It depends on the Polish girl. Generally Polish girls are exceptionally good girls. However, you will hear a lot of vocal complaints from foreign guys that dated a Polish girl in London or Ireland or even Dubai or something that they are trouble. I have even heard of guys say this about women living in Poland. I only laugh when I hear this. I have lived here too long to be snowed by that type of argument. I guess my first question is where did you meet then and under what circumstance, and did you ever talk about the meaning of life question?
Facts on Polish girls morality
Living in Poland going almost ten years and being Polish myself in background, but being an American raised and born, I think I have a reasonable idea if the ladies from Polska are good or bad.
Argument for the girls are good
- Polish girls are good almost all are religious and take this seriously. I have meet a few that are not, but exceptions. The student’s mass at the Dominican church for example is standing room only in Krakow and people standing outside the door. I do not see the same crowds in any one club.
- Most Polish girls I know have gone on religious pilgrimages are only looking for their one and only man and do not change boyfriends. They date one guy and marry them. Maybe if things get all messed up another. But basically believe in one love.
- Polish girls are very humble and might even be said to lack self confidence. Basically you get a girl looking much better than Evangeline Lilly or Anne Hathaway but half the headaches, and will ask, do you think I am OK looking? Smoking hot girls with long legs will ask you this. Evangeline has said she does not believe in marriage, but wants to have a family. Wow is that not selfish, like I achieved wealth now I can have kids without marriage. And she in my opinion is a good girl. And Anne Hathaway when asked about religion does not believe in anything. I know there were issues in her case were complex but this is like every American girl. The level of problems are many fold the problems you find in a girl from Eastern Europe.
- My friend’s do not ever spend money on a Polish laska unless they are like going to marry them. I really did not spend a penny until I meet my wife. Women from Poland are not materialistic. Many experienced communism and live very basic and have been taught to live basic and humble. If you meet one about money, walk away. I asked my wife clearly would you rather have love, money or love and money. She said only love, anything else is not love. For me that was the right answer.
- Most Poles know the women does the cooking and takes care of the kids, it is just the way it is.
When Polish girls go bad
- When you meet them in a club
- When you do not learn the language
- When you live/sleep with them for many years outside the context of marriage
- When they smoke
- When they drink more than from time to time.
- When they have tattoos
- When they can not deal with you until they have had their coffee.
- When you do not go to church weekly with them
- When they have tattoos and facial piercings
- When they over dye their hair or go to sun tanning booths.
- If they like to go out with the girls too much.
- When you are not patent and interpret their drama as drama and not the need for support.
- When they wear provocative clothes. I would not go for a girl with a mini skirt and high heals.
- They have an excess interest in you because you speak English and want to speak English with you.
Look, people will say, ‘you mention religion (which in your mind is suppose to be connected with good) or tattoos (which in your mind is suppose to be connected with bad) and this has nothing to do with a person. Ultimately,you are right. But there is something called consistency of behavior. There is something called probability. It is all a matter of risk factors and external manifestations of behavior are telling signs. You can not judge a person by these behaviors alone, but they do tell a story.
What types of Polish girls foreign guys find
I see Brit, Greeks, Italians, Americans visiting Poland go for the lowest common denominator of ladies here. They do not know they are looking for the lowest common denominator, but they are. They are so blown away by the contrast with chubby American girls wearing sweat pants and flip flops from Targets tat they go to some pub meet a gal and boom, they have a girlfriend. They think it is great. I think they are just being played.
My friends that are girls in Poland do not go to pubs and do not like to talk to foreign guys as they are often beer drinking pub crawl guys who have no respect for God in them.
American girls (some people say) are easy to make out with, and foreign guys subconsciously gravitate towards feminist women who throw their bodies around in Warsaw, Krakow, Poznan, rather than having patience and meeting a girl who is not like that.
The take away is you will find some Polish girls who are good and some who are bad. However, the majority are exceptionally good and modest and focus on life and family and spirit and intellect. The ones that foreign guys pick up are often the bad ones because like attracts like. They go to places like pubs until 6 am – instead of getting up learn and going Church at 6 am on Sunday morning. Or you do not have to be that extreme, if you teach English in Poland you will meet many good girls. If you go to film festivals, cultural events and even out dancing now and then, you will find an angel in less than the time your passport tell you, you have to restamp it at the border.
