Polish girls in London
I know this sounds hard but many of the Polish girls in London are not in some people’s eyes optimal selections if you are looking for a bride. This is so because many have their egos inflated. I am an American living in Poland and I have seen normal girls come back from London with such huge egos that you are better off not trying to marry London girls. Maybe this is not totally true in every case, but it does become a problem if they have lived there longer than half a year. They feel super self-confident and go to an extreme to try be different than the women in Poland.
Often Polish girls in London will even come back to Poland and say they are English if they have lived there for several years or talk back about Poland. I do not like this social phenomenon. I do not like when any one person judges another country or people.
This is often the reaction of many immigrants into their new countries, they adopt the values of their host country very quickly and over react so to speak. Alternatively it could be said to be their egos reaction to living in a big city. London is a big city and many country Polish girls that immigrate to the city of London act different. It happens to many people who move from the country to the city. Therefore, my conclusion is maybe many are not this way but be aware if you hear a Polish girls in the UK talking down about her own country, this is because of her ego trying to differentiate herself from others.
Where to meet Polish girls in London
That being said there are many Polish singles. London is too big to meet Polish girls on the street, at least your dream girl, maybe try the Internet. There are many Polish UK dating sites. I would start there. But there is a better place than London, why not Poland? I meet my wife in Kraków, so Poland will always be the best place to meet Polish girls. However, at the end of this post I do give you some recommendations of concrete places to meet them online.
Why Polish girls not ideal for UK guys in some cases
Despite the proximity in Europe and of course Poles and Brits have a bit of a different point of view when it comes to family and values. Some positive things about the English are they are open and receptive to immigrants and new ideas, they have a good sense of humor and have given the world so much in terms of language and culture. Ethnicity is never an issue in relationships, it is an individuals relationship to their culture and others that are important. This is an important point. Some things that are a factor if you are a Polish girl in London and meet a native Londoner consider this:
- Polish girls learn English but when in a relationship, rarely do English guys speak Polish most of the time. I think this is unfair. I learned Polish out of respect for another culture. Learn the language of your love, I think this is fair.
- Polish girls are very religious, Brits are not. You can look up an statistic on Wiki or elsewhere. To the person who is the non religious person they are often like what is the big deal man? It might not matter to the groom but to the bride it means something. The groom will say that people are in church are hypocrites, but who is he to judge, let the maker of all thing decide and accept people of faith. It will be an issue, at some point if someone is judgemental. It is important to the woman (I assume the women is the Pole as I have never meet a Polish guy go for an London girl for some reason). On the other hand my brother’s family is British and this is not the case but they are immigrants. But it is something that you have to decide is important to you as an individual or how you will raise your children. For example, just 38% of the British believe in God. That is pretty low considering it was once a country of faith. Typically a Polish girl really wants a traditional church wedding and the British guy will agree but it is either way for him.
- Polish girls do not drink heavy, Brits statically out rank the Poles in consumption per liter by a long shot. Statically the Poles are not in the top twenty. Maybe it has something to do with the footballers culture in London, but I do not know any Polish girl that likes this. Poland had this problem 20 years ago and changed since and it seems London has not yet given up their love of this culture.
- Polish girls are warm and are idealistic about love, Brits are not. A typical Polish girl wants to meet her one and only and dreams of a prince. I know, I live here and I know how the girls are. Of course not every Polish girls but they grew up with a classical education reading romantic literature (like I did). However, I have seen some very nice English guys come to Poland and many are very into Shakespeare and literature so it is not true in every case. However, it is something to be aware of. continental Europe has a different ethos.
- Two different cultures do not mean relationships can not work but the individuals need awareness that they have to be flexible and accepting and open minded. I have seen marriages between Brits and Polish girls and they are not as optimal as between Americans or Irish guys. England use to be a very moral place, however, new secularism and post modern thinking changes their morals. It is not that Londoners are not moral, rather they have different morals. Not all English are like this but many embrace this new modern thinking. It is only a cultural statistic.
- UK has double single parent homes in the last 15 years, is this a tend you want to see? In Poland it is a rarity. The good news is, immigrants from all over the world moving into England is a good thing as perhaps it will change the country’s values back for the better. Its only about culture and not at all about the British people, many who are fine people.
The bottom line is the cultures between Italian and Poles are similar, or between Irish and Poles, or Poles and Greeks or Poles and any culture that focuses on old European social values. For example Indian and Chinese have good marriages with Poles if they are more traditional. If you have an Indian guy in London with a Polish girl as long as they both come from the same point of view in life all is fine. But the English culture is a little bit different from the traditional Polish culture which has God and family above everything else, maybe I am wrong. I am open to hearing different views. Just remeber to not attack people and use good grammar and punctuation in your comments.
