How to tell if a Russian girl scams or you?
If any Russian girl, or any girl ask you for money, for visa or airline tickets or for any reason she is a scammer. Drop her like a bad habit. Do you understand? Do not think too hard,it is true. Further, I recommend that you walk away and do not contact her again. I know this will hurt your feelings to hear this but you have to be strong and yield to the logic of the situation.
Why so many girl scammers in the world
Why? Much of the world is poor and 1000 dollars is a lot of money for someone, even 100 dollars is a good amount of money, so if they can get a few hundred dollars from a few guys, this is better than working in a shop all day, this is the mentality of a scammer.
Good Eastern European girls
However, I live in Eastern Europe, trust me. No self respecting girl in Europe or Asia would ask for money. Even if the world is poor they will not ask for money unless they are a scammer. A normal good girl you want to spend time with will not ask for money. In fact she will be ashamed if you try to offer her money.
Guys wake up. I live here. No normal girl would do this. I know scores of girls from Russia, Ukraine, Poland, China etc, however, not one normal girl would ever ask your for money, even if it was about a visa or a chance to see you. Trust me on this one. It is not in the culture of a respectable women. Maybe an American or UK women would do this, but not a Polish girl for example, at least not one I would ever date.
In fact, when my wife was my girlfriend and I offered to pay for anything like a trip, she did not like that at all, even if we had been dating for several years, and she would for sure not take money from me. Even now that we are married she still does not like it. Love is never about money.
My wife for example has no desire to live in the USA, unless I really wanted to, unless I dragged her there. I was a high flier in corporate America (at least I thought so), but she would prefer to live with me in Eastern Europe with me as a humble teacher than leave Eastern Europe for some desperate housewives/bay watch land.
Russian girls love Russia
Russian girls love Russia and want to stay if they can. I know many that had full visas in the US and moved back to their beloved Russia or had chances to go and did not. These are normal Russian girls.
The good girls I know would prefer to picnic in a local forest and not have a guy pay for some fancy vacation or sponsor her for a trip somewhere rather than to ask for money.
If a lady you have been corresponding with and asks for money for any reason, it is a scam.
If she does not scam you now, she will scam you when she is in the US and has a passport and can take half your money and your house. Do you understand? Money is not about love.
No normal girl wants you to sponsor her, get a green card or passport or visa, or ask for money or help in anyway.
Is this girl trying to scam you?
Take these steps to prevent yourself from being defrauded:
- Ask to talk on the phone and see how it feels, use your intuition.
- Research her on the Internet, look everything you know about her on search engines.
- Look up her ip address check projecthoneypot.org – where you can cross reference her ip found in the header of the e-mail under advanced options of your e-mail service or simply finding the show full header link.
Check IP for a Russia scam by clicking on 'full header' on your email
You can see if her IP is that of a spammer. Scamming is a form of Spam.
The Russian girl scam IP is under this full header tab
- Ask for a specific photo of her wearing something in a specific place. This way you know she is not sending the same photos to every other guy.
My best advice about Russian women
If you really want to smoke girls out, go and visit her. In fact you should do this anyway. I have have taken trips all over the world. Get a discount flight and book a cheap apartment and go there.
Tell you if you ever got married you want to live in Russia and see her reaction. Hey I live in Eastern Europe its great. If she loves you she will not care you are a teacher in Eastern Europe and she will not get a USA green card. Smoke her out. But use your intuition. No need to be overly cautious, just be aware and connect the dots.
The good news is most Russian girls are honest and normal. Further if you use the site I recommend on my website about girls chances are less. Most of the sites I recommend are not only free but more for people who live in Russia, therefore, these girls are not looking for foreigners.
What if you visit her and feel she is a fraud? No loss you can meet real good Russian girls everywhere on the same trip and you will forget about her in a heart beat.
34 responses to Russian girls scams
Hi.. This is Mayank from India.
Once I had been in contact (through Emails) with a russian girl (Anna Paksheeva). she sent me her photos of real life, her family and friends. Also she wanted to meet me in person like she offer me to visit russia.
But for me that time its not possible. I sure that she is very honest to me and for my love also. but I truely told her that I am married and It chances to meet her in real life. I think that she really loved me and Now she is got away from me and my emails. I am sure that the girl I met she is not fraud anyway.
I have had emails drop into my hotmail from several russian girls and Czech women. One russian girl asked specifically for money for the airline ticket! Ha! Another czech girl asked me for my bank account details so she could “Get her grandfather in Australia to transfer some money to her”. Yeah right – Identity fraud. Guys, be wary of these girls, they are mostly just scammers. Do not trust.