If your intentions are to find a Polish girlfriend and nothing more, than you will be condemned to live in a self-made purgatory. But if you intentions are pure you will find your princess.







32 responses to Are Polish girls good or bad
Wonderful article, Mark.. You have constructed a good rebuttal to some of those people who were slamming Polish women on the board. I believe Polish women are very special and in a traditional country like this you can find some of the best women for marriage. However, when people go to bars, clubs or even online dating to find their “sexy” diva-style princesses, they end up with backbiting snake who will take them for everything they got. Not all that glitters is gold. Seek and you will find!
Are Polish girls good or bad
Thanks, I do think seek and you will find is the way the world works.
My favorite high school teacher was from Poland, and she was beautiful and spoke 5 different languages. She was great.
So why is tanning in a bed make someone bad? Just curious. I tan and I am a conservative Christian American girl.Shocker, huh?
“The take away is you will find some Polish girls who are good and some who are bad. ”
I think you can replace “Polish” with American and its the same thing. There are still some nice girls left here. The place to look are churches. Yeah no wonder you think all American girls are terrible, if you meet them in bars and nightclubs that is what you find. If you go to church and volunterr with ministries then you meet some down to earth sweet, humble and Christian American girls. :p
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I agree, now that I am off the market as I am married I am meeting more and more really nice American girls. The problem is I still do not get a lot of positive feedback from my friends in the Stats about dating. They just want to meet a nice girl and get married and it seems so hard.
Thats is my handle above. I got mixed up and thought I was signing into yahoo, lol, I am tired. Okay the more I read your articles I see that you are not knocking all american women. I appreciate your views and helful advice. You are a kind person and well meaning. Sorry if I took what u said in the wrong way. I just feel lonely and I want to have true love and I felt like some of the articles painted American women in such a bad way that the last few nice guys might read it and all move to europe and marry there lol. I need a nice guy here!
I found a good website maybe you can send your friends to. You can search for women/men in all parts of the world and its Christian based. Its called christianmingle.com or realchristiansingles.com both are seem like good starting points.
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Regarding your statement above that, “Polish girls are very humble and might even be said to lack self confidence.”
Never, I disagree. I know better, because I am Polish girl.
The new generation of Polish girls are really different from a few years ago. How old are you? I think if your 18 years old, or around there you have a western attitude towards life. However, Polish girls I know who were raised in the countryside have a different view of the world.
Self confidence is good as long as it is tempered by wisdom and humility. If not chaos and darkness will reign in dating and marital relationships.
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Sure, I am 18
. And, “Women from Poland are not materialistic” it is really true
I think most Polish girls care about love, but maybe I am out of touch, if you are 18 what do girls in your class think about, love or money and what is their approach to life and love?
Approach to life and love, it is too serious. I’m only 18, it’s really young age, if you don’t know. Girls in my class don’t thinking about past and about future. They live in the moment. Approach to life, so, we dislike rudeness, lies, self-aggrandizing. “We” is too optional, because each of us is different.
I know 18 you are not thinking of marriage, it is not like in the past. You are young and I was not thinking this way at 18. However, what are your ideals regarding love, faith etc. Even at 18 I knew that if I married someone I would stay with them. I believed in family and I took seriously the the ideals of love and waiting for my one and only. Do Polish girls you know think this way now?
Sure.. And something about faith. A lot of polish girls are christians, but are atheists too.
So the world is changing and the society of great culture and high ideals will be watered down to MTV Jersey girls, Oh that is great. I live in Poland and see these changes but it is not like certain parts of western Europe. It will be more like the USA, which means there will be many faithful always even if part of society turns away from their roots.
Polish women and Polish people - the amazing girls from Eastern Europe
Most of women from Poland are confident but modest, it is natural for them, because they are raised like that, by family and society.
In Poland, women have been aiming from centuries to be very successful at whatever they love to do, and on the top of it be very good mothers and wives.
Basically you can call them bionic. They don’t mind to be just housewives, although, most of them have more than one passion so they will let go career only if they know can easily pursue their passions.
They love their men passions and gladly show interest in them. They are very respectful to all kinds of people. Sometimes they don’t talk much, but it’s because they like to listen ( especially in the bigger group). They don’t drink much, rarely smoke, they don’t mess around with other men.
