Hungarian girls
Many guys think Hungarian girls are beautiful. I think before you consider them for marriage think not just about their physical beauty but their personally and the way they see the world. How society influences their thinking. Hungarian girls are pretty but I guess I am not attracted to them because some of them have adopted non-traditional feminist ways of thinking like many western countries. I am a conservative. Dislike me if you like for that, but I prefer girls that cook and take care of the family and try to stay beautiful to feminists who are chasing a career while their kids are in day care. Therefore, for marriage I think Eastern European countries are a better choice if you are searching for a wife, a more traditional wife than Hungarian women, given the current social changes.
Again this is a generalization and not a statement about individuals. Further, maybe you are a guy that does not believe marriage is forever, in this case the new modern thinking European culture is for you and feminist thinking is a positive thing. For me, I prefer a traditional marriage.
I think Budapest girls are also very liberal (unlike their neighbor Slovakia) compared to the girls in the countryside, at least from what I have personally observed. This means that although in theory catholic they are not that traditional, like the same girl living in the villages. They believe in divorce, single parent homes etc. So there are no real great advantages to dating Hungarian girls for love if they hold those views, which are not much different than say a liberal Boston girl. Unless of course, you are attracted to this modernist thinking. Me, I am not.
Why Budapest or Magyar girls might not be for a traditionalist
- Hungary has one of the highest depression rates in the world. The people there are depressed and complain about their own country a lot. I hope this changes as I think they are good people, but communism made them cynical. I hope this changes. I think it there is a statistical correlation between lose of faith and values and depression. It is existential anxiety, think of Camus, or Woody Allen.
- A marriage with a Magyar woman will end in divorce almost 50% of the time compared to other European countries, some that have a 5% rate. It is one of the highest in Europe. Marriage is about love and love is not conditional. But to these brides I guess it is.
- Most Hungarians today are really democratic and open, but socially very liberal. I am liberal when it comes to the freedom, but not in terms of values that are not tempered by faith. Again, disagree with this if you want, but this is just one man’s view of the world.
- If you meet a Magyar girl in the UK she sometimes is not as humble as a Hungarian back home. Hungarian girls in the country are much more humble and much nicer. Huge generalization, but often western culture makes traditional girls more liberal when they move to the big city.
- Many Budapest girls are feminists and not pro life. I think this goes against being a mother, so any lady that thinks this way should not date.
- Magyar girls are hot blooded, in my experience, its the culture not the group of people of course. Some guys like this, and for a short term relationship this might be good but for the long term, not way. Peace and love should govern your relationship not a hot blooded emotional roller coaster.
The above is my personal experience or a statistics I have found. I am sure this is not the the case with all these ladies. I am sure there are many traditional devout peaceful Hungarians women who make wonderful wives. However, my personal experiences have clouded my understanding of them maybe. But even Magyar women living in Slovakian territories turned out to be too liberal for me, because of the post communist Eastern or central European experience generally. However, the key to the social changes have been connected with the young turning away from the faith. The ones that have faith are not like this in Hungary. If you want liberal you can go for peaceful calm laid-back Scandinavians not central Europeans who are a little more hot-blooded (I think it is the weather), unless you like that of course.
Chat with Hungarian girls
Best places to chat with Hungarian girls on the web are as follow:
- www.startlap.hu its a free Hungarian portal of sorts. Hungarian is a very hard language to learn so unless you are in love I would not try to learn this.
- love.hu is a dating site
- If you still want to date or chat with Hungarian girls check out free online dating sites that have Hungarian girls on them, these girls will speak English, in fact they will want to practice their language skills with you.
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458 responses to Hungarian girls
I Think Hungarian girls are nice but some of us is uppity, in my class a lot of girl spend a lot of time at the mirror. I dislike listening that “my hair is bad”… and about makeup!In my opinion the real beauty comes from inside. but these are not just our mistake ’cause boys loves big T and A.
And the marriages are not always ends for example: my parents are together for 20 years. They are a good exception:D Bye: Kinga( sorry for my bad en glish:/)
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I just returned from a month in Hungary, and was overwhelmed by what, to me, felt like a gentle, warm energy — of the people, the landscape, thermal waters, the birds, the hospitality, etc. It was truly what I would call a ’spiritual’ experience. I miss the people and place so very much. And, I have never in my life had so much attention from men! So open and sweet and affectionate. And it didn’t feel sleazy at all. I was mostly in the villages — Heviz and Keszthely — the Zala region.
I am experiencing withdrawl. I want to move there. Buy property there. Spend 1/2 my time there. I want to but a return ticket right now. I feel desperate to go back. I am drawn to ’something’ there. Perhaps it’s the men. For sure it’s the thermal waters. Both are lacking where I live. As for the men, I found myself attracted to men i normally wouldn’t even be attracted to. I just saw the beauty in all of them. In their openness and affectionate nature.
I have Austro-Hungarian roots with a 500 year family history in what is now Western Hungary / Eastern Austria — a region now divided by the border (Grandparents came to Canada in the late 20’s).
And my question:
Could someone please explain this notion that Hungarian men are not faithful in marriage? Is this true? To what extent? And, if so, is this somehow culturally rooted? Does this go for married women too? Is it seem as no big deal? More openness in marriage? I’m confused, and want to understand this better — from Hungarian people …. please help me make sense of this — stereotype or truth or whatever….