Where are you meeting these girls? Are they just random emails into your hotmail? That is so obviously a scam, just like any other random drops on any other subject.
Yes, I got few emails like that too. I just ignore it.. At least she didn’t make you fall in love with her and than drop you down taking your money. Ha-ha.
I have been in touch with a girl from who says she’s from Nizhniy Novgorod, Russia. She has sent me photos of her and photos of her with her family. She seems to be putting a lot of effort to see me. She went to an agency to plan her travels to my country (USA. She says she paid most of the fees, but is still short and has asked me to help with the rest of the cost. I have declined to send her money, but she still emails me and wants to visit me. Do I ignore her? Tell her that if she wants to visit she needs to figure it out? Amy suggestion would be helpful.
Could you take trip to Russia? What is wrong with that? If it does not work out here are a million other beautiful girls there you can meet so the trip would be worth it not matter if she is real or not. I do not have enough information. I am not sure what she is about. I think you can ask her about life and ask her questions, not as an interview about her favorite authors and writers, why she likes them etc. This will give you clues about her life view. This is what I would do.
Jason, it sounds like a clear scammer case to me. I would cut off contact with him/her immediately. That’s right I did say him because in many cases these scammers are not even women at all but men here in the US that fabricate pre-made emails to make it look like a personalized email to you. The golden rule for talking to any girl from another country that you have never met is to NEVER send money for any reason. These guys/girls are professionals at scamming and be very elaborate with the methods they use in asking for money. Move on from this one dude, trust me on this.
Admin & Guyver:
Thank you both for your advice. I’ve read so much on line regarding scams and I don’t intend on sending a penny. I would like to meet an Eastern European woman. Where is the best place for an American to go and hopefully meet someone in a “realistic” setting. I am definitely willing to travel. Do I go with one of those “mail-bride travel agencies”? Your help is greatly appreciated.
On my list is Krakow, Poland or anywhere in Poland, Western Ukraine like Lviv. Romania is nice and as well as Macedonia, Italy Greece. Russian girls are great, but you have to go there and meet them and really find the one you want.
I always just booked a flight and stayed in the cheapest place I could find from a youth hostel to a communist style hotel. Then spend my time chatting up girls and flirting while at the same time practicing languages, taking photos and learning about the culture. I really did not go to clubs or anything, rather talked to girls in normal places.
This is what I recommend. If you want a Russian girl go to St. Petersburg for example. Go and talk to normal girls and university students.
Hey I need some help. Ive been talking to a Russian girl for a while now. And she spoke about comming here. I met her on a dating site, emailed her, she told me to email to another account because she didn’t use that one much. That got me a bit suspicious, but I have 2 accounts to separate dating sites and normal stuff, so I’m not sure. She told me that she lives in a small apartment has no PC or phone and has to use an Internet cafe to email. She gave me an address to send her hand written letters, but I couldn’t even find the street on Google. She took photos of her passport, her holding the passport and a picture of her holding a paper saying “Carl I am real”. She said that she put in the papers to get the visa to come to Australia but sue has 7-10 days to pay and needs 240 USD. Much cheaper than taking a trip from Australia to Russia. I was almost convinced she was a scammer, but with the photos of passport and her with the paper, plus the fact I contacted her first I don’t know. Any suggestions on how I can handle this?
I think this is a total scam. Everyplace in Russia has a phone come on, I live in Eastern Europe, maybe some in a very remote village but I can not image that, even my relatives in the village with no running water have a phone.
I think it is a scam.
Even if the letters were heart felt it still seems like she is for you because you are from the west rather than for who you are.
Find a girl that does not ask for money. Or go and see her.
How could this girl have the money for an air ticket but not the visa?
But I would just forget her. I live in Eastern Europe and she sounds out of control scam player.
If I am wrong. You can keep in letter contact with her until you get more information if you really want.
Does she live in the city or a small town?
What does she do for work? Does she have a work address?
What school did she go to?
If you really want, call someone in the town where she lives as ask about her. I know it is rude but call a neighbor really check her out, but I think she is a scam.
Also to get a visa she needs an invitation from you and you could talk to the Australian embassy about if she is applying etc.
You want to meet Russian girls try some of the websites I have mentioned, then go to Russia.
