Comments on: What is attractive on a girl http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/ Meet and chat with girls for love. Specific places to meet your girl or bride. Thu, 24 May 2012 23:38:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: admin http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22880 admin Thu, 24 May 2012 12:18:48 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22880 I have said every woman is attractive. I have not met one female that did not have her own allure to her. However, if a female wants to optimize her looks for attracting a mate, love and living happily ever after, my advice is for girls who want to know, not want women think is attractive. And this is not the Oprah show where we are all affirming each others and nodding our heads that everyone is a winner. But rather advice from a guy on how girls can optimizes their looks. real advice, non nonsense. I mean women take advice all the time from magazines and TV shows but this advice is really not honest enough about things. You want honest and not sugar coated read my advice on how to be beautiful. I have said every woman is attractive. I have not met one female that did not have her own allure to her. However, if a female wants to optimize her looks for attracting a mate, love and living happily ever after, my advice is for girls who want to know, not want women think is attractive. And this is not the Oprah show where we are all affirming each others and nodding our heads that everyone is a winner.

But rather advice from a guy on how girls can optimizes their looks. real advice, non nonsense.

I mean women take advice all the time from magazines and TV shows but this advice is really not honest enough about things. You want honest and not sugar coated read my advice on how to be beautiful.

]]> By: Ceana http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22875 Ceana Thu, 24 May 2012 08:15:04 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22875 Well I can see what you are saying however I am going to have to disagree with your thoughts, I know they are yours and I respect that this is what you think however firstly why does any of this matter because all im saying is that surely a pretty happy girl who feels good about herself is more attractive no matter if she is a bit heavier or wears a lot of make-up she isn't wearing it for you she is wearing it to make her feel good about herself and I honestly don't think you have a right to say that is not attractive because if a girl is happy their personality will shine out and that's what matters. Well I can see what you are saying however I am going to have to disagree with your thoughts, I know they are yours and I respect that this is what you think however firstly why does any of this matter because all im saying is that surely a pretty happy girl who feels good about herself is more attractive no matter if she is a bit heavier or wears a lot of make-up she isn’t wearing it for you she is wearing it to make her feel good about herself and I honestly don’t think you have a right to say that is not attractive because if a girl is happy their personality will shine out and that’s what matters.

]]> By: Barb http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22228 Barb Sat, 21 Apr 2012 01:20:53 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22228 Well yes I am partially a woman so I think I have the right to think like one lol. But I do respect what you said in a way, but every one has thier own perspective on things. Well yes I am partially a woman so I think I have the right to think like one lol. But I do respect what you said in a way, but every one has thier own perspective on things.

]]> By: admin http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22226 admin Fri, 20 Apr 2012 23:41:36 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22226 But again, I agree with you but you are thinking like a woman. A man thinks different. Looks count, we can help it. I do want to lie. Further, even though my wife accepts and loves me as I do her, I want to be fit and trim for her. I am not thinking so much of myself as being good for her. So I think my premise that to be attractive be fit still holds. But again, I agree with you but you are thinking like a woman. A man thinks different. Looks count, we can help it. I do want to lie.
Further, even though my wife accepts and loves me as I do her, I want to be fit and trim for her. I am not thinking so much of myself as being good for her. So I think my premise that to be attractive be fit still holds.

]]> By: Barb http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22216 Barb Fri, 20 Apr 2012 02:08:31 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22216 Yeah well it does feel that way, but I know different. I'm happy you both found each other. :) But I don't think I could ever be obsessed in a sense. In anyones looks. The way I see it as long as the person is nice and treats you the way you should be treated it doesn't really matter what they look like. I just hope one day I can find someone who feels some what of the same way lol. Yeah well it does feel that way, but I know different. I’m happy you both found each other. :) But I don’t think I could ever be obsessed in a sense. In anyones looks. The way I see it as long as the person is nice and treats you the way you should be treated it doesn’t really matter what they look like. I just hope one day I can find someone who feels some what of the same way lol.

