How to talk to Russian girls
I am 100% Slavic or Eastern European but also born in the USA as were my parents. I live now in Eastern Europe. I think I have a good perspective on how to talk to Russian girls as they are different from Western girls.
How to talk to Russian girls
How are Russian girls different
Russian women like the direct approach. The best way to meet a Russian girl is ask directions or just start talking about anything or recommendations where to go to. Then ask them what they are doing in Moscow, are they are student or do they work. Ask them ‘if they would be terribly offended if you asked them for their cell phone number”. Or just skip the sms and ask them if they would give you a tour or on another day go for a walk in the park.
American girls will think you are nuts
I do not think American or western European girls would even consider this, they would label you as a stalker or a nut.
Russian girls are different because they want to get married and have children. Basically every Russian lady wants to find her love.
Remember anything you experienced with western European women or American singles has nothing to do with the reality of Russia. Those Western chicks would not last long in Russia with their crazy superficial and snooty attitude.
Talk romantically to ladies from Russia
Use love phrases in Russian, talk about Russian romantic literature. If you really want to get the girl and you feel she is your destiny, tell you. Any guy that says this to a Russian women will get an ear. She will listen to what you have to say even if she has a boyfriend. Tell her how you think it is strange that you meet her and you have been looking for her your whole life, in your dreams. But only say this to the one and only girl of your dreams not to every girls walking down the street. But if you feel it go for it.
Do not lose courage in Russia
I am painfully shy, painfully. I went to an all boys school. I am still shy in life but with women I realized if I wanted to meet the woman of my dreams I had to go for what I wanted, take no prisoners.
I did. And I got my beautiful Slavic princessa. When I first saw her I thought she was too beautiful to talk to me and so I walked away. I am so thankful when I saw my wife for the first time I did not lose my courage. In fact I first walked away and the went back. This is what you have to do if you are on a trip to Russia,Ukraine or Poland. You have to say to yourself ‘life is short and your dead a long time.’ So you can not afford to lose courage.
Unlike in the west you will find your love in Russia, it might take six months. But the only guys I have ever meet that did not find the women of their dreams in Russia were guys that were players themselves.
Western girl chat and Russian girl talk
American girls will talk all kind of non sense to you and ultimately care about how much of an ‘alpha male’ you are. Are you bringing in the big buck and walk the talk. In Russia girls are wiser, they are about love.
Is this fair? No, but here is the good news.
My friends who married American women are unhappy, the ones that married Russian women are very happy.
Russia chat
Russian women cook, clean, take care of the kids support you emotionally and will be loyal (I actually think Ukraine and Poland is better than Russia in terms of loyal).
Therefore, focus your conversation on love, Russia, languages, culture, literature. In Russia these are metaphors for intellect and sensitivity and this is what Russian women want to chat about to feel like you are marriage material.
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33 responses to How to chat and talk to Russian girls
I want to find my love from Russia or anywhere in the world. I am a good man who likes work sport listen to music.
Ahaha!!! You’re so funny!!! I’m a Russian girl. And I think your attitude to our girls is a little obsolete. Love… what’s love?? The major thing is how much money you have and how much you can give. And of course all Russian girls want to leave Russia…
Nicki, at some level you do not believe what you wrote. I know it. If you found your prince, someone who made the moon appear in the sky and the stars shine at night for you. Someone when he holds you it feels like you and him are the only two people in the world. Money would not matter and you would think it is a dirty thing and should never be mentioned in the same breath with love. Someone that would totally conquer you. Someone where you do not have a choice other than to say, I surrender. ‘Our greatest fears are like dragons guarding our hearts deepest treasure, waiting for us to be bold and beautiful.’ Someday your prince will come. This is what not what Russian girls want and it is not how your talk and chat to Russian girls but to all girls, because it is true and every man at some level wants to be the champion for his princess. It is not a lie it is true and you know it.
Nicki your English is fine, but I disagree with Russian girls wanting to find a rich man and leave Russia. Most want love. And the ones that do not want true lifetime love, really want love but are afraid it will be all wrong.