I got to know a girl from someland.. I started chating with her about 2 years ago.. and I started loving her about after six months of knowing each other, that is, we made sure that we were in harmoney with each other, so that we decided to get married.. But her family refused completely our being together (maybe for our different background)..However to make our dreams come true, we had to sacrifice: she must sacrifice her family to live with me, and of course I had to sacrifice with most of my savings only to be together.. I made sure of all her family’s behavour towards her.
They told me to stay away from her.. and I was about to do this.. but her love forced me to fight for her..
For some circumstances, I could not travel to her, and her family formed one of such reasons behind that. So, I suggested her to come to me.. she was confused and afraid at the same time. BUt I insisted on her to do so. To do so, she had to leave her family, and she did so without they knew.. We met.. we enjoyed ourselves.. we spent the most beautiful days in our life together..
She never asked me anything.. and when I sent her something she got angry.. I paid for all her expenditures..
But after she returned, she had to face the anger of family and their refusing her return to the family.. They fed up her with warning about my cultural background.. They told her I bought her by money.. that was the main reason for her to break up with me.. She was too young to decide the save way… Then she chose the most worse way of hurting me so to made me hate her.. Actauly, she succeeded in doing so.. but she never thought how to stop her love for me. And surely, I was left with a broken heart..
Then my turn came to listen to some advices rather than to seek for the truth.. It was irreasonable to end everything easily.. We could have a chance to save our love if we listened to our hearts, but we listened to others who might not know how we felt towards each other.. I knew everything vanished, and the intruders have a bloody hand in the bleeding of our hearts..What I want to say is that it is not necessary that if you do not succeed in your love, your partner is a fraud.. This does not make sense.
In short, my advice here could be contrary to what has been posted above.. When you fell in love at the first sight, you can be afraid and cautious.. But the kind of love that comes after a period of time in chatting without any intentions or expections of being together from the begining.., I think it is a true love..
If you love a girl and you made sure of her love for you, you must sacrifice.. you must do everything to make your siginficant other happy, no matter how much you will spend on that.. lOVE does not value with all wealth.. When you make sure of the feelings of your partner.. do everything for her.. Do not suggest money or gifts for her.. however do it surprisingly because if you ask her what if needs money or anything else, it means that you are humiliating her..but try to find our her needs, and try to meet such needs without any ever-hint..Yes of course, your true parnter will not ask you for money or anything else.. But this does not mean that you live in luxuory, and she is there having a burning desire to be close to you..and she might be wasting her time in waiting for you..This is unfair.. Love is to share.. do not care if you lose money without reaching your aims.. It is rediculous to live with your partner without any sense of sharing..Even after marriage.. whta is wrong if your wife asks for money or anything else. Doing so makes the family relationships more strong.. and that supports the family bonds.. because the man is the main source for his parnter..
Fight for your love..
Russian girls scams
Russian dating agency scams - what I did
I signed up with a certain dating agency some time ago, I cancelled the account after they ask me for money as I didn’t want to pay them any money to find me a woman. Sometime later, about a week ago, I was contacted by a young lady who tells me she also used an agency and this is how she contacted me. Obviously interested, I replied. Her emails have seemed somewhat genuine, telling me about her family, what she does for work, what she does in spare time and also her thoughts on on love and how she wants to find her soul mate,to go for walks, talk and make love together. It all sounds pretty swell but i’m trying to read between the lines to tell whether it’s a fraud. I’ve asked her if she has cell phone so we can speak,waiting reply back as I type this. She has mentioned that she is coming to the uk next month for holiday, so i’m thinking if she come here and doesn’t ask me for money before then it’s all good, vise versa then they can hit the road. I did ask her what she thought about me coming to see her there, but she didn’t answer that question in her reply…Could it be that it was to early days to say I would do this, maybe this is to eager, or maybe its some scum bag trying to get my hard earnt cash. Any views would be welcome.
One other thing people. She told me she lives in Sosnovka, i’m pretty sure this is in El Mari, from what I hear this is the scam hub right??
But why would a scamer tell me they are from here?
Are they that stupid? Or could it be a true russian girl looking for love, but who happens to live in scammerville?
I’ve taken your advice given to another user, to ggle a part of the letter and it came up with some other guys letter that was exactly the same. The dirty scamming scumbags.
How can I find where they live.. I’d like to take a trip to Russia to see the scammers with my friends and see how they like my dark side, maybe I’ll find a genuine girl at the same time.
2 birds 1 stone!
You have to go to Russia. Best on your own and travel. I went to Poland and Ukraine and Russia and traveled. I did this on my own. I learned a little of the languages and sure enough I meet my princess.