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Coming back from Europe is a real downer as once you start living here, you world opens up. In Europe you feel free from all the old programming in the USA. It feels like you are on vacation everyday, even if you live here many years. Would it not be great if you could live here full time
If you find Hungarian men attractive that is cool. I only recommend you find someone who has values from the old ways, that is they would stick with you 100% of the time always. This depends on each person, so you have to ask them directly about this. I mean no one wants to find someone who they think is ideal and then turns out rotten.
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I mean how could you people generalize a nation and its female population that is right in the heart of Europe? Give us Hungarians a break, even if you compliment us.
‘m sorry but you just cannot stereotype the people there.
One thing for sure though, people are more melancholic and thats obviously cause we are less well off than those in the ‘west’ and yeah that kinda sucks.
Well , we have a new government now and the sun will shine once again
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peace!
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However after all our speeches….i must say one important thing: I live in Rome and often i go for a trip in Budapest….3 times ofr years….i love this city…it have something of old fashion and i must say that every time i have asked something to people there i have observed very kind people…the women are very nice but i repeat i come from Italy (Rome) and here the people is bad educated….aggressive sometimes…here it’s onether world it’s enough to look people in tram stop: in Budapest before people go down and the other attend and when every men is fell before go up….here in Rome it’s like animals…-.
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1. Hungary is in Central Europe and now Eastern. If you cite from the UN, they are just people, and it must have been a moron who put Hungary in the Eastern Europe category. Look at the map, if you ever had one. Period
2. In Hungary you just can’t slap a woman and walk away, it’s a fact.
3. What you told about girls who have to have s_x in the clubs, is ridiculous. Maybe in your dreams. Those who want to cheat , will cheat anyway. But if they say NO that means NO, not yes, not maybe, but simply NO. Where did you get all the BS you said?
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sorry Jasmine with who are you talking about this argoument?
i have not spoken about sex clubs….sex clubs there are in every corner in the world today also in Rome…..szia
At Paolo. Well i was in Italy many times , and the fact is that Italian girls are solid than the Hungarian , but this is not mean that easy to “bring the in the bed , with a dinner “. It’s degrade a bit .Juts by the way i like those Italian girls
Hey Paolo,
I went to Rome, and felt the same things, as you said about Budapest
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(I’m Hungarian btw., but hate our Capital… checkout western Hungary instead, Sopron is amazing, and Austria is just 5minutes away by walk
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Btw. the post is true, Hungarians are depressive, rude, and proud… girls and boy both… just like me
Cheers,
adam
Hi Adamwork sorry i have not understood….what did you feel “the same things” in ROme when you was here?maybe you are talking about “bad education” fo people in ROme?
Hi Edem….what’s the meaning of your phrase? “italian women are solid than hungarian?” what’s for you “solid woman”?for me what’s a legend the history that in Budapest you could bring in a bed one woman offering only one dinner…..
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I mean you are able to bring woman to romance in the whole Europe .
dear edem…i think that today in the world there are much more women “east to bring in a bed” that once…..and there is not a great difference between different people Italian women….hungarian women)the only difference i have founded in Poland where women are searching more than other “serious relation”
You don’t believe there is any charm left to the Italian women? Italia is a big country, there is not any area where people sitll uphold their traditions and women are marriage minded?
I understand Roma, Milano, even Firenze are very big cosmopolitan cities. But, are women in Warsaw, Bucaresti, Moscow, Kyiv reallythat much different than women in other European cities? I mean, most of them are dressed in the super expensive (or expensive looking) designer type of clothing, giant heels, globs of cosmetics and the stiff diva attitude. Really, I have met so many arrogant women from all over USA and Europe, most coming from the big cities.
Paolo, I know that there is still a lot of rural communities and countryside to Italia, moreso than some other EUropean countries. Is there really no place where morals and traditions are enforced? How much time have you spent in your own countryside or small towns?? I have met many people from countries who have rarely wandered away from their home city.
As for Maygar, I think its a place for me to avoid. Hungarians in the city seem to be more or less ultra-secular atheists, abolishing the restrictions they had during the communist era, but still adhering to the ideologies that shuns religion and morality.
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*Magyar not Maygar
Dear Jonatan….i agree with you about big city but remember that i live in Italy also if i live in ROme…and I am Christian as you i think that every man want to find one serious and faithful woman!
you could have meet italian people that “spoken” about values of life but they only “spoken” don’t forget that we are famous for our hypocrisy and to be false also…
There are villages in south Italy where in appearance there are traditions….but i observe every day that when these women leave their village to come in Rome to study (or work) they become worse that other local women!!!
The big question is the city like Hell that transform a woman from angel to devil???
the answer is different and complex:
in the big city everybody think to hiself life is different in a big palace from a village…..in a village as south italy everybody know every man and woman that live there and these women are observed,checked, judged,critized from everyone!!! they are not free to live their lives!!
resultat: when they are opportunity to live in a big city they change quickly their habits.
Don’t forget that in south italy often also today women suffer violence from their husband or fathers and in these places it’s true there is a low rate of divorces but because one woman is forced to not take a similar decision and after she would live very bad in the village judged and removed from everone!! i ask you is maybe Christian all this???? you can watche people go in church there but they are really Chtristians????
Of course i know that Hungarian womens have a bad reputation: we have talked much of this:
1) women without moral
2) women with high rate of divorces
3) aggressive women
4) women that go easy in a bed with a man (it’s need to offer one dinner)
but it’s really true every point of these?
I have found for my experience only the point number 2 that it’s true but i don’t know the anser to this
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Buon girno Paolo. Grazie for your response. I was studying some Italiano last night, had to practice a bit
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I agree with a lot of what your wrote. However, I want to add that the situation of women being forced into a traditional life or abused in small towns in southern Italy, is not unique to Italy. As a matter of fact, what you described sounds very similiar to what I was seeing in Africa or what is probably happening in a lot of areas where tradition and perhaps economic hardship prevail.
