The purpose of this post is to give you the definite guide to Ukrainian girls like no other on the Internet. Most websites talk blah, blah about the virtues of Ukrainian women to sell you. I am here to tell it like it is, so you can consider cultural factors in determining your where you want to go fishing for your forever bride. Candide research means a better informed decision.
I love Ukraine. Anything written here should not be construed as negative. Rather, I am clearly partial towards Ukrainian culture and language and traditional Bible based morals, over Soviet or Russified Ukrainian society.
The crucible and the cradled – two Ukraines
Envision Ukrainian girls from two different regions in Ukraine. Imagine how different their world views would be.
The first vision of Ukraine
Imagine something out of a science fiction movie (like Blade Runner or a post apocolytic Hunger Games region), a gray retro industrial cityscape, where there are a 50,000 people in the town, engaged in working at one primary industry, like Nickel smelting. Large toxic clouds spurt out from enormous smoke stacks to further dim out the sun. Every 30 seconds or so the sky is illuminated by large flames, like solar flares, that shoot out from these post-Soviet metallurgy monstrosities.
People there go to solariums wearing funny eye protection wear, just to get some vitamin D. The inhabitant of this purgatory just dream of eating nectarines in Crimea. The women join foreign dating services in hoping to escape or increase their financial situation. Most buildings are grayish, the apartments are 35 square meters and blocky looking.
The second vision of Ukraine
Imagine a beautiful blond girl in the countryside with flowing lockets in her hair and a traditional Slavic white embroidered dress, gathering wildflowers from a field and living in an idyllic wooden house in the forest and a cross that hangs on the door of every village home.
Both visions of Ukraine are true. The question is which place would you like to find your princess?
Perhaps the above is a slight exaggeration but it paints a picture how different the regions of Ukraine are. Any guy that says “I want to date a girl from Ukraine”, I ask where?
My firsthand experience with Ukraine
I am Ukrainian. My family came from a small village called Skalat in Western Ukraine. I have studied Eastern Europe my whole life. I know what I am talking about. There are seven regions in Ukraine that is relevant to your search for love. These are not political regions but social regions. That is people in each region generally interact in different ways.
The general rule is the further East you go and to the bigger cities, in Ukraine the girls are more secular, materialistic, Russian and cunning regarding their escape plans. This is a gross generalization, but my personal experience.
In contrast the further west you are in Ukraine and more rural the more people are sweet.
Imagine the cultural contrast between a girl from Detroit, Michigan to Amishland of Lancaster, Pennsylvania. Similarly there are different ways different regions of Ukraine view dating and relationship and life in general.
What are the five nations of Ukraine?
This list is a rating of areas where I would choose a bride from in descending order
- Principality of Livivia – Ukrinia Lviv the Land of fairy-tale princesses– Western Ukraine – Imagine the Shire or some story book regions where the girls dream of their prince charming. influenced by a mix of religious values and preserved Ukrainian culture
- Kievtropolis – Metropolis of Kiev, country girls come to the big city for school and work. For a major city it is livable and culture.
- Crimeawaii – Hawaii of Ukraine – Crimea – A paradise where the whole CIS vacations. Semi autonomous region with Tartar rather than Slavic cultural ties.
- Odessaland – Sodom and Gomorrah of Ukraine, Specifically Arcadia beach. Maybe not that bad but at least like Ibiza, where boyfriend and girlfriend swapping is no big thing. Do whatever you want with whoever you want as it is the land of the Disco and every girl has a little black book of foreign men’s phone numbers in their mobile phone. Yet in the area of Odessa there are many good girls, just not the clubbing girls who live their weekends on the strip.
- Cosmoplia-netsk - Industrial badlands of Eastern Ukraine – A place to escape from – Eastern Ukraine. On one hand the Russian nouveau riche 1% flaunt their gilded lifestyle, while the rest of the proletariat slave away to earn their pittance. This is basically a Russified area of Ukraine. You might as well make the Russian countryside your stomping grounds. This in my opinion is a center of Scamville, Ukraine. Again there are nice gals in Eastern Ukraine, just scene them for moral behavior and ideals.
Money should never ever be a factor in determining your relationship. Send no money and if a gal wants you do, walk away without replying. In fact your sms could be ‘no reply necessary’ and that is the end of the relationship. There are so many people in the world that need money. Mixing it with dating and love, dollars for girls is a bad precedent to set during the dating phase. It is an indicator that something else is wrong.
In my experience Ukrainian girls from
Are into the culture of money.
In contrast cities in the West like
and the surrounding Oblast are not into hryvnia but finding a husband.
Therefore you want a girlfriend from Ukraine to be your bride, consider carefully, especially the cultural variances in the different regions and what I have written above. Do not hold back, as any questions you have on your mind. Better get the truth from me than find it out later.