Skinny girls
This is my experience with skinny girls. This post will tell you where they are from and how to meet them for love.

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I married a tall thin girl (not the one in the above photo). My wife looks like a model. I would never have got married if I did not follow these steps.
- Admitting to myself that I think a thin girl is attractive and this is what I want despite what the media tries to convey.
- I stopped looking in the USA and for the girl next door.
- I started being open minded about other cultures.
- I used the Internet and traveled to Russia, Ukraine and Poland.
Doing the above steps I meet ladies that only Brad Pitt could talk to. American and Western European girls have such big egos they can not be a good bride for anyone. Eastern European women have a body like a model like waif. A typical woman from these countries look like an elf in terms of body type.
Why skinny girls are desirable
If I women is fat it means she is out of balance on some level, the same goes for a man. She can not control herself in some way or another. She will not be able to keep your life in balance and harmony. Many people who are not thin are good humans but they lack in terms of balance and harmony. Often times they have unresolved emotional problems that is the root cause of their unhealthy behavior or eating and diet. If you are looking for a mate or bride, this is not a good foundation for a good marriage. A skinny girl on the other hand is more humble and can restrict herself more than heavy one.
Skinny girls in my experience are nice people. This is my personal experience. I have traveled and lived a lot and overweight girls tend not to have a personality that would be congruent mine.
A thin girl is usually more interesting for me personally and for me a lot more attractive. People say generally they are more sensual, and being fit is just healthy. These are some of the reasons skinny girls are desirable and stop listening to western feminist influenced media. Go for what you really want in life.
If you are a girl who wants to be thin, I can make some recommendations but that is another post. Basically the key to lose weight is to get your mind off food and develop another aspect of your personality that is latent and wants to come out. Peace and love, I do not want to sound too hard in this post as it is written more for guys looking for a wife. I know what I am talking about when it comes to a skinny girl diet, but it is again not the focus on this post.
Where to find thin women
The reality is certain cities are better than others for thin women. Any girl from the country side, is better than a city girl.

Russian skinny girls
In addition, girls from St. Petersburg in Russia are better than Moscow. Krakow in Poland is better than Warsaw for slender ladies. Lviv in Ukraine is better than Kiev for elven goddesses.
Ukrainian, Polish and Russian skinny girls
I think major cities like Moscow for example become too modern and Western. Secondary cities like St. Petersburg, Krakow, and Lviv have still the educated population, but not the western corruption of the bigger cities. This is where I would look in Ukraine, Poland and Russia.

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I would not use a tour for bride
By the way I would not use any Russian tours or Ukrainian tours to find a bride for marriage. I will tell you the best way to meet these thin tall girls.
American and UK girls are not that skinny or why thin girls are rare outside Eastern European women
I do not know, I think its they it is a combination of media and the western idea that you do not need to restrict yourself. I do not think its the food. I am an American in Eastern Europe and we have fast food here. We have fat food and cakes and pies and sweets.
I think it is more that some women in the west think it is a bad idea to deny themselves. I on the other hand think denial and ascetic practices are something that can be good if not taken to extremes. It is good to fast or to meditate. It is good to take the money you might spend on food and give it to the poor for a day. I think the healthy pain of exercise or hiking in the wood for the weekends is a good thing. Also it is painful to examine your emotional issues. I think most people swallow a lot of emotion. Do not be afraid to address this emotional pain and the root of your eating problems. If not you are forced to accept the fact that a size 8 is amazing and size 10 or 14 is normal, which it is not.
Where I am in Europe a size 4 or maybe size 6 is normal, with half the attitude. So why not go for thin girls who will be nice to you. Rather than some American girl who will be demanding and nag you and play games and have moods and be fat.

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Thin girls – how to meet them
To meet thin girls its very easy. I recommend you do not spend all your time looking in America or Western Europe. I would say that Russian and Poland and Ukraine have the skinniest girls and they are tall girls too. This is my personal observation, traveling and living in different counties.
If you want to meet these ladies from Russia simply go there. Do not take a tour or stay in a hotel, fly to St. Petersburg and rent a flat. Stay for a couple of weeks. You will meet more skinny girls in those two weeks than in your whole life, and most will be happy you are talking to them.
If you can not fly somewhere today, try the Internet. Chat them up online. My site gives you exact places to meet girls online from Russia, Poland and Ukraine that only people in these counties know about, so they are not fished out or over crowded or have serial daters like match.com.
Explore my website. Explore my post on Russian girls for example or a few post. I give you exact sites to try. Let me know what you think of skinny girls for love.






229 responses to Skinny girls
This skinny girls post is so un American. I’m an American girl, and I work out everyday, I watch what i eat, and yes, I am actually thin. You can see my rib cage, you can see my shoulder bones, I’m a skinny girl. I dislike the talk about how all American girls are fat, or big, cause I mean, look at the media, we have the thin image pushed upon us! have you ever turned on a TV? It’s everywhere, look at Kristie Alley, when she gained weight, everyone went nuts! Jessica Simpson, she was probably at a healthy weight for her height, but no, it wasn’t up to the media’s standards, they harrassed that poor girl! I think you need to turn on the TV and get in tune on what is really happening in America… we’re not a bunch of over weight women, actually a good portion of us are trying to get that ideal image. Further also, I’ve met my fair share of skinny bitches, and nice over weight girls. You really need to stop sheltering yourself, and just wake up or something, where you’ve been, but you really don’t know anything about American Women.
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American girls can be skinny if they learn from European women
Hannah, great comment and thank you. In your case you are right. And you seem like a nice girl not at all rude or aggressive, just upset at my post. I rarely listen to watch any American media as its all hype. Try to read Jane Austen books and not listen to the Media, Jane Austen has better insight into life than anything on the media.
However, I am an American living in Europe any European women can spot an American girl from a mile a way because she is so big. These are women making fun of American girls.
American girls are very fat. Polish girls, Russian girls and Ukrainian girls in Eastern Europe are skinny girls. No comparison. Ladies from Eastern Europe are on average size 4 while in America a sizes 14 is average.
I do not dislike overweight women, its just they could have health problems and for me as a man, it does not look good at all. Further skinny girls like yourself, in my personal experience are much nicer people. Much nicer, no comparison because its always the “whole” person. Nothing comes from nothing, you are thin because you have respect for yourself and try to do the right things in life. Someone who is fat has less self respect and will treat others with less respect. Everything I write is a huge generalization and might be wrong in many cases. But there is no way I would date a girl who was not thin or cared about her health. That includes not getting too thin also as too thin on a women is not attractive. Normal, balanced girl who walks and eats normal things is good. In Europe I shop at the market or get things form farmers and do not have a car, but live in a major city. I think most American girls eat junk, drive a car and sometime workout. When they are 30 they get big. In Europe, same genes, as Americans basically, but they get thinner in many cases in their 30s. Skinny girls are beautiful and usually humble, fat girls are lack self respect.
One more thing, do not even think about girls like Jessica Simpson, I had to Google her to find out who she is, as I did not know, I guess she is some blonde model or something. But this is what I do know I 100% sure you are and always will be better looking than her. Why? She looks so fake. Guys like real. Real personality and real looks. Love sees with the heart and not with the eyes. She may be skinny but she looks fake to me.
If you are about lets say 20 something the best advice I can give you is live in Europe for a year or two and it will change the way you think about you body and diet etc. You will come back to America and stay skinny without worry for the rest of your life as you will see how most people outside the US live more balanced, something many Americans (of which I am) forget about.
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I am from the UK and I am thin and tall I am 15 and five foot eight
I have begun modeling.