It is true that when a woman who was mistreated or confined into a very traditional household is liberated and goes to the big city where religious, moral and cultural values are replaced with secularism and materialism, people will lose themselves and indulge in all the carnal and selfish lifestyles of the poeple around them. It seems sometimes, that those people who leave their traditional lives for the Western (or Modern) lifestyles can become worse than those who were born into it.
However, what I witnessed is that even though a lot of people lack honor and respect of the traditional or moral infrastructure in which they dwell, there are many others who still adhere and respect these values. I know there is a lot of hypocrisy and every person claims to be a “Good Christian.”
But, what I am thinking is if you are a man of honor who would love and respect your wife, yet still want to retrain cultural and religious values, as well as traditions, that it can be achieved. Do you really think that if you are a man of honor and that if you find a woman from a good and strict family, that it is impossible in Italia to find a good and loyal wife?
What you descrbied does not sound unique to Italy. Really, I wonder if women from these Eastern European countries don’t all get spoild and corrupt as the Southern Italian women you speak of. I have seen so many Russian party girls where I live, dressed up in super expensive clothing and going clubbing. Really, I don’t see hte difference anymore, except some of the Eastern European countries are more cut off from the mainstream, than Italy is. What is the difference?
My feeling is if you find a woman from a respectable family who is serious about religion, she will make a loyal and loving wife.
In USA, however, the moral structure is totally deteriorating. Even in small USA towns women have no sense of values or respect. I think Italy still has some strong sense of traditions and respect, although I know in your cities most of those are gone, like in USA.
Anyhow, I understand everything you are saying. Perhaps you are right about it all. I just know Italia is a big country. Perhaps, I have a bit of an obsession with your country; maybe it will be all brokeen after I visit there. I guess I rather spend my days in Italy than in Eastern Europe. Although, it could be that Italy’s charm has decayed.
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*Buon giorno.. Dang typos, I feel dumb
I disagree completely. You have not met or seen many Hungarian girls to say this. On the contrary I didn’t find French women beautiful at all. In a big percentage Hungarian women are very very beautiful and they are very liberal yes, but this is not considered bad nowadays.
We are in 2010 and a marriage today is considered to be a contract of interest, love is a word with no value in most cases nowadays. For a man who is looking to have fun with women, Hungarian women are probably the best women to be with(in fact if you are the party kind of guy you will have the time of your life with them). They do not care about what other people will say about them and that I believe is what makes people better. If she likes you and you like her then you can move on to a date…no over fetched boring games, no teasing.
I believe it is about what type of guy you are. If you are the typical, boring, routine kind of guy, then, Hungarian women are not for you. If you are liberal, open minded and not pushing yourself for marriage, they are perfect. And believe me you can end up with one who cares for you a lot.
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So you are saying love has not meaning and marriage is a contract of interests? Wow this is way out there. Hungarian women I am sure have beauty but no man or woman wants to party their life away. What about love?
I’m not saying…it is what it is today…a fact. Is there love when the woman is mocking you around and you are attached to her like she is the last woman on earth or the other way around? Love must be both ways. And today it’s rare.
Who told you to party your life away? I just said you don’t need to rush every relationship to marriage. You get into relationship because you like her, not because you intent to be with her the rest of your life. If it works out then so be it, if it doesn’t plenty of women out there. If for you it is hard to get into a relationship and you seek solid relation, Hungarian women are not for you. They simply don’t get into a relation and have in their back of their mind “marriage”. They just like you and want to have fun with you. If they really like you in the end, they are really attached to you and you definitely know they love you.
On the contrary if you rush a relationship to marriage or “love”, you don’t know for sure. In most cases this is based on secrets. And in the end it is about interests…i.e “If I divorce him, I will lose the luxury I have”.
In Hungarian girl’s case, even if you are the biggest loser on earth without job and broke, if they feel they are having good time with you, they won’t leave you. People think they are “plastic girls”, but they are not. They are at the beginning…but if you treat them right, they will show you a real girl.
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Corner, basically you are saying Hungarian girls are sk–zers.. No offense, but they don’t want children, don’t want commitment, they want to fool around, have fun and indulge in superficial desires that have no real place in the long run. Sorry, at 32, I am too old to worry about screwing around with little girls in bars, concerts or short-term flings. Some of us, actually desire to find love, romance and a spirit-filled relationship.
Thanks to the godless and sterile relationships that Hungarian and other European women indulge in, your future generation will cease to exist. EUrope has the lowest birthrate in the world, next to USA. The whole Hungarian race will soon be extinct. Have fun for now, soon you will suffering. You won’t have enough young people to work to maintain your country, it will fall to pieces. This is starting to be a problem in Europe. Another reason they had to import lots of immigrants to fulfill the jobs that was lacking by your own.
And, these Hungarian women will die old, ugly and alone. Their mothers and grandmothers didn’t behave like this, but their daughters will reap the benefits of their selfish and childish lifestyle.
HEres my prediciton, these sex and pleasure crazed geneation will die out and either these people will be extinct or the next generation will be diligent, faithful and concerned about their society and future generations.
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I’m hungarian. And I disagree completely. Hungarian girls are the butifullest, nicest and most romantic girls in the world. However thera are realy a bit of feminism in there but you dont know what are you writing about. You never met a hungarian girl face to face. Cheats are not real conversations, and there are only tired of life people.
Yonatan keep your statistics and your doomsday predictions for yourself. People have fun. They don’t live in 1200′s.
