Comments on: Polish girls in London

By: Campbell

Campbell — Sun, 21 Aug 2011 14:11:24 +0000

There is’nt much of a shared British culture in London anymore.When you have a place so crowded with different people with their own ideals on how to live their lives,a shared culture is not an easy thing to have,especially when the government has no interest in keeping one.The only cultural thing Londoners seem to share is a freedom and acceptance to live and think how they want without much judgement.I agree with what some have said here regarding London women but the point alot of you are missing is if your a young adult now living in a major City in the West and wish to have a nice house,nice cars and a decent future for your children you usually have to have both partners working full time and this in turn means these women are far more assertive.If Eastern countries wish to keep their traditional lifestyle of only the man working full time while the woman stays at home cleaning and looking after the children then there is a big price to pay,they will not be able to keep up with the countries who use double the workforce and economically will be left far behind.Countries like Poland discriminate against their own female workforce and when these women do come to places like London and realise they can earn their own money and don’t need to rely on a man its very empowering for them.Prior to these times the important thing for a woman was finding a good man who would treat her well and earn good money to keep her and her children happy and well provided.Now women also have to worry about their own careers aswel as a family life.Polish women in London who go back to Poland are only showing what the future holds for the rest of the majority of the female population in Poland.

By: admin

admin — Sun, 21 Aug 2011 07:32:35 +0000

Meet the Polish girls with ideals, values faith in God and you will not have this type of behavior. Every society has good and bad. Many Polish girls are abandoning their values because they idealizes the west. I would not live about people like that or associate with people like that.

By: admin

admin — Sun, 21 Aug 2011 07:28:44 +0000

I am very sorry about your expience, but Polish guys I know are good fathers. I know countless Polish guys, maybe not every one, but I see them in Church every sunday and in my lessons and in the coutryside and they are honest good humans. Now in every society you have the hip and cool new generation that does not care about moral and want to sleep with people and swear, but I do not swear and my friends do not and I do not go to pubs or drink.
Hang out with Polish guys who read philosphy and are interested in Monet and Mozart and I think you will have a different view. If you hang out with Polish guys that go to pubs then it will be a different story.
I never hang out with my friends, only my wife. She is the center of my world as is my daughter. I am not perfect but I am trying to say, girls if you want a good many, look for one with ideals and morals.
Your child is Polish and try to understand the greatness of Polish culture and teach your child the good things about Poland. I am very sorry all this happened to you but do not let yourself get pulled into the dark side. Read a book called Unbound by Neal Lozano if negativity is strong.
I do not mean to say anything wrong about English or Irish culture, I guess I am rejecting western decline in morals. There are good and bad in all people.

By: sharon

sharon — Sat, 20 Aug 2011 23:52:45 +0000

I am writing this now a my Polish neighbours have had party and all went bannanas. The girls dressed in the attire that Mac descriged:) Two Polish girls have been screaming and fighting with two Polish boys. It got physical and one of the girls picked up a bike and threw it at one of the guys. Both girls threw punches. Police where called! Mayb these girls where disco polo girls from the looks of them and sound of horrible techno music! You have idealistic vision of Polish girls some of them are as common as Vicky pollard from “little Britain” with hoopey earings and swear bad words this in that! I lived in Krakow for a while and meet some really nice girls but the ones who are living in my town are giving Polish girls a bad name. They may be skinny but they are acting ugly.

By: sharon

sharon — Sat, 20 Aug 2011 23:36:42 +0000

Polish men should come with a health/hazard warning. From my experience they lie and are morally bankKrupt. I think they seek out English/ Irish girls just to use them to get started in the country they go to. I got caught and am left to raise my child who is half Polish as Polish guy disappeared. This is normal to most polish guys to abandon their kids. Both back in Poland and to the country they migrate to. As someone pointed out to me ” they should of kept the Berlin wall up” No wonder Polish girls are so serious and strong. They have to put up with irresponsible morally bankrupt Polish men.

By: David Sanderson

David Sanderson — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 15:00:55 +0000

You should let him stay, I’m very happy with my Polish partner. I have been to Poland several times, I like the country and people, I know the basics of the language (Why is Polish so difficult?), I like Polish food and culture but retain my own culture and identity, Spatula is angry, he generalises, the truth is, there are good and bad Poles, good and bad British, good and bad in all societies, I am lucky in that I experience two different cultures, I like my Lech, Kielbasa and listen to Polish music, my partner likes tea in the mornings, sunday roasts and loves British comedy programmes, it’s all about being open minded.

By: admin

admin — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 17:40:09 +0000

I am trying to clean any hostile things up, as I have over 10,000 comments. I delete I would say 80% of the comments people leave here and yet some get though. But on the other hand I try not to be too restrictive only if they are out of control. If you find anything really bad e-mail me and I can delete those parts of comments.

By: admin

admin — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 17:37:01 +0000

I got my Masters degree while working physical labor myself.

By: admin

admin — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 17:35:09 +0000

I kicked him off the forum. I do not want to promote anytthing but peace and love. I sometime say bold or controveral things but I can not stand people who even use the word ‘h_te’.

By: admin

admin — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 17:27:41 +0000

It is great that you have been married for four years to a beautiful Polish woman. People do not care anymore, or I think most do not about poltical boarders when it comes to love and dating. Political boarders are studpid, cause war and create problems. That is why we have the EU. It is to promote openess for all.
However, values do matter. Values are something that is closely connected to character and how a person behaves in stressful situations. Not on the honeymoon. Value are not a religion as you are your religion.

If you have similar values with your wife I am sure you will continue to grow in love.

I had no idea that Brit was off the list, sorry. That is good to know. I though it was like Swede, Pole or Scot. My brother’s family is British and never made a connection. Further, I have to say a great number of British people have been very kind to me. If I have ever poke fun at them it is more the football, beer drinking guys. But you know they are not that bad. They come through town dressed in crazy outfits, but really they seem like nice guys just cutting lose and harming very little.

What I do object to is the whole idea that values and marriage have not the same deep meaning it should. I have see many breakups, even a guy in my buiding who was married to a Polish girl and just packed up and left. I would not do that. I think it comes from Western European modern culture that marriage is good but if you are not happy just leave.

But most British people I know personally I am deeply and I mean deeply thankful to.

I am 100% Polish people and British people and Americans marrying from different cutures. I just warn people that race and culture and education and money do not matter, but values and maybe religion does. As this is something that is the glue that holds relationships together.

You can have two ethical athiests married as long as they see eye to eye on the values thing.

You can have an African and a British or a Polish person married, even of different religion, but if they both believe in God and live according to a mutual understanding of what God’s will is then this relationship will most likely work.

Polish people are very open to other cultures, and races. What is important to them is value, family value, faith. This is the base which relationships are build. Romantic love brings people that should never be brought together. I think most Polish people understand that family values are more important than looks, money or anything else. This I think is wisdom.