Comments on: Pakistani girls

By: Abbey

Abbey — Sun, 26 Feb 2012 14:29:03 +0000

I can help you out with that, regarding Nigeria and Uganda. There are two girls in my classes from these countries. Sweet, loving girls with good family values. Also, my English professor is Russian, and she is exactly like you describe in your articles. America hasn’t changed her, thank goodness.

By: admin

admin — Sun, 26 Feb 2012 12:28:11 +0000

Ethiopian girls was my only one. I have known many Pakistani as I use to shop at a Pakistani store down my street. When I worked in IT a large percentage were Indians. I lived in Europe a reasonable part of my life, Eastern Europe and there are few to none Africans. In my school, at my college and at my University, I studied economic theory and had Indians and Caucasians, but not one black, and only a few females in my classes. When I lived in Boston, I lived in Beacon Hill. All my neighbors were white or Indian or Asian that were around me. Therefore, the ebb and current of life has not brought me in contact with every culture. Although to dispel any doubt I have zero prejudice to any culture or race of course, as it is against my religion and just not me. I mean in the future, generations will all be one race again I think, we will eventually all become ‘future people’ (like in the movie Time Machine). We are all children of God.

I would say to write about this with authority I would have to do research. I have been to Africa a few times, but not Congo or anything. I would love to expand my writing to every culture including black Africans. It is on my list.

However, I would like to go in more detail about Pakistani and Indian girls first, then other Asian girls and Middle Eastern cultures as have studied these cultures, and have an interest in them, or at least I know them first hand a little more. However, if anyone wants to help me write a post about black girls I am willing and ready.

By: Abbey

Abbey — Sun, 26 Feb 2012 00:53:26 +0000

I’ve noticed you have articles for every race and nationality except for black girls. What gives?

By: Khadijah

Khadijah — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 15:13:33 +0000

I am an American Muslims and totally disagree with u that American women will only bring sorrow to any man who marries one all the days of his life. I am not Pakistani, but I like to think I possess virtuous qualities, which hopefully are desirable by any man choosing a life partner. I do agree that Pakistani women generally are ‘aesthetically’ pleasing to the eye (and no, I am not gay), but just like anywhere else, there are some who are spoiled, immodest and very materialistic. And, just like everywhere else, there are at least some American/Western women who have strong morals and character and are very loving and attentive, loyal and devoted to their husbands and children. I do hope u all realize this and would be very much obliged if you would amend your comment to reflect this fact.

By: admin

admin — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 22:52:03 +0000

I am sorry you had to go through all that with your first marriage. Pakistani and other Middle Eastern women have a warmth and loyalty about them. I think like you know the biggest problem is cultural. And I do not mean the problem is with the man and the woman. These feelings are pure. What I mean as you know is others in their society including mostly the parents have trouble accepting a relationship with a non-muslim guy.

If you really love her, you can convert if you are not overly religious she can move to the UK and their influence would not be a strong. Somehow if she is the one you can make it work? I tend to think girls need a lot more convincing than guys, when it comes to love. This is the nature of women, to make it a challenge.

By: fatty

fatty — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 22:03:55 +0000

I’m a British guy, I was married to a non asian woman and had a son together, marriage didn’t work out as I caught her cheating. Financial tsunami was to insure, but I met a Pakistani girl online. She was sweet and clever and very sexy. We hit it off very slowly, but 5 years later after I’d survived all the carnage and rehabilitating my relationship with my son she was the one that kept me afloat all that time. Despite whether she was seeing other guys, there was a purity about her, and sometimes as pure as the driven snow – but I don’t blame her. Very emotionally hooked to this girl like ‘cat-nip’ I love her, we speak every day. She says she wants to marry me, but if even converting was challenging as the racial and religious prejudice would probably resemble another tsunami (and I’ve surfed one, and the surf is ROUGH!). But I can see things changing, she’s purposefully distancing herself ready to make her parents proud, but she deserves a man who loves her and I would dearly. It would be like trying to fill a hole the size of the pacific without her, but that’s just psychological – part her like a shard is buried deep in my heart and will have to live with it. Alas life can have many different chapters, like the saying better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. Love yourself and what you do in life. Peace

By: Muhammad Waqas Tahir

Muhammad Waqas Tahir — Mon, 12 Dec 2011 19:35:02 +0000

I am agree that Pakistani girls are the best in the world because they devote their lives just for a family and always obey the order of their parents where they make a relation of them. This mind set also come from their religion Islam which teach them for it. Pakistani girls can be the ideal wives.
In general these girls have many factors for their idealisiam. like beauty, simplicity, character greatness, devotion, sincerity,smiling face and their true love.