All my friends married to Eastern European girls stayed in Eastern Europe and taught English. I think girls dream of travel and excitement but by the time they get of age to marry they want someone who will love them. I teach English and I have many students who are ‘career women’ who are very unhappy they did not focus on finding love. If you marry for money it is the hardest way to earn it. If money is your god, there are easier more direct ways to earn money from a guy than marriage. Look Russia is a large beautiful country. I am an American but I would live there. In a global economy it does not matter where you live or your education, it matters what you do with your life.
Career is the most boring meaningless thing a person can do. It is corporate serfdom. Working for some stupid boss nights and weekends. Love is the only thing in life, it makes the world go around.
Admin,
You believe in pure love. It’s very good. But this belief can lie to you… Love plays the main role only for 1 or 2% of girls, I think. They can tell you that love is all they’ve ever wanted but it’s not so. But now we talk about Russian girls, well, if they want to marry Russian they will search for a rich man which can give her all she wants. If Russian girl wants to marry foreigner she hope he will take her to his country and also give her money. Russian girls search for better life so many of us want to find a foreign husband. And you want to find a housewife which will bring up children, cook, clean and so on. You forget that women want to make career and be successful in life, too. They don’t want to be behind the shadow of those husbands. Anyway it’s my mentality.
p.s. sorry for bad English
MY GOD!!! How can you tell Russia is a beautiful country???? Russia is an awful, dirty, poor country!! I know it better than you, I live in Russia! You know, Eastern Europe and real Russia are absolutely different things. And I tell you again Russian girls want to leave Russia, want to find better life!
You know I can’t imagine you are poor, I think you don’t need in anything, you can buy almost everything you want while women in Russia save last copecks to buy some food for her children. They wear the same clothes for ages! That’s why I told your that career and money are very important. And I want to say that people don’t live in Russia they servive there.
p.s. admin, I think you’re hippie, aren’t you?
Hi I am not a hippie I am a business guy. I am American but my grandparents came from Ukraine. Like I said you can get rich in Russian, Eastern Europe or America. It does not matter any more. It matters more about your creativity. No job is going to make you rich, even if you move to Moscow. But if you learn to be creative you can think of ways to get rich in Russia.
Russia has everything you could imagine. Including beautiful girls.
You’ll never convince me!! Europe isn’t Russia especially Siberia where I live. Your creativity doesn’t matter here only your money…
Creativity matters in Siberia. Why can you not have a web company there? Why can you not move to Moscow? Siberia is a beautiful, exotic. A very fertile place. There are a million ways to make money. And love never has anything to do with money. And not all Russian girls want money. Most want love.
NO! Love plays the second maybe even the third role after material succeed. And you have never been in Siberia! If you want I can show the photos from my dirty town. Siberia is a big dark hole! Why do you think the convicts were sent in Siberia many years ago??
You are not a victim in life. You are not your typical Russian girl. You see yourself as victim. The Russian girls I know study many years and move to the city to change their life and they do. You can move to Moscow or St. Petersburg and get a basic job and work your way up. Most people in the USA do not start making money until you are in their 30s. Many people in far off lands like Siberia make lots of money. It is all according if you use your imagination. Life in your ‘dirty town’ is 100 times better than life 100 years ago. And 100 years ago people married for love. Love is all or nothing. Did you not see slum dog? People in India are much poorer than you and they marry for love. Do you not believe in God and the real meaning of life, which is love?
For making real money you have to have useful acquaintances. For getting an education in the university you or your parents have to have money because free education is only for exempts. Of course there are some free govermant places in the university (only about 12-16 and more of them for exempts and often these “exempts” are fake) and it’s amazing hard to enter to the free place. And without education you can’t get a good job. I’m not a victim I’ll do my best to become successful and independent.
God… God didn’t create people, people created God.
Nicki, Stalin and Lenin taught the Russian people that this is the way you get ahead, by connections and you will get a good job to give you a better life.. Stalin and Lenin taught the Russian people that God was created by man. Stalin and Lenin were very stupid men.
To make money all you need is an idea. You do not need capital because you have intellectual capital. Intellectual capital will always be worth more than friends or a job.