If you come off the plane in cargo shorts and an American t-shirt not speaking a word of Russian you might be seen as a meal ticket.
Try it my way. Travel to off the beaten path to strange places, take language classes, mingle with people. You will find a princess. The real princesses that bring you happiness all the days of your life are a little harder to find.
My it Mark’s way (me). I can advise you if you need it on how and where to go and how to go about it. How old are you? Do you have a career job or can you take time off?
I think i will go there for a trip, i’d like to see Russia and meet some real Russian people that are not spending there time scr_wing other people over.
I can easily take time out to go there. I am a young man, so I’m sure I’d do alright.
I would recommend that after you have a visa, you travel to St. Petersburg. It has a different feel than Moscow.
I also recommend Ukraine and forget Russia and the visa and high priced hotels. In Ukraine you do not need a visa and travel is unrestricted. You can go to Crimea and all the small resort towns from May to September and meet all the Russian girls on vacation you would ever dream of. Girls from small country towns to Moscow. Crimea is an amazing place if you like nature and history. You can camp out, teach English in the city of Simferopol etc.
Crimea is not Odessa. Crimea is not Yalta, it is all the towns on the east side from Yalta to Feodosia. Focus on that. If you have any questions or have your heart set on Russia let me know.
Thanks for the info. Very useful and much appreciated. I am still getiing emails from my fake russian girl…Thinking of what to do!
I have a passport picture of a girl from Donestka. we have been talking from awhile she has never asked me for money. but i need to find out if she is real? Need some help?
projecthoneypot.org/search_ip.php If you want to know if your Russian girl is a scam check the mail full header and compare the original IP address with this anti-spam site indicate here.
Now just because her IP shows on the project honeypot does not mean it is a scam. My ip shows there because I live in Eastern Europe and share that IP with and internet cafe. This is very common in Eastern Europe to safe money.
However, if does raise a red flag.
Meet a girl in Romania on a web cam chat website
Guys I need help deciding if this is a go or a no go situation. I meet this girl from Bucharest Romania a few months ago , she had started working on a cam site and we started talking, I got to know more of her, we exchange emails, Skype ids and we started talking.
We have done a lot of web cam chat, she no longer works at the cam site, since I told her not to. The thing is , she just needed money for rent and food, I told her I could care for her and if she wanted she could come to live with me, no strings attached, she told me she was currently studying and needed to finish the semester, so in the mean time we could get to know each other better.
I help her with 300 dollars for rent and food, she show me her id card and bank account info on webcam and send me in email I do have front and back of her card, she even gave me password to her email account.
At least one of them I just found out she has another one, anyhow, all was ok till she had a big stomach and back pain issue and she went to doctor and it was kidney stones, she took treatment and ask for help.
I did to a certain point and well its all back to normal, now she tells me she checked passport and she can have everything ready to come to my place in January (its end of November now) but she need to finish this semester and get papers ready for transfer.
That is one of the thing her mother had wanted ( she pass away recently , also she doesnt really likes talking about it) anyway, she is now requesting more money to do this, and I told her I could help her if i could go see her, and she got upset, telling me if I could not trust her, that how could a new relationship start without trust.
She told me I could go on Jan instead of Dec, but thing is she needs the money before Dec. 20th. In conclusion, I don’t know if its good to continue helping or just let it be. She does look legal, but that thing of not wanting me to go on Dec trip me off, any advice?
Eastern European girls - money - foreign men
Girls and money are a dangerous combination in Eastern Europe. Let me tell you a story and my view on this. I meet this girl in Poland, she was one of my students and she worked for phone chat line, and you can imagine what kind. However, the ironic thing is she never had a boyfriend and was innocent as snow-white. Eastern Europe is a place where people need money more than in the West as it was poor for so long. I know I lived there. However, I personally do not know any girls that would take money from a stranger without meeting them. I am not saying she is scamming you at all, but most girls I know in Eastern Europe would say no, no matter how poor they are. They would not feel right.
Some girls would take it, but I personally would not want to go out with those girls, but everyone has to make their own choices. It is not the money because if you have a good job 300 dollars is not a lot of money. It is the idea of taking money from a foreign man who you are not engaged to or in a serious one on one relationship with. Ask yourself if you were in that situation would you do it? Maybe I am wrong here but when you start to enter situational ethics and conditional maybe I would, this is an indicator if someone would pursue that type of thinking in more important relationship issues, such as divorce.