I am glad to see you have portrayed thin girls in a positive way which is rare but why say that people from America and Europe are fat ?
I eat what i want and have a fast metabolism that does not say anything about my personality, I think you need to except that women can be kind regardless of the way they look and if you want a kind women then why be so superficial?
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My conception of girls is idealistic
Ellie, Of course my post about skinny girls is a generalization, and there are nice people who are fat. However, in my experience, fat women are unbalanced, as are people who are too thin. From a guys perspective, fat girls are trouble, while skinny girls are usually nicer. Fat, even 10 lbs over weight ladies are usually unhappy with themselves and make their male partners unhappy, as they tend to be controlling.
I went to an all boys English boarding school, and my ideals about women were very high. When I got out of school, I was expecting girls to be like out of a Jane Austen novel. To tell the truth, that was about my only experience with women, romantic novels and Gothic or idealistic tales. When I got out girls chewed me up and spit me out.
That all change when I began to observe the skinny ones were generally nicer, more balanced and the fat ones were like “you better accept me buddy or you are close minded.” I dated fat American girls and they made me unhappy. I dated skinny European girls and they were nice, and did not cause me the head aches.
About your modeling that is super. Your very lucky. I think yoga is the best way to stay in shape in my opinion.
One thing to consider though with guys is my friends who like girls that are models are not as cool as my friends who like girls who read ‘Lord of the rings” or are bookish in general.
Even thought I write a lot about how great skinny girls are, I am still idealistic and believe ‘love see with the heart and not with the eyes’.
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Hannah and Ellie you both are not informaed. First of all Ellie, Ukraine Russia, and Romania are in Europe.
Hannah you sound like the typical American woman who needs to learn more geography. Get a life.
wow. this post is really rude. i am American also; but reside in Michigan
i think that what your saying is very stereotypical and horrid.
and you are retarded if you think the food you consume has nothing to do with it
yes of course in other countries you have fast food
but in America the normal family gets take outs at the least 3 times a week.
don’t get me started with how often they visit the fast food restaurants.
the calories they fed you here are beyond healthy; one meal out is equivalant to an entire days work; add in other meals; beverages; snack you got 2/3 days of calories; and tons of fat.
i am 5’6 at 125 lbs and i wear size 4-5 pants.
i can be bitchy. i can be nice. just like every single girl out there.
size dosnt convey your personality. at my school there
1/2 fat 1/2 skinny
1/2 of both people tend towards being bitchy more often than not.
you should really have more consideration for any girl who reads this and dose not fit into your perfect ideal body.
this is why we have bulimia and anorexia and disorderd eating.
guys like YOU saying that being fit; or maybe a little soft is horrid in comparison to the girl who has not eaten for a week in a size 2.
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For every girl that is unhealthy for being too thin there are 100000 girls unhealthy for being too fat. Fat causes like almost every health problem known to man. People who eat less live much longer and are healthier. So if you are arguing for health your wrong. Skinny girls generally are healthier.
American girls eat too much junky food and too much generally. They have no control over their lives in this regards. However, in Europe I see the girls here are almost universally thin and beautiful. And they are much nicer.
I would highly recommend to American guys to consider none American women. American girls swear a lot, bossy and are not thin girls. This is a sterotype of course, but maybe there is some truth to it.
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Hey my Friend, keep up the good work! I know you will get a lot of negative feedback for what you are saying on your site but the fact is…the truth hurts. The only ones who will find this offensive are North American women. I have been working in Russia for 4 years now and have traveled extensively through Europe over these last few years and I have to say that from my own personal observations everything you say in your site is 100% true. I was born and raised in Canada but after being in Europe for the last 4 years I cannot date or even have a relationship with any Canadian women anymore. After spending time in Europe I realized that Canadian women don’t have anywhere near the same qualities that European women have. I’ll break it down into something real simple… A European woman is so much identified with her feminine side that it makes me feel like more of a man! It feeds and draws out my masculine side, which I love…and they love too;-). When I go back to Canada I feel this side of me get repressed because North American women have lost touch with their natural ways. Because of this, men have also become confused and twisted and don’t know how to act like men anymore. Everyone knows that Men and women are complete opposites and when combined they balance each other out. When one side gets out of balance (ie: North American Women) it throws the other side out too (ie: men) and the natural balance becomes all screwed up. What do you think happens when a man comes home at the end of the day to find another masculine figure in the house? Naturally there will be some kind of conflict! When I am with a European Woman I feel completely balanced!!! What I have come to realize is that North American lifestyle has been completely corrupted by U.S. super-sized consumerism and feminism gone out of control. North American women have lost touch with their natural core feminine being… and the result is that they don’t know how to be women anymore… they all want to act like men and have what men have. I could talk all day about this issue, but like this guy says, put down the remote control and come spend some time in Europe to understand what he is talking about. Here’s a couple simple examples of the difference between European Women and North American women. 1) Girls in Europe won’t eat any food after 9pm. Every girl I have met over here will not eat food late in the night, even when they come out of the nightclub at 4am and have the severe munchies they refuse to eat anything because they know the poor health affects it has on the body, which includes poor sleep and changes in metabolism. Last time I was back in Canada I came out of a club with a girl and all she wanted to do was hit up a late night fast food drive-thru. No wonder she had weight issues and of course I can’t say anything to her about it because it isn’t politically correct. 2) The most popular thing to do when going on a date in Europe is to go for a walk. How cool is that?! I have been on dates where I have walked across an entire city. Guess what the positive effects of that date were? You get that person’s undivided attention while you get to know each other plus you just had your workout for the day. There is no sitting on your ass in a movie theater eating junk food and drinking liquid candy while watching something that has nothing to do with real life. Anyone reading this guy’s site has to keep in mind that it isn’t just about how European Women are much more smarter, hotter, have better attitudes and perspective on life, but he is speaking to the much broader term of ‘lifestyle’ and how it affects us. The comparison between European women and North American women is an example of the differences in lifestyles between Europeans and North American’s!!! So it doesn’t just apply to women… but men too. Since living in Europe I realized that I had my own disgusting habits that I needed to change. Now, I hardly use my car anymore and try to walk everywhere. Before, I would take my car to the grocery store which was only 4 blocks from my house. I hardly watch movies or TV anymore. I don’t eat fast food anymore. I am more conscious of the choices I make and the consequences of my actions… so should you. Cheers!
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Pujogan, thank you for the very intelligent reply based on your personal experiences. I have had similar experiences of course and am and American that has lived in Europe for many years and now even have EU citizenship. American women are fat and feminist, in general, European girls are skinny and intelligent and have a heart, in general. I know this sounds hard and if I have offended anyone I am sorry. However, if you are a guy and want to be happy in marriage and in love I recommend go for skinny girls not obese and aggressive.
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Hi I understand where you are coming from when it comes to the fat girl vs. skinny girls thing and guess what I’m a fat girl…lol,I’ve been working on getting my health straight though. but i’m neither dumb, mean, or aggressive, Ive just been fat almost all my life I was raised in a southern us house where fried food was a nightly thing…..I now eat baked food but Im still fat Im begging to start running instead of walking everywhere ….but I’m still fat……its so hard …the reason that most American girls are so aggressive is because like me when they where children they where bullied, ridiculed, and beat up because they where fat. and I love my feminine side I’m, happy with I get, and I love to spent time with my darling boyfriend(aka go on walks with him). all I am saying is that it hurts real bad when i see all American women viewed as mean,lazy and fat.when in fact I am not and many of my friends are not either.