]]> By: admin http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22215 admin Fri, 20 Apr 2012 01:12:42 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22215 I felt the same way. When I was in high school and most of my 20s I was painfully alone. It hurt so bad. I even wrote a post about being lonely and depressed. I felt girls just went for guys that were either jocks and athletic and popular by some association, had money or just looked good. I was reading books about philosophy and literature and art and languages and history. I played musical instruments, worked hard, a complete renaissances man. I went to church, meditated and really a good person. Yet no girl gave me a second look. I was too much a geek. It was so unfair. Girls are so superfical and care only about looks I thought. Then I learned the truth. Looks help your partner find or notice you. A friend of mine game me a hint, go to the gym. I sexed up my looks a bit. Bought some cool clothes, spiked my hair up, when to some good Montreal hair stylists, hit the gym, too yoga learned to flirt with girls. I travelled the world and had a woman in every port. Girls who once scorned me were chasing me. All because I optimized my looks. I still wanted to meet my one and only love who loved me only for me, but now I had a chance. When I met my wife and fell in love and got married I was so happy. It was only later she and I confessed we married each other for our looks. I mean of course she loves me for who I am and we are deeply spiritual people, yet it does not mean I am not attracted to her and she not attracted to me. It is natures bait. It is basically why we got married. I married my wife for her looks and she did for me. So what can I say. I think most people mate for looks, it is programmed deep in our evolutionary code. One million years of evolution. For some reason humans like being kissed by a beautiful person than not. And the good news is anyone can be attractive. Yet that does not mean we have to just be animals. I am not. I do not believe in relations out side of marriage nor does my wife. It is more about going for a hot girl and guy who loves you no matter what. Why not enjoy yourself and meet a super hot guy that makes your heart skip a beat when he comes into the room and then have him turn out that his beauty is only exceeded by his virtue? I felt the same way. When I was in high school and most of my 20s I was painfully alone. It hurt so bad. I even wrote a post about being lonely and depressed.

I felt girls just went for guys that were either jocks and athletic and popular by some association, had money or just looked good. I was reading books about philosophy and literature and art and languages and history. I played musical instruments, worked hard, a complete renaissances man. I went to church, meditated and really a good person. Yet no girl gave me a second look. I was too much a geek.

It was so unfair. Girls are so superfical and care only about looks I thought. Then I learned the truth. Looks help your partner find or notice you.

A friend of mine game me a hint, go to the gym. I sexed up my looks a bit. Bought some cool clothes, spiked my hair up, when to some good Montreal hair stylists, hit the gym, too yoga learned to flirt with girls. I travelled the world and had a woman in every port. Girls who once scorned me were chasing me. All because I optimized my looks.

I still wanted to meet my one and only love who loved me only for me, but now I had a chance.

When I met my wife and fell in love and got married I was so happy. It was only later she and I confessed we married each other for our looks.

I mean of course she loves me for who I am and we are deeply spiritual people, yet it does not mean I am not attracted to her and she not attracted to me. It is natures bait. It is basically why we got married. I married my wife for her looks and she did for me.

So what can I say. I think most people mate for looks, it is programmed deep in our evolutionary code. One million years of evolution. For some reason humans like being kissed by a beautiful person than not. And the good news is anyone can be attractive.

Yet that does not mean we have to just be animals. I am not. I do not believe in relations out side of marriage nor does my wife. It is more about going for a hot girl and guy who loves you no matter what. Why not enjoy yourself and meet a super hot guy that makes your heart skip a beat when he comes into the room and then have him turn out that his beauty is only exceeded by his virtue?

]]> By: Barb http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22211 Barb Fri, 20 Apr 2012 00:36:36 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22211 Well thank you. But I think there is someone for everyone so if there is someone overweight who does not mind it and does not want to change, that is their life and they should live it anyway they want to. And they will find someone for them that will love and care for them. And if that person does not that is there own loss, they may have had someone special but well never know it. And anyway it may just be a good thing for someone to meet you at your worse that way in the long run you know that person really loves you and cares for you instead of just wanting you for just one reason only. Cause a lot of men go for looks only, and not for the person. And there are a lot of girls that do that too. Well thank you. But I think there is someone for everyone so if there is someone overweight who does not mind it and does not want to change, that is their life and they should live it anyway they want to. And they will find someone for them that will love and care for them. And if that person does not that is there own loss, they may have had someone special but well never know it. And anyway it may just be a good thing for someone to meet you at your worse that way in the long run you know that person really loves you and cares for you instead of just wanting you for just one reason only. Cause a lot of men go for looks only, and not for the person. And there are a lot of girls that do that too.