By: Logical Dude

Logical Dude — Sat, 12 Nov 2011 22:37:08 +0000

There are plenty of Pakistani girls in US, Canada, UK and Australia who have married foreigners. The only requirement from a religious point of view is that the man be a muslim. If the man converts to Islam (I mean sincerely not just for the purpose marriage) then there no prohibition against it.

Our culture unfortunately is used to worshipping false idols. In a marriage the most important thing is compatibility of personality, if it exists nothing else will matter. Height, weight, age, sect, zat, language, education, wealth, beauty what have you.

Unless people think like this they are missing opportunities for satisfying relationships. When you are in love and live together it is amazing how many things you will not notice about your partner. Anyway what do I know I am only 62.

Always pay attention if you enjoy talking to man if so he is a good candidate subject to further interaction.

By: Shar

Shar — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 10:31:15 +0000

Pakistani girl are indeed beautiful as are billions of women from any country throughout the world. Pakistani girls usually always marry a cousin to keep the wealth in the family and nearly all of their marriages are arranged by their families. Yes they make perfect wives for men in a very male dominated country and always do what they are told by their husbands (they don’t expect much consideration from their husbands except in monetary terms as they see them primarily as providers. Many of them do not work outside the home so they are completely dependent on their husbands to provide for them and their families. For me these kind of marriages are not a meeting of minds and souls, they are marriages of convenience where the opinions of women are never considered or indeed asked for. After marriage women then take on the traditional role of child rearing and looking after their husbands with no other choices and they don’t have any ambition to do other things like travelling or further education. Because they are dependents, they never rock the boat. Unfortunately they don’t know any different because it is inbred in them from birth – this is the culture.

By: Angel wings

Angel wings — Fri, 07 Oct 2011 08:07:16 +0000

As a girl from Pakistan my story is slightly different. But being with a British Pakistani guy for 6 years has taught me a lot about the culture and their ” back home” Pakistani wives.

I have been engaged with him for 5 years until recently found out that 1 year ago on his visit back home Pakistan that he got married to his first cousin whom he had been engaged to from an early age of 16 and she was 12. He never did tell me and was hoping to keep us both. I may not be of Pakistani culture but I was brought up to be respectful, loving, loyal and very understanding person. So my point is it isn’t the clothes that I wear ( which is mainly jeans and t-shirts) which makes me an ideal wife. I am not religiously in-depth but I keep my relationship with God very personal and honouring.

When I found out about what he has done. He said he chose not to tell me because he did not want to lose me and he genuinely loves me to death. It hurt me a lot mainly because she is so different from me. She is the picture that the above posts describe ” beautiful , thick black hair, light skin , big light brown eyes, curvy) .

That alone in itself killed me. I am a petite girl, long but nt very thick hair, brown-skinned, dark eyes ).Total opposite. He has admitted that after marriage to her which was very religious and family oriented, that he now loves her too. I understand that he obviously would as she has given her first sexual act to him and that in itself has emotionally bind them together. She is aware of me but has still remained with him , and become so much more obedient to him that I feel I cannot compete. He now says “she is so kind, and loves his parents”. He sees me every day and she never rings on his mobile or interrupt him. All he had to do was tell her only “once” don’t ring me wait until I ring u. And she has obeyed. I contact him everyday and he responds to me.

I feel I am getting competition from a clever girl who knows how to keep a husband or is she just genuinely so laid back. I have to mention she is in Pakistan still and is due to be over next month as she is waiting for her visa. He has only been to see her once during their now 2 years of marriage. She is very close to his family and they love her a lot as she is family. His parents are busy renovating his bedroom for her arrival and he is not helping, or is he putting on an act for me? I have been so confused by this that I have tried to end it but he doesn’t let me.

Makes me wonder why would he wanna be with me when he already has ” ideal Pakistani ” wife , like everyone is saying. I am good mixed raced indian,spanish and french person and not being Pakistani doesn’t make me any less a good partner. I have never been with anyone before him or ever cheated on him. I want to know will he start favouring her over me when they do live together? Your opinion? I am not looking to compete just wanna know where I stand and what’s most likely , especially since everyone says that her Pakistani background will make her the perfect wife?