I personally have met very confident women, Don’t be shocked-if happens that your Polish woman is confident and attractive and likes joking & flirting with friends, it is not because she is not loyal or faithful, but cause he’ outgoing cat woman. Get used to it, a lot of them are lioness. ( in a good way)
Some are shy but if you meet a woman who seems to be shy at first it might be not because she has poor self confidence, but because she likes you.
Polish women are feminine, cute and honest, you will see it right away. What I appreciate the most about them is that they are very caring nurturing and honest. Generally have very positive attitude to life and if they seem sad or mad, love kiss and honest talk is a great way to go to fix her mood! THey wont expect expensive gifts- simple things will brighten their day much more. They appreciate that because they are selfless and like to make other people happy as well.
I wouldn’t say that if you meet girl in a club she’s right away bad.
I think you need to be more observant and see for yourself if she’s a disco bimbo or just a person who went out dancing with friends.
Also if you meet a female who is exceptionally goofy or cheesy you might be actually super surprised finding out how intelligent and wise she is! Remember to keep the presumptions away from the start.
In general all people from Poland ( religious or not) are interested very much in emotional & intellectual growth, and working on themselves to become better people and connect better with others.
That’ why Polish women seem to be very understanding and mature- it is normal when Polish girl age 22 has mentality of American 35 y.o. – I’m not kiddin’! These girls work their butts off in life and the results are coming faster. Even though they know earlier what they want from life and they have the serious side developed well, they are super fun! I have never met boring Polish person.
Maybe few drunk men in Greenpoint ( area of NY where used to migrate a lot of working class male Poles). So as I said they are very fun. A lot of successful Pollacks traveling around the World are smart risk takers and they fear nothing- no matter what’s their age. Really, positive people.
Poles are willing to share all the best they have. They are very generous and considering other people, especially family and friends. Always helpful, I love that about them. They won’t hesitate to help anyone selflessly if they are able to they will do it with pleasure!
Religion.? Nowadays ( women in their 40s or younger) are not that religious, but I must say they they seem to be conservative in some aspects of life… I think it is very good they represent all goods that religion gave them, and reject the side effects. there is many many polish women abroad- they were raised mostly Christian Catholic , but they seem to be open to marry person of different belief.
I know few who converted, even to Judaism ( the biggest cliche you hear of is the polish anti semites) !
Good advice to date Polish women- If you don’t know how to be a true gentleman, she will dump you or won’t be interested in you. These creatures are really rare, I’d say they are princesses of the World – in positive way- they are pure at heart, they are not materialistic, not vulgar, not vain, and most likely they won’t sleep with you right away- no matter how hot you are. They also don’t waste time on anyone who will show them they’re the second choice. Polish women truly deserve to be the first choice. I hope there will be more of them in US. !
Are Polish girls good or bad
I agree with most of what you way, Polish people are very advanced emotionally and intellectually as they believe in self development. A Polish girl in her 20s often has more depth than an American girl in her 50s because she has invested a great deal of time in developing herself. I highly recommend people read this comment above.
Polish Christian girls
Being religious is not a prerequisite for being a good person.
Organized religion, especially in the U.S., is group of people so afraid of their own mortality, that they are willing to believe anything that lets them live forever. And sadly, the more religious a person is, the more closed minded and judgmental they normally become. “Anyone that doesn’t believe in my God will burn for eternity”. How kind and compassionate.
Here’s reality.
Compassion is God.
Forgiveness is God.
Love is God.
Kindness is God.
Not the other way around.
Most people make many mistakes in their lives, which stem from insecurity and fear. This is normally the reason why girls sleep around, dress too provocatively, and try to find worth in material objects.
While we all have the option to only look for the best for ourselves, I think you should question how “Christian” it is to label, judge, and discard people for being human.
It doesn’t take believing that an old man built an ark and collected two of every animal on the planet to have compassion for others. I would prefer to be with a woman intelligent enough to realize that man invented God and believes in treating others well by her own determination, not just because she is afraid of hell.
Are Polish girls good or bad
People who take a very simplistic view of religious people because it supports their ego defense mechanism, that is differentiation from others (Nietzsche) often attack the straw man of belief, the fundamentalist. However, if you take moral examination to its corrosive end like Fyodor Dostoevsky (‘why not lie, cheat and steal if it is to your own advantage’) and not a surface examination, you will realize that in end if you do not have a fundamental trust (Hans Kung) in relativity in an epistemology way and do not see that there is a complex stratification of reality (Hegal); than, in the end we are like Camus wrote ‘gypsies that live on the edge of an alien world, a world that is a deaf to out music as it is to our sorrows’ . All things are permissible and you could justify anything. And let me clue you in, people do.