They don’t want children? Who told you that? They just want to live their life before doing so…that means getting married as late as possible, not when they are 18 years old.
If you are left alone and you are 32 years old, maybe you should reconsider your options and your lifestyle. You will not find your love by rushing yourself. If you compare generations of people you will see nowadays a 32 year old guy is considered young. 20 years ago he was full of wrinkles, having 5 kids, wife and working his ass to repay his loans. If you want to consider yourself old, then be my guest. Maybe you should think that you have just ONE life and since your desire is not easily achieved, you should change your way of life. Maybe you should hit the gym, change your wardrobe, do stuff that you have never done in your life. It is not about your ego, you live in a society. And this society is different than your dreamland. Accept it in order to have more options.
Don’t worry about extinction. There is no such thing. People want to have children. But they want to live their life first and that means being independent as long as possible. Not marry the only person they’ve been with in their entire life and THINK he/she is the only one.
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I’m Hungarian, and by far we are the most sexiest women in the world; No one can ever take that beauty from us. So good luck trying because You will never be on our level or above. We Magyar girls party hard however, also we live to a ripe old age.
Bleh.. Hungarian women are lame..I am so sick of them coming on this blog and posting about how beautiful, sexy and fun they are. They are amazing in their own eyes, but in reality they are selfish, arrogant and lack any compassion or devotion. THey are behaving like children who don’t want to grow up and accept the reailty of the world.
Corner.. Your doomsday will happen sooner than you think. Just take a look at your economy which will soon start tanking as the number of workers required to keep the economy healthy will soon be obsolete. We are talking like 10-25 years, not 1000 years. The effects of EUrope’s underpopulation is already becoming more and more visible.
STupid, immature and self-centered European and American women want to indulge in their idiotic brainless parties and disco clubs, sleeping around with every man/woman they can. You know, sooner or later you people will get old and realize how much of your lives and your nation you have wasted away.
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P.S. Americans do devote their lives to making money and working. This has resulted in a rather sterile, cultureless and seflish society based on monetary achivements.
I do believe there is a middle ground that should be met. Culture should not be forsaken for financial acquisition. Nor, should we forsake our culture and religion for the sake of carnal indulgence, as well as selfish and juvenile desires. We need to work hard, as well as devote ourselves to growing spiritually , morally, culturally.
Running around Budapest going to parties, clubs, getting drunk and screwing women/men is going to result in the deterioration of your society, both financially and spiritually.
This is very sad, because at one time Magyars were very highly cultured and respectable people.. My, my.. What has happened??
These are indeed, end times.
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Listen people young people all over the world are about partying and just having a good time with no morals.I dont care what country from Greece to UK to Spain to Argentina they will be the same because people dont have the religous morals of the older generations.Some countries the women are not so loose ok like Colombia they women are still traditional and want to marry young and start a family but some parts of Colombia the women want to party and have many men till they are 40′s! So for the most part some countries the women are more “liberated” but it also depends of the regions of those countries.
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P.S. so please do not criticize Hungary.It’s not only their fault is a worldwide phenomenon.The gender roles are confused the men don’t know what to do anymore they act g_y! And the women act like men now haha! Thw women have good careers ,education and they do not need men anymore so they will dump you easily.Times have certainly changed. So please respect to all the people.
Agreed we must respect all people. Nothing against Hungary or Hungarians, I just wish they did not depart from their old culture as the girls are too liberal (generally).
Goodafteroon i come back from a new experience:
I left for a week with a collegue south italian woman that every hour called his Boyfriend to his mobile ….she talked that she is fauthful etc etc….in a week of work in Sardegna island strangely she was very kind and affectionate with me and one day she invited me in swimming pool together near each to other and she offered to me a Mojto….all very romantic but…how can think his boyfriend about all this?
I don’t like this woman and i am not searching problems with my work!!!
I have one hungarian woman friend….i remember that the first time that we meet each with other she said ” Paolo i have boyfriend no romantic dinner between us”…..this meaning that one flag not meaning “bad or good girl”
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Ciao Paolo.. Listen my friend.. I think you are being a bit unfair to your own Italiano women. THere is lying , cheating , conniving harlots in every country. Perhaps you were hanging with the wrong crowd in Italy. There are still many strict religious families there. Places like Hungary have there share of infidelious people. What do you think of Budapest’s Love Parade, where lesbian women are having sex right in the street in front of children? Oh, wow, how virteous those Magyars are!
Now heres a question, what makes you think when a HUngarian woman says no romantic dinner between us, that she means what she says? LOLOL .. Maybe you don’t understand how adultery works in USA, but a majority of American women would not even dare make a move on you. It always starts out as a casual friendship that persists for a while, like a few months. Then, when both of you have your guard down, the affair begins. In many ways, the women have it planned from the beginning, but rather not feel like they were the perpetrator.
Don’t be so quick to think that a woman is not planning a devious scheme of cheating. Italians, I must say, are more passionate and express their emotions very quick. Germans, Hungarians, Scandanavians and Americans are very closed and mask their intentions with the face of innocence. Please don’t be naive here.
There must still be traditional people in places like Malta, Sardegna and Sicilia. Italians have a strong culture.
As far as finding a virtuous and loyal wife, most of Europe is degrading and falling victim to the American feminist movement. Girls are degrading everywhere.
My questions are, how much time did you spend in the countryside or with relgious or traditional famillies?
Sardegna has the highest life expectancy on the Earth and they are not all on meds like Americans are.. Something must be right there.