If you find a girl who would never take money even if in need, but still wants to be with you, this is a girl who would be loyal and true. There are too many girls out there, there are plenty of fish in the sea. I know I sound hard. I am not. I do not think she is scamming you, I just question a girl who would take cash from a foreigner without service or work in exchange. I mean respectable work. If you offered her basic work like, writing or webs design or selling things online for you in exchange for money. This would be different.
Also the type of job a girl has done tells you a lot about them. I know a guy who married a pole dancer of the less respectable kind and it was a horrible marriage. If a girl does a questionable job in my mind she has crossed the line and it could be an indication of character.
Further, Romanians, or Polish girls or Russian girls that tell you they are poor do not believe it. I lived in Poland for about ten years. Yes it is poorer than the West but this is the EU or Europe. Free medical care, free education, right to work and travel in a market that is bigger than the USA. My wife when she was in school was working at a diagnostic laboratory and made about 300 dollars a month, and this was in a time of 20% unemployment. She survived fine, because people in Eastern Europe know how to survive on little money. So I do not believe any sob stories coming from Eastern Europe because I lived there, I am a citizen of Poland, I think many people who play victim are better off than I.
When a girl says a relationship is based on trust, she loses my trust. Trust is like faith, it is not something that is talked about openly too much but is just lived. When you start using it as a word of behavior modification in a relationship that is not matured and real life, it is Machiavellian.
Again I am not saying she is a scammer at all. I am not saying she is a bad girl and I might be wrong, but I personally see the world different.
Why do you not just go to Romania and visit her unexpected. You could do it on a general trip to meet girls, and stop by her place also. I am telling your there are a zillion nice good girls in Eastern Europe, I would be careful before I lasso my wagon to her star or any girl for a long-term relationship until I trust her from my heart and the word is not mentioned.
In my experience in life if I am unsure about a person, my intuitive doubt is usually right. If you are not sure you trust a girl, then you do not trust them, and for a reason.
Russian girls scams
Russian studentka who accepts a sponsor
I am from Russia and personally would not take any money from a man, unless I was married, we were husband and wife. A man sponsoring a girl on a trip to Egypt or Greece or helping with studies does happen in Russia, but I would not do it. It clearly changes the nature of the relationship from the start. At some level it is a toxic relationship.
It does not sound like you are doing that, but even to introduce money into the relationship early clouds the truth. Love is love,energy from the Divine. Money is something else, it is a man-made tool which represents a store of our productive activities, that we use to achieve our dreams.
When a university studentka takes money from a man, there is an exchange of energy. All the universe is energy and when you accept money from someone it is an exchange of energy.
Imagine that we are just Divine beings made of a colorful energy pattern. Auras if you will. Now imagine one energy glob takes energy from another energy glob.Is this coming from the heart center or another center?
A Russian Studentka – this is the word for in Eastern Europe for a University student that is a girl, (note the an ending indicating it is female) – accepts money, accepts an offer from a man for money, even if there is nothing going on in the bedroom, this is called sponsoring.
If you look at classified ads in Eastern Europe you will see many Russian student girls looking for sponsors. Well, I nor any of my friends would accept such a thing. We would be offended and walk away with a little fear in us.
When Admin, writes girls and money are a dangerous game, I do not think he is writing that to be sexist, but rather that it messes up the energy exchange and dynamic between men and woman early on in a relationship.
If a studentka accepts money from a man, deep down she knows as a female, the relationship will never be the same. It does not matter if she is a scammer or not. I would say no, she is not a scammer. However, she did take money from you and it spoiled the energy exchange.
Look up the work sponsoring on any classified ad, ‘student looking for sponsor’, if you do not speak Russian or Romanian you can can look using a translate tool. When you scan through those classified ‘announcements’ then I think your eyes will be open and you will have your answer.
Look for girls that are not about money at all. That would rather drop out of school than accept money from a foreigner.
Russian girls scams
What men need to know about finding a wife
II ask quite simply, being a dedicated full-time farmer, can someone please let me know or point me in the right direction to find a girlfriend and where on the internet can I find a genuine woman (above 21 years old, and not scams, as a trusting sort I have been asked for and have sent money to help with travel and their family) to spend the rest of my life with. Kindest regards.
There are so many girls that would love to meet you, you can not imagine. I think there is no easy answer. I wish I could say, go to this website and this is where your wife is. It is a bit more complicated than that. You need to be willing to travel to these countries, try different websites, explore my website as I have given a lot of advice about how to find a wife, including an article by that title. If you are looking for a good girl why not consider Poland. I think this is one of the sweet spots in the universe for good girls that are sincere. If you are a farmer I would consider a girl from the countryside like Eastern Poland over the cities as the charater of the people are different.