This being said I think marriages between Polish and English can work out very well, after all look at Norman Davies. There are many examples of great marriages, but I just go in with your eyes open that the cultures are a bit different.
If you aware about how cultures in the world are different and if you are willing to accept the differences in culture try the following online resources for meeting, chatting and dating and maybe you will meet a lady in Europe’s second largest metropolitan area:
- Gumtree.com – Free classifieds. Countless London and UK ads as well as a large Polish section under ‘other coutries’.
- polishdating.co.uk – This is free and mostly the English language.
- anotherfriend.com – An Irish based dating site with a lot of Poles and geographically diverse, I think it is a pay site but very trustworthy as it is on of the oldest in the Isles.
There are my personal recommendations to meet Polish girls in London:
The Polish site interia.pl and onet.pl which has their own dating Portals which you can screen girls for the London area.
- znajomi.interia.pl/randki – This is free, use a translate tool if you need help.
- sympatia.onet.pl/ – This is free and maybe pay, I think this is maybe the largest and your best choice to for Central London or screening for suburbs.
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67 responses to Polish girls in London
That is the way it is. In the UK and London many women tend to like guys that look like bouncers and have a wallet like a rich business guy. Polish girls prefer charm and intelligence. If you are open minded about dating girls from around the world your life will be richer than you could ever have pursuing the money. Who you fall in love with is the most important think in your life.
The thing I’ve found about girls from eastern europe (I’ve dated Russians, a Czech, a Slovak & a Bulgarian – would LIKE to meet a Polish girl!), is that they either come to London with a boyfriend, or if single, become too much like English girls!
In their home country they seem to choose men on the basis of how they feel about them, regardless of looks. I’ve mentioned to my g/f’s that “a beautiful English girl probably wouldn’t go out with a man who wasn’t very good looking” & they answered “they go out with whoever they like & who is there”!
Here, they suddenly get chatted up & told how stunning they are and over time start to become obsessed with image & looks…..not willing to go out with anyone below a certain standard of appearance.
I would only ever go out with a Poilsh girl who had been in London for a few years and was used to all the attention she would get here.
Admin,
Your comment “Richard Dawkins is the biggest fanatic I know who tries to convert people to his way of thinking.” made me laugh!
Don’t you think the church are the biggest fanatics, trying to force people into their way of thinking?! With hundreds of years of killing people who disagreed with them, terrifying people that they’ll burn in hell for not following their rules & loads of other disgusting indoctrination!
The sooner the peoples of the planet wake up & realise that religion is nothing but a control mechanism, invented by those in power, to control the masses through fear, the sooner the world can move forward!
And Spatula – if you are a Polish man, then by following the stereotypes that you seem to enjoy stating, you are a shaven headed, gym obsessed builder/plumber, living in London, drinking constantly, only speaking to other Poles & refusing to mix with any other nationality. You are incredibly racist & intolerant and also obsessed with money.
I agree that many English girls seem more interested in getting drunk & behaving like the men that for many years they slated, but to say all people of a nation are fat & ugly is as ridiculous as my statement above!
I do not know Reece don’t you think the three biggest ideologies without God in about 20 years, Stalinism and the other two you know I do not even want to write their names (connected with Germany and China). Destroyed more human life than anyone. True religion does not do this, greedy, political men do. Understand the difference.
Dawkisnism is a little ridiculous from an epistemology view as he attacks paper tigers like evolution but can not answer ‘why there is something and not nothing?’ ‘Why is there anything at all’, and other more radical questions. He brings you back to square one. I think you have to understand there is a complex stratification of reality (Hegel), and to fully explain our exsistence, you have to look at man and universe in all dimensions and step back, rather than the fanatic bloated with self right Dawkinites who use his works like the new sacred texts.
Baptists for example, have no pretense, they would like you to convert. Dawkinites are self righteous as heck, and look down intellectually on none believers of Dawkinsim. It is interesting his ‘truth’ is one of the most expensive books in the bookstore. Lets get back to Polish girls in London.
Funny enough.. Athiesm has also been a tool of mind control, brainwashing and enslavement. In case you forgot, in the 20th century, athiests have been responsible for more deaths then any other group alone. Does the names Joesph Stalin, Mao Zedung ring a bell to you? How many millions nad millions met a horrible death for refusing to obey or worship the “state” or the communist leadership.
Religion is not the problem, people are the problem. As you can see with all the brutal dictators they will take any philosophy and twist it in their favor. It seems that athiesm has been a very effective tool of slaving and destroying not only the lives of many civilizaitons, but also their cultures, as well.
Admin, has got it right here..
As for British women being carousers and man-like, I think you hit it spot on.
Don’t konw much about POlish women in London, but I don’t think I will go to London to meet Polish girls; I guess thats why there is a Poland, right?
