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  • How long should a guy wait to call?

    It is true that no respectable girl will post her mobile number on the Internet for stalkers and creeps to call. I know I would never do it , no matter how lonely my life gets and how desperate I become. I do not have a problem with giving my number to someone if I like them, as long as it is a real life conversation. On the Internet you never really know who you are dealing with and it is quite reckless to post this kind of personal information for everyone to see if you ask me.

    Anyway, I was thinking about how long should a guy wait to call a girl after she gave him her number. I think it should be somewhere between 1 and 3 days. All the dating experts out there will more than likely disagree with me but this just what I think. I have recently heard of someone who waits 2 weeks before making the call. Now two weeks is probably not the best idea, she might figure you are not interested and go out or start talking to someone else or even forget who you are. Or think you called because things didn’t work out with someone else and that she is your second choice. You don’t want that, do you.

    Let me tell you about my personal experience – I have had a guy text me the very same night that we met and it did not make me lose any interest in him. He said goodnight and I thought it was sweet. On the other hand, I am not that sure I would have wanted him to call me right away. But a text message seemed just right.
    Another guy I had known for a while and was absolutely crazy about once said he would call me the next day and did not call me until the day after next. This didn’t have to be his intention, I just kept thinking he forgot, had service problems or some unexpected work to do that kept him from calling. Until the next time when he said he would call me on Saturday and didn’t call until Sunday again. Of course I spent those days waiting and constantly checking the service on my phone as I really cared about the guy. I wonder if that is a common practice in the States. I mean I could understand if he said something like “I will call you sometime/sson” and then kept me waiting for a couple of days but this I can’t really understand. Maybe it’s just one of the cultural differences that I didn’t know about..

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    • How calling numbers is

      I thought it was just common sense to not post your number or any contact information of yourself in view of the public. I mean that would be like posting your credit card number, and just waiting for someone to steal it. Good luck with that one.

      I kind of wonder why some guys don’t call the day they say they are going to. Probably because they heard some lame dating advice from someone who doesn’t know what they are talking about. If I said I was going to call someone for a purpose, I would follow-up and make that call.

      Kinga, let me tell you that dating in America is totally messed up. People are so confused about it that there is no set protocol for how a date should be. One person may say do this for a date, and another will contradict and say do that for a date. It makes your head spin, and you may have better luck jumping into a volcano than trying to date in America.

  • Should a girl call a guy

    There is no way I would call a guy first. I am from a more traditional country, that is Russia and I know some girls call guys. But my advice is this is wrong. Call them only after you have a reasonable rapport. Even with Sms or text messages I do not reply. I know girls are glued to their cell phones and checking it incessantly, but this is no way to get a guy to fall for you.

    As a girl, you need to let the guy chase you. You need to let the guy get frustrated and dream of the unobtainable. If something is too easy including a girl than no one will respect that.

    Woody Allen said, I would not want to be a member of a club that would want me, this is the same with girls and dating. If a girl were to reply to every call and text message than the guy would start to consider her conquered and just rank her in his little black book as a back up plan.

    I think better than too much chatter with phones and chats, just use the phone as a way to arrange a date. Then meet the girl face to face. It of course more stressful but to the victor and the brave goes the spoils. You have to be able to charm a girl face to face.

    My advice is if you are in Moscow for example, than accumulate girls numbers who you might have interest in. Then arrange a meeting at a coffee shop or go for a walk with them. Give them time and o not write them for about three days. Then ask them out again. This is the way you date girls. Not looking for the numbers online or calling them too often. You have to have a stomach for this type of dating but this is where you will find you highest quality women.

    When you are on the date bring a book from the library to read from, or poetry or a non monetary gift, like a home-made card. Let them walk with you arm in arm even. Girl need something tangible and real to dream about. They need something concrete not digital messages on a screen. This is nothing. They need three dimensional and real prince charming. That will chase the girl even though she does not call him or return your calls or give you any hint that she is interested. If you are a normal guy, she is.

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    • You say: “As a girl, you need to let the guy chase you. You need to let the guy get frustrated and dream of the unobtainable. If something is too easy including a girl than no one will respect that.”

      If you act like that, how is the guy to know he should even bother?

      • What girls really mean when they say 'no'

        The girls are always interested. It is the man’s role to try to the girls role to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Lucky for men, sometimes ‘yes’ means ‘no’ and ‘no’ means ‘yes’ and ‘maybe’ says try a little harder.
        You have to try. If I did not try to win my wife’s heart even if it took a lot of time and patience I would not be so happy today. If a girl says ‘no’, come back another day and be charming and flirtatious and it might turn to a maybe. This is the way girls operate. They make you wait and wonder.

        So many girls hopelessly in love have said when I first met my husband I did not like him.

        Go for the girl you want, play to win.

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