Comments on: Pakistani girls

By: admin

admin — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 22:52:03 +0000

I am sorry you had to go through all that with your first marriage. Pakistani and other Middle Eastern women have a warmth and loyalty about them. I think like you know the biggest problem is cultural. And I do not mean the problem is with the man and the woman. These feelings are pure. What I mean as you know is others in their society including mostly the parents have trouble accepting a relationship with a non-muslim guy.

If you really love her, you can convert if you are not overly religious she can move to the UK and their influence would not be a strong. Somehow if she is the one you can make it work? I tend to think girls need a lot more convincing than guys, when it comes to love. This is the nature of women, to make it a challenge.

By: fatty

fatty — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 22:03:55 +0000

I’m a British guy, I was married to a non asian woman and had a son together, marriage didn’t work out as I caught her cheating. Financial tsunami was to insure, but I met a Pakistani girl online. She was sweet and clever and very sexy. We hit it off very slowly, but 5 years later after I’d survived all the carnage and rehabilitating my relationship with my son she was the one that kept me afloat all that time. Despite whether she was seeing other guys, there was a purity about her, and sometimes as pure as the driven snow – but I don’t blame her. Very emotionally hooked to this girl like ‘cat-nip’ I love her, we speak every day. She says she wants to marry me, but if even converting was challenging as the racial and religious prejudice would probably resemble another tsunami (and I’ve surfed one, and the surf is ROUGH!). But I can see things changing, she’s purposefully distancing herself ready to make her parents proud, but she deserves a man who loves her and I would dearly. It would be like trying to fill a hole the size of the pacific without her, but that’s just psychological – part her like a shard is buried deep in my heart and will have to live with it. Alas life can have many different chapters, like the saying better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. Love yourself and what you do in life. Peace

By: Muhammad Waqas Tahir

Muhammad Waqas Tahir — Mon, 12 Dec 2011 19:35:02 +0000

I am agree that Pakistani girls are the best in the world because they devote their lives just for a family and always obey the order of their parents where they make a relation of them. This mind set also come from their religion Islam which teach them for it. Pakistani girls can be the ideal wives.
In general these girls have many factors for their idealisiam. like beauty, simplicity, character greatness, devotion, sincerity,smiling face and their true love.

By: Logical Dude

Logical Dude — Sat, 12 Nov 2011 22:37:08 +0000

There are plenty of Pakistani girls in US, Canada, UK and Australia who have married foreigners. The only requirement from a religious point of view is that the man be a muslim. If the man converts to Islam (I mean sincerely not just for the purpose marriage) then there no prohibition against it.

Our culture unfortunately is used to worshipping false idols. In a marriage the most important thing is compatibility of personality, if it exists nothing else will matter. Height, weight, age, sect, zat, language, education, wealth, beauty what have you.

Unless people think like this they are missing opportunities for satisfying relationships. When you are in love and live together it is amazing how many things you will not notice about your partner. Anyway what do I know I am only 62.

Always pay attention if you enjoy talking to man if so he is a good candidate subject to further interaction.

By: Shar

Shar — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 10:31:15 +0000

Pakistani girl are indeed beautiful as are billions of women from any country throughout the world. Pakistani girls usually always marry a cousin to keep the wealth in the family and nearly all of their marriages are arranged by their families. Yes they make perfect wives for men in a very male dominated country and always do what they are told by their husbands (they don’t expect much consideration from their husbands except in monetary terms as they see them primarily as providers. Many of them do not work outside the home so they are completely dependent on their husbands to provide for them and their families. For me these kind of marriages are not a meeting of minds and souls, they are marriages of convenience where the opinions of women are never considered or indeed asked for. After marriage women then take on the traditional role of child rearing and looking after their husbands with no other choices and they don’t have any ambition to do other things like travelling or further education. Because they are dependents, they never rock the boat. Unfortunately they don’t know any different because it is inbred in them from birth – this is the culture.

By: Angel wings

Angel wings — Fri, 07 Oct 2011 08:07:16 +0000

As a girl from Pakistan my story is slightly different. But being with a British Pakistani guy for 6 years has taught me a lot about the culture and their ” back home” Pakistani wives.

I have been engaged with him for 5 years until recently found out that 1 year ago on his visit back home Pakistan that he got married to his first cousin whom he had been engaged to from an early age of 16 and she was 12. He never did tell me and was hoping to keep us both. I may not be of Pakistani culture but I was brought up to be respectful, loving, loyal and very understanding person. So my point is it isn’t the clothes that I wear ( which is mainly jeans and t-shirts) which makes me an ideal wife. I am not religiously in-depth but I keep my relationship with God very personal and honouring.