This is not the type of girl I want to date or enter a spiritual union with. If you do, good luck with all that.
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Polish girls conceptions of marriage
Of course evil exists, and so does good. That’s not the point.
What you are stating is that a person must be religious or they are doomed to “lie, cheat, and steal”. That someone cannot make a fair determination of right and wrong outside of believing in stories so fairy tale-like that they insult human intelligence.
That’s how much faith you have in the human race?
I’ve been dating a gorgeous and intelligent woman for many years and I’m often amazed at her compassion towards other people, loyalty to our relationship, and love for life. She doesn’t believe in s_x outside of a monogamous, committed relationship, and has never strayed once during times of stress. She enjoys cooking, cleaning, and believes in the traditional male/female roles. She is a genuinely good person and also does not believe in Christianity. Neither do I.
The main reason people believe in Christianity is out of fear. Fear of loss, fear of death, fear of loneliness, fear of judgment, fear of eternal damnation. You may belief that without this fear that people cannot be “good” but I do not. We are not sheep to be herded or dogs that need to fear their masters. We are individuals that are so caught up in judging ourselves and others, that we build hate, anger, and violence in an attempt feel worthy of our own existence.
Yes, the ego is to blame. It loves to judge, ridicule, dominate, reject, and gloat. I realized a long time ago that I have nothing to prove to anyone, including myself. I accept my life and whatever comes. It is up to everyone to find their way, but what you are spreading is not the answer. Judgment begets more judgment. Where does that lead us?
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Polish girls faith
The psychogensis of belief only sometimes based on fear (it is an argument non-believers make not the feeling of the faithful), God is a projection of man (Ludwig Andreas von Feuerbach) anthropomorphic, a projection of your father (Freud) etc. But these theories neither validate no invalidate the reality or none reality of the Absolute. What man thinks does not make something real or unreal. Fundamental philosphical flaw, thinking explaining the mechanism of belief invalidates the reality or none reality of something. So non belief is also a projection of nothingness. When it comes to the ultimate meaning of why we are something and not nothing, it requires a deeper examination.
However, like I stated before, it is based on a fundamental trust (Hans Kung), or Erikson’s stages of psychosocial development, the first test of being human. A fundamental trust, even science is based on this if your study epistemology.
Moral behavior without a center – However, there are ethical atheists, that is highly principled people who build their morality on something besides the eternal. To this I would reply like Gandhi ‘you are your religion’. God sees the light of God that resides in you even if you do not see it in yourself.
On Morality without a center-
But if you follow philosophical thinking to the end, you will come to the conclusion of the 19th and 20th century philosophers, that without the Absolute that any morality is illusional (ask the 100 million people who died in the 20th century by people trying to build morality based on their own under communism and fascism). Further nihilists, existentialist thinking is creeping into the worlds thinking and changing dating and relationships. Broken homes, divorce, guys are players now and girls wake up at 32 years old and wonder why they are not married and scramble for that last chance guy.
The world is a war of ideas (Hegel) and the ideas that exist on a abstract level do influence society, dating and life.
If you study the history of Philosophy at the end of the 19th century and the start of the 20th, philosophy replaced God with nothing.
Societies tried to build a new morality such as Fascist or Communist and look a the result. People tried new ways of thinking without God and I think they became lost and we live in a society where everything is OK including ending the life of a child not born.
You and your girlfriend-
However, if you and your girlfriend have been able to create your own moral principles, I understand.
But remember there is only one truth and goodness. And if you have created these ideals without God, chances are they are pretty close to the message of Jesus and Buddha, that is love and compassion and forgiveness.
You guys, reinvented the wheel to come back to the same moral truth, that the universe is powered by love and compassion. Nothing wrong with that. Love is the energy of the universe no matter who you call it, a rose by any other name is just as sweet.
But why not open yourself to the possibility that that there is an answer to the question ‘why are we not something and not nothing, why is there anything at all’ with a ‘yes’. A fundamental trust’. Faith is trust. Why not tap into the greatest energy source of the universe and see what happens? Everyone’s experiences will be different as God is the objective operating in the subjective so science can not exactly prove this. It is something you have to experience for yourself.
I know we got of topic from are Polish girls good or bad.
Off topic of our off topic conversation have you ever been to Poland?
