There are nice American girls, but every American guy who goes to Eastern Europe, including Romania comes back a changed man. I have seen it on their faces. I have travelled too much of the world to see it any different. When an American guy goes abroad or turns expat, then his world view and dating perspective is to swear off American women.

His eyes are open like Neo in the Matrix. You can not go back in, and if you could would you really want to? It is all fake.

After I lived in Eastern Europe the women in the USA who I thought were hot stuff and held their chins up like Sneetches that had stars on their bellies scorning men left and right simply had no power at all. In retrospect their spell was so broken and I felt like I dodged a bullet with all the ones I thought I wanted to date. Golly gee wilikers I was lucky.

I mean I can admire American woman like I would see a nice race horse, but I would not want to date one. They lost their appeal.

You are not an American guy. You have been mostly Americanized yourself has you have lived 15 years in the USA.

Romanian women are more stylish, less feminists more flirtatious and warmer than most but not all American women. Romanian women cook and divorce is much lower and they are loyal and do not have high monetary expectations.

I have seen guys in the USA who are doctors and models having trouble getting dates because American dating culture is so weird.

But average normal guys going to Romania have incredible women only Brad Pitt or Leonardo Dicaprio could date. Further, I have known confirmed bachelors get married in six months after going to Eastern Europe. They get married and do not look back.

I do not know if this will all change once Romania because rich and famous, and this will happen. But right now there is a measureless chasm between Romanian women from a guy’s perspective and US women.

1. The premise that in Romania you will get a girl that is notches above what you can do somewhere else (e.g. in the U.S.) is completely wrong. If you feel you aren’t good enough for an American woman the same applies for any woman.

2. Character is not different across the world. There are perfect, good women anywhere in the world and Romania is not more special. Weeding the bad ones out is the same everywhere: talk to them, get to know them, instead of showing off to them or insisting to sleep with them.

3. When you talk to a woman, talk to her as a human to another human, not as a h_orny man to a se_x target. You will find what she is about, if she is smart, etc. If you try to sleep with her, the only thing you will know is how good she is at it (and even that happens if you are lucky only). So refocus your energy in the beginning.

4. If you all you want is se_x with a beautiful Romanian woman, then stop complaining about being robbed, etc. Nothing is free – especially the expensive things. You are probably getting it cheaper than you would have to pay in the U.S. anyway, so really, stop complaining.

5. A bar ain’t the place to meet virtuous girls. This is common wisdom applying everywhere.

Maybe I am too rusty (having gotten married at 21 and being 36 now), so I don’t understand dating anymore, but I could not help to offer my 2 cents.

Libidinal energy need to be transmuted to develop the higher self.

Kids that grow up too fast are street smart but do not fly as high. My friends that grew up too fast by the time they were 30 had small guts and were already bored with life.

Therfore, understand the term girl does not apply to 14-16 year olds. In my mind that is a child. I am sorry if I offended anyone out there. Really until guys or girls are like 22 they are basically children, which is a good thing. I remember when I was 22 I was so full of confidence but a child. I believe innocence should last as long as possible.
And if you read my website you know I advocate girls and guys hold onto their innocence. The term girl is generic like boyfriend or girlfriend. My friend
George is almost 50 years old and when I ask him about his girlfriend, I am asking about his 45 year old girl. It is a sweet way of talking
about women as it gives them an added charaterization of youth no matter what age they are.
And when girls say boyfriend, the guy could be a guy in his 30s. Now about Romanian girls or ladies if you will, I have talked to a
lot considering I live in Eastern Europe. I think gernerally the culture in Romania is conservative morally and there are many good people. The problem right now is economics, not morals. Of course there are always people of both genders who want to play the other for money or fun but this is not the rule in Romania, it can not be or society would fall apart fast.I know a lot of people in the USA and in Eastern Europe who meet and marry their partners from online connections. It is a way which people can get to know each other through the written word with less stress of such face to face contact, which for someone who is shy, is nerve racking and draining. I did not meet my wife online, but I am shy and
think you discount this meathod too easily.

And why the heck do you still believe you could meet a decent Romanian girl on dating network? I know Romanian girls are generally pretty and I also know that men have blood for one head at a time, but, what kind of normal man would fall for someone met through chat sessions and pushes her looks in front, not her ideas or her ideals or whatever else?

BTW, some years ago, I was in Tempe, AZ, which is very close to ASU and the campus. And in the evening, there were tons of girls like those in your photos all over the streets and bars (I definitely remember The Big Bang,). So,not only Romanian girls look provocative if they intend to.

Let’s get serious: if you’re looking for sexuality, that’s exactly what you find and get. I think the whole story should have been synthesized by “how Romanian girls that can be easily approached on the streets think” You definitely should not have generalized that.

A (pissed off) Romanian girl

PS:@DJ – Kindly please do not take Roma customs, like very low age motherhood as being a Romanian custom. Their culture is much closer to Indian one and I this there is a big scandal about girl in India and surroundings getting married and becoming mothers when they’re young as well. You may want to read: dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-389469/The-illegal-child-brides-India.html

However, you must remember Romania is a very large country. I think outside the large cities there are traditional people who hold onto their values much stricter than what you would find the Midwest USA. In the USA, what we call conservative and religious is very secular and moderate compared to some of the old and ultra-orthodox religious style people in Europe. It is true that in the EUropean cities, that the people tend to be atheist and amoral to a great degree, even moreso than the USA. However, my theory is the city people act so outrageous as a way of rebelling against the ultra-conservative culture of their parents and grandparents.

Just, like some small towns in Mississippi may still linger with h*llfire and d_mnation to anyone who doesn’t attend a local church, there are plenty of villages and towns in Europe (esp Romania) that are liking stepping back into the past. Driving outside these capital cities is like going in a time machine.

I noticed there is a slight inverse correlation between money and the quality of girls.

I still want you to discuss this extreme s_xuality I perceive in Romanian women and in the youth cultere there. What are the reasons? Socioeconomic? Cultural? Please share your thoughts dear Administrator. Regards, DJ