About God. There is a complex stratification of reality. Just like a mouse can not learn to speak Russian so a human, no matter how great their mind is, does not have a brain large enough to penetrate the ultimate reason of this universe. Why there is something and not nothing, why is there anything at all. If time has no end, how could there be a beginning. So many Russian girls are post communist Russian girls and they do not question their understanding of the world, but rather take what their parents were taught by Lenin and Stalin type people as true.
Oh, don’t tell me about Lenin and Stalin! They were crazy, I think. And I know nothing about what they taught. I just see a reality.
lol… I think ultimately nikki will marry admin.
Nikki is a smart Russian girl. But no way would we ever get married. Not possible as I am married to the girl of my dreams. My wife is my princess, the one and only for me.
Nicki there is European Russia and Asiatic Russia. European Russia is not that much different from Eastern Europe.
You should know this.
Hi Guys ( admin and nikki)
I m also a Russian girl and actually I 100 % agree with Admin. Nicki, it’s all about you and your attitude.
You can not say for all the girls in Russia.
And actually, Admin- you are right: there are tons of ways to earn money here and have your life settled.
As for money, yes, it’s important but it has nothing to do with love or your job.
Creativity-that’s what matters.
In a global economy people get paid on creativity and intellectual capital which transcends boarders. Valentina, thank you for seeing this. I know. I am an American living in Eastern Europe and if you are creative you can make it anywhere. You do not need to be a corporate serf in the States to achieve something. And my grandparents where from Ukraine and they found love with no money in Eastern Europe. Love transcends all. This is why I say if Russians or western guys fall in love with a Russian girl, it does not matter where they live or what they do as long as they love each other.
Hi every one…
Sorry for my English…
I read every comment here, in my search for a way to meet Belarus or Russian girls I find this site.
Well I must say, in a way , every single one of you have right… money, love, position in life, family…all that it´s important for a human being.
I´m from Chile , a very distant place from you but we are the real best economy in South America, we expend years in training our minds and ways to fix in the international community, we almost don´t have death in childhood , we almost don´t have an alphabetism, we have a strong economy (the resent world wide economic crisis do not affect us much)…but we lost something in the way…we lost the capability to love, I have 34 y.o. and my generation and those who followed expend several years only in university training, it`s common here , like me, have 2 or 3 careers in order to complete, I personally have 2 engineer degrees and a Master…but we care our selves so much for be “managers” “business man and women” etc.. we forget how to really love, I´m single without kids like many of man and women here. Several men and women here are trying to connect them selves with that part again , we search around the world for people who still have that capacity but also people who wants a better life , progress in life, better way of life. We are so far it´s difficult to us to know people from Russia , we know history, we know the kind of women they are, but How to meet them? I would like to meet Russian girls. How to contact to them? it´s simple to go there but you can´t stay there for 6 months in order to meet someone…
I invite to you all to help as to recover that we lost and of course to come to Chile an visit a very very beautiful country, with bast deserts , incredible clean forests , greats cities an powerful mountains…our summer begins know, subtropical weather , great sun and beaches…we are many who can invites you as guest in our houses
take my word…we are third world, right, we are not a rich country, right…but we are brave, very proffesional and intelligent people , kind, and loyal…you won´t repent to help our people to meet yours!!
regards to all of you
Have you tried the websites I recommend on my blog like mail.ru and vkontakte.ru? Also girls from Chile are very beautiful, however, if you like Russian girls it is easy. Sign up for the websites I recommend and start chatting with them.
Hello Dear Admin
I am guy 25 years old from Egypt , I am work as geophysicist engineer in oil and gas company , I am happy with my work but i am travel most of my time according to my work . I am really wanna to marry an Russian or Ukranian girl to make happy lovely family , but i don’t know how i can get her . and how I can bring her to Egypt . I want her to live with me in my home country.
thanks for your time
I hope you can help me to find my wife.
kind regards
Try not to think of the idea of marrying a Russian or Ukrainian girl as much as finding the person for you. Your other half not matter there they are from. If you start from this position, you will have a better chance of finding her. I would try some online resource I have recommended on my site.
