Swedish girls loving foreign men

Hi ,I am single 32 years ,living in Stockholm ,and I am looking for a swedish girl for having serious relationship ,so that we can know each other for marriage.For this reason if someone interests in send me email.

Hello
Desire a lady for future marriage and that he/she wants to live in Portugal have 50 years and desire a woman with age among 35 45

Swedish women have no interest in an American male, since Sweden is a rich country and has a higher cost of living.

Also Swedish women will never find an American male inpressive.

I’m from Sweden and I would love to meet an American male.

Hi,

I am a 32 yrs old Lebanese guy, looking for a Swedish lady for a serious and long term relationship. Plz email me if interested.

Why wouldn’t we believe in love? Do you think we marry just anyone and then get divorced if we get bored? ‘Cause we’re not!

All of us dream about finding ‘the right one’- marry him and live happily ever after. But sometime it just does not work out – should we then be ‘stuck’ unhappy ’cause we married the man? THAT is probably the difference; we don’t agree about that. If we are not happy in the marriage, we get divorced. (And by the way, that does not mean we don’t TRY to make it work!). It is as simple as that. Shouldn’t everyone be happy?

And about religion, it is true that we’re not very open about it – it’s something we keep to ourselves. We don’t feel the need to express it to everyone. And if you are religions, we would r-e-s-p-e-c-t that.

@Spatula: Why wouldn’t we want a Arab Muslim or a Christian? We are not r_cists – quite the opposite.

And, to quote you again: “Swedish women have no interest in an American male, since Sweden is a rich country and has a higher cost of living. Also Swedish women will never find an American male impressive.” — Why wouldn’t we find an American male impressive? And you’re making it sound like love is all about money. Is that your opinion?

With love (believe it or not), Celine.

And oh, sorry to point you out Dallas Man, but messages like yours (and quite a lot of the comments here) is more likely to scare us away rather than getting us to contact you. We don’t marry anyone just like that..

This is my thoughts when I read your message:
I am a 32 year old man from Dallas, Texas, USA. – that’s nice (and yes, I mean it)

I’m seeking a blonde Swedish girl – okey, so a man who only cares about what you look like. nice.. (and I am sarcastic there, in case you didn’t get that)

for marrage – come on, I don’t even know your name?

I didn’t mean to offend anyone – you people are quite fascinating. Honestly

gave him*

The best and it’s heartbreaking ending.

Gentlemen, I’ve had this experience. Here’s my story. My name is Spencer, born and raised in Los Angeles. I’ve been seeking love, marriage, and the happy family for more than 8 years (since my first true love broke up with me and I never saw it coming).

Back in April, a friend of mine who is a professional match maker set me up with this 30 year old Swedish woman. I was a little suspect, but gave it a shot. She was beautiful, with an amazing smile.

We met and instantly hit it off. I was enamored with her beauty, her intelligence, and her drive to be successful. She was here in Los Angeles on vacation and we spent 6 weeks together. She even stayed in my place for 3 week. Our relationship evolved to love. She has all of the personality traits one would want: intelligent, social, drive to be successful, desired a family, wanted the house. Could it be possible?????

I talked with her for the next two months on the Internet & Skype. BUT, during that time, she sent me an email where she asked “I would be honored if we could get married while you were here in Sweden visiting”

Red flag alert.

Well, I eventually went to visit her in Sweden. I had a great adventure, learned a great deal about their culture, and met her mother (dad had passed away). For two weeks all was going ok. BUT, I’ve come to find out that a trait most Swedish woman possess is jealousy. There were a few other traits she kept hidden while in the USA that came out and were disturbing.

She got very angry twice, once when I was talking to a friend of her friend we had just met, but the kicker was when she gave me the look of death when I was talking to a policeman who I had met at a funeral for her mother’s friend. SHE WAS IRATE and yelled at me for talking to another person without her consent.

I left Sweden the very next day. Yet this will not detract me. I met several people while in Sweden and learned so much about their culture. I especially loved their eating habits, how much they appreciate their country, and the steps everyone takes to maintain a health lifestyle.

Even though this relationship ended, I hope to start up a new one with a woman with the same characteristics, beauty, brains, and drive (minus the jealousy.).

Good luck everyone.

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@Yonatan

You’re just an American who knows nothing about my country. (This comment on Swedish girls was edited by admin to remove attacks, please keep it about theory, that is nothing personal and cordial).

I can’t understand people from Dallas thinking high about looks of Swedish women,
Texan women are the best looking in the world, I could add Danish, and a few Hungarian women.

Talking about Swedish looks, Swedish women are in my opinion very often too masculine, with strong shoulders, strong legs and heavy build. (don’t confuse it to obese), they look stronger than their men.