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culture has nothing to do with beauty. can’t understand why you’re connecting these two things.. by the way, it’s easy to make an opinion about millions of women without knowing even one of them, but completely useless. i can google datas and statics about english or turkish girls as well, but you can be sure it won’t make a sense.
Oh? Beauty has nothing to do with behavior? I disagree. Love see with the heart and not with the eyes. Basically most people are pretty attractive. What makes someone beautiful is who they are. Girls know this better than men. If you have two twin sisters say. One is out of control, tattoos all over her body and a a smoke hanging from her mouth and swearing and changing boyfriends like once a year. Then the other sister is waiting for her one and only and behaves modest and does secret works of goodness and charity. Who is the more beautiful?
This is like Jane Austen’s Persuasion – Have you read this book?
You can not generalize about a whole nation or people! However, western culture is not the optimal for marriage and love.
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Yonathan I’m not Hungarian, it just happened to live there for couple of years and I know Hungarian girls very well. I also spent couple of years in other countries too.
I can very well say to you that, everyone that I know who did spent some years in various countries, (male or female) Hungary had a special place in their heart. You have to live there to understand why.
If I take now a typical NYorker, his life is governed by a clock, his work comes first and then family or his well being. I will also add that the bad economy around the world started because you are greedy and selfish. So please spare us with the economy lessons. Hungary’s economy is not like that because people party their entire life. It is like that because their government is crushing them with taxes more than 15 years now. The previous government also lied with how much they owe.
So get your facts straight before talking.
Back to the topic and to the admin: A girl can have tattoo, change boyfriends every now and then and be modest and good at the same time. Another girl can be modest wait for the one and only her entire life and care for other people but be the ugliest girl on the planet. Who is the more beautiful?
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How often we confuse beauty with virtue, but in some cases you get both.
Virtue can be boring to someone. To you it might be the whole world. It all depends in what you seek in a girl. I like girls who have flame inside them, instead of being a typical boring girl with “values”. This, though, has nothing to do with how good a person is or if the relationship will be successful or not. Both girls can be good in their own way and you can have healthy relationship with both girls or it may end up bad…it all comes down to both of you.
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Some guys like the bad girl and some guys like the good girl. I guess it is different for everyone. But I think like attracts like. If you are someone who is a little twisted you will like someone the same. The problem with this is, it can be fun and exciting but often these relationships have no future. The best is a good girl who will be a little bit crazy but for you. But to each their own.
Well, when I read the introduction of the article I was sure that the author has strong anti-hungarian sentiment. He mentioned about the country’s “dark” past. As a History teacher I’m very curious what exactly is this “dark” past? because the UK, US and Israel made more “mistakes” in the past.
About the subject: I find Hungarian girls very attractive and less liberal than Swedish or American girls. A lot of whores I found in Miami and NY while I made my career training, American girls between 22-35. BTW I’m German.
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Interesting post to read, especially for a Hungarian girl, like me:)
Corner, Paolo and John, thanks for your nice comments about us and Im happy that you had good experiences.
Surely, some ppl might have had bad examples, but like other girls from other countries, we can be very different.
I moved out of Hungary 5 years ago but I’m still in everyday-contact with 4-5 good friends of mine from Budapest. 80% of them live in a relationship, I could say in a happy relationship and yes, they can cook, they are carrying, educated and they can also party and have fun, even above 30.
What I like in Hungarian girls: for them its not enough just to be a girlfriend of someone and kinda serve her “man of her live”, but many of them do sports, have hobbies and know what to do with their free-time. I lived in other coutries too and not many girls can say the same about themselves.
So yes, Hungarian girls look very independent, but it does not mean that they dont stick to their boyfriends or they dont wanna marry. But this is not the meaning of their life (I mean now in a negative way). They can be happy without a man too, they dont need a supporter.
Dont get me wrong, if a girl is in love and finds a nice boyfriend, of course she will go for it, but life does not stop just because you are single.
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I haven’t talk to any Hungarian girl so i can’t tell you about their personality but they’re drop dead gorgous, and as the other guy says, i don’t think French girl are pretty at all..
Well…now i come back form Budapest…i know some hungarian woman and i have meet them with Badoo chat if someone know it….I have meet in totally 4 women and i cansay that everytime i have knew good women…the last was traditional catholic also….i caqnsay in a big city you can find every type of woman canexist on the world…..good girls….women from one night and stop…etc etc every type…
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I’m a Hungarian girl. I’m not feminist.:D And I want to be a mother when I’ll be older.(I’m 16 yet.)
I think you can say a lot of stupid things about another country. Everybody have problems, like Hungarian girls.. We are not perfect. And sometimes we are depressed. But we are proud because we are Hungarians and nobody can take it away from us..
Thanks for the comment Borbala! Maybe they are stupid things as you believe in family and goodness. I am sure your dreams will come true, just keep your ideals. Shoot for the stars and maybe you will at least land on the moon.
As an Englishman who dated a Hungarian girl for 3 years , I can honestly say she was the hottest, nicest, sexiest, most intelligent and funniest girl I ever met. To this day I don`t think she knew or believed how much I truly loved her. Maybe it`s true that Hungarian girls don`t want the real world or think it`s no fun. It`s also true that even if you have nothing, a Hungarian girl will, if she loves you, will want you for who you are and not what you have. She is strong though and quite insecure. As a result, she will leave you if she even suspects you are not genuine with her.
My girl suspected this….but she was so wrong and I still regret losing her. Love you I.T. x
Hungarian girls
Dear miss-informed sir
I am not sure where you’ve got your information, but Hungarian girls are beautiful, smart and have great personalities. I know, I married one. Sure, Hungarian girls wont rub your back when you wont, wont cook you dinner when you want and wont put up with your macho bullshit. They have dignity and self worth. If you want a slave for a wife, go the Philippines.
