Comments on: Does one true love exist

By: admin

admin — Sat, 12 May 2012 00:04:06 +0000

I personally do not trust businessmen. I am or was a businessmen and travelled and was on dating sites. I know a lot of other guys that did too. I would not trust businessmen. I think a lot of their charm is connected to girls thinking they are successful or have money or smart. Believe me they are not smart or wise. Do you know what smart and wise is? If he gave it all up to sweep you off his feet.
I did. I met my wife, left my career and make a pittance of income so I can be with her everyday of my life working from home. That is wise.
I do not trust businessmen.

I think this world has literally about 2 billion guys that are single. A large percentage of those two billion are good honest sincere guys that their dream is to me you. I am sure of it. I think your feelings are real as time and emotions and physical relations are complex. But is it true soul mate love? I think it has to be both ways. I think the guy has to blow you away by rescuing you and chasing you and making you marry him and him being 100% honest and loyal and honest.

I know true love exists as I have it. If you want it, go for it. I am so happy I did not marry some businesswoman with a heart not as pure as mine. But it is your life.

By: cinacantik

cinacantik — Fri, 11 May 2012 14:49:08 +0000

I’m feeling heartbroken now. last year I met a guy on a dating site. We are not in same country. Then he sent me an email first. And since then we exchanged news on email every day. He’s a businessman. then he was on a business trip to my town, we meet face to face. He forced me to have sex. and it has happened.
Then we were split up again for a year, during one year, we were always in touch on email and sms and phone. I began to love him, I saw him as an intelligent, hardworking man, I admired him.
Then this year, we met again in my town, he was also a business trip. I told him that I wanted to continue my studies in his city . He was very happy to hear that. and the fact that I have contacted several universities in his city. then he told me, that in the middle of this year he will come to my city again, but not for a business trip, but special to me.
But a few weeks ago, I found out he still has an account on a dating site. when we have promised to each other to close the account on the site. I closed mine. but he lied to me.
I was very sick at all, because he’s lied to me, he also lied to me about his age. I was very sick, because I have been trying to do anything to be with him. looking for some college to continue my studies and I was always there for him.
I actually already knew that he lied about his age, but when we met in this year, I did not want to ask, I did not want to make him angry or embarrassed. I still came to him. and gave him a pen with his name engraved on the pen.but he gave me the pill, which to this day I still keep the box.then after I found out he has an account on a dating site and began to rebuke him about his lies about his age. he never gave me the news again.he was silent. The ignored me.
I was very angry with me, because I feel he is using me as a travel partner, but I loved him sincerely. He always said he loved me. He wanted me to be his mine always. Which I would ask is, is there love in his heart to me?
Do I have to forgive him if he came back to me?Sshould I see him again to meet in the middle of this year?
Am I an idiot lover?

By: admin

admin — Sun, 06 May 2012 11:41:26 +0000

I certainly hope you have talked to her and tried to get to know her on a cordial basis. Why do you just walk up to her and say hello, and talk about the weather. Nothing deep or heavy, just a conversation about nothing, but with a very subtle flirtation smile at the end of the conversation.

Did you see the movie “Remains of the day”? You will grow of seperately. She might go for someone else if you do not make a move.

This is personally what I would do. There will be more subconscious communication going on than words could ever convey.

Also dress cool. Wear a black, rock climbing shirt, spike your hair up, no cologne. Clean shaven if you look macho, a little facial hair (two-day growth) if you are geeky looking. But a nice smile goes far.

Guys have more time. Girls have a shorter youth. She does not have time to wait. Unless you try, nothing will change.

Let me know more the object of your affection and conception on how to woe her heart.

By: isaiah harvey

isaiah harvey — Sun, 06 May 2012 00:32:43 +0000

I fell in love two years ago and I never want to let go of her. I meet her when she came to my church. Right when I saw her I knew somthing was going to happen I just didnt know what. I see her 52 times per year and every time I see her I fall even more in love with her. Madison if your reading this I love you.

By: admin

admin — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 12:49:00 +0000

When you meet the person who is your destiny, you realize what Rilke meant when he wrote ‘all life before is but preparation for love’. I hope it works out. Put it in God’s hands as it takes the stress off waiting for it to move forward.
I basically do not even remember my life before I was married. I wonder how I even survived being single. I mean I knew my other half was out there but it seemed like such and abstract fantasy more than anything. It seemed like a dream. Now I live my dream and I am very thankful. I still have dreams, but they are just with my love. Thank you for conveying this and write back sometime.

By: Nina

Nina — Mon, 16 Apr 2012 05:41:51 +0000

Thanks for your article. I do believe that true love exists. I’ve always believed in true love, but only now (I’m 27) I have fallen in love. Yes, I’ve dated and liked people before, but it never lasted because none of them were for me. I’ve been in love with this man for almost four months now, but we don’t see each other yet and I don’t believe he knows about my feelings for him. My love for him is so strong and unconditional. I am hoping we will move forward soon. He is very much like me, very outgoing, but shy, when it comes to talking to each other.. I don’t know how we will come about to make this going.

By: Eleanor Arroway

Eleanor Arroway — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 22:44:26 +0000

I hope one day it exists for me too.

By: Greg

Greg — Sat, 03 Dec 2011 08:03:33 +0000

Man, Cory after reading your first reply really hit home with me because I have gone through the same thing only without getting married and divorced. I am 27 and it has always been a repeating cycle with every girl I have ever met and dated. Every single one so far has either cheated on me or broken my heart or just downright dropped me for someone else. I do not know any other feeling when it comes to relationships so I eventually started to expect this result every time and that really takes a toll on the self-esteem/confidence. I am a car guy, so I have always owned and am always working on nice/loud/fast cars and hot rods, and I realized that this was the only reason women wanted to date me. Whenever my hot rod was broke down or I was driving my beat up commuter car, I got no attention at all. I know it sounds trivial but it is a big deal when your life revolves around this field of work and you yearn for someone to be genuinely interested in you and not your set of wheels. I made a decision to stop pursuing women in 2008 because I just became fed up and would rather be happy by myself and enjoy focusing on enjoying the things I love instead of sacrifice everything again for yet another hopeless relationship that just damages my self-esteem. I had the same thought – I have given up on finding love and accepted that I am just going to be alone from now on, even though deep down I yearn for a “soul mate”. Reading your initial reply really caught my attention because of your success in finally finding love. I’ve started research on the possibility of an Eastern European wife and everything I have found so far is really encouraging. I am really considering a vacation overseas fairly soon.

By: admin

admin — Fri, 01 Apr 2011 05:12:38 +0000

I love your metaphor about the Lamborghini. I have never been in one but I can tell you for sure true love does exist. I have had it with my wife for seven years. I am with her 24 hours a day 7 days a week as I work from home. I am very happy. I also think true love is not that rare, but everywhere. I know many people in love deeply.

By: Pmede

Pmede — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 20:28:14 +0000

Of course love exists Just because you were never in love does not mean it doesn’t exist.

I’ve never been in a Lamborghini but they exist.

Actually the most recent divorce rates compiled in the last few years say the divorce rate in America is hovering in the lower 40% range….I think the article cited perhaps it was because of the economic meltdown.

Hey now there may be something to that. Money or an abundance of it is corrupting.