Per, I agree with you, I used to know quite a lott of people from Sweden,
some of them were just like robots, unable for any kind of friendship or communication with other people.
If you pay them a few beers, they’ll chat with you, and will never even try to return
a round.

English people were far better friends than Swedish, in my opinion, they know
how to be friends. American friends were also ok.

Gosh.. wish I never had to write in such negative language about my own country, because it’s clean, have high welfare and are rich in fine nature(except the too long wintertime)
It have the opportunity to be so good but when it comes to the social bit (interaction between humans) it’s a poor country..
Believe me, I’ve been trying to see things in a positive way for many years.
Thought for a very long period it had to be something wrong with me because I didn’t succeed getting genuine friends and girlfriends up here.
It made me depressed. I’m not the hard-skinned type.

All experiences from other cultures really opened my eyes about this. I’m definitely born in the wrong place on earth when it comes to that matter.
Now my true friends are to be found all over the globe, like last month I visited an Ecuadorian friend in NY, we had heaps with fun.
Almost impossible find such good buddies in Sweden and here I’ve been meeting so much more people
and living so much longer time, what’s wrong?
Sinisa, you pinpointed it for me, people here tend to be like robots, zombies, just walking around doing their business.
It’s difficult get a good connection, get them to open up. In guidebooks u can sometimes read that’s because northern people are shy.
Yes some are but I think one reason, they sometimes even afraid just say hello to you, is that they then feel they have to take u up in their social circle and befriend you. We all have to watch out for this, materialism can smother us into a lame selfish condition where it’s all about you, you.
An egocentric personality which just value friends who can give benefits in some way, scary!

Because I’m a member of Hospitalityclub I often host guys n’ girls travelling through this part of the world, several of them have expressed complaints about people being coolish, hopefully I’ve manage to give them a somewhat better experience. One student girl from Texas even told me she’d never wanna go back here again.
I felt ashamed.
Know there’s many more (specially guys) suffering in this chilly country, I don’t just want to complain, so if u read this feel free send me a line at
zwedude AT gmail.com
maybe we can start something up like “spread a smile campaign” ..or join me to Lithuania next weekend or South America next year

Btw, what I meant with UK being worse than Swe. was more in physically appearance.
Have not much experience on how they are as friends in general, probably better.
And what u mentioned about the body shape, it’s very accurate, the average Swedish woman have a pretty face and a fat ass.
Not fat as in obese but the bottom is wide. It wouldn’t be any direct issue though if their mentality/attitude were pleasant.
Let’s say u could switch their psyche with African girls, OMG I would live in paradise! ..haha
Phuu..
Sweet dreams!

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Gee Wiz, are there any young attractive Swedish women currently living in New Jersey. You’re beauty amazes me and I would love to have a rapport with one.

Mark, I think you are confusing Genie-boy with parcmom. Parcmom posted in the Bucharest thread.

Basically you are saying they don’t believe in God (because they are supposedly wealthy), actually the standard of living for the average Swede may be higher than the average American, but there are many more Americans living in better conditions than Swedes. You have to remember we have many more immigrants than you do and there is lot of Americans who suck on the welfare system. Now that Sweden is being overwhelmed by a large immigrant population who is also sucking on the system your rate of poverty is going up. Also, your socialist system is starting to deteriorate because of these people who are abusing the system. With such an enormous tax rate and high cost of life, many Swedes have a hard time enjoying their incomes in the same way Americans can. Here is another anamoly

BTW.. Most Americans are not warmongers and enjoy war. You are totally arrogant in your speech. While Europeans were going around killing each other in WWII, it was America who was living at peace and not fighting. But, the world expects America to be the global policeman and after WWII that is the role it has to fill. WIthout USA, you people most likely would be speaking Russian right now. Also, Americans believe they are helping to fight terrorism around the globe. Whether you agree or not is up to you. Those who support the war aren’t doing so, because they love fighting and killing people. I know naive Nordic people believe in making peace with Taliban or Al Queda. But, now as more and more Islamic immigrants are in your country, xenophobia against Middle Eastern people is on the rise in Sweden. Is this ironic?? I think not!

[QUOTE]And dont bring me the crap about, what about love, trust and marriage?? the looks are what is most important, atleast for good looking blondes Since they care ALOT about their own looks, and with all that focus on looks its pretty logic they also care about their partners look.[/QUOTE]

Now, about Swedish women. You have told me they care only about how you look. That they will divorce you when they find a better looking or wealthier man. Your personality, charm and heart mean nothing to them. Yes, they care about their own looks, well most women do. Basically, you are telling me that Swedish women really Suck big time. You’re saying Swedish women are more uncaring, selfish and superficial than even American women. WOW, NEVER KNEW THIS!!!

Yeah, I’d rather find a wife who cares about me for my heart and will be there with me to the end. Not, some overrated blonde bimbo who loves my face or wallet. In General though men are more noble than women. They don’t just toss their little princess aside because a better looking one enters the room.