Are Polish girls good or bad
If she is so great, why are you not married?
Polish Girls
I find Polish girls generally good and conservative, though I’m not so sure about the youngest generation. They seem a bit spoiled and lazy to me and a lot more feminist as well. People used to be a lot more humble during communism, it’s the only good thing about it. However most women, even young girls have some ideals and I have never met a girl here that would sleep around and be proud of it (knock on wood), and I have met this kind of girls in other countries. Not saying any names, so that no one gets offended.
I hope Polish women keep on being good.
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Why some Polish guys are looking for brides in Russia and Ukraine
It is interesting, and maybe I should write a post about this but many Polish guys are starting to looking for wives in the East, that is Ukraine and Russia. As for Polish guys Ukrainian girls are more normal, feminine and traditional than Polish girls, who, are trying to imitate the western girls more and more. Some of the young girls like to have tattoos hang out in cafes all evening smoking ( Kazimierz) and change partners no problem, even with an SMS break break up. They put themselves out there as high maitaninace, and it takes money to maintain their looks and expectations. What nightmares from a guy’s perspective, who wants to find a real life partner to honor and respect and have a family with. Lucky most Polish girls are not like this yet.
I do not know what will win, that is Western European decadent nihilist culture or Eastern European God and family culture.
From a guy’s perspective there is not way I would choose a Polish girl who embraces western decadence, I would be better off with an American girl, at least I know what I am getting into. The good thing is you can spot Polish girls who try to behave this way from a mile away. They do a worse job than their feminist counter parts in the UK or USA in covering up their immorality. I think their style of clothes and attitude within five minutes of talking to them.
You can also just ask them directly about their worldview and tell where they are comming from.
Girls do not understand why this is so important.
From a guys point of view marriage is a serious responisbility. You do not want to partner with a girl who will leave you after a few arguments and then you have to pay her support for ten years.
You do not want a girl who sees you as meal ticket.
You want a girl who will really give her heart and soul to you like you will to her. However, if she has fallen in love with a number of guys before you chances are this might not happen unless she is a hopeless romantic, then it is OK.
I really do not know where Polish girls are going. I think it will be like the USA. That is some just off limits as they are too flakely and immoral and some traditional and sweet. That is caring and loving and have ideals about marriage.
I still would recommend Polish girls over Russian girls if you are looking for a bride, but just make sure you get one that believes in love and marriage and happily ever after, not simply ‘if it is not working, break up’.
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I’m sorry but everyone girl of woman in the USA is not as bad as some try to make out. Women are the same all over the world. There are good and bad, fat and thin, ugly and pretty. I don’t think being from Europe or America has that much to do with it. This is just my personal opinion.
There are some very nice American girls, I have to write an article about this to clarify. But for a single guy in the USA looking for a woman with an old world romantic view of love, it is more difficult to say the least.
A lot of Polish guys like Ukrainian girls, but I think Russian girls are way more into western way of living, so I would still choose a Polish one over a Russian one.
I personally think Polish girls are the sweet spot in terms of a combination of natural beauty, culture and charm, I would include Ukrainian girls also as the cultures are similar except seperated by an economic wall. Ukraine is Poland ten years ago before the EU economically.
I do not believe girls should just stay at home and do nothing with their lives. I am very pro-women and equal rights. I just think when the kids are small it is usually in the best interest of the family that parents are as invloved as they can be in raising them, that usually means the woman stays at home to raise and teach the child about the world.
Also divorce is not really a big option as love is about commitment.
And certainly money means little except to survive.
So my definition of traditional is not some Polish girl who has no will or life but rather, someone who uses that will to commit to the family like the man should.
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Polish work ethic and money
I am Spanish Italian and live in America.
All I can tell you there is some difference between with Polish women and with Russian women.
Russian generally chase money and they don’t want to work they prefer have loaded guy and be stay at home mom who needs a housekeeper exceptions of that are great quality partners. It doesn’t matter if the girl is from poor or rich family she has desire to meet a very wealthy man to keep her safe rather than work hard on keeping herself happy. A lot of beautiful young women hunt sugar daddies. Russian ladies they love a lot of expensive things, jewelry, expensive restaurants, gifts, all top-notch. They often pretend to be a different class than they have to attract richer man.