I met a nice polish girl in Heathrow terminal 3 working in emirates lounge in catering department, her name is Agatha and I lost her contact information. That is all I know about her. Is there any chance to contact her.Thanks
It is one of the most common names in Poland. Do you know where she lived? If so you could try Nasza Klasa – but most likely it was not meant to be if you could not remember or find her contact information.
Its a real bummer but seems true – women get corrupted once coming to the US/UK.
I have seen it happen to Australians, Canadians, Russians, Filipinas, New Zealanders, Irish women, etc. I experienced this in stereo while living in New York City last year.
I have this fantasy about finding and bringing back a Polish or Ukranian bride to the USA, but I would be worried that either she would hate it here and/or worse – become corrupted by the culture.
What the hell is it with these western women?? This is not going to change anytime soon unfortunately.
Drew, you really are correct in your observation. It was like an old Ethiopian friend told me about his own Ethiopian women, “Once the women drink the water in this country, they are never the same.”
Western women and their even more evil, western women wannabees are a disgrace to all humanity. They are told to give their hearts to superficial, selfish and material desires. Women here focus on pleasing themselves and their selfish vain desires. They are taught to think like fresh from the womb.
The mother will always say to her, oh you need to go to college, get a good career and make lot of money. They also say you must find a rich man, who is tall and good looking. Its all about what people look like, how much money they have and how much presitge they can acquire. These girls are taught to “Empower” themselves by not doing those things their great-grandmohters would have done, such as: finding a loving husband, being a wife, being a mother.
Many women believe having children is disgraceful, as it limits their prestige. Most women are out to make a name for themselves and they will do so by any means neccessary. A biblical analogy I like to use is this is a nation of Eves, not Marys or Sarahs. They love to indulge in the forbidden fruit and take everyone down to hell with them who gives into their selfish and carnal lusts. Once upon a time, the society was flourishing with Marys and Sarahs, who were kind, respectful, motherly and loyal.
Today, we have selfish women who never will commit to anything and feel their achievement is to possess the most money, material possessions, biggest piece of male meat and to indulge in all the childish carnal activities of her hearts desire. However, these American h*rlots are never happy, never satisified with their overindulgance of superficial carnal pleasures. They end up growing up into old, bitter and unloved women. Most end up divorce. Once their beauty fades they are reviled and eschewed.
I am a “Polish girl”. Do not migrated because I haven’t felt such a need, I work here, and loved ones. Maybe one day I will go somewhere but not for money but to know other nationalities. I found your forum already searching for information about how treat my compatriot abroad. I know is that often the girls are leaving to the UK more than modest loving event. I also had a friend, a very modest one mile girl, went to UK with her boyfriend. Changed beyond recognition. I am really sorry because she started to treat me as someone of a lower category. I know that in Poland, it’s not to live easy but we haven’t any regime, and if someone really wants it can get high. People traveling from abroad with money, it usually tion reaching the easy way.
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Hey every one,
I am Iranian/British guy living in London UK and have been living here for a while (almost 14 years).
I work as a director in one of the world biggest consultancy companies and earn decent salary.(just told you to let you know that I am not struggling for money and the only reason that I am after a polish girl is that I have heard they make very good partner)
recently I joined a polish dating website in UK, I find polish girls kind of different to normal girls, not sure if it is my look (obviously look middle eastern or is it my race).
I receive load of smiles and kisses and my next move is to send a message and provide my email address (because lots of these girls are not paid member) or if they are paid member I would request for a chat.
Both ways have been unsuccessful so far I mean no emails and most of the chat requests has been refused.
Sometimes I get lucky and my chat request gets accepted and first two sentences are you do not look English where r u from?
And by the time I say that I am originally from Iran the girl disappears or the chat gets disconnected.
You might suggest that just put an English name rather than Kam and tell them you are Spanish but I just want to know the logic behind it
I am wondering are they really racist or am I doing something wrong? any advice would be appreciated.
Guys,
I’m Polish too and I’m a woman. I do not think that polish girls are oh so beautiful at all. some are, some are not. they like to look after themselves and what you see on the streets is mostly very feminine look. now they exaggerate with looking after themselves at any price too. They overdo sun tanning bothes (knowing how bad they are for your skin.) and constantly obsess with dieting instead of eating healthy food n cutting down on sweets. there’s (unfortunately.) this Polish thinking that Polish girls are the most beautiful girls in the whole world. You hear it all the time. No they are not. And there is no such thing as any most beautiful nation whatsoever. Just get this.
There is a lot of pressure in my country put on looks n being super slim.
About British girls: I think they are more subtle when it comes to their looks. they are pretty, always have good hair and it looks healthy, by the way how do you do achieve it using hair straighteners I don’t know, please share the secret
. they seem bigger than most polish girls. I bet most Polish girls would love to have their chests 
. most of my Polish friends are flat chested and have issues about it. British girls definitely know how to do a better, more natural looking make up. that’s what I’ve noticed.And I like them, yes I do. also because they’re confident without being stuck up.