Swedish women believe men are expendable and cheap. They just go from one male piece of meat to the other. They are feminists, greedy, selfish and plain old wicked. Perhaps we should tell our American soldiers to stop trying to rid the world of terrorists and rid the world of Swedish woman!

Ok, that last one was a joke, but I think the world may be better off!

Pardon my cynicism here!

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G’day again folks.. nice to see this thread is still active
First to Robin: I admire your positive outlook in this subject, we all have different viewpoints and experiences of course,
especially when it comes to a topic like this.
Although you’re right in many things, I must disagree with your statement that Swedish divorce rate is not depending on religious views.
It certainly does! (And the constellation called marriage was constituted when God joined the first man and woman according to the Bible)
Because if you have something/someone higher than your own self, whom you’ve to be responsible in front of for your actions,
and if you believe n’ live by real Christian moral standards,
wouldn’t it then be more likely you work harder to make your relationship successful!? “a threefold cord is not quickly broken” (Ecc4:12)
Some people who has been married happily for longer periods might not consider themselves particularly religious but almost
always when they’re asked how they’ve managed to stay together for such long time
the bottom line use to be that their behavior has been based on just those core values whether they’re aware of it or not.
I have a feeling that this lack of “old fashion” values (direct/indirect) also has a lot to do with many peoples depressions.
It’s good for us to have something to believe in although you have to be careful not to slip in any of those too radical paths.

We all probably seen people in less material rich countries smile and express more happiness and contentment then we’re used to,
(Personally I often feel ashamed, I ought to be happier considering my welfare situation)
even though they have to struggle a lot with basic needs, why?
There are some differences which I guess can be a reason.
They live less stressful, have more contact with the nature and their family all from children to grandparents live closely together.
They mostly have a strong religious faith and try to live by it. It’s not all about getting the latest gadget.

Of course a harsh geographical environment with long dark winters takes its toll on us up here, indeed.
But mostly I think it has to do with the social-psychological environment we’re surrounded by, how we choose to live our life,
how we choose to think/act. If we focus on other peoples wellbeing more then our own ego it will undoubtedly lead to greater happiness.
The focus nowadays for many young is to become famous in shows like Idol (I call it Idiot) etc. or doing career in whatever.
Fueled by a greedy market system just built around the purpose of us satisfying every desire (imaginary or not) we might have,
make us hypnotically consume more and more, try buying happiness, but happiness can’t be bought by money
it tends to get wings and flies away just as we think we had reached it.
To quote a famous Indian chief “A mans heart harden when losing contact with nature”.
If we keep on consuming and expand like this there won’t be any nature left soon to lose contact with.. well that’s another discussion.

Yeah Sweden is quite liberal as the Netherlands if you won’t consider laws on drugs and prostitution, which both are illegal to buy in Sweden.
This liberalism in a ‘let go with anything’ sort, which isn’t anything I’m proud of myself,
definitely one of the main causes we have so many crushed relationships.

About the standards of Swedish woman then, Yonatan pinpointed it again, what else can I say! (You’re more realist then pessimist in my opinion)

Btw, one can wonder which countries Robin has been to in order to see that many ugly girls.. Afghanistan haha..!?
When I measure beauty I count in several factors besides physical shape. Attitude, a warm heart, trustworthiness plus a lot more.
When you put these qualities together it’s hard see Swedish girls in general topping such list
even though I admit that beautiful and good personalities definitely exist here too and sometimes it’s just a matter of taste.
But for more ‘wify’ gals that not just have a demand-list for you to fulfill but can fulfill Your needs as well,
you’ll be better off looking elsewhere.
Choose wisely if you’re planning to settle down would be my advise!

Thanks
Peace n’ out 8)

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Wow guys…I am humbled, and moved by your thoughts…I mean it. Means a lot and I thank you. Yeah, she’s a complex gal, insecurities, depression, a little immature. But it’s funny, even though I hated those things about her, it made me love her even more. Not sure I can explain that, but maybe you know what I mean. I think she is making a huge mistake, as I am sure she will (if she hasn’t already) let some guy into her life that doesn’t mean as much to her, just to have a child. I can’t stand the thought of it. ADMIN guy, I am very impressed that you would move to Europe for your girl. I always said that I couldn’t because I can’t be a ‘Fed’ over in Sweden, but she could always be a doctor over here! A beautiful doctor who speaks perfect English! A no brainer. My God, they would have loved her! Now I wish I hadn’t been so stubborn, about a lot of things. Maybe I will write her a letter (a nice one) in a month or so, just for closure. Or maybe I’ll have moved on and won’t feel the need. Again I say, I will miss Sweden big time. Lovely people, great food… and my girl

There are* Sorry, my english isn’t the best.