Girls of Sweden for dating
Where to find a Swedish girl for marriage? In this post I tell you where, specifically. However, not just that, also additional useful information so when you fall in love you have your eyes open.
Sweden is a peaceful country and the people are quite nice, but Swedish girls are not my first choice if you are looking for love for happily ever after, you know the type of marriage you dream about since you were young. Why?
Well there are some cultural difference between Sweden and other countries that you might want to be aware of. Leap with your head as well as your heart. In this post I will outline some issues that might make your marriage to a Swedish girl challenging, but of course not impossible. In fact, I think very highly of Swedes and in this post will give you three Swedish online dating sites you can try if you are looking for love online in Sverige.
My personal relationship and interest in Scandinavia started as an extension of my interest in European culture
I first was interested in Sweden as a kid because of the history. I loved European history and Sweden although a small country was a big player. It was a warring nation, until about 200 years ago it turned incredible peaceful. I use to study, Gustavus Adolphus campaigns like the Battle of Breitenfeld., I had maps of this all over my room. I love classic Swedish literature including Lindgren and Lagerkvist and now Stieg Larsson. But my favorite were the tales of Selma Lagerlöf becaue of their enchanting characters. Almost all my furniture is from IKEA and I love Swedish food. There are so many interesting things about this country, I could go on and on. Lets take a look at one more think Sweden is famous for.
How Swedish girls look
Swedish girls do look classic blond and tall, not all of them but most of them. They ten to be a little bit endowed and athletic, just like you might dream of. Tall, happy and blond. They are also fairly nice in terms of personality. This is a huge sweep of the brush, what I have experiences living in Europe. There are many dark-haired Swedes and of course with hair color and with varying style of clothes, you can not really tell which country a girl is from anymore. If you want to see what Swedish style is go to the kappahl clothing website kappahl.com, my wife buys a lot of clothes from this store.
Not all but many Swedish girls are have blond hair. I see nothing wrong with this style and look, do you?
Why say no to a beautiful Swedish woman?
The reason I can not fully recommend (if you are a traditional guy) finding a Swedish bride are the following reasons:
- Swedish wives have a high flight factor, that means there is a good chance they will leave you. I think all hot looking women do, and for a cold country Swedes are hot. I think divorce will destroy most people. I do not know what is going on in the Swedish dating process but the end result is they have a high level of marriages breaking up. Maybe it is the easy social system that makes it easy for Swedish mothers to be single. Being in such a cold, dark country makes people very interesting and introspective, but maybe it gives them too much time to think and find trouble where there need not be.
- Swedish ladies are not too spiritual, maybe I am wrong on this point but it is not like Poland across the sea. Only 35% believe in God. In Sweden I there is a very low church attendance and all the sociological consistencies of behavior and beliefs that go along with that. That might be good for some people who do not care about the meaning of life issue. However, for me it would be hard to be with a lady who does not share my same values. These are important values in my opinion.
- Swedish girls are very liberal, great for smiles and looks and brains, but do you want a feminist Swedish girl who makes West Coast American girls seem conservative? For a long-term serious partner, you want someone who believes strongly in a the marriage ideal. Not ‘lets get married and if it does not work or we fall out of love, we just get divorced’. I do not believe in living with people, as partners for a while. I believe in marriage that is the one and only. Look I have meet Swedish girls from Wisconsin to Europe and they are open towards fun and hot tubs and saunas just like you image. Really, I was in this situation more than once, but I am not a player and did not do anything. I believe in love. I think many Swedes to also, but I do not personally understand why many are not as committed to a life long relationship. If anyone knows please explain this to me.
- Swedish women will not give you the ‘wow’ your from the USA, they live in Sweden (a trendy country) and Americans will more likely say, ‘wow you are from Sweden’. Therefore the playing field is not level. We think Swedish girls are great, they think American or UK guys are just OK.
- Swedish girls dating – You can read more from the official website.
Swedish girls for marriage
Good news about meeting a lady from Scandinavia, they are open for love and even marriage if you are the right one. For me the biggest problem is simply how to keep them from running away from you. Girls love to run away from guys. All of them run and you have to chase them and capture their hearts and rescue them. The only thing is in many countries if you catch them, they will marry you and love you and they will be barefoot and pregnant cooking soup and grateful. I can not see this with a girl from Gothenburg, see my points above. Oh course this post is written a little in fun, but these gals are not traditional. Swedish websites for meeting and dating and marriage:
- motesplatsen.se – Large dating site, I personally recommend and is one of the biggest Internet sites in Sweden. This is where I would start if you are looking for a wife.