Polish are more confident & not materialistic and more realistic they are hard workers and they reach the goals in life trough constant work. They are great mothers and wives. They work 24/7 at work & home. Once polish Doctor explained it to me, that in Poland is hard to live well and save money if one person is working there is not to many wealthy men looking for just pretty woman most of wealthy polish men look for woman who is at their level of career. Women respect highly people and especially themselves they are honorable so they won’t hunt for sugar daddy.. ( they are exceptions of course but rarely). In marriage man and woman both work and usually both take care of the home & children, but it does happen that women want to be stay at home mothers ( if financial situation allows). Polish women are mentally strong and very supportive for hard-working men.
Of course in both cases there are exceptions.
By the way, someone said something that nowadays young women are into tattoos and such and not religion and they must be spoiled. Not true, my nieces are young Polish girls and even though they have western society, clothes, tattoos they still remain 100% valuable poles at heart, because of how they were raised at home. I am sure they will pass it on next generation, as for Poles family and raising the kids is the essence of life.
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Polish people in Poland and America
Paul, how do you know so much about Polish people? I’m just curious.
You are right about most of the stuff you said (Not sure about being positive, as Polish people are famous for complaining).
So you live in America, you probably noticed how much calmer Polish girls are than US girls. Young American girls might think they have more fun, but the truth is, Polish girls have just as much and without drugs, stabbing each other in the back or “starting drama”. I seem to hear the word “drama” every single day when I’m in the USA, and they are not talking about theatre. Some American girls I know say that they are only friends with guys because they can’t trust another woman. I mean, it’s crazy how some 25 year old girls can slash each other’s tyers or start facebook wars. You are suppossed to be grown up at that age. I’m so glad Polish girls don’t do that.
Polish people are the most helpful people I know, they really enjoy helping others. One time I went to the mountains with some family and our jeep got stuck in deep snow. We didn’t even have to ask anyone for help, as a minute later 8 or so men jumped out of the house across the street and pushed us out in 10 seconds. That was at night, I don’t even know how they saw us.
If you visit someone at their home they will do their best to make you feel like at your own home. Even if you say you don’t want anyhing to drink, they will still bring it to you. And they always have an extra pack of cookies at the house in case someone shows up unexpected.
I think Polish girls are a little shy, as all Polish people, but in a good way I think. And you are right about being a gentleman – any guy who doesn’t know how to treat a woman will be sent out of the door. Well, depends what he did, but there is no hope for another date, that is for sure.
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Polish girls dating -Something that no one mention
Polish girls with foreign boyfriends after a period of time of their relation they break up because the Polish girl can fall in love with
someone (for example Greek men who are very handsome) but later (after 4-5years) this love will go away and she will want to go back to her country. The reason is the interaction of the friends,family,fun, because she can’t flying all the time, waiting to go to Poland, e.t.c So later she have to choose between the her heart and logic?
If she will choose the logic, she will not enter the kingdom of God because she will not be honest to her self. often the boyfriend will experience this after she will coming from Poland. I know a girl from Cyprus, very beautiful and blond who loved someone and in the age of 16 & she ignore parents,friends, and she married him, make a family and are so happy and enjoying so well the life. This is when honestly you love someone forever. The boys often when they have relation 4-5 it is impossible to forget their girlfriend and the polish girlfriend can easily break a very beautiful love of them. That is to open the eyes of people looking for a Polish girlfriend.
And finally if the Polish girl choose to save the love and stay with their heart then the boarders of the God will open again for her and, with respect G
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Polish marriages to foreigner - does the marriage work and why?
Gosia by your name I imagine you are a Polish girl. Thanks for the insight. This is the point I was trying to make a little. Polish culture is different from other cultures. When a guy marries a beautiful Polish girls he is not considering the difference. But the girl is considering this. I have seen many relationships between foreign guys and Polish girls turn sour after a few years because of something you describe.
Family is the most important value in Poland and distance from family and culture can make someone homesick.
Further, women are responsible for transmitting culture to the next generation. After the initial wow or love, if the two people do not respect and understand each other, especially in my view, religion and how the kids are going to be raised there could be problems. I do not think Greek guys are a good example as they are culturally similar to Poles believe it or not. I think there is more of an issue of with American and British guys that have no religion or do not care about it. Greece is so close to Poland I can not see this as a problem. It is like a 2 or 3 hour plane ride. It is like someone from Chicago marrying someone from Brooklyn, NY no big deal.