If you want passion, excitement and an equal partner, go to Hungary.
Hungarian girls
Hi Admin,
I read your post and most of the comments. A few people in this post have asked where you met these Hungarian. Was it in Budapest? How long were you in Hungary?
You also mention values and loosing those values. I have been living in Canada for a long time but I am Hungarian. I have visited and lived in Canada, American and Central/Eastern Europe and I must say that I have never come across such strong values as I have in Hungary. This is not just from the older but current generation as well. I’m talking about loyalty, kindness and none of that fakeness that I see so often exhibited in Canada per say. Hungarian women may come across strong but they have a kind and generous heart. They are funny and very passionate which may not come across as it should and with a langue barrier it is often misunderstood. Most of the friends and family that I know (younger generation) is not prone to divorce or separation but understand at the same time that if something does not work, why would they want to stay in that relationship. We only have one life to live…live it happy. With that said I am married and have been with the same man…a Hungarian for 11 years. I cook (mostly Hungarian) and clean but also uphold a very ambitious job. This is a similar relationship/life that I find when I visit my friends and family in Hungary.
Out of curiosity, how much time have you spent in Hungary and which parts?
Thanks!
Hungarian girls
You know I do not want to get into a debate of credibility based on who has been there more, because you will win, since you are from there. However, of course I live in Eastern Europe and have many personal experiences with this country. But yes you have spent more time there I am sure. But that does not mean I do not have a point. I can see things not only from close up but from afar.
Basically there are wonderful Hungarian people.
But the trend in Hungary is moving away from being the country of the Holy Mother, which Hungary was for many centuries to some sort of strange new secular humanism that comes from a mix of post communist values and western European postmodernism.
Is that bad? Not if you hold those values as your own. But I am someone who believes in the family and divorce is not an option. I believe it is a blessing to a wife at home with the kids instead of a wife serving her boss and master at work (by working nights and weekends), in the name of her career instead of cooking her children homemade chicken soup.
If you say Hungarian girls of today have strong family values and are ready to take care of their families and the husbands are equally ready to serve their families and do anything to hold the family unit together and grow in love for each other and God. Then I am wrong. I am not putting an objective value judgement on anyone. I am just saying according to my personal ethics. And if I were a man looking for a wife this is what I would hope to find in a wife as I as a husband would give up everything for my family.
If you are saying Hungarians are like this then I am wrong. I like Hungary the country and the people, I just hope it does not go the way of many western countries. Maybe you are right I do not have a full perspective. I guess I am open and wonder what other people’s personal experiences are.
Hungarian girls
You wrote “I live in Eastern Europe and have many personal experiences with this country.” I’m assuming the country is Hungary. Where have you been in Hungary? The capital or other cities?
Although this article may be a reflection of you personal taste and preference it is also an out right proclamation of your of your patriarchal and misogynistic view of women.
What I find more outrageous than your Victorian claims is the fact you feel that your opinion is researched and informed. Your misuse of statistics and amalgamation of myopic obsession with a metaphysical view is irrational and contradictory. Your entire article is filled with fallacies which I will not address in detail; however I will address the following:
> Your views are patriarchal and misogynistic
Your opening statement is one aimed at discrediting the opinion that Hungarian girls are beautiful. Instantly you draw attention to the fact that you see “girls” as something dedicated for your viewing pleasure. I also find the use of the term ‘girls’ interesting, do you consider yourself a boy? Or is your reference to women as ‘girls’ a representation of your male superiority complex?
You also cite that 50% of Hungarian marriages end in divorce which you immediately fault the women; I ask you why the men have no involvement in this statistic?
Speaking to Hungarian women being feminist, you oversimplify feminism to the point of vulgarity. Feminism is not just about being pro choice (in fact I am sure you would find pro life, religious feminists). The feminist movement is a post-modern disciplined aimed at deconstructing a male-centered culture which traditionally harbored views of women similar to your own.
> You are a Victorian in your views/beliefs
Your views that women must be mothers and nothing more (again ties in with your misogynist beliefs) and also emphasizes your opinion that relationships in order to be taken seriously must be heterosexual.
You have also complained that Hungarian women are bloated with pride and are aggressive. Again, we have come a long way from the 1800’s and women are no longer required to be meek, delicate creatures prone to fainting from long travel or men talking business.
> Your entire article is based on a false syllogism
You make assumptions that Hungary’s dark history has somehow made their women un-pious and unhappy. I don’t believe there is a country on the planet without its own dark history. You somehow assume that a woman that is strong, progressive and confident will be a contributing factor to a decline in monogamy.
You assume that being religious (and by the tone of your article I will assume catholic) will make an individual a better more valid person (which historically we know this not to be true). None of your conclusions have any validity outside of your unexamined assumptions.
You argue that communism has made the people negative, which I find unfounded as so many countries in the world that are considered to have leftist governments are considered the happiest on the planet.
> Your arguments are contradictory
If you were so religious and pious yourself you would not be grading women like chattel and selecting you prime cuts based on your discerning taste (I can’t remember Christ doing that in the bible). You would judge not lest ye be judged!
Hungarian girls
First thank you sincerely for the input as I really am open to your views and you are not being rude. In fact, I really like the power of your intellect. However, I respectfully of course disagree.
About being a religious person, a tree is known by its fruit. That is you are your religion and what you do and how you treat others is what you believe. We both know that.