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Christina, I live in the south (I went to Wake Forest) for a while so I know what you are talking about. I love the south but the food is a little heavy. In fact, I gained weight while being there and too a while after I left to get my body back in shape (yes guys have the same issues with skinny vs fat but in different ways). The main thing is do not worry. If you are a good person people will see with no matter what you look like. And southern girls are very sweet. One of my favorite stories is ‘The Velveteen Rabbit or How Toys Become Real’ check it out and you will know what I mean.
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Interesting article! I’m a Romanian-American girl living in the USA, and here my size is zero, so I’m considered to be “frighteningly thin”. My mother (from Romania) is very thin as well, size four (And she thinks she’s “put on so much weight”, haha). But we’re just healthy people – we eat well and exercise and it’s just normal for us to do so. People in the USA talk about how American culture is so oppressed by the media’s “Thin image”, and that Hollywood and fashion and television want everyone to be thin, thin, thin! Fat girls act like they have such a problem, and either express deep emotional issues with their size, or they get so mean and bossy and act like they’re just better than everyone else. There is the American stereotype of the fat girl being picked on in school and ridiculed and made fun of for all of her young adult life. But, being in high school here as a thin girl is so much harder than being a fat girl. I was constantly facing rumors that I had an eating disorder, when really I eat full healthy meals! It’s just not crap innutritious food. I even had my school counselors and teachers trying to get me into an intervention program!? It was ridiculous. Even now that I’m twenty, when I go in public to shop, especially for clothes, people stare at me and even make comments loud enough so I can hear them. “Oh my god, that girl is so skinny!” “She’s a twig!” I literally hear some snide remark from a fat girl every time I go out. But not only do these girls act snide, they push and push for a response. i don’t understand it. But they always want me so badly to react. I’ve been told by many American men and women that they find thin girls like me “unrealistic” and “unattractive”. I feel like I deal with much more than fat girls do in American society. No one is pressuring them to be thin, because fat is acceptable and even embraced. But everyone is pressuring thin girls like me to be fat.
I agree wholeheartedly when you said that American girls are snobs! THEY ARE! Especially the fat ones. I’m a very friendly (though still quite shy) person, and I don’t mind being stopped for conversation with someone I don’t know, even a man. I’m soon to be married, but I don’t get offended or rude like most girls if someone compliments me or wants to get into conversation. Some people call me “naive”, but is being friendly and polite really being naive? Men, especially younger men, always seem shocked when I blush or smile and thank them for a compliment, talk with them, or even give them the time of day. Girls will often say that I’m “a tease” or something of that nature. But again, is being friendly and polite really being a tease? If a man and a woman are supposedly equal in this country, why can’t a man leisurely get into conversation with a woman he’s never met before? Why can’t I accept a compliment? Why can’t I talk openly about a mutual interest?
But I guess I might understand a little. Girls here freak out if they see they’re boyfriend talking with another girl, and men get jealous if they see another man talking to their girlfriend. (if that’s not counter feminism, then i don’t know what is!) People here are just so insecure.
And my favourite point : I HATE FEMINISM! It’s all backwards and upside down. I enjoy being female and feminine. I enjoy looking like a girl, I enjoy looking pretty. I enjoy taking care of myself, I enjoy getting dressed and applying makeup. I enjoy the charm, the delicateness, the sweetness, and the vulnerability that all come with being a girl. I want to look like a girl, talk like a girl, walk like a girl, laugh like a girl, dress like a girl, and just be a girl. Because I am a girl! In a relationship, I like being taken care of like a girl should be taken care of – and even more, I enjoy taking care of my boyfriend in all the ways should take care of him. American girls… lose all of that. They don’t know who or what they are. Sure a woman can have a career, fly planes, be a politician, or an entrepreneur. But that doesn’t mean they have to lose their femininity or explode over their waistline or become loud obnoxious bulling women!
In all, this is a good article, and I can agree with from a thin girl’s perspective.
Oh, and yes, American girls are usually dull as doorknobs, empty as drums, and shallow as a puddle on the pavement.
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Tk, basically everything you say is true. Great comment. I think thin girls are on a whole much nicer also. Many but not all American girls are out of control and I feel bad for guys that have to marry these big aggressive feminist American girls.
stereotypes, stereotypes, stereotypes! Skinny girls… do you want to live with the skeleton??? You’re so strange…
p.s. there are so many women look like elephants in Russia, though.
The elephants are like that because they are unhappy with their lives so they eat. I think the skinny girls are humble and sweet and make the best wives.
Aha… just admit that you don’t like fat women only because they’re fat!
Fat women are usually in your face aggressive. Skinny women are usually humble and try to take care of themselves. It is that simple.
Oh, and there a lot of reasons why women get fat! And eating a lot is the least main reason.
How come you do not see any fat women in central Africa? Eating and sitting around being lazy is the main reason. If you do not eat much you will not get fat. I live in Eastern Europe and where I am all or almost all with some exceptions the women are skinny. But in America the women are mostly like whales. They claim it is because of this or that, but not true. They eat too much and are lazy. Even me, I will get fat if I eat too much.
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Well does anyone expect a Western woman to be happy by this article, the truth hurts. Having spent the last 3 years in the UK, I can verify that the same problem is there. The average size there is 14/16 which I believe is an American size 12/14.
Funny you mention Jessica Simpson, she has weight issues now and even that idiot rapper made fun of her in his latest video. Speaking of pop singers, did anyone see Mariah Carey on the beach, check out the dailymail.co.uk paper. Wow, what a beach whale.
I have been to many Eastern European cities and was immediately amazed at the amount of skinny attractive women around.
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Well said. Look I am very for girls. I have the world of respect for girls, really. I think women are to honored and respected above and beyond. But I am honest. Women in the west (such as the UK and America) are whales. They are beached whales with attitudes of sharks. Even worst than not being a thin girl is being aggressive and arrogant. I think weight issues go hand in hand with other issues.
In contrast to skinny girls who are usually sweet. There is an abundance of skinny girls in the Eastern Europe.
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I think this post is rude and inaccurate. I am from Eastern European country and i must agree with the author – the girls are skinny there, sometimes way to skinny simply because they do not eat for the reasons that come from USA or Western Europe, such as magazines, videos and pictures of celebrities. But it has nothing to do with their attitudes and being much nicer people just because of how much they weigh. I can not agree with the author’s experiences about fat girls being bossy and rude. In my experiences, different sizes girls’ can be nice or not that nice. However, i can see where the opinion about Eastern European girls comes from. They can be very humble and obedient, especially to a foreign man, because he is associated with a better life and opportunities. A guy from USA, or any guy who treats the girl nicer than they she used to be treated in her homecountry, will get special attention with girl’s perfect attitude. Does not matter if she is skinny or not. So, I agree with some of the points the author made, but in order to write a post like this with so generalziations about Eastern European girls, I think he must know their culture better.
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Ray thanks for your reply. I think Eastern European guys treat, women very nice. They hold doors open for them and even kiss their hands and are very polite. I think many western guys can act like cowboys and are rude. Further, many Eastern Europeans guys are rich or live better now that many Americans. I am a dual citizen and from both worlds.
But that does not mean I am right, nor am I objective.
The way I see it is it that skinny girls in Eastern Europe are less trouble than fat girls in America. Skinny Ukrainian, Russian or Polish girls, if they have good values and morals are angels and princesses. They will make your life happy. And you only have one life so why not go for your dream. I do not know any princesses in the UK or America.
I do think there is a strong connection between body fat and mental attitude. Fat means lack of self control and skinny means I want to try to be attractive for my mate. Skinny girls are not reading these western magazines like everyone things. The skinny girls from the country side and villages are skinny because they do not like the feeling of being fat, they are just normal girls. American girls and UK girls are fat and sassy. Fine if you are a player (I am not) but not fine for a wife.
