The purpose of this post is to tell you a little about Kerala girls in Dubai. I want to shed a little light on:
- Why these Kerala women are in the UAE.
- Why so many guys want to marry Kerala girls in Dubai (beyond just reasons of looks).
- What is it like in Kerala India.
- Further, I will tell you how to meet them online or while you are staying in UAE.
I hope I also clear up some myths about these respectable women, as online there are a lot of sites that promote less then respectable reasons to find women. I want this site to be about culture of love, sincere love and even marriage.
Why Kerala girls are in Dubai
Kerala girls come from the south western part of India. They have a historical connection with the gulf states that actually started in the 1930s, it of course was all work or economically based as despite the proximity of being part of the Asian continent, Indian and Arab culture are different. Therefore, Keralian workers went to Dubai only for money.
There was a series of waves in migration to the gulf states of Kerala peoples in the 1970s and 1980s and subsequent waves today such as Kerala girls in Dubai because of this connection.
The reason there is so much interest in Kerala women in the Middle East is because they are proportionally higher educated than most parts of Asia.
This perpetuates the cycle of migration and allows them to continue to migrate to places like Dubai and and other Middle Eastern countries for professional jobs (30 years ago it was for blue collar jobs).
The result is they are now considered from a higher class as their incomes are disproportionately higher than the new wave of migrant worker families.
What happened was the Kerala women and men worked in places like UAE and sent money back home, this facilitated the development of Kerala land and perpetuated a cycle of workers going to the gulf states. This pushed Trivandrum or Mallui girls from the working class to the upper classes or at least professional class in many circumstances.
About 20% of the income of people living in Kerala come from remittances from the gulf states and this amounts to about 7 billion dollars a year. This is a lot of money considering the standard of living in India.
Therefore, although Malayali girls in Dubai may have roots in a village in South Western India, they have reach a reasonably high economic level.
Hence, the result of this prosperity, and education this gives them opportunities to interact with men from around the world in an international setting like Dubai, rather than marrying the guy next door in their village.
Kerala girls matrimony
Gulf migrants are very sought after as wives and bridegrooms. Kerala girls attractive earnings enabled them to marry and go from the professional class to a rich, respected Indian family. Remember class is important in India, although this is going away, it is still a society that has class divisions ingrained in their collective unconsciousness.
Further if you marry an Kerala girl in Dubai for example, you can in one or two generations bring your family from a lower class to an upper class. This is another reason they are so sought after as brides.
A bride from the village – my story
I think this is a common theme in love and marriage, not just with Kerala girls in Dubai, that is people marry people from all over the world from different backgrounds.
For example I am an American from rich fancy Boston and I met my wife, who was from a poor village in Poland, however, she was studying at a top University in Europe. She had more culture and class and virtue than I did. Therefore, because of almost educational opportunities, she studied in a city I was visiting. Her education and luck of geogrpahy allowed us to bridge the artificial gap of culture and our minds and hearts could connect. In fact I feel honored she accepted me, some uncultured American cowboy.
My point is education opens up a world of possibilities when it comes to marriage. However, it should never be a determinate criterion for love. Love is about finding your other half.
Kerala land in India, what is it like?
Malayalam is the language of Kerala, as well as Hindi and English of course. Linguistics is the principle unifying idea behind Kerala. The literacy rate is over 95% and on a scale of human development index it is higher than most parts of India. In fact it is considered generally as the most develop part of India.
This part of India is coastal and tropical, many people consider it a tropical paradise, however, for me it is a little too tropical as it is very wet. But I think I am the only one who thinks this way. It is a stark contrast to the desert of the Arabian peninsula where many of these people work.
Kerala girls in Dubai
Here is a website to read more about the culture of Kerala girls and what their homeland is like beyond Dubai world and working and living in the Persian gulf. I think the website is good although the large image at the top is not easy in terms of usability. However, the pictures on the site are beautiful and the information is accurate as it is an official government website.
Kerala girls in Dubai want to meet
What is the objective in terms of relationships for these girls? Kerala females seek matrimony. They come from traditional societies and are looking for love and to be a bride, not libertine fun.
The Style of “Kerala women in Dubai” is sensual . Their style is suggestive, they look more like models than normal single girls. Despite the fact they are traditional and many Kerala girls wear a Saree in Dubai, others do not. My south Indian friends tell me do not believe they are so innocent. I was surprised when they told me this as I thought this society was one of the most traditional in the world. My Southern Indian friends smiles.
They like to play, chat flirt and meet guys. To attract guys, Kerala girls in Dubai wear the tightest jeans, almost painted on, and lose low cut tops. You might see some Kerala girls in the United Arab Emirates traditional dress but western clothes are more common.
Ten recommended ways to meet Kerala girls in Dubai visa online dating:
- www.click.in – Classified site for India including a marriage section and screen for geographical location like UAE or Kerala.