-> Communism’s effect on Hungarian society
Communism destroyed Eastern Europe. There is no question. You can live in North Korea if you want, or go into a time machine back into the surreal times when the Union (Soviet) dominated Eastern Europe, but I have lived many years of my adult life here and communism destroyed people’s lives. How many years of your adult life have you lived here? The point can not even be argued if you live here.
->On being a wife
Call me old fashion or whatever, but women need to make their husband and children their first priority. If they do not the family unit breaks apart as women are the center. If you think you can go have a career and serve your master (your boss) and your family think again. No one can serve two masters. I will always choose my wife and family over my boss for time, needs anything.
- marriage
Some men are real jerks, but the statistics show that women are the ones that file for divorce in most cases, they just get unhappy, usually after they have their kids, then their husband ‘oh he is such and idiot’ to their girlfriends. But the men also again are jerks and hang out with the guys looking at other women. Whose fault? They should have talk about how important marriage is before the marriage. In marriage the husband and wife need to be the others one and only now and forever. All or nothing.
->Humility.
It is the sweetest of all virtues. I think men and women can never have enough of this. I prefer the company of a humble sincere person any day then someone with pride.
I do not mean to offend in the post and if you can think of a good topic to counter this post, I would be more than happy to interview you for example to give a counter point. It could be called something like ‘how one Hungarian women sees the world’.
Hungarian girls
Girls! Having read your comments about how funny and beatiful and sexy you are reminds me of one thing: my nurcery years actually. It was when the way we used to close an “argument” by repeatedly saying to each other that my dad is stronger than yours and will come over and beat you up. But we were four, you know. Being a child might perhaps bit of a credible excuse for being childish and infantile. But you are being all grown-up big gals now, arn’t you? As for the rude comments of yours you made it just proves me right about this being again a nice example of the famous Hungarian way of thinking: rather than facing critics and facts and as a result junking your views you instead guys act conversely: flex the facts to the view about yourselves, which view is never a very critical one. You always blame the mirror never yourself. After all you wrote in your comments, can we seriosly beleive you hold a clear view of what Hungarian girls are really like? On the contrary it tends to be pretty unrelated with the truth which you fail to accept, but it never bothers you. Just keep saying : we are beautiful, we are funny, we are funny, we are funny. Funny, yes. Exactly as funny as a parrot. Are you absolutely certain about this being the most convincing way to restore the slightly (..hmm, how to put it politely) faded, oh sorry, less shiny reputation of Hungarian women?
Hungarian girls
Yes, you’re right, many quite arrogant indeed.
But it’s a bit unfair for this to blame them. It’s just not their fault, it’s the environment.
If you grow up in in a place where rudeness and arrogance is the standard way of interaction you inevitably become one yourself.
I would still be very curious where exactly and for how long have you lived in Hungary? (just wondering as you judge us like someone who actually lived there for long-long time).
As for me, I moved to Cyprus from Hungary and lived there for 5 years, but I still would not judge them and would not generalize them as you did with us.
Most of the foreigners who lived there, did not like Cypriots for different reasons, but I’ve met very nice ppl and made many friendships (some ppl couldnt, even after living there for years). You just have to be a little more open and less judgemental. That’s what I think.
Hungarian girls
I do not live in Hungary at all. I thought that was clear from what I write all over. I live in Eastern Europe and travel about a lot.
I think people from the outside can often see things clearer than people from the inside. It is called perspective. It would be very boring if writers only have legitimacy if they are native to the country. If this was true Norman Davies would have not business writing for example.
I have to go back carefully and reread my post and comments. I do not mean to sound hard at all on Hungarians. It is just in my personal experience. If you feel my view is wrong, please correct me, I would even offer to someone like yourself the opportunity to guest post and write a different perspective.
However, the Hungarian women I know are without exception non religious or in name only, non traditional with male female relationships (and the country has a high divorce rate statistically). If I was a man looking for a wife Hungary would not be the first place I look because of this.
I think most guys want a gal who would cook and take care of the family and see their man as their hero who rescued them. Not some women who will always tell them they are wrong. This has been my experience with Hungarian girls. They always are arguing a feminist point of view, or trying to tell the man he is wrong. I have no found this in other Eastern European cultures as much, but in UK and American culture.
Please I really invite a guest poster in this regard to balance things out, as I want to be open and fair.
Hungarian girls
Too bad that my random avatar is an agressive face, but trust me, I did not choose this one
LOL
I am sure the avatar is the opposite of who you are.
hi Admin,
so you haven’t lived in Hungary at all. (I know that you are living in Poland now but I thought you lived in Hungary at one point). But really, how can you say then that Hungarian girls are not wife-material and they dont like to cook for their husbands, or take care of him and look at him as a Hero?
Would it be very cheezy if I would say that I love cooking, taking care of my man, and yes, look at him as a Hero? Dont laugh, but I even learned how to give a massage, and learnt a lot about football just because I know that my man likes it. Or I keep on track at my boyfriend’s friend’s or family’s birthday’s so I can let him know the day before (because guys are not the best of remembering of those days, lol). And I’m from Budapest.
But, I have many friends who do the same to their husbands/boyfriends and they all live in Budapest!
Either I have the same type of friends as me, or I was just lucky or I just prove my point.
Yes, I believe that there are some girls (especially in Budapest) who dont appreciate their good relationships or complaining all the time about their boyfriends – like in every other country.
But I hope you believe me when I’m saying that 80-90% of my (girl)friends are not like that. They cook, when they go for shopping they always think about their guys and buy them some silly present, they are caring and they want kids.