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“Further, many Eastern Europeans guys are rich or live better now that many Americans”
Only 5 percent of them are rich, and they are the ones in control of the government.
The richest men are in UAE. Do not talk about economics cause you fail in that subject and you make yourself look more dumber than your look.
I have to strongly agree with Admin in this case 100 percent.
But since he thinks in black and white terms, idiotically, I have to rephrase what he says.
In the United States and Britain, most women are fat. Only a small percentage are slender. In reality, the skinny ones are very rude and unapproachable. The fat ones, half are rude, half are nice. But honestly if a man is slender it won’t look good for him to be with a big fat woman. He will never be happy.
However in Eastern Europe, most girls are slender. Because there is MAJORITY, you can find nice girls that like you , if you are there for enough time like at least a year, then you can get what you want.
I agree with the admin on this issue for the most part, I like slender women as well as long as they have some minor curves like a nice butt and naturally sized breasts.
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As for tk,I feel sorry for you.
American girls, both thin and fat, usually are scared when someone else can beat them in terms of looks or popularity, so they try to say horrible things.
It’s almost like a preemptive way of destroying you, because they know you can overtake them.
You should be proud to be what you are and ignore totally what American girls say.
Listen, just because someone’s a size 8, doesn’t mean they’re fat.
For example, I’m 5’10, 128 lbs and I’m a size 6/8. I’m 34-26-37. My hips are not made to be a size 4.
I’m not skinny, especially compared to women in Europe, but I’m healthy. I eat (about 2700 calories a day), I don’t obsess about getting thinner, it’s just better to enjoy life.
All those girls in Europe just have fast metabolisms. They probably all eat at least 4000 calories a day.
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Your a tall girl. If you are 128 and 5’10″ I would not say you are fat, dress sizes really are all over the place.
However, European girls are skinny because they walk. I, for example, do not have a car and I live in Europe and walk everywhere. American girls drive around to go to the mall. American girls eat American food and are statistically fat. So fat they are unhealthy. Europeans eat a more natural diet. I do not seen European girls diet because they rarely do, they just eat normal food like apples and pears and fish, and walk everywhere. European girls are skinny. American girls are fat, generally, but not always. If you are eating that many calories consider that your health and life span is highly correlated to your caloric intake and caloric restriction done in a healthy way will keep you slim and beautiful and healthy longer. So when people are upset with skinny girls, generally they should realizes skinny girls are this way because they live a healthy lifestyle. Fat girls are the way they are because they live an unhealthy lifestyle. When women age, fat girls become square and yo yo, while thin girls balance out. I personally prefer someone who likes to walk and eat healthy good, to someone who is chowing down on cake and driving everywhere and has an in your face attitude. Thin girls are better for the long term and I think almost every guy feels this way.
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“I’m 5′10, 128 lbs and I’m a size 6/8. I’m 34-26-37. My hips are not made to be a size 4.”
For that height, that is not fat at all, as long as you don’t have a beer belly. You sound like in good shape.
I don’t know how tall the admin’s wife is. But your weight is healthy for a 5’10” woman.
I think that maybe you should think about what you’re saying. There are so many stereotypes and generalizations in this post, and some of what you say is statistically true. But there are a lot of causes of obesity that are not food-related at all. Quite a few people I know have thyroid disorders, which can lead to weight gain. Among many other things.
Also, you make many generalizations about thin/overweight people in terms of personality. I can see where you’re coming from, where you would think that because someone eats themselves into obesity, they lack respect for themselves and others. But because there are so many causes of obesity and you are judging people before you even know the circumstances of their condition, it seems unfair to draw such conclusions.
While many Americans overweight, it is unfair to make statements about an entire country. Especially since there are many people who suffer from eating disorders. Things like this just encourage them and make them think that what they’re doing is justified and necessary. There are many Pro-Ana or “Thinspiration” groups/websites out there. If you look at a few of those, you will see such a sharp contrast between what you say in this and the girls that starve themselves to death because they think that no one will accept or love them if they don’t.
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Thanks for replying on my post about skinny girls. You are right, every generalization is a distortion of the truth. Further this is my personal experience so I can respect others’ ideas and views and invite them.
However, what you write is a very Western girl view, pumped up by the media, and gooey pastries too.
Only a very few cases of obesity are caused by medical problems. I live in Eastern Europe and its funny I do not see those ‘cases’ here. Women here are almost universally skinny and beautiful. Women here have self respect and balance diet and activity. These ladies think UK girls are pretty much out of control with weight. Growing up in the west I see how girls eat. They eat more than I do, and I am tall, big guy, when I lifted weights I was 220lbs, but not fat. But I see American and UK girls chow down and scream stop judging me. But the truth is they are only hurting themselves.
They drink a lot too which means empty calories. I see these not thin girls doing pub crawls and they are a disgrace, drinking, tattooed and swearing.
Being a women is something special, and women should not conduct themselves in that way, they should strive to keep their lives in balance. If a women is fat she will be unhappy because her life is out of balance. Do not listen to the media. Fat women I know are unhappy deep down. I want girls to find love and it will be harder to find a husband if you are not thin. But I think almost any slender woman can find a husband. Life is largely about finding your husband or wife.
I wrote this post on thin girls to help people realize that skinny girls are attractive. This is nature. Fat girls are a serious health problem that will cause depression and heart problems latter in life. Think of all the people that life sad lives because of health related problems from excess.
Of course there are exceptions to this and you can have medical problems with being underweight if extreme, but that is an exception and the rule is fat is unhealthy and unattractive.
More girls stuff themselves with sticky and viscous, gooey sweet cookies, cakes and pies and latter have serious health problems, than thin girls who take it to an extreme.
Women that are thin are beautiful.
Thin girls are want to make themselves attractive for men, this is my experience.
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Well this is a very interesting. I believe with some of the things you said, but others I think is just not right. Some people easily get fat, it takes them alot of energy to lose weight. Like me, I can’t eat freely like many people because i easily gain weight. I do agree that skinny girls are much happier; this is just the plain truth from my experience on both side of the fence. If you have any advice on living healthy, and controlling your food intake, email them to me. I like those kind of things, they are very motivational.
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TF, sorry if I sound hard in my skinny girls post. Here is the truth. No one I know can eat freely. Maybe if they are a growing teenager, but every one of my friends, in fact everyone I know has to find a balance with their diet. It is just according to what weight you want to stabilizes at.
For me I walk everyday without exception, even for a few hours as I do not have a car and live in Europe. I walk. I also just do not eat junk. A simple natural diet. But I do not try to restrict myself. If diet than you will feel restricted. Just eat all the vegetables you want. Or try this fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2007/04/06/how-to-lose-20-lbs-of-fat-in-30-days-without-doing-any-exercise/ . The main things is everyone has to find balance in their spiritual mental and physical life, maybe in their own way. So why not come to equilibrium as a skinny girl?
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Hi, I am a white American (Jewish background) who is interested in finding a traditional wife from Eastern Europe. One problem I think I might have is that I am a bit short, 5 foot 9 inches (175cm). I was told most Russian women are 5,9 and taller. You mention they are tall as if it is a good thing. Well, asmuch as I Like tall slender beauties, most of them don’t like me here in USA because I Don’t fit the height criteria.
I am good looking, but a bit balding, but I am in good athletic shape. I do bodybuidlng and such.
I am wondering, seeing that I am short and that RUssian, Ukrainian, Polish women are so tall, would it be a great challenge to find a wife there? I am not particularly attracted to Filipina women and don’t really trust the impoverished people in SE ASia as a bride anyway.