- spraydate.spray.se – This is like the match.com of Sweden, it would be my second stop. Compare the two love online sites and set up a profile and see what happens.
- blocket.se – If you do want to try to connect with Swedish girls by exploring this popular Swedish server.
It is one of the biggest sites in Sweden, from the warm sunny shores of Uppsala to rugged nordic Norrbotten girls you can try to connect and chat with them. Facebook of course is also popular. I think half of my social networking account are people from the Baltic region.
You can learn the Swedish language or use translate tool. The language is very similar to (so my opinion easy) because it has a common root with our language. The Swedish language is of the same Indo-European branch as English and American films almost all Swedish girls speak English well. Also learn basic phrases in a language is you are looking to chat up the females or you will not get too far. Even if you choose to communicate in English, it will put you above and beyond the competition if you learn something about their culture and language.
Specifics about going to Stockholm
If you are going to take a trip, I would say just focus on Stockholm girls as this is the most populous city of Stockholm. There are about 200,000 single Stockholm girls between 18-35 who are open for dating relationships. You can get a cheap flight to Arlanda, their airport outside the city, and take a commuter rail in for about 33 dollars but will more than pay for itself if you consider the flight cost savings. You buy the tickets in a kiosk and with your bank card. It is about a 30 minutes ride in. Once there, I would simple try to meet women of Stockholm on the street. I guess I have no social inhibitions anymore. I would just chat them up with a smile and see if they would like to get to know you better over a cup of coffee. If you have the gift of gab, you will be all set. Even though the girls are not religious they are into mythology and elves and fantasy online games and books. Not the old ones that are like 30 but the ones who are like 21 years old. So if you like these things, you can after you break the ice you can start to work your conversation towards this topic. I think northern dark countries like Sweden and Russia have a higher percentage of people into fantasy stuff than say Italy, because of the weather.
The other alternative is to try to meet them online before you get there as a high percentage of Swedish singles are into online dating. I prefer the former choice.
Stockholm is crazy expensive so stay in a youth hostel and pack sandwiches and bring a water filter instead of bottled water. Do not be proud or think it is beneath you. This is about money, and unless you are a millionaire your bank account will be in for a shock if you try to live like a normal tourist. Live like a backpacking student, even if you are not.
Swedish bride for visa or passport
There are a lot of guys from the Middle East immigrating to Sweden because of the countries openness and high standard of life. It is an EU country. They are looking to get a Swedish visa through marriage. I think marriage is for love, not for any visa. I do not recommend if you have that as your motive, think of another way, like a student or work visa not marriage for a Swedish citizenship.
Let me know what you think about Swedish girls and this article. Let me know if it was totally wrong and I should change it or you have any valuable information that you would like to pass on to the readers, your comments are appreciated.
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Swedish Girls and musicians
I am 19 and am from the USA I still live here never been out of here not even the east coast. But I have always found Swedish girls intriguing and very beautiful. I was happy to see when you wrote EU girls like Americans that are musicians. Because I play bass, but I think all counties have cold uncaring women and all counties have warm and caring women.
You just have to look. and I am part Swedish my great Grandfather on my mom’s side came here to the USA with his parents when he was 3 years old. so I want to go to Sweden to see how it is there. But I will go in a few years after I have money saved up and I can speak Swedish, and since Swedish girls write on here I would like to know what is their view on guys with long hair and beards? not saying they must love it cause the vikings had it I wanna know if any girls there like it. Haha and probably the most sweetest Swedish girl I know is Elize Ryd from the Swedish metal band Amaranthe I have talked to her on Twitter and some times Facebook she is from Gothenburg and is very sweet kind and has a very warm heart, and from seeing what Swedish guys have to say I find some of them still have their manhood. They are cool since I am kind of one also. and I also wanted to know what do Swedish women think of American men? so I shall be off for now peace out.
Wrong about chasing girls
Doing it wrong man. Don’t chase them, make them chase you. Learn some basic attraction psychology, or more importantly just be an attractive guy. Easy
It depends on the woman’s culture. In Swedish or American or UK culture maybe an argument could be made that they should chase you. These cultures have feminism in them and sometimes role reversal is accepted. But I still think men like to be hunters and women like to be chased, and dragged back to your cave like an ice age primate. It is the way nature programmed us through the process of evolution. If you want to go against one million years of evolution than be my guest, but do you not think it is some much more romantic when the prince wins the heart of a princess, than the modern psychological role reversal politically correct version of this fairy-tale?