Hungarian girls
Bee is that is the case then I am wrong. Maybe in my years of living and traveling around Europe, the Hungarian girls I have meet were like I have described, but generalizations are always distortions of the truth.
My basic idea is I would do anything for my wife. I think husbands should basically be their wives champion in every sense of the word. This is love and this is marriage. The man should take care of and cherish the girl. But the girl should equally take care the man. It is beyond me why if I man willing and freely loves a woman with all his heart, for her to cook a meal for him is such a big deal.
Why is it such a point of contention that a mother cooks food for her child?
What is a such a big deal that you stay with your husbands all the days of your life like you promise in front of the community on your wedding day?
To some women it is a big deal. They feel repressed and will make a man unhappy by fighting him on these points. These are the Hungarian women I have meet.
However, if you are saying that Hungarian women are not like then I stand corrected. In my experiences the Hungarian girls I have meet tend side with feminism over their husbands.
I will have to look into this more, thank you for bringing this to my attention. If you are saying like 85% of Hungarian women will take care of their man in a good positive way. I will look into this. Thank you very much.
Hungarian girls
I guess I have a question, would you and your friends stay with their man no matter what? Even if you were married and unhappy?
Well, thats not an easy question. Of course, it depends on the situation and many-many other things.
If my husband beats me and our kids up regularly, then I would say NO WAY I would stick to him. Why would I?
But if we have a peaceful, nice marriage and after a few years the love fades (it can happen, but u still love the person, you are just not IN love), then I would stay with him and if we have any problem, we will work on it together. It’s not all about us, its about the kids, the parents, the family, the whole unite as it is. In every marriage you can face problems, but I believe, if you marry someone, then you know the person a little bit. It’s good to go to travel together, go through on different difficulties so you know how he will react in extreme situations.
And yes, you both have to work on the marriage, so you can “benefit” more. I would never be the wife who would put dirty tracksuit or t-shirt on at home (just because no-one can see me only my husband). Even after years I would like my husband to look at me as a WOMAN. It’s a big challenge but not impossible. Also, it’s nice to surprise your husband or family with small things, even every week: cook his favourite food, buy tickets to cinema, last minute weekend getaway, sometimes stay together without the kids (this is very important), let him meet his friends and watch football or play poker or whatever. Many-many things that you can DO for your husband and for his happiness. And if your husband is happy, that should make YOU happy and he will act the same way.
One thing is very important though: you have to be able to communicate! With a good communication I believe that every problem can be solved (and that worked for me so far). Also, be honest and respect the man who decided to stay with you till the rest of his life. Such a big decision, just imagine!
Of course, I would expect the same from my husband, no question.
Hungarian girls
One more thing: you wrote somewhere above that many women are trying to change their husbands and they are telling them off (dont do this, dont do that). Yes, unfortunately it’s true, in general. It happens in Hungary, but anywhere else too.
I completely disagree with this behaviour, because in this case the other part will start acting like a child, even do it more, just to do the opposite (to be rebel). I think in this case a little bit of sense of humor helps, because sometimes you just really want to help. For example: if my husband would smoke a lot, I would slowly try to change this habit as IT’S NOT GOOD (this is a fact and not just not good FOR ME). If I would just tell him off each time he lights up a cigarette, obviously he would never stop smoking and we would have an argument each time he would smoke. So in this case I would think of something smart that would make him want stop smoking.
Also, being to able to compromise. Just one example from my life;) :
A few years ago my boyfriend and me went to Cuba for 2 weeks. We had amazing 14 days together but last night we had a small fight. It was our last night and I wanted to go down to the beach in Havana to take some pictures of the sunset. Apparently, there was a football game on the tv at the same time and my boyfriend’s favourite team played, it was a derby.
He wanted to watch it but he did not like the idea that I’m going alone for a walk in Havana. (although I would not have mind). So we could not decide for a while what should we do, we had an argument about it, and at the end we decided to watch the first half of the game, and then to go down to the beach. We were both happy with he solution:)
Hungarian girls
You seem like a very easy going person and I know you will be happy. I think a lot of relationships have problems because people believe they can give up if things get hard. You have a good attitude, someone who is easy going and does not give up.
By the way Cuba sounds great, I know a few people from cold dark Eastern Europe take 2 or 3 months there in the winter as it is really cheap, except for the flight.
Hungarian girls
I agree with most points you write. I’ve dated three Hungarian women (long-term) and each one has either had an ego problem or suffered a tremendous lack of self-confidence and negativity. Ok, perhaps I just pick the wrong one but in each relationship and those of male friends I talk to, politics always plays a part (?), intolerance of others and, unfortunately, infidelity. I’ve been cheated on twice and, in my own little ‘polling’ of male friends and associates (many of), I can honestly say not one has had a loyal relationship – be it because they couldn’t keep zipped up or their girlfriends/wives. In fact, I’ve had both sexes (I meet a lot of people in my job) tell their stories with almost pride if it were they who engaged in the infidelity towards their partner.
Ego, a lack of willingness to take responsibility and being hung up on the past (which includes politics, intolerance) do nothing but hinder progress in a relationship.
Call me cynical but I pretty much give up!
Hungarian girls
To explain the lack of self-confidence: it goes a long way to destroying or holding back a relationship. You can try and bring up that level of confidence but ultimately, if they are unwilling to even try, it results in a desire to control yet a lack of want to accept responsibility for their own mistakes.
The problem is when you have a girl with low confidence is when you empower her (or anyone) by boasting their self-confidence it can have unpredictable results. Sometimes it works out great and they are grateful. Other times they will get out of control with their new-found power.
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