]]> By: admin http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22209 admin Thu, 19 Apr 2012 23:23:49 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22209 Hats off to you. I mean that sincerely. You are a pretty good debater and I do respect your point of view. I agree with the don't judge a book by its cover. It even pains be to write things about women's weight because I know how sensitive and personal an issue it is. Body image is one of the biggest determinants of happiness in the young. But I write this not for high school girls who are finding their way but more for adult women in their 20s who wonder why they have not attracted their mate. I want to be honest with girls. I do not want to sugar coat things and tell something that is not true. What is true? Guys like fit girls. What is wrong with that? I am not too politically correct where I tell lies. I am a guy, I like skinny girls like most of my friends do. I wish it was not true but it is. I wish I could say I am an etheric being with no blood in and passion. But I like the look of a fit, girl with good style. And yes muscles look good on girls. Girls with long slender or even some tone or bulk look good. This is why guys go for Russian women tennis stars for example. They look athletic and healthy. To also be honest, I am not skinny guy myself. You use to be able to play a xylophone on my ribs but I had some physical problems and I have to drop about ten lbs myself. You can see my Gravatar, I can lose a couple of lbs. But I agree, we are all lights of God, and God does not care about what we look like. We are all worthy and accepted. The more we accept ourselves the more people will like us and we will be attractive. So you do have a point of view I can respect. Hats off to you.

I mean that sincerely. You are a pretty good debater and I do respect your point of view.

I agree with the don’t judge a book by its cover.

It even pains be to write things about women’s weight because I know how sensitive and personal an issue it is. Body image is one of the biggest determinants of happiness in the young. But I write this not for high school girls who are finding their way but more for adult women in their 20s who wonder why they have not attracted their mate.

I want to be honest with girls. I do not want to sugar coat things and tell something that is not true. What is true? Guys like fit girls.

What is wrong with that? I am not too politically correct where I tell lies. I am a guy, I like skinny girls like most of my friends do. I wish it was not true but it is. I wish I could say I am an etheric being with no blood in and passion. But I like the look of a fit, girl with good style. And yes muscles look good on girls. Girls with long slender or even some tone or bulk look good. This is why guys go for Russian women tennis stars for example. They look athletic and healthy.

To also be honest, I am not skinny guy myself. You use to be able to play a xylophone on my ribs but I had some physical problems and I have to drop about ten lbs myself. You can see my Gravatar, I can lose a couple of lbs.

But I agree, we are all lights of God, and God does not care about what we look like. We are all worthy and accepted. The more we accept ourselves the more people will like us and we will be attractive. So you do have a point of view I can respect.

]]> By: Barb http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22208 Barb Thu, 19 Apr 2012 20:00:52 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22208 Well im not complaining, I just dont think its right to say anything at all about anyones weight. You are who you are and if someone does not like that then fine. And you should only have to change if you want to, but not for some guy who may not be with for that long anyway! And thats why noone should judge you just by looking at you. Havnt you heard the saying "dont jugde a book by its cover" just because you see someone who may not be perfect does not mean there not someone wroth getting to know. And let me tell you something some of the best people I know are not the best looking people but they just might be the best person you meet. So think about that next time you see someone you dont think is the most perfect looking, cause bet you teo to one there the best person you will ever meet... not saying that people who are good looking are mean, just saying that not all are and that a lot of people who are not that great looking are nicer. Well im not complaining, I just dont think its right to say anything at all about anyones weight. You are who you are and if someone does not like that then fine. And you should only have to change if you want to, but not for some guy who may not be with for that long anyway! And thats why noone should judge you just by looking at you. Havnt you heard the saying “dont jugde a book by its cover” just because you see someone who may not be perfect does not mean there not someone wroth getting to know. And let me tell you something some of the best people I know are not the best looking people but they just might be the best person you meet. So think about that next time you see someone you dont think is the most perfect looking, cause bet you teo to one there the best person you will ever meet… not saying that people who are good looking are mean, just saying that not all are and that a lot of people who are not that great looking are nicer.

]]> By: admin http://claritaslux.com/girls/what-is-attractive-on-a-girl/comment-page-4/#comment-22207 admin Thu, 19 Apr 2012 19:48:19 +0000 http://www.claritaslux.com/girls/?p=385#comment-22207 Sorry to be so hard. I know life is hard and it is very hard to be a woman with all the expectation but on you. Just consider seeing yourself not as a victim but as in control of your body. The best way to do this is take your mind off of weight and body and develop things like learning languages and travel. I mean my wife only had enough money for eating one bowel of ramen noodles a day and maybe a few apples. Yet she still too French lessons. This is the way European girls think. Sorry to be so hard. I know life is hard and it is very hard to be a woman with all the expectation but on you. Just consider seeing yourself not as a victim but as in control of your body. The best way to do this is take your mind off of weight and body and develop things like learning languages and travel. I mean my wife only had enough money for eating one bowel of ramen noodles a day and maybe a few apples. Yet she still too French lessons. This is the way European girls think.

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