- www.desikiss.com and www. indiamatch.com are the most popular with Asian Indians women.
- www.dubai.dubizzle.com is a site for general classifieds in UAE for Indians but not really singles website.
- www.bharatstudent.com – Best if you are young and you want to meet Kerala girls in Dubai that are students. It is the facebook of India.
- www.indianmatch or even match.com if you want to meet ladies or potential bride that are more professionals after school.
- www.in.com/active18/classifieds/matri/home/1
- www.bangalore.click.in/classifieds/1/35/matrimonial.html
- www.sulekha.com classified site with all kinds of people seeking all kinds of things, including romance and love.
- www.shaadi.com – Indian and Kerla girls matrimonial services. It looks like thi is the I think one of the oldest and largest for Asian marriages. They have been around since 1996 and claim over 20 million marriages. Therefore, even though this is commercial I highly recommend this site to meet a Kerala bride.
- Icq, Facebook are always top sites in any language or country.
If you want to meet Kerala women in UAE, I think the best way is through friends and work as these ladies are more establish and are not cruising hotels for their husband. You might meet them in a disco or night club in the city but again, I think this is hard as the competition is too high and the environment is not conducive to meeting your love.
Also look at the other online dating and resources I list on my site as I have many ideas. I am trying to build a website that is a place people can go to as a resource for meeting girls for love, but also learn about their culture and lives. Please leave a comment and let me know if you need to know anything else or something else can be added to my post on Kerala girls in Dubai. My only request is that you use good grammar and spelling and avoid chat style.
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13 responses to Kerala girls in Dubai
This is a great article with lot of research work. Thanks for the information. Kerala state is ranking #1 in literacy, as you said 95%. But few things said about Kerala girls may be right and may not be. Some Kerala girls may like to flirt but not all. Anyway, you have given the longest article about Kerala girls in Dubai
Thanks I try to write informative posts to mix pleasure with some edification, and India is a country I think highly of.
Somehow Kerala girls are beautiful, they want to earn money all over the world, hence they are moving through out the world, to do jobs and maintain their families. For this reason I appreciate them.
Kerala Girls makes a good reading. I love reading about their home land which is often referred to as Paradise On Earth in tourist literature.Their English spoken or written I always try to imitate and despite their skin colour I find them very attractive. My long association with a Keralite as my boss in Manipur state got me interested in their land and culture.I learnt many things from him.I don’t know a word of Malayalam ; but I love listening to Yesudas sing in Hindi as well as Malayalam.
I am new in Dubai and like to meet some Indian girls for friendship. If you are in Dubai and would like a sincere cordial rapport, than perhaps we could chat.
I did not know Kerala girls are different from Kerala guys, What I thought is their origin,culture etc would be same as a brother and sister would be of same parents, can you please write another article on Dubai Kerala.
Kerala girls are very nice, beautiful, cute, fun-tastic indeed, I love the fact that are professional and highly educated yet still retain a noraml countryside attitude. I am from Kerala land by the way.
It has been 18 months in this desert and I believe its time to fly back home but my girl amma might ask me “ente marumakale nee kandupidicho?” I have no answer 4 that question. Can any beautiful woman out there help me answer that. If anybody has a reply do not hesitate to drop me a mail or leave a comment here.
Hey Sreemon Sreenivasan Nair,
Are you marrying for your mother or for yourself? Grow up kid, grow out of the silly traditional Indian mindset.
Cheers,
Daniel.
Keralite girls are nice people, but you find one beautiful girl out of 10 thousand. Most are dark and hairy. Throw in some ancient attitudes, shyness etc…However the pros are they are good cooks, and homemakers. But then remain that.
Kerala girls are very nice, beautiful, hardworking,honest and faithful to their friends. I love the fact that they are professional and highly educated . I am from New Delhi.
This is nice moment to hear from all about what is real. I too agree with that. Lady is a nature, Power. so we have to know how yo cope with them.
I would request to administrator, if you can do same research on all other south Indian girls like Andhra Pradesh, Tamil Nadu and Karnataka.
Cheer up
Madhu
a great article. Also i would like to mention. Keralites are one of the communities apart from Biharis marwaris, gujrathis, and punjabis who will travel to unknown places and make a living which i find strange is not with other communities. I have found punjabis and gujratis in Kerala doing great business and speaking malyalam with great ease and infact better grammar. The girls from Kottayam and Kollam are famous for working in the nursing field and they infact go out to all over Europe, england, communist countries to work as nurses and take their husbands and relatives later to create a new life there. While in a city like pune from where i am very few ladies will go to unknown countries and will have second thoughts to move from their comfort zones. Kudos to the kerala girls for leading from the front. Also it is understood by now that if a hospital has kerala nurses then the patient need not worry.
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