Please let me know more about what you have tried or what you are thinking and I can guide you better. I would explore myself site as I have listed a number of websites to try.
Polish websites for looking for a wife
HI, Thank you for helping, since I have worked with a few Polish men who came over here. I learnt how to speak some Polish. However I have looked your ‘How to find a wife’ and cannot see any websites. can you please suggest a site?
Kindest regards
William
If you know Polish I am impressed, even a few words becaue it is difficult to pronounce. I would recommend the following websites to meet Polish girls. If you need to use a translate tool it is worth it. I would say most Polish girls know English because they studied it in school.
sympatia.onet.pl
znajomi.interia.pl/randki/
nk.pl – not a dating site but like a Polish Facebook
You could try these to start and let me know how you do.
If you want other countries in Eastern Europe let me know this too. There are many nice Russian and Ukrainian girls but Polish girls are sweet,the country is a normal EU and the chance of a scam is like zero to none, in fact the economy is pretty hot there with no crisis, even though wages are lower. The girls generally are religious if that is important to you and many have connections to the countryside and farming. Western Ukraine is another great place.
Yay or nay- Russian girl scam?
Hi I would like to know what your opinion is on this girl I met online. Not sure how old this site is so I hope it’s still active :O
I registered on a dating site a few months back. About 2 months ago I contacted this beautiful, blonde Swedish girl and we started talking via the on-site messaging service. It went really well and after about 20 replies between us our messages had grown from 1 line to small essays. She never brought up any alternative chat programs or email addresses as I hear scammers often do. I eventually brought up Facebook as I thought this would give me a glimpse into her life and help the over-cautious man inside me relax a bit. She friended me on Facebook without avoiding it at all and I couldn’t find anything out of the ordinary.
She had the idea that we should talk on Skype, which we did (with video) so it was immediately clear to me that this was the same person. We have done this plenty times over the last month and are also talking every day on a messaging program on our phones.
Up till now she has not even hinted at wanting money from me and I have also made sure that she knows that I am a poor student. We have become closer and affectionate towards each other and we are discussing me going to visit her. She has even mentioned paying half the plane ticket because it’s something we both want and of course I would be staying with her for free since she has her own place.
So there is really no reason, that I’m aware of, to not trust her. Could this still be a scam in some way or should my overly cautious inner persona take a break and accept that this could be one of those love stories that actually ends happily?
Regards
Wary
She is innocent unless she gives you real concrete reason that she is guilty. Most scammers start to play some sob story to set things up before you ever meet them. A Russian woman scammer is unlikely to give you her address and invite you to stay with her. Maybe, but they prefer to ht you up for money before you ever meet them. They are working hundreds of scams as the same time and it is not effcient to operated in any other way then remote via the Internet.
So I would say she is most likely not a Russian scammer girl but a normal girl. However, that being said, with any girl or relationship I try to see if the person has values in accordance with my world view. If she cares about ideals and marriage for alway. Or does she believe in a higher power or attends church, what is the source of her morality and where does it lead her in life.
Maybe I am old fashion but this means something. Someone who takes their ideals or faith seriously and authentically is less likely to betray their own internal moral compass when times get hard.
Just a check on a girl
Well, I have been talking to this girl since 3 years and now planning to meet her. I have skyped her, called her numerous times and truly like her. What’s your view? Are there other risks too? Do you think she could have any bad intention? I don’t feel anything like it at all, but just asking.
Girls that want to scam you do it in a few months but three years of communication, and ask for money and do not want to meet, I would think. I do not have all the information about how your rapport when with her but I do not think Rusian girl scams operate like that, that is skyping a guy for three years and then wanting to meet.
@TLD 3 years? Wow, you sure know how to keep them waiting. I met my Russian girlfriend after 6 months. We met in Thailand and she never asked for money and paid her own way. Don’t make your girl wait any longer.
@Frank – total scam. Young people almost never get kidney stones and medical treatment is free in most countries (the US is one of the few countries where you need money for health treatment). Education / University is also free – she probably lives with her mum (who is still alive) and doesn’t even pay rent. If she’s willing to do cam work then she has low morals and is lazy (quick money for no effort). Even if she really is a girl (and not a Nigerian scammer), she is a gold-digger and you will be funding her lifestyle forever.
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