When I found out about what he has done. He said he chose not to tell me because he did not want to lose me and he genuinely loves me to death. It hurt me a lot mainly because she is so different from me. She is the picture that the above posts describe ” beautiful , thick black hair, light skin , big light brown eyes, curvy) .

That alone in itself killed me. I am a petite girl, long but nt very thick hair, brown-skinned, dark eyes ).Total opposite. He has admitted that after marriage to her which was very religious and family oriented, that he now loves her too. I understand that he obviously would as she has given her first sexual act to him and that in itself has emotionally bind them together. She is aware of me but has still remained with him , and become so much more obedient to him that I feel I cannot compete. He now says “she is so kind, and loves his parents”. He sees me every day and she never rings on his mobile or interrupt him. All he had to do was tell her only “once” don’t ring me wait until I ring u. And she has obeyed. I contact him everyday and he responds to me.

I feel I am getting competition from a clever girl who knows how to keep a husband or is she just genuinely so laid back. I have to mention she is in Pakistan still and is due to be over next month as she is waiting for her visa. He has only been to see her once during their now 2 years of marriage. She is very close to his family and they love her a lot as she is family. His parents are busy renovating his bedroom for her arrival and he is not helping, or is he putting on an act for me? I have been so confused by this that I have tried to end it but he doesn’t let me.

Makes me wonder why would he wanna be with me when he already has ” ideal Pakistani ” wife , like everyone is saying. I am good mixed raced indian,spanish and french person and not being Pakistani doesn’t make me any less a good partner. I have never been with anyone before him or ever cheated on him. I want to know will he start favouring her over me when they do live together? Your opinion? I am not looking to compete just wanna know where I stand and what’s most likely , especially since everyone says that her Pakistani background will make her the perfect wife?

By: sama

sama — Sat, 27 Aug 2011 19:35:35 +0000

Admin, your kind words really mean a lot to me
your wife is a lucky women n i give her the credit that she must be a great women that you feel so deeply for her.

About my past, I am so over it now, although it took me almost a year, but now I feel happy and satisfied with myself, as I was the who stood up to my commitment sincerely, that makes me a good person to be with I guess.

Well I will be getting married after my graduation hopefully, most probably it would be an arranged marriage, but you know what fate decides for you. I do hope I would get the guy you described above for me.

By: admin

admin — Sat, 27 Aug 2011 18:41:46 +0000

Pakistani girls are pearls of great price that men should realize they need to give up all their other riches to have one great thing, that is love. If you have been hurt by someone know that he was a false light. It was not your true one and only and one day your real prince will come.

Someone like you idealistic an beautiful will find your prince, that is all I can say.

About Pakistani guys I have meet good Muslim men who honor their wives like they should as is written in your Holy book.

Guys that cheat on their wives do not only dishonor their wives but dishonor God as marriage is a union created by God on this earth so man and woman will not be lonely.

With my wife we had a few conversations about loyalty before we were married. I would never marry a woman who said it was OK to cheat. I believe men and women should talk about this before marriage very seriously. I would not ever cheat on my wife, ever. I believe that God sees all things and I love her. Find a man who is idealistic like this and your life is easier. I know it is harder said than done but there are 100s of million single Pakistani guys at home and abroad who are good Muslims and would dream to be with a girl like you.

By: sama

sama — Sat, 27 Aug 2011 12:48:10 +0000

I am impressed to hear such praises for Pakistani girls from a foreigner. I am a pakistani girl but from my observation men in Pakistan do not care much about about Pakistani women. Most men in Pakistan cheat on their wives, or if they are madly in love with them while getting married, their love would surely fade away within a year or two and the girls life is just restrict to being a full time mother.

I find muslim men living abroad have more respect and care for Pakistani girls as they are aware of the fact that they wont find such immensely devoted wives in the west, and i had been engaged to a guy for 8 years, just a year before the marriage he realized he had fallen out of love for me and a week later somebody told me that he had an affair with some other girl for quite a long time, well I broke up with him, but now I’m afraid of getting married because I dont think I can trust any guy ever.

By: Tony

Tony — Fri, 26 Aug 2011 14:05:41 +0000

You were wrong about Pakistani people being related to Arabs and Indians to the Indo-Europeans.

They are both related to the Indo-European people, if there was Arab mixing it was minuscule.Indians, as you go more south of the country, are more and more mixed with the Dravidian people which are not Indo-European. So if anything Pakistanis are more Indo-European than Indians. Don’t know how they got those beautiful noses though.