It would be nice to hear what your feelings are of a man of my stature finding a wife in Eastern Europe.
Thanks
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Thanks for your comment on Skinny girls.
American women are into career to inflate their egos and chase money, it is a sickness. And they are not skinny girls either. So what is the point to think about them.
However, there are exceptions.
Many American girls have this thing in their minds that a guy must be 6’2″ and look like a football player for them to even talk to you. Then they will throw themselves at you. American girls care very much about silly primitive things like money, titles, height. I live in Eastern Europe, I do not see the girls care about that. They care about love. Of course there are some that care about the same things that American women do but those are the exceptions not the rule.
You will have no problem finding your sweetheart in Europe. Forget about your job, working all the time and take your vacations to Europe. Really. Love and family is more important. Travel or live in Europe. Maybe first travel here. Also look online at many of the websites I recommend. Try everything. Being here is the best but in the mean time, try the online thing. Find someone who believes the same thing as you do. There are many people like this.
Forget about the height thing, it does not matter. I know you think it does but it does not, many movies stars in the states are not tall, you know this. It most likely made you a more sensitive guy, and more about people’s insides. If you were some tall meat guy then you might have turned out like a womenizer and just another shallow jerk. But you are not. You are real and live a very thoughtful life.
The most important things is charm girls, they like to be charmed. Men think abstractly about life, women think more concretely about life and need to be charmed and felt like life is magical.
Do not even think about American girls, they have twisted values in many cases. Not all, as there are many good ones but generally.
I guess this is off topic from skinny girls, but thanks for your comments.
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I would consider myself religious and traditional. I am sick and tired of American women.. There is much I like to write but don’t want to bore you. Well, I believe in loving my wife, but I am not 100% into 50-50 relation. I think that man is head of the house and this is a common biblical point of view.. If that is problem in Russia, well then I guess America might be the same. Of course I would think religious Russian Orthodox Church, male headed household is the norm. But with communism, perhaps all that has changed.
I would like to work hard to care for my wife, family and raise good well-mannered and disciplined children. I am finding that in America our marriages are being destroyed by feminism and moral breakdown of our people. American women spend lot of time working, eating and amusing themselves and seem to have broken away from modesty, good manners and strong family ethic.
I don’t know how to explain it, but I feel like in hell here.
I am a Jewish believer in the Messiah Christ.. So, its impossible for me to marry any submissive, traditional or religious Jewish Orthodox woman. I suppose I have more Christian leanings although I still adhere to my Jewish culture. I am not sure where in the world I can find a religious wife who can accept my beliefs and would love to have large family with me.
I am not really into the career woman either. If you think that a woman can work 12 hour day job and still be a wife and you do the same, I think you are living in feminist utopian fantasy. Most American women are married to their jobs first and husbands second. I want a woman who can work, but not be married to her job, I rather have her devote a good amount of her time to doing her motherly and wife duties, such as raisining kids, cooking and cleaning.
Hope I don’t sound too outdated. I do have traditaionl middle eastern and old-world Russian values. Most of my family does come from Russia, Ukraine and Poland.
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Yonatan,
The admin is correct, height is not a major issue unless you act like an idiot and bring it up.
Whoever told you that the average Russian woman is 5’9” is a complete idiot with down syndrome
The average Russian and Eastern European woman is 5’5”. However there are many girls that are tall, and even date men SHORTER men than you in Russia and Eastern Europe.
And Admin is correct, you MUST have charm and a personality and if you act like some drunk neathead, you will then lose. Cause American girls like guys to be drunk and neatheads, but Russian and Eastern European girls don’t based on their cultures.
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Hi Admin and Spatula.
I want to thank both of you very much for your posts. You both have built up my confidence quite a bit. I have heard before that women in Eastern Europe are not so superficial and care more about a man’s personality versus his exterior features and monetary assets. Well, I think then I do have good chance of finding a date. I guess I was misinformed about the height issue. I now have learned you shouldn’t believe all you read or hear from a few people.
America is so immersed in movie fantasies and superficial reality. Most of the fantasies of American women end in divorce and being single mothers. Most of them do get quite fat after they hit the 20s. Fast food nation.
Yeah, I consider myself quite a vibrant gentleman who is bit old-fashioned and traditional. I am quite confident, but lot of these superficical bimbos have their requirements and tell me that they cannot wear heels around me so it won’t work. WOW, They throw away a human soul who they possibly could have shared so many beautiful and spiritual days with all over the fact that they would look funny in heels around me? Really, I am glad I am not super tall, because it seems that they would be loving my legs not my heart. It sickens me how fake and arrogant American women are. Admin, your point was good on that fact, I agree.
I am also sick of the dating game in USA. There is so many things I like to say, but I am sure you heard them before. ALl the games, all the attitude. The women expect to be pampered and worshipped and think men are there to serve them and all their desires. I cannot take the masculinity of them either. They always love to show how macho they are and how they have no problem tearing apart a man who doesn’t fulfill their outrageous and unrealistic criteria.
Also, when you’re with an American woman, you always have to worry about being “”. If you give them flowers, you think they are a weak toy. Or, if you open a door for them, you think they are incompetent. Of course, a compliment means you are trying to get them into bed. And, if you make friendly chat, they give you the roll-eye look, like oh no not another horny man hitting on me. Degrading men in USA is a favorite pasttime for the women here. It’s sickening.
I have been around a fair share of American women, each has their own dark shadow behind them. From rough tough gun totin redneck girls to wild crazy party girls to metromen urban workaholic she-men, they all seem to share common traits.
Sorry for going on about all this.
Many people tell me I look Russian/Polish. So, perhaps I won’t have a hard time fitting in there. I am very excited to travel to Eastern Europe. It has been 6 years since I had a vacation and I think it will be a lot of fun and maybe I can meet my future bride. My grandmother spoke Russian and Yiddish, but she is too senile now (about 90) to teach me. I perhaps will try to learn a bit of Russian, Ukrainian , Polish and Romanian before I travel to those countries. Learning some phrases I know really helps.
I really like this site and will browse through more of it.
Thank you!
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I am a slightly overweight medical student but i am in good state of health as i walk daily about 1km at least every morning. But i am chubby weighty than other Malaysian girls. I told my boyfriend about this post and my intention on getting skinny because skinny girl are more feminine and make good wive as you said. he refused it as he said there`s a lot skinny girl who are bad and jerks. After thinking may be this post is just dedicated for fat American women. Not for Malaysian girls, however I really agree with you opinion on walking daily and don’t be lazy.
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Your right there is a lot more that goes into mate selection than health. Further, being over weight is more an American girl than Malaysian girl issue. American girls are fat and sassy. Malaysian girls are generally nice and kind. Therefore, if you are a bit overweight not a big deal. Its more the combination of fat and headstrong that makes a person unattractive. On the other hand, it is healthier to be thin and in shape. Even me, I do not have a car and walk everywhere.
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I had like to add something, my boyfriend just told me about only girl who are beautiful and skinny become ‘working girl’ or do the videos. If you do not believe me you can watch it. They are full of beautiful skinny girls.
That is totally wrong. Skinny girls are usually more moral, rather than less. There is a consistency of values. If someone cares for their body usually they are living a more conscious life. Many fat girls are lazy and ego centric as they feel they do not have to please anyone. Further, ‘working girls’ tend to be 10 lbs over weight as they do not have to work to get guys. Guys come to them and they just lay back. They are too lazy to make money the hard way through years of patience. Lat girls lack humility generally and are bossy.
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Admin,
The high class “working girls” and most of all p-orn stars, work out hours to be thin and toned.