Hello Everyone, my English is not very good. If you have any questions about communicating with Russian girls you need to ask the Russian can help you. I am very interested to talk with you so write to help than I can. I wanted to say that La girl NIKKI or as it is there it does not matter very much and lied to so strongly do not treat her very true.
First, thank you very much. I guess my first question is what is your perspective on Russian girls? Nikki’s was rather, it is all about money and opportunity. I do not see it this way. The Russian girls I know personally are very normal humble girls and do fine with their life and are not looking someone to free them, rather they are looking for a connection that could be love. Maybe I am wrong, but what is your view?
I think Nikki has fallen to her own limitations. Love versus reality,,,,hummmmm. Our dear Nikki has just not been shown the light yet. It’s a wonderfull thing, but reality does play a part in everyday existence. You just cant get there from here without any money. Chin-up Nikki, I’m sure that sooner or later you will find whats missing in your life and all will become clear.
As far as the western vrs european or russian debate is concerned. Western women are much more into status and the bottom line than any lady I have ever met in eastern europe or russian areas I have been. I will admit that my time in Bucharest was a little strange. How can I say,,,, almost stuck-up. But the friends I made in Moscow we’re all from the direct aproach. And for god sakes, theres beautiful ladies EVERYWHERE you look. And like admin said, dont go being a creep. Just be natural and talk to her like a human being, not a movie star. Russian ladies are a very smart crew, if you come off like an idiot, then expect to get treated like one. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Oh, and one other thing,,,, it always helps to put forth some effort in a little local knowledge and language.
Good Luck
Bravo Nikki!
I was much impressed by your insights and your way of expressing them! Rarely do we see truth spilled out so effortlessly, as if from a force of nature.
Isnt it simply so that everyone wants to love and feel loved, but the world around us can make us stray?
And Admin, you are doing a very good job being diplomatic!
You guys are great!
Sincerely,
Roger
Hello all,
Somehow I found this wonderful website and all the posts are very interesting. I will be coming back to this website everyday.
But I agree completely with Nicki and her thoughts. Whatever she told is the reality. I am from India and nowadays girls who live in metro cities here prefer money or the guys career.
But still there are people here who lives in villages who prefer real love. But nowadays money is the king. If you money you can get everything in life …… almost.
Warm regards
With money you can get everything but love. With money you can get everything but health. If you marry for money it will bring you unhappiness, almost a curse, its karma.
Love is the only thing in life that brings happiness, trust me on this. With love you have have everything and more than you could have ever imagined.
My brother married a poor girl and he was poor himself. Now he has millions and millions of dollars. He has always said he was just as happy poor as rich. The only thing that brings happiness is love.
All if not all my friend where money is their god is unhappy. I do not care, I am not my brother’s keeper, if that is what, money, you want to be like, knock yourself out, go ahead, but remember you only have one life and if you make that mistake, you could be unhappy and suffer, I do not wish it at all, but do not say you were not warned. Marriage is about love not money. Live is about love not money.
Thanks for the tip`s. I was married for 2 and a half year with a beautifull woman. She was was the best thing that happens to me in my life until know (she was a gift from life to me). Unfortunately she died a year ago at a very short age… I am sure that I am not going to find any women like her in my country, so I put my eyes un the beauties of East (the are like an angel race). I will put on practice what you say, I was chatting with some women and really they are totaly different from women here. And I am agree with you that they seems to be wiser.
Dear Admin
I 100% agree you! I’m 19 from Canada and my Russian lover is 26 years old and she only loves me because of all those things you said.. at first i thought she is too beautiful(and older) to like me but after a while everything went well and now she loves me and i love her too. And when i read this, it totally made sense to me.. but i had no idea about it before reading this.. i was just being me!!
Hey there, well I am studying in Russian university now and I speak not bad Russian, Recently, I met a Russian girl who I think I am kinda into her. In fact we have only spoken one but we keep contact in vkontake. Also, she show her interest in me. B womenut do Russian fall for people who looks like Chinese ? I am mixalaysian Chinese but I look a little like Chinese.
I think it depends on the Russian. But truthfully I think if you have self confidence it should not matter. In fact you should always take your perceived fear or weakness and turn it in to your strength with girls.
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