Those are exactly the type of demands I would stay far away from. I value humility in a woman, and I don’t see that much state side.

So you say you are from the south. How’s the situation down there? What are divorce rates like? What is the level of mental instability for the citizens? How many children grow up without fathers? I wonder.

By: Brittany

Brittany — Thu, 15 Dec 2011 02:06:50 +0000

So as the world develops women should have to stay in place and not develop with it? Women rights. So, if you think that women shouldn’t have rights because it makes them arrogant and independent, are you saying they should have to get married, not vote, not work, etc? It is the tweny-first century. Most women in the USA do not want to just stay home and raise kids. As for me for example, I may have a temper sometimes, but who doesn’t? Everyone gets mad, even women. I can handle myself and I can take care of myself, as for living on my own. I want to get married, and I want to have children, and I want to become a surgeon. Can I not do all these things? I told myself, if I can’t become a surgeon, I want to be a mother more than anything.
Let me use my family as an example. We’re from the south, and yes, the women can be very independent, but we want to have families. We have tempers when someone pisses us off, and we respect people when they respect us. Personally, I think southern women are more suitable and respectable than northern women. The northern US contains cities such as New York, Pittsburgh, Manhattan, etc. I think these cities are social centers and revolve around these arrogant women that you mention. The women I’ve met in the south are respectable and lovable. We are humble, and we don’t mind taking care of the men when they do it return every now and then. But we don’t live just to serve our men.

By: admin

admin — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 23:02:47 +0000

There is a big difference between women’s liberation and the genuine liberation of women. Being a liberated woman does not mean focus on materialism and career over family. It does not mean you have right to expect a certain level of stanard of living and your man has to create this for you. It means that you are equal to men and it does mean we are all equal in God’s eyes. But not the hyper consupmtive materialism and lack of respect for the family and men that feminism has turned into.

By: admin

admin — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 22:59:55 +0000

Not every American woman is this way. There are many kind, loving intersting American women. However, read my lips, I highly recommend American guys expand their search beyond the boarders of the USA. Even when I am here back home, it irritates me to talk to most women here as they are egotisitcal and feministic and give such weird vibes instead of being normal and authentic.

I highly recommend that American guys consider girls from Eastern Europe. I am so happy I found my one and only in Poland.

By: Alan Collins

Alan Collins — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 17:35:49 +0000

And the worst part about it is that Most american women dont even realize that they are gold digging, arrogant gals They feel like it’s their right to be this way. They call it “Women’s Rights”. We see it as gold digging arrogant whores but they are deceived into thinking they are strong, independent women with ambition. And all it means is that, Strong just means “arrogant”. Independent just means “arrogant”. and Ambition just means “arrogant about money”. So back to what you said no humility at all.