Monika, thanks for the insiders perspective. However, I hear this from many Polish girls. Polish women are not that pretty. Why? Simple, because you are not a man. Women and men see beauty differently.
Also you are Polish. Poland is the land I love but many Polish people do not have an inflated opinion about themselves. A Polish girl will have a masters degree from a good school (something which only 11% of Americans and Brits have), speak Polish, English and another language, know everything about classic literature and history and maybe even play a musical instrument, cook, respect and love their family, dress with style and consider their moral actions even if they do not like the Church in theory. A Polish girl will have beautiful natural features not like some over done western girl with too much make up trying to compensate. About being flat chested, who cares you have a baby or two and problem solved.
The Polish girls I know do not obsesses about their weight at least much less then British girls and are thinner. I do not have any friends that go for ‘solarium chicks’ – that is girls that sun tan, it looks gouche and uncultured. Only Polish girls living in the blocks without a clue do this.
Polish girls in the eyes of a British or American guy is far an beyond in terms of looks and culture than a London girl.
And you know the best thing? They do not even know it.
The best thing is a hot girl that does not know she is hot!
Monika, do you want a guy with big muscles and where is full of themselves? Well guys do not want a girl with only a big font and ego. You have your answer. No guy wants girl like that, guys want a cultured, humble nice girl that cares about God and family. Polish girls are beautiful because they are respectful and loving and care about things like family very much.
I stumbled upon this page by accident. I was looking for information on how an English/Polish couple could get married in Poland. After reading through all these posts, Surely something the church teaches is to love one another. I could pigeon holed every polish person into the same category like you have the English or Americans. I have had English girlfriends, an American girlfriend, a Dutch girlfriend and now a Polish girlfriend – I obviously saw something in each of them that I liked, I’m not just marrying the polish girl because she is ‘hot’ or ‘a church-goer’, it is just at this point in my life (ready to settle down and start a family) I share the same thoughts as my girlfriend. I have lots of friends from lots of different countries, I’m pretty tired of listening to people foreign to me complaining about British people thinking we are above them. If anything, it’s the other way round! You (admin) are extremely arrogant and living in the past with your polish ideals. Most of my friends went to uni and attained degrees and have very good careers (me and all my friends must be in the 11% eh?)
I deleted half your comment because it had so many grammar and spelling mistakes I could not clean it all up. Maybe you are still learning English or are at a basic level sorry, but there were too many mistakes. I am not a grammarian but I guess you are a first or second year English learner.
I also deleted the sentences with the word h_te because I try to moderate angry words out as well as bad.
OK, what you write I understand. I am very sorry if you think I am pigeon holing a country’s culture. I am not. I write all over this blog that no country’s culture can possibly represent individuals. We are all individuals. I write this all over the blog. I believe in the ideas of the enlightenment and John Locke and Adam Smith and the idea that we all have free choice to define our lives. I even created a free e-book about this and can send it to anyone at their request. We are all free to choose and all equal.
However, there are some general, very general cultural differences. For example, the divorce rates are high among Americans and Brits. How can you dispute that? They are low among Poles?
British and Americans do not get advanced degrees like Poles. I do not know why. My brothers family is British, I think the kids want to go to work, whereas in Poland it is just a given you will get a Masters degree in most families.
You say it does not matter about church etc, but evidence shows otherwise as you do not see all the single parent homes in Poland like in the USA which is over 50%. This is crazy and it is really hurtful to the children.
Lets take a look:
Single parent homes raised by the mothers are 63% of youth suicides over 90% of homeless kids, 85% of children with criminal and discipline issues, 71% of never finish high school, 85% of teenagers in jail, well over 50% of teenage mothers which again leads to more of the same. The is according to the National Center of Health Statistics and official government site. 2% of all death are doctor initiated with the Dutch along with all the pr_stitutes and dr_gs in the country. How can you argue that a culture in a society does not matter? The is the whole culture debate and both sides need to be respectful and open but I can disagree. How can you be peace and love about divorce and single mothers etc? Yes peace and love but I do not have to agree with it.
I do not have to marry someone with that attitude do I? I would not and I do not recommend others do not, rather you have a greater chance to be happy with someone with more traditional values.
Also you are marrying a Polish girl because you want a family. Actions speak louder than words.
Many Brits and Americans are wonderful moral people. Better than I will ever be. However, statistically they have issues with the culture battle that is going on in the world today. I am a basically a libertarian but for my personal choices I am social conservative. I truly believe in the equality of all people, anything less is less than enlightened.
I met a nice polish girl in Heathrow terminal 3 working in emirates lounge in catering department, her name is Agatha and I lost her contact information. That is all I know about her. Is there any chance to contact her, thank you very much.
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