This post really, REALLY, is completely incoherent and stereotypical.
I mean, I’m sorry but you should really be ashamed, who are you to say such horrible things?
If a curvy woman is happy, she is happy, period.
If a curvy woman is not, she is not, it is up to her to change that.
If a skinny woman is happy, she is happy, period.
If a skinny woman is not, she is not, it is up to her to change that.
But regardless of their size, if they are happy with the way they are, then that’s the way it is.
I myself am somewhat of a curvy woman, 5 ft 9, 132 lbs, and I am a nice, happy person who doesnt obsess over their weight.
But you!
YOU!
You are completely stereotypical and pretty darn silly for writing this post,
Because in that you knew that curvy women would see this, and that they would get upset.
There is just NO NEED!!
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The weight and height you gave me is not skinny but not fat either. It is not that bad, but not super. Too much for me personally.
However,why be fat if it is not healthy to be fat. Being skinny is not only healthier than fat, but guys will take notice more. And as a young lady I would think that one of your interests is to attract a mate. Perhaps your top priority. If you are from the UK you have an attitude that I do not need to be a skinny girl. then.
Good luck. Guys will not give you as much respect and will not stay with you as long. There is really no big deal. Men want to mate with healthy partners not unhealthy and if you are young you will get looks now, but over 30 few guys or not guys will take you seriously. Instead of fighting the reality, why not just play within the rules and you will be happier in the long run. Skinny girls get a greater selection of quality mates for marriage selection.
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Problems like obesity and diabetes are caused by eating too much. I am not saying be an thin rail, but what might be 10 lbs over weight in your 20s will turn to 30 lbs in your 40s. Being overweight is your right. If you want to be unhealthy go ahead. However, do not tell me men like fat women. What is attractive on a girl is being a skinny girl.
lilamah,
But the thing is he never said “curvy woman as bad”, but fat problem is fat women try to call themselves curvy when they don’t even know what the word means.
I honestly could care less about most of what is written above, I mean I am a 5’8 American girl weighing in at 115. I wear a size 2, although in concordence with most everything previously stated somehow the fact that I’m American just inherently makes my size 2 body larger than a European woman of equal proportions. Regardless, this article is largely unapplicable to me.
However, I only wanted to comment on the ambiguity and false nature of almost all the “statistics” (I use this term loosely because what appears above in both original work and comment are more of a stereotypical exaggeration of fact than anything else)being spewed back and forth.
A few things to consider:
1. You are talking about skinny girls, and if I am reading into the meaning of this term correctly it implies girls/women within their 20s to perhaps early 30s. While yes, statistically the average dress/pant size in the United States is a 10 or a 12…this calculation also factors in women much older than the intended age range of this article. I do not disagree that as a whole the U.S. is a country with unhealthy habits, however age groups must be taken into account.
2. It has been mentioned that it is in fact possible, however implicitly “rare” as it has been suggested, to find skinny American women. It is also stated that in Eastern Europe skinny women abound. However numerically, even if “skinny” girls are few and far between in the U.S. there would still be more of them here than in Romania, for example, simply due to the population difference.
3. Whereas many Eastern European countries remain mostly homogenous in their ethnic populations, the U.S. clearly is the exact opposite. Physiologically Eastern European women are naturally thin…in the U.S. there are so many different ethnicities that there could in no way exist a common physical characteristic such as this.
Not making excuses for people, just pointing out discrepancies.
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Hannah, you write a lot of good intelligent things. However, lets look at the genetics vs lifestyle. I believe people like to say genetics is destiny with weight. It is not. Life style and the choice you make are destiny. Marcus Aurelius wrote ‘character is destiny’ (although I doubt he thought I would quote him on a skinny girls post).
However, also lets say not every American women has a weight problem. I am American, I have no problem with American women, generally. For example, you, you are a normal girl who writes with thought and intelligence and not with anger, and is also not out of balance, case and point. You will never have a problem with finding someone to appreciate you.
However, you can tell me that American women do not pork out and than try to rationalize it and say its genetics or something. Russian women are not genetically one race at all, while WASPy girls in America and the UK are very fat. Russian girls are very mixed but they are thin girls.
I have lived in the USA a good part of my life and Europe another part. American girls are not skinny girls because they eat so much and drive everywhere. Europeans walk, I do not have a car. I never eat out or buy anything in a package or can. I have normal home cooked meals like everyone else I know. None of these canned soup packaged food. The big meal of the day here is lunch, while dinner maybe at 5 or 6 is very light. Americans work long hours, and drive home to a large evening meal. Its lifestyle. If American women want to be thin women, they have to stop blaming or rationalizing or be so defenses. They need to be aware that it is lifestyle. I am not saying this to be hard on them, but make them aware so they can change a little.
In my opinion skinny girls are healthier generally and studies confirm this as long as it is not too much. Further thin girls get a better selection for mating and finding their husband. I would think that girls want to do this, that is find a husband.
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Hannah,
Eastern Europe is actually mix of many cultures. Russia by itself is home to so many cultures.
And actually per capita there would be more thin women in an Eastern European country compared to the U.S. due to density. America is sparse. Even European Russia is pretty dense.
Please read books before you decide to say stuff on topics you know nothing about.
admin – Thank you for an intelligent response. I agree that many American women play the genetics card…you know, the “big-boned” excuse. My intention wasn’t to drive home the singular ethnicity point as much as I meant to highlight that the U.S. is just SO all over the place that there are infinite variables that need consideration.
On a related note, my boyfriends ex was Romanian and he says that she always talked about the higher premium placed on a woman’s looks over there. Perhaps that has something to do with it…but I don’t really know.
spatula – Thank you for quite the opposite. I really never shot down the idea of women keeping themselves healthy and taking care of their bodies, so I’m not sure wear exactly your enimosity is stemming from. Russia is dense because most of it is uninhabitable, although I don’t get why population density has anything to do with what I said. The U.S., regardless of it’s sparsity still has a higher population than Russia. Distribution is irrelevant. I’m not sure how exactly I made myself “sound like a 150 pound fat girl” since that isn’t exactly a tone one can take, but I assure you I am not.
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Hannah yes America is all over the place. For example, I am from Boston originally even though I live in Europe now. In Boston you find a lot of yoga girls for lack of a better word. These girls take take of their health and look great and age very well. Their beauty comes from not focusing on the external as much as internally their thoughts or what they put in their body. They are thin girls and many are very nice.
However, the problem is they are still in America. And there is such a premium on these girls, as thing girls are rare compared to population averages, as they are really very desirable.
Every Alpha male in the states, is competing to date them and impress them. Therefore, they develop a some what stuck up attitude even if they are not stuck up. They do not even know they still behave like American girls. They play games even if they are ‘enlightened’ just a different set of rules.
As far as Eastern European girls and looks being a factor more than in the states, I respectfully disagree. Maybe to basic guys, but most of my friends here are educated as long as the girl is thin, it does not matter, as every girl is beautiful as long as she is not obese. Every girl has a beauty that men can not resist. She does not have to do anything, but stay healthy.
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Oh, and just a side note…I’m a different Hannah than the first one. I just saw that there had been another.
Hannah,
America is the most populous nation after China and India. I know all this stuff.
But density per capita means more. Russia has two sides, Asiatic and European. Most of the population lives densely in urban areas on the European side.
A man that wants a thin woman has a low chance in finding one in the U.S. due to the average woman being 170 pounds while in Russia or any other country in Eastern Europe it is 120 pounds.
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The fact of the matter is a low percentage of thin women in America created bad attitude among the thin women to be picky for no reason and go for the trash type men.
Countries where the majority of women are thin, the attitude is less, because the resource is insurmountable.