Where to find a Swedish girl
I’m from the USA and I’m just wondering. What about if your from the USA? Or any other country
I mean are there ways of a guy from the US any other country getting a Swed girl? And plus I know my country has taken a lot of hurtful hits about stuff but all countries have there downfalls right?
I am American and I love the USA and there are many fine American women to date. However, the culture has seem to trend towards taking marriage not a serious and people dating with multiple partners even if they are serial monogamous. If someone likes that fine. I prefer love the old fashion way, find you one and only and stay with them. I think this of course is possible in the USA but feminism has destroyed a lot of the sanctity of love and marriage so much people are not even aware of it.
Anyway, Swedish girls like American guys. If you can take a trip there. I mean it. I met my wife on vacation. It is the best way as you see people face to face and have real conversations. If it is not economically possible, save money and write me.
You can try the Internet. There are a lot of Swedish women online, however, Swedish culture today is feminist also. If you like that fine, but beware there is a general lack of spiritual values and tradition love and courtship and marriage patterns. I mean don’t you want a nice girl who is attractive who loves God and family and would do anything for you and stay with you you whole life no matter what, just like you would do for her?
Stay away from Swedish girls based on experience
After some years of dating, living and having children with a Swedish girl, I wrestle between the Swedish feminist culture and a overwhelming introvert character.
Cultural or psychological effect?
Swedes generally, fail to believe in themselves, Jantelagen plays the biggest part in the average social situation, there are many books which try to highlight the “Swedish Code”, but whilst you can identify some of the circumstances presented, you will have your own experiences which you can only try to reconcile with your own life checks and balances.
You can’t speak and explain to a Swede and expect them to understand, they are to a greater part, completely oblivious to their own cultural differences.
Faithful? Yes I would say Swedish women are very faithful and honest.
Sensitive & Emotional? Swedish women have fought and continue to fight for their equality in life, so, NO, they maintain a safe distance and fulfill the basic requirements of a relationship.
Intelligent? Extremely intelligent and focused on continued professional self development.
A Swede’s behavior outside of Sweden – Immediately they can feel free of the Swedish culture and “I’m watching you”, Swedes come live, to a limit.
I under estimated the significance of the difference in culture. Scratch below the surface and there is a minefield.
Sedish girls - do not dot it - trust me
I just finished a relationship with a Swedish girl. I moved there to be with her and put up with Swedish life for 3 years only once I went home to sort some things out she decided she didn’t want me back. Swedish girls will reel you in with vigor but once you’re with them, they throw you back immediately. Make your life easier don’t make the same mistake I did find a girl in your home country. They might get your Simpsons references. Swedish girls are brought up to be independent and dastardly feminists to an extreme. It might be a cool novelty for a while but ask yourself if you can handle that shit all your life.
I'm a Swedish girl
I’m Swedish, hehe. I’m sorry four my spelling, But I can blame My iPhone cause I have this “auto correct” on.
What Swedish girls like about American guys hmm.
I think most of the Swedish girls like the language and most of all the cash flow. Many Swedish girls nice to la to get a carrier and get Married to a rich Guy. That’s it. It is not so many Swedes WHO can afford the American lifestyle so many Swedes stays in Sweden cause They love their own culture. The American culture is so different from our. Sweden are more shy and not as religious as you Americans.
Were very athletic, no junk food.
I think it’s just five percent fat people in Sweden. If you see a fat women in a grocery store, you stares for real. When i mean fat. I mean “American” fat. That’s not rare in Sweden if you know what I mean.
About the marriage and divorce stuff. I think many Swedes are not committed in a such long marriage because in us often as a Guy have to give 50 percent of your money and stuff while a divorce. You have to go to the coast and stuff, In Sweden it’s just your autograph on a paper really.
Were not so religious either that’s why Swedes maybe don’t take a marriage that serious.
My Appolonia, The American lifestyle is really like: go to college, get a job, get Married, get kids.
Were not so stricter. Were just leaving the rest to destiny hands I think.
Hope you liked my comment and learned a bit. Still, sorry for My bad English hope you stilled enjoyed it xx.
Your comments are spot on in terms of attitude, Swedish culture is open. You say not too strict but do you not want to share the rest of your life with your one and only true love? What about transcendence? Transcending the ordinary to live in a fairy-tale?
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