I do care about distance as I believe the world is different now. My my wife is Polish, but I am American, but also Polish. I could live and have lived in both the USA and Poland with her in marriage. It does not matter. Why should geography or boarders matter in love? The only boarders there are psychological boarders.
However, I think that what you write is not absolute. The world is different now. Many Polish girls move to the UK or the USA and never have a big desire to move back. Sure they see their friends and families from time to time and Skype does wonders as you can see and talk everyday now.
However, it is not the issue of geographical distance that makes the foreign guys (or girls) marrying Polish girls (or guys) sometimes questionable but a matter of the way they see the world. Look, Polish marries succeed most of the time, foreign or not. But both people have to accept and respect the other.
Ironically, Polish marriages to Arabian guys or girls work OK. The reason is twofold. The couple is open-minded non-judgemental people. The second is even if the person is Muslim, they still believe in the same God if Israel. However, if someone does not believe or does not care that much that is a different type of brain and a harder bridge to cross.
This all depends on the people invloved of course but this is my oberservation.
Are Polish girls good or bad
Polish religous girls are not as common
Maybe I’m thinking about different generation or cultural circle, being 20 years old girl, living in Poland and studying at uni of technology , but to be honest I rarely meet someone deeply religious. I’d say that out of 100 people I meet, 10 are actually religious and go to church every sunday, 40 come from christian families, admit they are christian but don’t go to church regularly – the rest are people who say they are atheists, have no religious believes at all or are of other religion. I still agree with most of what you’ve written ( enjoyed it a lot) but i wouldn’t take so much focus on religion – it’s more about values our parents and school teach us.
My parents are quite young, still, up to their teen years they lived in towns practicly occupied by Russians, having whatever was to be found on shelves emptied by communism, listening to as rebelious music as they could find (propably a copy of a copy of a copy of AC/DC casette someone’s uncle from States sent them) and having to count on themselves when it came to money during studies. As an effect they reised me and my brother in belief that we should be grateful for the opportunities we get, value education (that’s what let them improved their lives so much), live our lives to the fullest, not mind money or stuff too much, and learn to deal with life ourselves, help people and rely on friends, never let other take advantage of you. When I discuss it with my friends they tell me similar stories. How am I supposed to make drama about whatever little thing bothers me or go to a club looking just for sex with ideas like that planted in my head?
I liked the “bad girl” list though. Of course none of the things you listed actually labels a girl as a person you can’t have a nice relationship with (either romantic or not) but truth being told – there are only certain kinds of people for whom those things are characteristic. Only two I wouldn’t agree with are tattoos, piercings and smoking – they maybe used to be “bad girl” factors but now, as they are sociably acceptable (the first two) and common among young people (smoking) they are not anymore.
My best regards
Are Polish girls good or bad
Two or more types of girls in Poland
Maybe this is the new Poland if you are a 20-year-old girl, but my experience is to the contrary. I will have to look at a poll or study for the young generation in Poland. I do not Poland is the largest net exporter if you will or religious orders in Europe and in the countryside or the city where I lived it was standing room only for mass on Sunday and out of the door with people standing.
Maybe it is the friends you hang with or the city you are from? Maybe it is at 20 most kids question those things, I did. I sincerely do appreciate the feedback and hoe you comment again.
If it is like you say, with the tattoos and smoking and no church attendance, I can guarantee you generations future will go the way of America’s trouble youth, that is you guys will have children with multi partners and multi marriages and divorces and by the time you are in your mid way through your life you will be burnt out and cynical on love and relationships. This is my personal observation. It will be materially easy for your generation but sad in terms of love.
The 1990s post communist parent thought they would work real hard to provide the material goods for their kids. Both parents worked and they ignored transmitting the important cultural aspects of their parents to their children. Hence Poland’s new lost generation is arising perhaps. I see these tattooed cynical, smart, but not wise smoking on the streets and I wonder why their parents do not care. The kids are texting each other on their multi colored phones and have had multi boyfriends already. The answer is they are working to get that new flat or money for the vacation to Greece or Northern Italy or money so for trips to the Galeria to get clothes for their teenagers, or simply money for Alma.
However, the good news is this cultural current is only one cultural current in Poland and we will see which one prevails.
My message is any guy in Poland should ignore the Doda type galerianka or any interation of this, even if it is toned down, and go for the non tatooed humble ones that seek love of God and a husband rather than are impressed by their education or other things.
Are Polish girls good or bad
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