In my experience Eastern European women are NOT skinny. The girls they show here are measured for height in their 5″ heels, and then they subtract 10 pounds for their boobs! Ukraine was a big disappointment, most girls were around 120-130lbs, size 4 or 6, and NONE taller than 5’2″!!!!! This in the US is NOT skinny,it is FAT…In the US, there are tons of girls who weight less than 100 lbs…and wear a size EU 30, US OO–something unimaginable in Eastern Europe!!!!
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Kelly Sullivan,
It seems you are a fat American woman. Maybe you live in a trailer park.
Anyway, I read Ukraine’s stats. The women in Eastern Europe (Russia included) weigh around 120 pounds on average and are 5 feet 5 inches.
American women weight aveage 170 pounds at 5 feet 3 inches.
So please go hit the gym.
What about girls who are just slim? and not skinny?
I am a size 10 (UK) – i dont know what that is in the USA, but it is slim. And i have size 32F breasts. If I wanted to become skinny, i would literally have to starve myself.
It depends on the company who makes the clothes and the fact that you are in the UK ,size 10 UK is like 40 European ro size 8 USA. If you are tall with a size 10 UK you could actually look pretty thin, you could have wide hips and have to wear it different, like if you like bigger clothes. Wide hips looks good on a girl. Think more about your hip to waist ratio but the most important thing. I just noticed you are a g. Wow that explain it. I think you have nothing to worry about there about being a skinny girl. Its the way your body is, you are most likely think already. And the most important thing about being a skinny girl or not, is do not worry be happy.
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English-chick,
He meant slim/fit, not anorexic kate moss.
Glad to see the board is up and going well.. I really do have to say its not only the quantity of food American women eat, its the quality of food. Americans are hooked on processed, chemically grown, mass produced and low-nutrient food. Throughout Europe, people will eat natural and organic food.
In America, Raw milk is illegal, except there are ways to circumvent this. You can purchase it through cow share, which I do or you can eat cheese aged over 60 days. It is still a pain getting good raw milk cheeses in USA. In Europe, raw milk and grass fed meats are very common, whereas in America we pasteurized and feed our cows grains, animal by-products, antibiotics and they live in crowded factory farms, where many don’t see daylight for a month before slaughter. England is the exception of the rule, which coincides more with the American way of agriculture.
I can go on and on about this, but until the fast and processed food culture is destroyed here, Americans will be fat.
Americans in general are arrogant and close-minded about health and nutrition. I cannot say though that Russian men are the epitome of health, with all the drinking. However, I never heard of Russian women being heavy drinkers. This is in contrast with the Irish, who are all heavy drinkers, both men and women.
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Hi. I just wanted to say that your comment about many fat women being cruel is true. I have two beautiful, physically fit sisters. Over the years I have become incensed many times over when I’ve overheard comments about either of them being the size they are because they’re anorexic, bulimic, or have some eating disorder or other. I am always quick to put these people in their place. My sisters are both health an exercise nuts. Their fridges and cupboards are full of fruits, vegetables, whole grain items, brown rice, beans, lentils, raw nuts, etc. I daresay both of them have healthy appetites. The reason why they stay in such great shape is because the foods they eat are natural foods, and they work off a lot of the healthy calories they intake with exercise.
I don’t think, I know that these jealous women want my sisters to have eating disorders. By denying that one can achieve the results my siblings have merely through exercise and the consumption of natural, healthy foods, one can continue to live a slovenly, unhealthy, gluttonous lifestyle. It’s far easier to insist that a physically fit, attractive, healthy girl is the way she is because she has an eating disorder, than to change what one is eating and adopt a fitness regime. Some people want to continue to eat massive amounts of unhealthy food, and then sit around and do nothing most of the time. They want to be able to insist that the only way to be skinny is to starve, and then guilt trip those trying to give them helpful advice by implying they’re trying to give them an eating disorder.
By the way, this is being written by a fat chick. I have always known what it takes to be a small size. I have recently moved into a place of my own. I control what is in my fridge and in my cupboards. I have since filled them with fruits, vegetables, whole grains, brown rice, beans, lentils, raw nuts, etc., just like the foods my sisters have. In the last month and a half I have lost 15lbs. I will continue to do so, as I not only feel healthier, but I look better. I am also on a strict budget that doesn’t allow for misspending on unnecessary junk food items. I would rather have a roof over my head and clothes on my back than eat take-out.
I wish all of you luck in finding the women of your dreams!
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P.S. I can’t blame you for wanting what you want, a healthy, physically fit, attractive woman. I want to be a healthy, physically fit, attractive woman as well.
Natasha,
You are a good woman. I hope you reach your goal ! It is more important for women to look good. It’s a fact. I am sure you will be as beautiful as your sisters, since you already are on the inside.
Natasha,
good stuff
good! i like your comment!
so true!!
While I am not considered super skinny and trim for my age and compared with others at my school, I take pretty good care of myself (however, i overeat sometimes, but i’m still a teenager so it doesn’t affect me too much yet as far as gaining weight) but like my mom’s friends always think I don’t eat and am a crazy-compulsive-runnning/biking machine, but I do it b/c I enjoy it.
Good luck with your quest to good health and good looks, natasha!
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Do not listen to your Mom’s friends. When I was in the States just last month, people would not walk 15 minutes to the store, they would get in their car and drive and try to find the closest parking space. They were not skinny girls. The habits you develop now will influence your future. When I was 17 I was always on my bike and when I was 27 also. I am just as active. My friends from high school who took it easy are fat today. Think of physics, an object in motions stays in motion, an object at rests stays at rest.
On the other hand, remember you young. At this point in your life you are trying to find a balance in your life. Myself and most of my friends in high school were extreme and took things too far. I think from 15 to 25 you test the limits of your youth. We all lived, but I wish I had been more moderate. For example, I was so athletic my back hurts now as I did crazy things with it.
So do not do anything extreme. If your friends, not your Mom’s friends think you are extreme that is another thing, listen.
But you know one of my friend’s road their bike across the USA. I hiked hiked around Europe.
Being skinny is great, but if you are focus on other things like learning a language and travel. The goal in life is to eat to life not live to eat.
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this is in reply to “Malaysian girl”. If your boyfriend thinks fat is nice, then I have a few guesses as to why he thinks that way:
1) He is NOT Malay. My guess is he is a foreigner from North Africa, in particular from Egypt. Other possibilities; from Morocco, Algeria or African country. It is well known that North African men like their women fat- as fat as a cow if possible. Less importance is placed on the face. I know. I know because I marry Arab foreigner myself and he is Arab. I asked why do Arab guys like fat Malay girls, and most of the time those fat Malay girls look really ugly especially face-wise? (I’m being factual here about the physical features)I mean, those Arab guys are very good looking (you can say, like Italian models and such) and can have any Asian women they want, so why they go for the really fatty ones and ugly ones (again, being factual here) which in Malay or Chinese terms, “a reject”? Hubby’s answer is that it’s not really Arab preference but more of Egyptian and North African men preference (Hubby is neither Egyptian nor North African). If you go to Egypt, a lot of their girls look big, square and some even manly, especially after marriage. Another runner up if its in the gulf region would be Kuwait girls. They are more commonly ballony fat as compared to other Arab countries girls.
2) He is Malay or Arab who is not North African- and he has some sneaky intentions. He wants you for your status because you come from high status family, or because you appear to come from high class family or because you are rich and he wants easy life. Or he wants to use you for citizenship purposes. These guys want use you as their tool to get what they want. Trust me, guys like these just want to use you and will cheat behind your back. Either by having girlfriends or marrying another behind your back. I know real life cases. I’ve come across so many fat and/or old women (say, 40, 50+) who are fat and/or physically visually unattractive and marries or dates with a much younger foreigner or local guys. These ladies thinks the guys they marry or date truly adores them but in truth, they don’t. They just want to use her. All these guys’ friends know that these guys are just using girls like these and cheats, but they don’t want interfere and just keep quiet. But I know because I happen to marry a foreigner who is friends with all foreigner guys including these scumbags. I know one foreigner Arab will marry a young virgin girl who’s from high status background behind his old, unattractive wife. And the wife don’t know. Not trying to be mean to these women, but want to keep things real.
3) He loves you and just want to make you happy so he make stories about how thin girls are not attractive, etc. When truth is, if he can get an attractive, thin one, he will. Just like any guys will.
4) He is scared of you for some reason, so he try to make up stories of how he loathe thin girls. Just like what American guys do with their American girls.
5) He cannot get thin girls, so he make do with fat types.
6) He has issues or bad experience with thin girls and hate them out of those experiences, not really out of the physical looks per say.
Why I say all these is because, in general Malaysian guys especially Malay and Chinese prefer slim girls. Malays especially will always exaggerate about how their wives who bore 6 kids can still be slim and fit, even slimmer and fitter than most ! (sadly even Malaysian girls has taken the American lazy lifestyle, to hooked up on career and feminist rights, etc…… if you compare Indonesian girls+ Thai girls to Malaysian girls, you will see that Malaysian girls has slowly lose their feminine nature and becoming Asian version for America and UK)
SO bottom line: Read the article again and keep it real. Be really honest with yourself. Do you think men would really not want a thin girl? Maybe he won’t mind as a girlfriend, as the author has said. But for long term, say, as a wife? Maybe he don’t mind if he has bad intention as mentioned earlier. Do you think any sane, real Malay men or local Malaysian would rather prefer a fatty to a skinny??? Why are Indonesian girls and actresses so popular in Malaysia? Because they take care of themselves: They are slim and they look young. Unlike most Malay girls now start to look fat and older than their real age. That, plus CAKED on make up, scary big false lashes and fake colored contacts. And these applies to both Malay girls with head coverings on or without.
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My other guess is he does has one (or more) thin girlfriends elsewhere, but he either don’t admit it or he hides it. Check his handphone to make sure and be observant. Sorry for some typo
Mr Admin, I’d like you to also consider that other than media, much blame should also be put on the doctors. Whenever an obese, diabetic, etc person visits them, the first question the doc will ask is, “Is there anyone in your family who is obese/diabetic/etc?” They will even be interested if maybe your aunties or uncles or distant cousins have the same case, if there is no such case in your immediate family. They never are interested in the amount and quality of food you take, or the fact that you lead a sedentary life. Then they will tell you to NOT take every real food to a human being: no rice, no eggs, no milk, no tea, no honey, no nothing, basically. Just take the “medicines” and see them again on so and so date for further tests/checkups. Of course after a period of not eating real food and taking “meds”, your situation will not improve and then your doc will convince you to make unnecessary surgeries such as getting rid of your kidney or appendix or whatever organs in your body. If you are obese, you have to do surgery and cut some uterus, etc. They’ll never be honest and tell you you are in this mess because of what you eat, the amount you eat and the fact you are sedentary. They will never emphasis on a healthier lifestyle like eating more veggies and drink more water and cutting sodas. They will convince you you are a “special case” (and has got nothing to do with how you eat and stuff) because its GENETIC. pfft!
And what is this “big bone” nonsense? It’s here in Malaysia too. I mean, I will cut the slack for American women and UK, but Malaysian women? (unless they hv some mix blood somewhere). I mean, how can a girl with feet size 5 or 6 or even 7 hardly be “big boned”?? And if you are wearing a big shoe size because your feet is mainly of FATS, that doesn’t count as big boned. If you have to wear big size rings because your finger is FAT (just feel the flesh, honey), it’s NOT big boned either. Keep it real, ladies.
I do notice that there is an unhealthy trend of wearing thick makeup in Malaysia (I live here), and its acceptable. However, if you don’t like make up, they will take you as slobby. No, women CAN wear little to no makeup and still look like a PRINCESS. If you are natural skinny and natural face girl, you do get taunted by the other chicks (who are increasingly fat and make-up obsessed as the day gets by, that is what capitalism do, I guess). I did experience like what the other girl had said of her experience in America. It’s like a taboo to take care of your looks the natural way, but not a taboo to love makeup. On the other hand, Chinese girls here in general don’t really despise naturally thin girls because they still place great importance on physical beauty and facial beauty. But they are slowly taking the easy path like make up too; and surgeries. Liposuction, augmentations, etc you name it. I fear for the future of Asia.
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Admin,
I just came across this site, its UK site. And my… the girls are mostly fat! like you said… and they do have an unhealthy resentment towards the skinny girls. And… they think they are way more gorgeous than the skinny girls! This is a very interesting thread with pics, check it out:
youandyourwedding.co.uk/chatroom/printtopic/118817?theme=print
What an insight! Also, I read these girls saying skinny is not healthy and “curvy” (more like obese to me) is healthy. No! since when is obese, curvy? And since when is obese healthy?? Anyway!..
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In my mind and the mind of guys, healthy is beautiful. I think nature makes it this way. If you are glowing with health people will want to choose you as their mate. This is why faces that are proportional are statistically more attractive (I like disproportional myself). Proportionality is a signature of beauty. Girls that are fit and thin are more beautiful than girls that can pinch at their waist. Why? If you research it yourself, being overweight is not healthy. Being thin in most cases is healthy.
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i agree with you! i hate how many fat people there are in the united states (i live here). they’re bitter and mean because i refuse to be fat like them. i may not be tall, but i’m less than 100 pounds at five foot two. those disgusting fat girls scowl at me constantly but guess what? the guys like me better because i’m thin! i’m so embarrassed to be american with all the disgusting people we have here. also, russian girls are the best. <3 they're so cute!
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Well I think marrige is slavery men get married because they to lazy and worthless to do anything on their own. I enjoy being single a lot of the guys I know are jerks and a lot of my freinds were in abusive relationships. I will get revenge on men for what they have stolen from me. I want to be single my whole life I never dated and I never will because I think men are mean. All guys abuse women because they are scum. Skinny girls don’t like men. I always thought men headed for obese girls because they think that is curvy but it’s not it’s unhealthy. Men will always try to make their disgusting ugly girlfriends feel better by calling anyone under a size 16 anorxic. Girls are better than boys, girls rule.
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Why so much anger? Chill out, and enjoy life a little, what happened that you became so sour on men? Some men are frogs and some men are princes. If you want to a prince you have to be a princess or at least a Cinderella.
Hi Admin
I’ve been talking to a few skinny eastern europeans on the net, some for quite awhile and I’ll often get 2 or 3 page emails from them. I haven’t been trying to chat them up as I had no intentions of going there and hadn’t met them before – just been talking about their countries, culture, beliefs, views on life etc, and of course what they do in their everyday life.
Here in Oz, speaking to girls like this will get you in the ‘friends zone’ and there is no chance of you ever getting out. I have read in some of the other posts though, that maybe girls over there actually like an intelligent conversation … so my question to you is, do you think these girls will only see me as a friend or do you think they would be interested?
I’m going over later in the year now, just wondering whether you think I’m in the ‘friend zone’ with these girls and should just use the knowledge I’ve gained from them to try to meet a new girl while over there. Hopefully though, there will be some interest there, and I can meet up with a few and see if there is a real connection with one.
Cheers!
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